Progress thread Stretch For the Stars...Land in the Cul de Sac!!!

12/03/14: Wed
20 Min Mandingo Stretches (switching hands as necessary q5-6 min)
20 Min 1/2 Bundled Mandingo Stretches (switching hands as necessary q5-6 min)

12/04/14: Thurs
30 min Hanging SD with LG @ 6.25 min
15 min Mandingo Stretches (switching hands as necessary q5-6 min)

Comments: Wasn't able to hang the past two days so I did some Mandingo Stretches. Was able to achieve erection easily last night and I really feel like my nerve Kristin is healed. Again will update post during the day
 
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12/05/14: Fri
20 min Mandingo Stretches (switching hands as necessary q5-6 min)
20 min 1/2 bundled Mandingo Stretches (switching hands as necessary q5-6 min)
hours break
20 min 1/2 bundled Mandingo Stretches (switching hands as necessary q5-6 min)
2 x 2 min fully bundled Mandingo Stretches (2 min per side)

Comments: Didn't go to the gym this am because of injury, so no hanging. I'm contemplating taking at least a week off of the gym but waking up early to go to my parents to hang
 
12/08/14: Mon
12 min Mandingo Stretches
30 min edge with ejaculation
Sex that night

12/09/14: Tues
35 min Mandingo Stretches (15 min 1/2 bundled)

Comments: Been going to bed late or having trouble sleeping this week. Will get up tomorrow for morning hanging session. Last time I went to my parents my old room had been cleaned. Found my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]penomet[/words] on top of clothes in closet. I'm going no one is using that room
 
12/10/14: Wed
20 min Mandingo Stretches
20 min 1/2 Bundled Mandingo Stretches

12/11/14: Thurs
20 Min Mandingo Stretches
20 Min 1/2 Bundled Mandingo Stretches
1-2 hour break
35 min 1/2 Bundled Mandingo Stretches

12/12/14: Fri
20 min Mandingo Stretches
10 min 1/2 Bundled Mandingo Stretches

Comments: Well I tried to do some stretches and jelqs while me and my girlfriend were watching a show on Wednesday night. At first she was just laughing and kept telling me to stop and that it reminded her of what little boys do. At one point she even said here let me pull it for you and acted like she was going to pull it off. I thought she was joking around until she flipped out. Told me it reminded her of a time when she was sexually molested by a 6 year old boy when she was 6 and that he was pulling on his like that. It kind of put a damper on everything that night and for the next day we discussed it and tried to apologize through texts. I didn't know it would make her freak out like that. And it obviously won't be cool for her to have me do PE in front of her. I think she thinks I'm some kind of weirdo just for wanting my dick bigger and says that I'm perfect the way I am. I tried to explain to her that I was just curious to see if it would work and that the sites compared it to growing muscles. Which me working out has been the topic of numerous discussions (working out only on weekdays, getting in bed on time, waking up early, yada yada yada).

She said what woman would be cool with that. And I mentioned that a few guys on the message board had girlfriends and wives that were cool with it. Her basic response was for me to go and find one of those people. I really don't know how true that story of her being molested by a 6 year old is true or not, and if it is how it bears any resemblance to what I was doing. In any case I will respect that she has some kind of phobia with me stretching my dick. Even asked if I was doing it for one of my friends thats a girl. I think that might be the case with her more than likely is she is afraid I'm wanting to get bigger for someone else. Case in point I will have to continue to keep it in secret. I'm doing this for me and I'm not wanting to get freakishly large, just maybe half an inch all around. Newbie gains are gone so any gains I do get will more than likely take a while for me to get.

For a split second I was almost willing to break up with her for it. I know that might sound crazy to some but I was just feeling controlled and then when she brought the accusations of me and my friend into the mix, like I literally live with this girl now and besides work and gym any free time is given to her. I thought about it for a little bit while passions were high of just ending it. I would move back into my parents disgusting house but I would have my freedom back. Then I thought that would be a stupid reason to give up on somebody I love, just so I could PE. I hope our relationship can get better. I definitely have to be mindful with boundaries with this girl and its starting to become a headache because she goes through phases of support with my working out and then phases where she is needy and wants me to stay up all night with her when I have to work and get up for the gym the next day, so I don't miss workouts, which are like therapy to me. But after a few weeks of that she does seem not to push the issue as much and has been helping me get up for the gym, besides this week which I've been out for an injury.

I haven't been able to wake up to go home to do PE so I've only been able to do Mandingo Stretches and no hanging. I will try again next week but set up my alarm I plug in. I'm already in the bad habit of turning my alarm off on my phone and then bringing it back into bed with me and snoozing 12x. I gotta break outta that. Today I got some edema in my penis from yesterday so I didn't go for as long because I was getting raised areas where the penis was twisting the skin during Mandingos.
 
Women can quickly change from accepting and even enjoying PE for their man and then out of no where change up the way they see it. This is what happened with Jen and me, after supporting my PE for 3 years and being super involved with [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] she just changed and from there it was a down hill road until she left me. Her letter saying goodbye was all about how PE was discussing and she hated it, etc. Broke my heart really because I never thought she would turn on me like that. I think, if I could do it again, I would never, ever had included her in any part of it.
 
doublelongdaddy;625397 said:
Women can quickly change from accepting and even enjoying PE for their man and then out of no where change up the way they see it. This is what happened with Jen and me, after supporting my PE for 3 years and being super involved with [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] she just changed and from there it was a down hill road until she left me. Her letter saying goodbye was all about how PE was discussing and she hated it, etc. Broke my heart really because I never thought she would turn on me like that. I think, if I could do it again, I would never, ever had included her in any part of it.
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I think I can see if it was an obsession with one's penis how that can be unattractive. A lot of guys here and me included can fall into insecurity and forms of mental illness wanting a bigger dick. I get unattracted to girls when they have to take 10 selfies just to eat dinner or when they go to the bathroom. In my case its really not an obsession, though I can admit there was a time when I was obsessed and actually turned down many opportunities for sex, relationships, family time, etc; so I could PE. Its more like a hobby for me today and I just wish she was more supportive but if she does have past trauma maybe she has a reason and it was seen as unattractive to her. I'm wishing I didn't try to tell her and especially show her now. I can feel the impact it had on our relationship and I could've gotten by just fine by continuing to stealth PE whenever I could fit time in and at my size now and how much I've already gained any gains I do get would come pretty slow. If I do make gains I doubt she will even notice until I'm at my goal.
 
longstretch;626074 said:
I think I can see if it was an obsession with one's penis how that can be unattractive. A lot of guys here and me included can fall into insecurity and forms of mental illness wanting a bigger dick. I get unattracted to girls when they have to take 10 selfies just to eat dinner or when they go to the bathroom. In my case its really not an obsession, though I can admit there was a time when I was obsessed and actually turned down many opportunities for sex, relationships, family time, etc; so I could PE. Its more like a hobby for me today and I just wish she was more supportive but if she does have past trauma maybe she has a reason and it was seen as unattractive to her. I'm wishing I didn't try to tell her and especially show her now. I can feel the impact it had on our relationship and I could've gotten by just fine by continuing to stealth PE whenever I could fit time in and at my size now and how much I've already gained any gains I do get would come pretty slow. If I do make gains I doubt she will even notice until I'm at my goal.
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Tough lesson to learn my Brother and I completely feel for you, I lost my girl for this very reason. If I ever have another relationship PE will never be a part of it, ever. No matter how receptive a girl may seem when you are trusting her with something you never really know if she is going to understand it. The penis is a very touchy subject with men and women alike, stealth is the way to go in every case. If you need to talk about it the Brotherhood is all ears and no judgement.
 
Yes I'm beginning to come to the same conclusion. She isn't the first one I've told about PE, I've only told one other girl, but she has had the worst reaction. I'm going to leave it out for now on and just keep it hidden and hope to God I'll have more alone time when she starts school or something. The first girl I told was when I first started in High School. She probably thought it was weird too but she didn't really voice it that much and complimented me on my size.

12/16/14: Tues
20 min Mandingo Stretches
20 min 1/2 Bundled Mandingo Stretches
3 hours [words=http://TLCTugger.com/MOS]VLC[/words] [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ADS[/words]

12/17/14: Wed
20 min Mandingo Stretches
10 min 1/2 Bundled Mandingo Stretches
Few minutes of various stretches at full intensity

Comments: Learned about Mandingo V-Stretches and also ways to optimize the Mandingo stretche with applying a fulcrum stretch with wrist but also downward pressure with arm. I played around with it today and it made the stretch more intense. I'll probably need to start using baby powder again to help with grip. My workout partners didn't wake up this am and I've been having trouble sleeping. I have a morning and night self. The night self is motivated to wake up early and be productive but when I wake up still foggy from sleep I many times hit snooze out of habit. Still trying to break that and get my girlfriend to shut up at night so I can get some decent sleep.
 
It is hard to keep something from the ones we love but if what we are doing will cause them more pain knowing than not knowing it is better to keep it to yourself. I wish I did, I would still be with the girl that I love.
 
Hey Longstretch. Bit random, but I just looked up my old LG hanger thread on thundersplace where you said you started using it, and holy tar, you're still using the thing. I can never stick to PE for more than a week or two, since my hands always get tired and I eventually can only do it so seldom, it becomes an afterthought, so if you're doing well with the LG hanger, that thing would be perfect for me. So, how's the thing treated you in the last 5 months?
 
I think the LG is the best vacuum hanger that I've ever owned and I pretty much have had them all. With that being said I did get over zealous and did develop a couple of blisters one month. I progressed to fast when my skin wasn't ready and have found out there were some problems in my tape and set up. I switched to a Bib after developing numbness from a twisting injury when I was using a malehanger. The numbness improved but I've come to the conclusion my penis doesn't do well with compression over extended time. The numbness was interfering with my sex life so I switched to manuals. Got a new girlfriend, looked for a new job and had privacy issues. I'm just now coming back from an unintended month of decon and will start hanging as soon as I can.

In general I'd highly recommend the LG if you can dedicate the time and have privacy. Those two will be concerns for PE regardless though.

01/05/15: Mon
1 Hour of edging with squeezes and Supra Slammers throughout (estimated 10 to 15 cumulative girth work)

Comments: My old job phased out today and I will start a new job soon that will be 3 x 12 hour shifts soon. I'll work less hours and days per week and make 3x as much money with benefits! I'm sure there will be some adjusting but I see myself having more time throughout the week to get quality PE work in. Today's session was highly sexual in nature and I did get some good expansion in. After a month of decon my flaccid size has finally began to shrink so I feel it's a good time to get back to work. I have several red spots from today. It was a great session and I'm glad I started with girth work.
 
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I broke up with my girlfriend today and moved back into my parents basement. I will start back on my PE journey soon. Most likely tonight
 
You are a strong man and believe me, you will get the best woman when you decide to find one. I don't intend going into any relationship for the next 2 to 3 years. This is enough time for me to arrive in my dream size.
 
huge-girth;645831 said:
You are a strong man and believe me, you will get the best woman when you decide to find one. I don't intend going into any relationship for the next 2 to 3 years. This is enough time for me to arrive in my dream size.
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Awesome support my Brother!
 
Thanks guys! That means allot to me. Its hard because I still love her and now I'm feeling the void, but I know we weren't right for each other. I won't go into details here but thats the gist of it. It doesn't help that I'm living at my parents again but it could be a lot worse. I'm too blessed to be stressed. Now I'm just going to focus on becoming the man I want to be and I know eventually I will meet the woman that is right for me. I'm in no hurry though. Once the shock of ending the relationship wears off I'm sure I'll come to enjoy single life and my autonomy again.

05/16/15: Sat
1 hour edging with orgasm
few hours break
3 [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x 20[/words] min hanging SD with LG @ 5 lbs with some jelqing in between

Comments: I meant to do some girth work at the end of the night but my oldest brother came over. I bought an infrared heat lamp at walmart today. So far I really like it. It doesn't heat up the LG tube like a space heater would, it only targets the skin. I got the clear one not sure if I should have bought the red lamp. I kept it on till 5-8 minutes were left on each set and then I turned it off. If heat helps relax the ligaments my theory of turning the heater off during the last couple of minutes is to let the tissues cool down and "harden" up at a longer state.

My now ex recently had facial surgery and was using silicone scar sheets to help heal the scar. While I was unpacking my shit today I found one of her used ones stuck to some cords. This got me thinking that a silicone tape would be perfect for the use of vacuum hanging if the adhesive could stick well enough. With her silicone scar sheets she was able to wash them and reuse them a few times. Silicone is very gentle on the skin which you would need on the penis. Is Elastic but also on the thicker side so it could form and shape the contours of the glans and at the same time give added protection against the vacuum. Well as luck would have it I think I got a free roll of something that is silicone based from a member on thunders. The tape I have is tan in color but after looking online I think its the same thing as MICROFOAM TAPE. I was able to reuse it on my last two sets. I'm using a light weight so more testing will be needed.
 
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longstretch;645885 said:
Thanks guys! That means allot to me. Its hard because I still love her and now I'm feeling the void, but I know we weren't right for each other. I won't go into details here but thats the gist of it. It doesn't help that I'm living at my parents again but it could be a lot worse. I'm too blessed to be stressed. Now I'm just going to focus on becoming the man I want to be and I know eventually I will meet the woman that is right for me. I'm in no hurry though. Once the shock of ending the relationship wears off I'm sure I'll come to enjoy single life and my autonomy again.
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I have to say that the best lesson in life a man can learn is to be comfortable being alone. Becoming friends with yourself and not needing another to validate you in anyway. I have been single for quite awhile and I am just now becoming used to it and it is a great feeling. I know now that I have mastered this I can take on a relationship with a woman without all my old, negative ways that were driven by my own self hate. Learning to love yourself is a very hard thing but worth the effort. Loving another is tough without loving yourself first. I think when you said "I'm too blessed to be stressed" is a wonderful mantra to repeat when you are feeling down. I promise you, if you accomplish these things, your next relationship will be incredible. In the mean time you have the Brotherhood!
 
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