Progress thread Stretch For the Stars...Land in the Cul de Sac!!!
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It literally was, I had just got done with my first set when I got the call
07/20/15: Mon
45 min 45 min Hanging SO @ 11.25 lbs
07/21/15: Tues
45 min Hanging SO @ 11.25 lbs
07/23/15: Thurs
2 x 45 min Hanging SO @ 11.25 lbs
Comments: I'm pulling a double tomorrow and won't be back home till late Monday. I'm filling in for a gap in our staff on nocturnal so I'll be working more nights the next month.
07/20/15: Mon
45 min 45 min Hanging SO @ 11.25 lbs
07/21/15: Tues
45 min Hanging SO @ 11.25 lbs
07/23/15: Thurs
2 x 45 min Hanging SO @ 11.25 lbs
Comments: I'm pulling a double tomorrow and won't be back home till late Monday. I'm filling in for a gap in our staff on nocturnal so I'll be working more nights the next month.
So between working nightshifts and doubles and going to my brothers house to paint last week I only got PE in one fucking day! I'm staying with my girl this week while her family is out of town but am going home on my off days and before work while she is at work to PE. I foresee I won't be able to PE on Wednesday because of a double shift.
07/30/15: Thurs
2 x 45 min Hanging SO @ 11.25 lbs
08/03/15: Mon
45 min Hanging SO @ 11.25 lbs
30 min Hanging SO @ 11.25 lbs
8 hours 2 Golf Weights
Comments: I was going to wear golf weights last week but couldn't find the fuckers. I found them today and was able to wear them comfortably at work. I won't attempt to wear them on my double day, Wednesday, but will shoot to wear them on every other night and throughout the day for a few hours at a time.
07/30/15: Thurs
2 x 45 min Hanging SO @ 11.25 lbs
08/03/15: Mon
45 min Hanging SO @ 11.25 lbs
30 min Hanging SO @ 11.25 lbs
8 hours 2 Golf Weights
Comments: I was going to wear golf weights last week but couldn't find the fuckers. I found them today and was able to wear them comfortably at work. I won't attempt to wear them on my double day, Wednesday, but will shoot to wear them on every other night and throughout the day for a few hours at a time.
longstretch;657891 said:
Your schedule sounds rough like mine. I really only get to do PE on my off days from work because I work 12 hours shifts and when I get off I have very little time for much. It is cool to see people like myself that fit PE into their busy schedule because that is realistic.
Damn bro I know what you mean especially if you work back to back days. I usually work 3-4 12's but here lately its really been crazy.
I broke up with my girl this past week and have been working doubles (18-19 hours in a day) so PE will at least have more time now that I'm single again. I plan on not dating for a few weeks and then just taking things slow from there on out. Got another double tomorrow but because of a concert Wednesday I won't be going back till Friday night.
08/08/15: Sun
45 Min Hanging SO @ 11.25 pounds, every 5 min doing 30 sec side fulcrum stretches on each side, last 20 min doing inverted V-stretch with coffee cup on my thighs
15 min jelqs with one set of Horse 440's 5 min in
Comments: Maybe over a year ago I did Memento's routine on Thunders when I was just getting back into PE and to get myself accustomed to PE before starting to hang again. I don't think I ever did the girth portion because of time issues at night after work but was able to get the stretches in at work before cars showed up. That routine is simple and I believe could lead to gains. I'm going to try it with a twist and that will be hanging instead of manual inverted stretches and still shoot for the girth portion. I had a late start on the day so only got one set of hanging in. The inverted stretches felt good, I adjusted the chair up. Next time I might try dick over the fulcrum with weights hanging SD instead of SO. I only did one Horse 440. My dick look like I layed it down in a chigger nest it had so many red dots haha. I'll have to work up to it.
I broke up with my girl this past week and have been working doubles (18-19 hours in a day) so PE will at least have more time now that I'm single again. I plan on not dating for a few weeks and then just taking things slow from there on out. Got another double tomorrow but because of a concert Wednesday I won't be going back till Friday night.
08/08/15: Sun
45 Min Hanging SO @ 11.25 pounds, every 5 min doing 30 sec side fulcrum stretches on each side, last 20 min doing inverted V-stretch with coffee cup on my thighs
15 min jelqs with one set of Horse 440's 5 min in
Comments: Maybe over a year ago I did Memento's routine on Thunders when I was just getting back into PE and to get myself accustomed to PE before starting to hang again. I don't think I ever did the girth portion because of time issues at night after work but was able to get the stretches in at work before cars showed up. That routine is simple and I believe could lead to gains. I'm going to try it with a twist and that will be hanging instead of manual inverted stretches and still shoot for the girth portion. I had a late start on the day so only got one set of hanging in. The inverted stretches felt good, I adjusted the chair up. Next time I might try dick over the fulcrum with weights hanging SD instead of SO. I only did one Horse 440. My dick look like I layed it down in a chigger nest it had so many red dots haha. I'll have to work up to it.
Yea, keep going and refocus
08/11/15: Tues
30 min Hanging SO @ 11.25 lbs supersetted with
11 min Hanging SD with Small paint can as fulcrum @ 11.25 lbs supersetted with
4 min Hanging SD @ 11.25 lbs
15 min jelqs with one set of Horse 440's 5 min in
08/12/15: Wed
45 min Hanging SD @ 12.5 lbs
45 min Hanging SO @ 12.5 lbs
08/13/15: Thurs
30 min Hanging SO @ 12.5 lbs supersetted with
12 min Hanging SD with Small Paint can as fulcrum @ 12.5 lbs
15 min jelqs with one set of Horse 440's 5 min in
08/14/Fri
30 min Hanging SO @ 12.5 lbs supersetted with
15 min Hanging SD with Small Paint can as fulcrum
8 hours [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ADS[/words] with 2 Golf Weights
Comments: This as is good as I can remember what I did this week. I haven't been on to log like I wanted to. Had family over yesterday, they will be here today too but not for the entire day so should be able to get a set or two in.
The small paint can has been an excellent fulcrum and fits between my legs. My dick will go cold after about 8-10 minutes and I guess from being pulled and at the same time pushed into the paint can. So far I really like it and had been experiencing fatigue deeply in my ligaments which is a very welcome sign. A few sets I had to cut short because I wasn't sure how adding a fulcrum would effect the vacuum but no blisters so I'm glad. The one day that I did the fulcrum stretch and then stood up to SD for the last couple of minutes was phenomenal. I got a rush of blood back into my penis and I could just feel it pulling really good. Hard to explain but I think I'll keep doing that if time permits.
30 min Hanging SO @ 11.25 lbs supersetted with
11 min Hanging SD with Small paint can as fulcrum @ 11.25 lbs supersetted with
4 min Hanging SD @ 11.25 lbs
15 min jelqs with one set of Horse 440's 5 min in
08/12/15: Wed
45 min Hanging SD @ 12.5 lbs
45 min Hanging SO @ 12.5 lbs
08/13/15: Thurs
30 min Hanging SO @ 12.5 lbs supersetted with
12 min Hanging SD with Small Paint can as fulcrum @ 12.5 lbs
15 min jelqs with one set of Horse 440's 5 min in
08/14/Fri
30 min Hanging SO @ 12.5 lbs supersetted with
15 min Hanging SD with Small Paint can as fulcrum
8 hours [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ADS[/words] with 2 Golf Weights
Comments: This as is good as I can remember what I did this week. I haven't been on to log like I wanted to. Had family over yesterday, they will be here today too but not for the entire day so should be able to get a set or two in.
The small paint can has been an excellent fulcrum and fits between my legs. My dick will go cold after about 8-10 minutes and I guess from being pulled and at the same time pushed into the paint can. So far I really like it and had been experiencing fatigue deeply in my ligaments which is a very welcome sign. A few sets I had to cut short because I wasn't sure how adding a fulcrum would effect the vacuum but no blisters so I'm glad. The one day that I did the fulcrum stretch and then stood up to SD for the last couple of minutes was phenomenal. I got a rush of blood back into my penis and I could just feel it pulling really good. Hard to explain but I think I'll keep doing that if time permits.
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I'm actually okay DLD. I think I was down for a few days this week because I was feeling lonely but I dated this girl before and I can tell you she has some kind of personality disorder (narcissistic, borderline, or maybe even sociopathic) and the relationship was starting to turn toxic like it always does. I'm a different man than when we first dated and I was on drugs. I don't put up with the bullshit anymore and have strong boundaries. I decided to end things and know that I'm a catch I'll eventually find a good one but I'm not worried. For now I don't have to answer to anyone so I'm going to enjoy my single life.
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^Hey man good for you! This is the kind of shit that lifts my spirit, when a bro takes the bull by the horns.
08/16/15: Sun
20 min Hanging SO @ 12.5 lbs
30 min Hanging SO @ 12.5 lbs supersetted with
15 min Hanging SD with Small Paint can as fulcrum @12.5 lbs supersetted with
5 min Hanging SD @ 12.5 lbs
08/17/15: Mon
45 min Hanging SO @ 12.5 lbs
15 min Jelq with 1 Horse 440 every 5 min
2 Sadsak head exercise
20 min Hanging SO @ 12.5 lbs
30 min Hanging SO @ 12.5 lbs supersetted with
15 min Hanging SD with Small Paint can as fulcrum @12.5 lbs supersetted with
5 min Hanging SD @ 12.5 lbs
08/17/15: Mon
45 min Hanging SO @ 12.5 lbs
15 min Jelq with 1 Horse 440 every 5 min
2 Sadsak head exercise
longstretch;659794 said:
Great attitude my Brother! You are a catch and you have come a long way since you have been here. I think every dedicated brother is worthy of the best in life! You will find Ms. Right and it will truly fill that space with the right stuff! Your in my prayers.
Thanks so much DLD. I haven't logged some of my workouts and I have taken the last week and a half off because of being busy and getting ready for Dragoncon. I will start back early next week
09/08/15: Tuesday
45 min Hanging SO twisting and leaning in chair to hit different angles
Comments: I'll be back at my girl's house tonight and got called over there yesterday. She will be starting a job soon so I'm trying to get in as much time with her as I can before both of our schedules limit our time together and not just mine. Will be getting some in tomorrow, probably none this weekend. I leaned forward in the chair and twisted, if I felt I good pull I might stay with it for a minute during the set. Leaning forward produces an upward stretch and leaning back a downward.
45 min Hanging SO twisting and leaning in chair to hit different angles
Comments: I'll be back at my girl's house tonight and got called over there yesterday. She will be starting a job soon so I'm trying to get in as much time with her as I can before both of our schedules limit our time together and not just mine. Will be getting some in tomorrow, probably none this weekend. I leaned forward in the chair and twisted, if I felt I good pull I might stay with it for a minute during the set. Leaning forward produces an upward stretch and leaning back a downward.
10/15/15: Thurs
37 min Hanging SO
Comments: First set back hanging and decided against reducing weight, just time. Had red dots on head but nothing major.
My girl just started work again and I'll be spending most days back at my house. It took her longer than expected to renew her license. We are planning on moving out together early next year. It's now winter here which means I can get away with [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ADS[/words]. I'm going to try to stay motivated and hang for length until the move which I'll have to do incognito manual stretching and girth while she's at work or busy when we are living together. Wish me gains bros. If we stay together it might mean retirement from hanging and just focusing on manuals and gaining girth
37 min Hanging SO
Comments: First set back hanging and decided against reducing weight, just time. Had red dots on head but nothing major.
My girl just started work again and I'll be spending most days back at my house. It took her longer than expected to renew her license. We are planning on moving out together early next year. It's now winter here which means I can get away with [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ADS[/words]. I'm going to try to stay motivated and hang for length until the move which I'll have to do incognito manual stretching and girth while she's at work or busy when we are living together. Wish me gains bros. If we stay together it might mean retirement from hanging and just focusing on manuals and gaining girth
Yes and yes. I've been working more to save up to move out together closer to our city. I've been getting in at least one set most days. I got in 2 45 min sets today, still at 12.5 lbs. I'm going to start back to adding in the fulcrum sets soon and trying to do jelqs and girth work as well.
Sucks I've perfected my technique and I know I'll have to stop in a few months when we move out together unless I can find a spot to safely hide the hanger. Maybe in my car where the spare tire is. Otherwise it'll be back to manuals when she's away and I'm off but by then I'll probably only be able to do girth work. She only works 7 to 8 hours a day and I know if I continue to hang out won't be consistent
Sucks I've perfected my technique and I know I'll have to stop in a few months when we move out together unless I can find a spot to safely hide the hanger. Maybe in my car where the spare tire is. Otherwise it'll be back to manuals when she's away and I'm off but by then I'll probably only be able to do girth work. She only works 7 to 8 hours a day and I know if I continue to hang out won't be consistent
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Haha yes it would. I've still been hanging for the time being on days that I'm off and she has to work which frankly had only been 2 to 3 days a week. I'm up to 13.75 lbs for 45 min.
We are planning on moving out in 1 or two months once an apartment becomes available. I've been trying to get as much as I can in and recently have gotten into the habit of doing 20 jelqs whenever I pee and more when I take showers. So if I pee 10 times a day that's 200 jelqs.
Once we do move out together I'm going to keep the hanger in my car and hang when she is at work. I'm also going to switch to a more girth centric routine which I've always gained both length and thickness with
We are planning on moving out in 1 or two months once an apartment becomes available. I've been trying to get as much as I can in and recently have gotten into the habit of doing 20 jelqs whenever I pee and more when I take showers. So if I pee 10 times a day that's 200 jelqs.
Once we do move out together I'm going to keep the hanger in my car and hang when she is at work. I'm also going to switch to a more girth centric routine which I've always gained both length and thickness with
Also the only PE gear that I'm keeping is my LG hanger, [words=http://TLCTugger.com/MOS]VLC[/words] and golf weighs. If no one wants to buy my bib starter, bib hardcore, [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]size genetics[/words], [words=https://www.internetzahlung.de/cc-aktuell/bestellung.php3?PID=PM0440A&Sprache=en]penimaster pro[/words] or [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] I'm tossing it all in the trash before the move
doublelongdaddy;684582 said:
I'm needy!
Munto;686637 said:
This stuff ain't cheap, to anyone else, i'm taking donations!
Okay so funny story. I made this post right before I was just going to throw all this stuff away. I had it in a trash bag after cleaning out my closet and thought maybe somebody else would want it. I work in the medical field and could easily sanitize it. Well anyway I was going to give this a few days and check back in. I went to my girlfriends for the weekend and when I came back the bag was gone. I thought my mom just threw it away and hoped she didn't see any of it, I had most of it in boxes or wrapped up in case anyone came in my room. Well then a few days later I notice the bag was just sitting there in the dining room and I took it and just threw it away before my mom could google what a [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]sizegenetics[/words] is. haha she probably did see the [words=https://www.internetzahlung.de/cc-aktuell/bestellung.php3?PID=PM0440A&Sprache=en]penimaster[/words] or one of the bathmates though.
I'm still at it, Up to 15 lbs for 40 min hanging SO been trying to be as consistent as possible before the move in May. Probably do PE 4 days out of the week. Recently been adding in girth work. I kept my golf weights and would like to add those back in but I just keep doubting if I could get away with it with the type of work I do now as a charge nurse. My unit is able to handle 15 lbs no problem so I might try to up the weight seeing my hanging career might just come to an abrupt end soon, try to attack it with "hardcore" hanging. I could see me going up much higher in weight with my current setup if conditioned properly. The LG hanger is a masterpiece.
Post move I will be really only be able to do stealth manual PE and maybe a few sets of hanging on days that I'm at the apartment off of work and my girl is at work. With my and her busy schedule, meetings and 2-3 hour workouts it will be impossible to keep a consistent hanging routine but would be nice for a shock here and there. She's totally against PE, we almost broke up early on because after looking at a book that showed how to stretch the dick at the bookstore I did a few of them in front of her to judge her reaction. She's against me even just touching myself when we watch tv. She was molested at 8 by her softball coach and she said some little boy in her neighborhood would touch himself in front of her and it scared her. So in respect for my girl I'm not telling her a damn thing haha but I will continue to do it as much as possible without her knowing. That means hiding my equipment somewhere, been thinking about my car or if I can find a hiding spot in the new apartment I will do that.
I will be focusing on stealth girth work when we move because thats the easiest, time efficient and for me produces really good results. I'm hoping there is some way to plant the seeds and get her to accept it but for now it will be Ninja PE all the way
I'm still at it, Up to 15 lbs for 40 min hanging SO been trying to be as consistent as possible before the move in May. Probably do PE 4 days out of the week. Recently been adding in girth work. I kept my golf weights and would like to add those back in but I just keep doubting if I could get away with it with the type of work I do now as a charge nurse. My unit is able to handle 15 lbs no problem so I might try to up the weight seeing my hanging career might just come to an abrupt end soon, try to attack it with "hardcore" hanging. I could see me going up much higher in weight with my current setup if conditioned properly. The LG hanger is a masterpiece.
Post move I will be really only be able to do stealth manual PE and maybe a few sets of hanging on days that I'm at the apartment off of work and my girl is at work. With my and her busy schedule, meetings and 2-3 hour workouts it will be impossible to keep a consistent hanging routine but would be nice for a shock here and there. She's totally against PE, we almost broke up early on because after looking at a book that showed how to stretch the dick at the bookstore I did a few of them in front of her to judge her reaction. She's against me even just touching myself when we watch tv. She was molested at 8 by her softball coach and she said some little boy in her neighborhood would touch himself in front of her and it scared her. So in respect for my girl I'm not telling her a damn thing haha but I will continue to do it as much as possible without her knowing. That means hiding my equipment somewhere, been thinking about my car or if I can find a hiding spot in the new apartment I will do that.
I will be focusing on stealth girth work when we move because thats the easiest, time efficient and for me produces really good results. I'm hoping there is some way to plant the seeds and get her to accept it but for now it will be Ninja PE all the way
Big Schwanz Acht
@Big Schwanz Acht
not a peep from your mom?
Well if she knows, she knows but I bet she would never say she knew. If I found my Son's collection of PE tools I would definitely respect his privacy and not say anything. The only way I would get involved is if I saw he was going through something that was obviously troubling him and even then I would be extremely gentle in my approach. Have no worries!
I'm up to 16.25 lbs. Just got up to 35 to 45 min sets. Added in 20 min of squeezes. So far it's starting to work judging my fatigue and I have my fat low hang dick when it's limp. I just ordered some PE weights from Monty and will start using those at work and thought-out the day.
My parents actually busted me doing PE when I was like 16. Back then the internet sucked and we only had one computer in the breakfast room. So I had to print out info on PE through the forums and read it later. They found the articles I had printed out and we had a big disagreement but they knew they couldn't stop me
My parents actually busted me doing PE when I was like 16. Back then the internet sucked and we only had one computer in the breakfast room. So I had to print out info on PE through the forums and read it later. They found the articles I had printed out and we had a big disagreement but they knew they couldn't stop me
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I went out of town last week. I've been having doubts about moving in with my girlfriend for a month now and made a firm decision after allot of thought not to move in with her but instead get my own place. I will be seeing her tonight to tell her. She's horrible with money and is high maintenance and that's the last thing I need right now. It just sucks because I paid for the deposit last week and she took it to the apartments. Already she wanted a two bedroom when all we need is one. A king sized bed, a nice couch, glass tables and everything to match. Didn't want to get "cheap" book cases, etc. The relationship has been kind of teetering lately, at least for me and I really am starting to find myself unattracted to her. I've been working 50-60 hours to save up and she's been turning down opportunities to work extra. She works 7 hour days at great clips. After really talking, more like threatening her with her laziness inside and outside the bedroom she's made some improvements but I get the feeling they won't last.
This is our second go around. She has facial surgery last year and didn't work and was depressed. We took a break and now some of the same issues are resurfacing for me. She seems to be pressuring engagement and marriage. She's pretty bossy in general.
The whole princess mentality is off putting to me and I'm tired of being in relationships where I'm doing most of the work.
Don't get me wrong I do love her but I just see a move with her to be unwise especially if she's this needy. We've been fighting more lately and I can only imagine moving in and then a few months later things not working out
This is our second go around. She has facial surgery last year and didn't work and was depressed. We took a break and now some of the same issues are resurfacing for me. She seems to be pressuring engagement and marriage. She's pretty bossy in general.
The whole princess mentality is off putting to me and I'm tired of being in relationships where I'm doing most of the work.
Don't get me wrong I do love her but I just see a move with her to be unwise especially if she's this needy. We've been fighting more lately and I can only imagine moving in and then a few months later things not working out
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longstretch;691585 said:
You are making the smartest move you can. You have doubts and some may be valid. If this be the case it would be a much more difficult break if you were living together than it would if you had your own place. Familiarity breeds content by absence makes the heart grow stronger! You are being wise in this!
So I told her about 2 weeks ago I wanted to get my own place. She was upset at first but willing to work it out, but she kept asking if I saw a future with her. And honestly the more I thought about it the more I came to realize that I've only been fooling myself and her that I did, when in fact I did not. She has too many strikes against her and I don't think I'm in a position to be in a relationship anymore. I had been debating the pros and cons for over two weeks. Anyway I came over to her house with every intention of having a great weekend last friday. She asked me again while making dinner, face to face, if I saw her in my future and I had to be honest and said I didn't know and I realize I can't keep you tethered to me because its not right for you. It all became clear to me in that moment and I had to let her know as soon as possible. It sucked because I genuinely love and care for her but I know we'd both be better off going our separate ways. So we split up. I feel relief and guilt for some reason at the same time. Sucks but I've learned to stick with my gut and when my gut and my brain are telling me the same thing I gotta follow.
So I will have more free time and privacy now to PE. I'm up to 16.25 lbs with the LG for 40 minutes, tried a second set last night and only got 28 min in. I will most likely stay at this weight for a while.
So I will have more free time and privacy now to PE. I'm up to 16.25 lbs with the LG for 40 minutes, tried a second set last night and only got 28 min in. I will most likely stay at this weight for a while.
longstretch;692327 said:
Sounds like you made the right choice. Sometimes being honest with ourselves is very difficult but you have successfully searched and found the answer. I love that you will be implementing more PE as this will help replace her not being there. No matter how we feel about a person, in a break there is always sadness and emptiness, so it is so important to fill that place with something positive. We are hear for you my Brother, always and forever!
Big Schwanz Acht
@Big Schwanz Acht
Always trust your gut! Be thankful you're only dealing w/a tinge of guilt and a bit of sadness/loneliness...THIS WILL PASS. As DLD mentioned, take the time to make positive steps for yourself...the better person you become allows you to be a better person for others in your life. Personally, my PE journey has boosted my confidence and opened me up to new people/experiences that never would have been possible before. There's a synergy that takes place when you're 100% committed to improving yourself which acts like a magnet...it sounds strange but people are drawn to your energy. The trick is to be able to ferret-out the blood-suckers 
Take comfort in knowing that your gut is providing you with all the info that you need to make the right choices in your life, nice-job listening to it...too many ignore the obvious and go-along w/whatever's the easiest/most comfortable.
Best of luck
Take comfort in knowing that your gut is providing you with all the info that you need to make the right choices in your life, nice-job listening to it...too many ignore the obvious and go-along w/whatever's the easiest/most comfortable.
Best of luck
Big Schwanz Acht;692496 said:Always trust your gut! Be thankful you're only dealing w/a tinge of guilt and a bit of sadness/loneliness...THIS WILL PASS. As DLD mentioned, take the time to make positive steps for yourself...the better person you become allows you to be a better person for others in your life. Personally, my PE journey has boosted my confidence and opened me up to new people/experiences that never would have been possible before. There's a synergy that takes place when you're 100% committed to improving yourself which acts like a magnet...it sounds strange but people are drawn to your energy. The trick is to be able to ferret-out the blood-suckers
Take comfort in knowing that your gut is providing you with all the info that you need to make the right choices in your life, nice-job listening to it...too many ignore the obvious and go-along w/whatever's the easiest/most comfortable.
Best of luck
I aree 100% All things pass and we get the opportunity to do it better next time. Life is all about evolving and sometimes that evolution includes a partner. Finding what is right takes trial and error but there is someone out there looking for you who is just what you love.
Big Schwanz Acht
@Big Schwanz Acht
doublelongdaddy;692533 said:
I love your optimism! (what's the old adage? 'a pessimist is just an optimist w/experience', lol)
Thanks guys thats exactly what I needed to hear! I think I was in a bit of a funk for the first week but I'm feeling better now. My birthday is coming up and now I don't have any real plans, she was going to take me to the cirque du soleil but I didn't want to be a dick and just stay with her to get what I could out of her. I've managed to lose track of friends since getting with her, which was my fault looking back and honestly I need to make new friends anyways. I'm now going to start putting my best foot forward and continue my quest for self empowerment and improvement. I'll be looking into where I could move to on my own and look to starting to establish my own social circle again.
I ordered a bib starter and have been hanging with it for a few days. I've mainly been hanging 5 lbs for 5 to 10 minutes and making minor adjustments with each set to get used to it. I'll hang the first 2 weeks for skin stretch (BTC) and one week after that to really refine everything before I start adding weight. I'm still doing at least one set with the LG, 16.25 lbs for 40-45 min a day. Maybe some light jelqing or BTB jelqing between sets.
I ordered a bib starter and have been hanging with it for a few days. I've mainly been hanging 5 lbs for 5 to 10 minutes and making minor adjustments with each set to get used to it. I'll hang the first 2 weeks for skin stretch (BTC) and one week after that to really refine everything before I start adding weight. I'm still doing at least one set with the LG, 16.25 lbs for 40-45 min a day. Maybe some light jelqing or BTB jelqing between sets.
Haha DLD that's priceless advice.
So I've been really busy lately. I'm up to 7.5 pounds BTC with the Bib starter. I get about one or two sets in on my works days where I have to work the next day and maybe a 1 to 3 more on my off days or I'll add a set of 40 min at 16.25 pounds SO with the LG. I been so busy this week I've mainly just done one or two sets with the Bib and none with the LG
I ideally would like to hang a few sets with the Bib starter and at least one set with the LG each day. Each pulls a little differently and I'll be hitting different angles this way. But my friend was in a bad car accident last weekend and I had a day full of interviews on one of my off days this week, I work long hours and have been the go to guy to pick up extra shifts lately. I jumped out of plane yesterday and my sister got married today lol. Will start again strong tomorrow and work on increasing time throughout the week.
So I've been really busy lately. I'm up to 7.5 pounds BTC with the Bib starter. I get about one or two sets in on my works days where I have to work the next day and maybe a 1 to 3 more on my off days or I'll add a set of 40 min at 16.25 pounds SO with the LG. I been so busy this week I've mainly just done one or two sets with the Bib and none with the LG
I ideally would like to hang a few sets with the Bib starter and at least one set with the LG each day. Each pulls a little differently and I'll be hitting different angles this way. But my friend was in a bad car accident last weekend and I had a day full of interviews on one of my off days this week, I work long hours and have been the go to guy to pick up extra shifts lately. I jumped out of plane yesterday and my sister got married today lol. Will start again strong tomorrow and work on increasing time throughout the week.
A little update. I was planning on moving out on my own in august but found out I'll probably need orthopedic surgery. Meeting with the surgeon I was referred to in a few weeks. I don't know how this will effect me PE wise. I know I'll be on crutches for a few weeks and possibly out of work for a month, plus rehab.
So up until a few days ago I've been doing SD Hanging with Bib Hardcore for 1-4 sets depending on how much time I had and if I had to work again the next day. I stopped doing BTC because honestly its a pain in the ass to set up, hurts my back, and I can't monitor my glans well. I'm up to 15-19.25 lbs depending on fatigue. The last few days I've been ending the night with 40 min SO with the LG at 13-15 lbs. I just started using the LG again and think I will be able to keep up this rate nicely. Doing one or two sets of Heavy SD Bib Hardcore sets and then finishing up with a longer LG hang. The switch from compression hanging to vacuum hanging feels really good actually. Plus I'm tearing down the fibers and then letting them "set" with the longer LG set.
My Tug-N-Go thong thing came in the mail today for the [words=http://TLCTugger.com/MOS]VLC[/words] hanger that I plan to eventually wear at work once I can get all the kinks of put on and put off worked out this weekend. Might even be able to use it for PE weights to in case they came off at work. If I can get all this going and remain consistent I know I'll be gaining again soon
So up until a few days ago I've been doing SD Hanging with Bib Hardcore for 1-4 sets depending on how much time I had and if I had to work again the next day. I stopped doing BTC because honestly its a pain in the ass to set up, hurts my back, and I can't monitor my glans well. I'm up to 15-19.25 lbs depending on fatigue. The last few days I've been ending the night with 40 min SO with the LG at 13-15 lbs. I just started using the LG again and think I will be able to keep up this rate nicely. Doing one or two sets of Heavy SD Bib Hardcore sets and then finishing up with a longer LG hang. The switch from compression hanging to vacuum hanging feels really good actually. Plus I'm tearing down the fibers and then letting them "set" with the longer LG set.
My Tug-N-Go thong thing came in the mail today for the [words=http://TLCTugger.com/MOS]VLC[/words] hanger that I plan to eventually wear at work once I can get all the kinks of put on and put off worked out this weekend. Might even be able to use it for PE weights to in case they came off at work. If I can get all this going and remain consistent I know I'll be gaining again soon
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You busted your hip or what bra?
yeah man how'd you know