doublelongdaddy;762984 said:These logs always need support, that is a big reason to have a progress thread. Without support men can become discouraged. Support your active user progress threads!
I will give them support like never before.
doublelongdaddy;762984 said:These logs always need support, that is a big reason to have a progress thread. Without support men can become discouraged. Support your active user progress threads!
huge-girth;763083 said:I will give them support like never before.
doublelongdaddy;763126 said:That is great. So many men have logs that are never responded to and really need that support, even if it to say "good job", it matters!
huge-girth;763235 said:Yes you are right. But for me, it got to a certain point I don't even bother about the feedback on my log anymore. I have my eyes and mind, body and soul on January 14th 2019
doublelongdaddy;763307 said:I know you are in this for the long run, commitment is solid, you will get to where you want to be.
huge-girth;763374 said:Those things/people that distracted me from staying consistent in the past, I have chosen to cut them all off and it has been one of the best decisions I made.
doublelongdaddy;763624 said:A clear path from where you are to where you want to be is important. Do not allow any negativity enter your zone. Keep you eyes on the prize as they say!
huge-girth;763732 said:Eyes on the prize
doublelongdaddy;763807 said:Yup. It is much like an erection. In order to keep a good erection there needs to be clear communication between your penis and your brain. When thought start clogging up this highway it becomes a total jam and eq suffers. Dispel the negative thoughts and open up that highway!
doublelongdaddy;763807 said:Yup. It is much like an erection. In order to keep a good erection there needs to be clear communication between your penis and your brain. When thought start clogging up this highway it becomes a total jam and eq suffers. Dispel the negative thoughts and open up that highway!
Big Schwanz Acht;763813 said:five-car pile-up on the turnpike...take the 'detour', lol
doublelongdaddy;763981 said:That is exactly what happens. Men, next time you are having eq issues I guaranty you are obsessing on eq issues. That highway can get clogged, so jump off the highway and take a detour, change those thought and open up the line of communication.
huge-girth;764052 said:Most of the time when I want to do a girth session, it first feels as if I can't get an erection but the moment I start watching adult entertainment and stay focused the erection start coming.
doublelongdaddy;764104 said:I have stayed away from adult entertainment for the most part, when I do feel the need to release I found a video that is called Cock Hero that only shows very R rated stuff. I truly do not feel any guilt in this new approach but I also will not take advantage of this. Like I said I can go a month sometimes, sometimes shorter but I know when I have to as I start to become easily frustrated and angry which leads to much worse wrong than the masturbation as I am mean to people, I am short fused, I will cause many problems for myself and others, these things are for worse than the act of masturbation. I am simply responding to the needs of my body when it becomes apparent.
huge-girth;764178 said:There is no crime in masturbating. Yesterday was my 6 months anniversary in using the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]length master[/words] so I masturbated twice and smoked so much weed. I also didn't do any PE yesterday.
doublelongdaddy;764263 said:There is no crime but there is overindulgence. Just like with all things that are addictive, be careful with frequency.
huge-girth;764317 said:Yes you are right.
doublelongdaddy;764372 said:I was thinking on this last night as I released some stress. We are men and these sexual feeling are very similar to being hungry. We can satisfy the need in a few ways, we can eat a healthy meal when we grow hungry and keep calories at the right place each day but we could also stuff our face with junk food never minding the calories or side effects. The same thing with many things in life including sexuality. We can satisfy this by which ever means is safest (watch something that does not go against your beliefs) and do this when necessary or we can go hog wild on adult entertainment and spend our days masturbating. Anything in life that is a necessity will be fulfilled one way or the other, I like to keep things disciplined so I do not fall into overindulgence.
huge-girth;764433 said:Are there people who spend their days masturbating? I rarely masturbate twice in a day even if I watch the hottest adult entertainment video.
doublelongdaddy;764503 said:How I stay away from adult entertainment is by giving myself permission to watch adult entertainment. A fellow Pastor helped me with this. He said that when the urge comes say to yourself, "I can watch adult entertainment and I can masturbate, but I choose not to right now" This is the exact opposite of Law and will be so much more effective at regulation. It puts me in charge instead of the devil tempting me with what I am not allowed to do, if I am allowed to do it the devil has no foothold.
huge-girth;764550 said:Got your point.
doublelongdaddy;764696 said:It works will other stuff too, it is like psyching yourself out. Very counterintuitive but very powerful. Last night the urge came and I said to myself "I can go watch some adult entertainment and whack off, but I choose not to right now" This puts the mind into a very different place than "I a not allowed" Giving yourself the permissions allows you decide the outcome.