Yeah I hear that money talks when it comes to women. But that concept applies everywhere. But it cant be holding u back. Im a broke student, i rely on my wits and looks to get girls (im 6'1" above average facial looks n a little light skinned). I dont even go to dates with them, i make sure i lure them to my place with a downloaded bluray movie or something. At bars/clubs it all has to do with how comfy u make her feel around u. Have a charming personality n make her giggle every 10 minutes or so while u chat over drinks. After that u can try make a joke that wil force the topic of dick size to come up. That way u have a chance to brag about your size in a joking manner. Obviously she will take it as a joke and she will "jokingly" call bullshit on ur bragging. This is where u become the bigshot and pull out your phone with the most flattering shot of your dick. Slide it on the table infront of her so she can see (make sure its convingly you in the pic). She will eat her words, and then you'll take it from there and hopefuly she'l end up at your place for the night.