Progress thread Stretch For the Stars...Land in the Cul de Sac!!!

Didn't you say you had feelings for the one I said too? The heart is difficult thing to understand my man, just be sure its the girl you want not the one you think you want.

You're a man, and therefore shouldn't settle for spoils. Like you said head over heels bro go get yourself a fly honey that will meet you half-way not one that needs to be rescued.

Best wishes
 
longstretch;651211 said:
DLD thats awesome I hope it all works out for you and even if it don't it'll be good experience seeing how your getting back out there. I find starting the initial steps are the hardest. After talking and having sex it gets a lot easier and when those insecurities come into play I always think to myself how I got back on my feet and others have fallen head over heels for me. Its a great feeling to love and be loved, my mistake is rushing it. Been playing my hand strong lately and setting stable boundaries. I'm determined to take things at a snails pace while work on some of my other goals. If its meant she'll stick around but I find myself more and more just seeing that as icing on the cake and could easily go my own way.
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Yup, you are so right, just getting started is the tough part. I am getting better and better with talking to the women. The girl I met I am playing hard to get and it is working quite well:) This was a trick I forgot about:) I will update everyone if my dick gets wet:)
 
Haha it's very effective indeed, if you want it too much it's a turn off for girls, something I've been trying to get across to one of my friends.

06/27/15: Friday
45 min Hanging SO @ 10lbs
 
templnite;651212 said:
Didn't you say you had feelings for the one I said too? The heart is difficult thing to understand my man, just be sure its the girl you want not the one you think you want.

You're a man, and therefore shouldn't settle for spoils. Like you said head over heels bro go get yourself a fly honey that will meet you half-way not one that needs to be rescued.

Best wishes
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Yes I did have feelings for that girl as well buy in the end she was just too selfish in and outside the bedroom. Plus she had many issues and I just got to a point where I had to be honest with myself and take action to end it because I knew I wouldn't be happy with her. The one I'm with now has been meeting me halfway so as long as she keeps that up and will be faithful and true I'll be happy
 
Well this girl I've been having sex here recently has been an ex before the other ex. I'm starting to have doubts. See we dated for a year. She started seeing me two weeks street she got out of a 3 year relationship from someone that she met on MySpace, he lives out of state. I moved in with her and her parents after a month of dating. All throughout that year she would get drunk and call him. Numerous times I found her texting other guys, messaging another guy after a date, getting drunk and flirting with other guys in front of me. This made me into a very paranoid guy and insecure guy which usually I'm not. I finally had enough and moved out but we have always been an on and of thing and she always had other guys she was talking to or fucking but would blow up on me if I had other girls to. She would make it quite clear that we weren't together but then get mad if I was dating around too.

She also had intense anger issues, I would classify as rage. And very narcissistic. I went to rehab and got clean. After a few months she started to go to NA meetings with me and church. Again I was dating around because I knew she was too but I think I have her most of my time. That was until one day I said enough is enough. I guess with the drugs out of my system, the intense inner work and soul searching I was doing, the returning self esteem and empowerment I just realized that I deserved way better. So we went on vacation and afterwards I cut ties with her. Her friend moved back into town and was a stylist. I needed a haircut so I hit her up and one thing led to another and I started dating her friend. When that didn't work out I will admit I hit this recent girl up. We started hooking up.

She told me how sorry she was and when I started dating her friend she really realized that she had lost me and would never get me back. She became severely depressed she says. I knew she had relapsed on and off for that whole year. When I asked her about it this past weekend I was surprised that she confessed to sleeping with two married men (one from the meetings and one from church who was separated from his wife at the time), slept with a girl from NA, also another girl before I started dating her friend, and maybe a few others. One of the married men she slept with right before I walked away from her. I knew these two guys pretty well. She also relapsed a few times, quit going to meetings (which so have I now that I learned of SMART Recovery).

She has been showing me signs that she's willing to work it out, pretty much been pampering me. She deleted her facebook. She's been working on some of her anger, depression and anxiety. We get each other very well, sex is great and her family is like my family. I told her it would take time to get my trust back but she said I was worth it. I have forgiven her but I don't know if I can be with her. We went to church today (married guy not there) and watched Kevin Hart's new stand up tonight and he was talking about cheating on his wife. It got me all kinds of fucked up in the head and I looked up cheating statistics and found if somebody cheats they are 3.5 times more likely to cheat in subsequent relationships. I know she cheated on me multiple times and the guy before me. I know that for a long time she strung me along. Her friend that I dated said she thought of me as a doll she kept up on a shelf and she could take me down anytime to play with me and then put me back. She denies saying this. She's telling me she's done testing the waters but I don't like the fact that I'll never know until it's too late.

I mean she's always of accusing me of cheating too and thats just something I'd never do to somebody. If I wanted to step out I would end the relationship. I'm starting to have doubts on what I'm doing with her. I'm thinking of going into Air Force Reserves or picking up travel assignments in a few years and I don't know if I could ever trust her while I was out of town for a few weeks. Many of the things she did previously was while I was living with her. Before I left her house she saw my phone and saw what I was searching on the internet about cheaters and kind of just stopped talking to me and laid in bed to go to sleep. She asked if I was having doubts earlier and I said I don't know. Fucking sucks things would be perfect if she didn't fuck up in the past, but I'm starting to see I need to end this before we fall deeper for each other.

I think the best gift I can give her is leaving so she'll see her actions have lasting consequences. I'm not bitter and have fallen for her recently but trust has been broken long ago and I'm not the same guy I was when she met me. I refuse to be a doormat. Things have been good recently but I'm not sure it could last. And I know about Love Bombing that narcissistics will do to get you to commit fast. She's already been talking about moving in and getting married and I keep telling her it would be a long while.
 
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>:(Fire flame, rich gang lifestyle, we on the forum so you can't see all the five-star jewery I'm rockin aday!
Poosey? Come put your money up playboi well take that shit! We spittin ova here playboi.

I don't need to go on and on like most women do I'm an all or nothing kind of person. All the inches $tacking on my penus.
 
06/28/15: Sun
39 Min Hanging SO @ 10 lbs

Comments: Had sex multiple times a day every day this weekend. My dick was sore before and I had to cut the set short today with pain, though good pain, near the head.
 
I remember when you use to have numbness around the head after some sets, glad you finally sorted your hanger out playboi.
 
longstretch;651879 said:
Comments: Had sex multiple times a day every day this weekend. My dick was sore before and I had to cut the set short today with pain, though good pain, near the head.
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Fuck off!:)
 
templnite;651880 said:
I remember when you use to have numbness around the head after some sets, glad you finally sorted your hanger out playboi.
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Yes I got that with compression hangers, I could never get the wrap right and believe my dick doesn't do well with compression for extended time.

doublelongdaddy;652527 said:
Fuck off!:)
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Well I broke up with that girl today so I'm back to rolling solo. :(... Oh well plenty of cows in the pasture

07/03/15: Fri
45 min Hanging SO @ 10 lbs

Comments: Had a much needed family time today and no privacy so no PE. Might do a set before bed. Got into a fight with my now bipolar ex and broke it off with her today so I'm pretty physically and emotionally exhausted.
 
longstretch;653040 said:
Yes I got that with compression hangers, I could never get the wrap right and believe my dick doesn't do well with compression for extended time.


Well I broke up with that girl today so I'm back to rolling solo. :(... Oh well plenty of cows in the pasture

07/03/15: Fri
45 min Hanging SO @ 10 lbs

Comments: Had a much needed family time today and no privacy so no PE. Might do a set before bed. Got into a fight with my now bipolar ex and broke it off with her today so I'm pretty physically and emotionally exhausted.
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At least you can send her my way:)
 
Well we ended up patching things up for now and I'd rather not ruin that tight little pussy she has hehe

07/06/15: Mon
2 x 45 min Hanging SO @ 10 lbs
10 min clamped edging
 
I see you don't want long term relationships just that poosey yea!
For some reason I though you did seek stability ?:(
 
longstretch;653233 said:
Well we ended up patching things up for now and I'd rather not ruin that tight little pussy she has hehe

07/06/15: Mon
2 x 45 min Hanging SO @ 10 lbs
10 min clamped edging
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Dude, I was all set with you sending me a girl! Damn!
 
DLD I know a few that would absolutely love to have ya. Don't mean to sound like a stalker but when you first switched to facebook here, I went on your page and I got to see a little of your real life and you seem like a cool dude and great with kids. As Vince Vaughn said in Swingers "You're so money and you don't even know it!"

07/08/15: Wed
20 min Clamped Edging with 5 min Jelqing

Comments: This was a bad week PE wise. Had major insomnia Monday night and went straight to bed after work on Tuesday. Went to Girlfriends house on Wednesday and for dinner... and dessert Thursday and will be staying there this weekend. I am looking for something stable really but I'm not afraid to be alone. She seems to really be fighting to have me and I'm starting to believe her that she is genuine and that things with her could work out and be what I've always wanted. For now, after this week I will only be coming over on the weekends so we can both work on ourselves throughout the week. I got books to read and personal development I want to pursue and she has anxiety issues. I gave her a book on CBT for anxiety and she says she will be reading that and focusing on improving herself.

So after this week I'll be able to PE Monday through Friday with no problems and I work every other Saturday. I can't sleep over at her house before work because of insomnia issues and she sleeps on a futon So that will mean on those weeks I'll be able to PE on Friday as well and on weeks I work Monday I'll be able to PE on Sunday. I am aiming at improving all areas of life at the same time and this routine will keep things in balance.
 
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longstretch;653823 said:
DLD I know a few that would absolutely love to have ya. Don't mean to sound like a stalker but when you first switched to facebook here, I went on your page and I got to see a little of your real life and you seem like a cool dude and great with kids. As Vince Vaughn said in Swingers "You're so money and you don't even know it!"
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Ahhhh, thanks my Brother that had me smiling! Thanks for looking in at my family and life, it is a pretty regular life but I love it!
 
Anytime man, it's important for everyone to stay positive and have an attitude of gratitude !

07/12/15: Mon
40 min Hanging SO @ 11 lbs

07/16/15: Thurs
45 min Hanging SO @ 11 lbs, swiveling my chair to each side every 5 to 10 min for 30 to 60 seconds for side stretches

Comments: Went up in weight Monday. Cut the set 5 min short to be on the safe side. Had red spots on my glans but was all good. I worked Tuesday and pulled a double yesterday. Monday night had really bad insomnia, name home after work and took a nap, then gym and girlfriend time. Woke up late today after working 20 hours yesterday and only had enough time for one set. I'm off today so will try for two sets
 
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longstretch;654579 said:
Anytime man, it's important for everyone to stay positive and have an attitude of gratitude !

07/12/15: Mon
40 min Hanging SO @ 11 lbs

07/16/15: Thurs
45 min Hanging SO @ 11 lbs, swiveling my chair to each side every 5 to 10 min for 30 to 60 seconds for side stretches

Comments: Went up in weight Monday. Cut the set 5 min short to be on the safe side. Had red spots on my glans but was all good. I worked Tuesday and pulled a double yesterday. Monday night had really bad insomnia, name home after work and took a nap, then gym and girlfriend time. Woke up late today after working 20 hours yesterday and only had enough time for one set. I'm off today so will try for two sets
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:):):)
 
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