Been lurking for a while. My ex left back in 2014, so I guess that's when all of this technically started. I discovered the bath mate and did that semi-regularly for most of that year. Fell off the wagon for reasons. Dabbled in it for a bit last year and actually bought a phallosan that I never committed to because my penis seems to be in between the condom sizes. Decided to try a mos vacuum pump this year instead, but after digging around the kegel thread, I'm wondering if I should just do those exclusively for 6-12 months before chasing after length. (I haven't officially measured girth, but I can just barely fit inside a tp roll if that helps with visuals). Length is about 6.5 according to the ruler on the bath mate, but I do have a fat pad to deal with.
Here's the issues I'm working with. 1. Boy be chunky. I'm currently 6'2" and 289lbs. It's spread out pretty well, but I remember the days when I was 240 and my dick actually wanted to work with me. I'm getting back into the gym. Would I be better off waiting on the length portion until I've met my body goal?
2. 30 plus years of masturbating has lead me to having a dick that doesn't always want to respond to someone else. I'm currently on day 16 of nofap. I gave up �naked people movies� over 2 years ago, so I haven't been experiencing the withdrawals that other people seem to get when they start this stuff, and I've actually had a few moments where I'm very aware of my junk (randomly horny for no reason), so feel like I'm making some progress but at the same time, I have no idea if I'm doing it right. My goal is 90 days. People think I'm crazy for trying, I'm saying that it is a show of dedication and discipline. Plus, I've never actually had a wet dream before.
3. When I do get hard, it don't stand up. My guess is the girth plus some weak ass PC muscles, hence my question about kegels.
4. I have a slight bend to the left when I'm semi, but it's not there when I'm hard. Back in 2009 when my oldest was learning how to use his legs and jump, he was jumping on my lap while holding my hands. Got excited, jumped a little too hard and came down on my penis. Noticed the next day that I had a very small bump under the skin. I was working in a medical clinic at the time so I had one of the docs on staff look at it. Called a urologist and was told that it was a busted capillary and should heal up fine. Never had any pain. When I'm hard, if I feel the sides of my penis, it seems like the left is a little thinner than the right. I don't have any pain during erections or sex, so I'm not thinking peyronie's. I bought the phallosan thinking it would be the fix, but gave up out of frustration because I couldn't get it on properly.
Thoughts?