Big Schwanz Acht;692496 said:
Always trust your gut! Be thankful you're only dealing w/a tinge of guilt and a bit of sadness/loneliness...THIS WILL PASS. As DLD mentioned, take the time to make positive steps for yourself...the better person you become allows you to be a better person for others in your life. Personally, my PE journey has boosted my confidence and opened me up to new people/experiences that never would have been possible before. There's a synergy that takes place when you're 100% committed to improving yourself which acts like a magnet...it sounds strange but people are drawn to your energy. The trick is to be able to ferret-out the blood-suckers :)
Take comfort in knowing that your gut is providing you with all the info that you need to make the right choices in your life, nice-job listening to it...too many ignore the obvious and go-along w/whatever's the easiest/most comfortable.
Best of luck

I aree 100% All things pass and we get the opportunity to do it better next time. Life is all about evolving and sometimes that evolution includes a partner. Finding what is right takes trial and error but there is someone out there looking for you who is just what you love.
 
doublelongdaddy;692533 said:
I aree 100% All things pass and we get the opportunity to do it better next time. Life is all about evolving and sometimes that evolution includes a partner. Finding what is right takes trial and error but there is someone out there looking for you who is just what you love.

I love your optimism! (what's the old adage? 'a pessimist is just an optimist w/experience', lol)
 
Thanks guys thats exactly what I needed to hear! I think I was in a bit of a funk for the first week but I'm feeling better now. My birthday is coming up and now I don't have any real plans, she was going to take me to the cirque du soleil but I didn't want to be a dick and just stay with her to get what I could out of her. I've managed to lose track of friends since getting with her, which was my fault looking back and honestly I need to make new friends anyways. I'm now going to start putting my best foot forward and continue my quest for self empowerment and improvement. I'll be looking into where I could move to on my own and look to starting to establish my own social circle again.

I ordered a bib starter and have been hanging with it for a few days. I've mainly been hanging 5 lbs for 5 to 10 minutes and making minor adjustments with each set to get used to it. I'll hang the first 2 weeks for skin stretch (BTC) and one week after that to really refine everything before I start adding weight. I'm still doing at least one set with the LG, 16.25 lbs for 40-45 min a day. Maybe some light jelqing or BTB jelqing between sets.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;692604 said:
I love your optimism! (what's the old adage? 'a pessimist is just an optimist w/experience', lol)

You have to spend your life on the positive side! Shit, I even floss on my off days!
 
Haha DLD that's priceless advice.

So I've been really busy lately. I'm up to 7.5 pounds BTC with the Bib starter. I get about one or two sets in on my works days where I have to work the next day and maybe a 1 to 3 more on my off days or I'll add a set of 40 min at 16.25 pounds SO with the LG. I been so busy this week I've mainly just done one or two sets with the Bib and none with the LG

I ideally would like to hang a few sets with the Bib starter and at least one set with the LG each day. Each pulls a little differently and I'll be hitting different angles this way. But my friend was in a bad car accident last weekend and I had a day full of interviews on one of my off days this week, I work long hours and have been the go to guy to pick up extra shifts lately. I jumped out of plane yesterday and my sister got married today lol. Will start again strong tomorrow and work on increasing time throughout the week.
 
A little update. I was planning on moving out on my own in august but found out I'll probably need orthopedic surgery. Meeting with the surgeon I was referred to in a few weeks. I don't know how this will effect me PE wise. I know I'll be on crutches for a few weeks and possibly out of work for a month, plus rehab.

So up until a few days ago I've been doing SD Hanging with Bib Hardcore for 1-4 sets depending on how much time I had and if I had to work again the next day. I stopped doing BTC because honestly its a pain in the ass to set up, hurts my back, and I can't monitor my glans well. I'm up to 15-19.25 lbs depending on fatigue. The last few days I've been ending the night with 40 min SO with the LG at 13-15 lbs. I just started using the LG again and think I will be able to keep up this rate nicely. Doing one or two sets of Heavy SD Bib Hardcore sets and then finishing up with a longer LG hang. The switch from compression hanging to vacuum hanging feels really good actually. Plus I'm tearing down the fibers and then letting them "set" with the longer LG set.

My Tug-N-Go thong thing came in the mail today for the [words=http://TLCTugger.com/MOS]VLC[/words] hanger that I plan to eventually wear at work once I can get all the kinks of put on and put off worked out this weekend. Might even be able to use it for PE weights to in case they came off at work. If I can get all this going and remain consistent I know I'll be gaining again soon
 
Because you've always hanged weights and that tilts your pelvis in a way that weakens it.
 
templnite;699204 said:
Because you've always hanged weights and that tilts your pelvis in a way that weakens it.

How do you mean, it weakens it? Do you have a study or a link I can read? I have never heard of this and I am very curious, even though I don't hang. :)
 
Dont ever hang bro its bad for you. Even doing normal PE can leave your body all achy from weird positioning. Its always important to stand or sit with good form when doing your workouts because if not you could condition your bones out of align. Add weights to the mix and your just compromising body integrity even more.

Bottom line dont hang weight from your body for any amount of time. Do [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]srt[/words] instead, it grants your bones/ligaments more freedom and relief from unneeded constant strain
 
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Haha okay didn't know that hanging weights can form unnecessary bone around the femur but okay, stupid doctor thinking it was from adolescents and karate and wrestling. I haven't always hung before I did manual PE for years before switching. I do maintain good posture even when hanging, I'm actually pretty strong physically and can maintain alignment through 15 pounds of pull for pretty much all day
 
And did you tell the doctor that you hang weights? Why you think your back hurts when you hang weights?
 
Bought an [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]ACE[/words] knee wrap this weekend and learned to attach it. I'm going to start back wearing the [words=http://TLCTugger.com/MOS]VLC[/words] [words=http://TLCTugger.com/MOS]tugger[/words] at work. I was able to get in 2 hanging sessions today. Dick is nice and sore.

4 [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x 20[/words] min SD @ 15-18 lbs with bib hardcore
10 min EDGE
40 min SO @ 15 lbs with LG
5 hour break
1 [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x 20[/words] min SD @ 15 lbs with Bib hardcore
40 min SO @ 15 lbs with LG

Wish everyday was this productive. I'm excited to add in the [words=http://TLCTugger.com/MOS]VLC[/words] again. I'm hoping it will stay on while at work and I won't have any issues. I have the tug-n-wear thong thing too but I don't think it will work best with the [words=http://TLCTugger.com/MOS]VLC[/words] but definitely the PE weights. I'll stick with the [words=http://TLCTugger.com/MOS]VLC[/words] at work for now and might do the golf weights when out and about in shorts
 
templnite;699280 said:
And did you tell the doctor that you hang weights? Why you think your back hurts when you hang weights?

You are correct temp, when the doctor hears about the positions longerstretch is holding all day, which cause him pain sometimes, he would have advise to stop hanging. His hip began to calcify because of the weird positioning which always rubbed the joints awkwardly and caused the fusion.

Sure that he is physically strong and everything but remember that its not uncommon in bodybuilders to have very stiff backs/ joints because of the constant strain on the jelly parts which causes them to dry up and wither away.

Everything affects everything. If you have some fuked up pain in your knee then its likely that its really a problem with your hip or with hanging etcetera :D
 
I stand or sit. I'm not in weird positions. Please either add constructive criticism or troll somewhere else.

And I should add that I've had this problem before I even began hanging.
 
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Dont get upset bro I'm just trying to watch out for the newbies, that's no reason for you to get all bitchy. Just acept that you're mad hanging isn't working out for you and just causing back pain. Shoulda stuck with [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]srt[/words] at least then you could employ the btc stretch without throwing out your back.

All new guys should take note of these all-day hangers who aren't getting anywhere except the doctors office. All because they though gaining would be a walk in the park. Take heed to my advice: Dont expect anything you haven't put in the work for. And when temp aks you something make sho you put some respek on it
 
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Dude I'm saying this with all respect I can but you need to see a counselor. I recommend a CBT therapist and maybe meds but the CBT should help you realign with reality.
 
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