The problem with me is I was brought up to be honest and respectful towards others so I'm very bad at manipulating other people so I can use them for my benefit. It's really a problem and it leads to never being able to get anywhere in North America.
My point was you are able to meet girls solo. You don't need to have a social circle to meet girls. They want to use you for sex, just like you want to use them for sex. It's a fair return. In my case, they want to use me (as a white guy) for a relationship - which includes social aspects (taking them to parties, clubs etc., things involving a social circle), as well as taking them places.
I know in my mind that I have what a girl wants sexually - a nice toned body and a big dick. But unfortunately I am not good looking enough facially to pull women solo. If you're a white guy, you have to look flawless to be able to pull like that. Or look very good and have an extremely extroverted personality. If you're black, they tend to let things slide a bit because they are attracted to your animal sexuality.
I'm not here to complain but I think it's fair to say you don't have any more or any less animal sexuality than I do, you just appear to. Plus I am introverted, not good at lying/manipulating (ie. Gaming), feigning interest, small talk etc. and I don't have a social circle because I frankly can't stand most people and their undeserved egos.
For me to get any, I need to do it solo. But of course, that is much more difficult than in a group or meeting girls through acquaintances, requires a lot more social skills, a department I am severely lacking in. In all reality, I should be fucking every day. Girls find me physically attractive. I catch looks, smiles and flirts often enough, especially for a guy who does not try to look a certain way. But this is always only in passing. What am I supposed to do, hit on women who are looking at me longingly as they walk with their less attractive and no doubt sexually defunct boyfriend? Or hit on women at Safeway? Can't really go to bars solo, can I? I'll look weird, and girls don't like weird. They don't like different. They like the same, they like what they see on TV and magazines.
You have your in just being black and fit. Game is just required to seal the deal. You and the girl already both know that the reason you are talking to each other is for fucking. I don't have that luxury. Girls don't know I have a nice big cock. They don't know I can ejaculate 6 times in a row and can't cum from head. But they assume that with you. So that's why it's easy for you black guys. The game you need is far different from the game I need. In other words, if you had your brain and my body and went about getting girls the way you do, using your version of game, you'd probably end up in jail or wacking off every two weeks.
I'm open to all suggestions and critiques of my shitty point of view. When I started this Penis Enlargement shit, I knew I couldn't get a woman til I had a big cock. Well, now I have one, but the next obstacle I'm facing is the social game. All help is appreciated. I could use some perspectives because frankly I feel stuck. I'm 26 and not getting any younger, time is a bitch and I feel if I'm still stuck in this place by the time I'm 30, it's all over for me.
I prefer to be balls deep, but just trying to give a bit of perspective if it helps a brother. I know Mikes been a big help to many others here, I know his advice has helped me out more than once. I may be way off track with my previous post but I've worked through my own dark stuff and finally realized I was taking shit way too seriously. Anyway..... lets get back to the Snakeman stretching out some snatch!!!! That's why we're here.
