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I struggle to SSJ correctly, and regular jelqing never really brought me results. I hate my penis. Isn't that terrible? To hate my penis?
 
I feel like moderating your post @Spamjavelin76 , just to set you in a better direction. ;)

Don't hate or even dislike your penis! Love yourself and your penis. Appreciate small increments, good functionality. Take a moment to thank for the things that can seem granted.

Practise makes great, keep at it with SSJs. With other jelqing, don't worry too much.
Just stay consistent, write a progress log.

But please, for the sake of your well-being, don't hate your penis!
 
as Ark mentioned, hate becomes toxic if allowed to be unchecked (just look at what's going on in The World), but on a personal level, it can become a cancer and will sabotage all that you strive for. Clear your mind of any negativity, (this is not an easy exercise)...start with something simple like eliminating words like 'no', 'never', 'not' from your speech/writings for an hour (harder than it sounds), then try two hours...then a whole day (you get the idea). Then replace those negative words with positive ones...it's a simple trick of re-phrasing. Once this starts to become natural, you'll look at yourself in a more positive way...that's the first step in gaining.
 
The SSJ takes a bit of time to master but it’s worth every moment because it is the only closed and girth training that exists. The power of the SSJ is unsurpassable. So continue to practice until you master it. I would like to ask you what directions you’re following so I know you’re doing it properly, please let me know.
 
DLD said:
The SSJ takes a bit of time to master but it’s worth every moment because it is the only closed and girth training that exists. The power of the SSJ is unsurpassable. So continue to practice until you master it. I would like to ask you what directions you’re following so I know you’re doing it properly, please let me know.
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I don't have much to go by, what i'm doing is based on a video in which I saw you quickly demonstrate using a dildo. I'm scared of the SSJ, I just can't get past the thought of "This squashing and squeezing can't be good for my peen".
 
If I need anything, it's girth. I'm 6 and a half inches hard, modest by MOS standards, but slightly above statistical average and it's what I was born with. Otherwise? I got nothin'. That's why i get depressed. Does that sound stupid? Yeah. I get depressed because my wang is kinda thin. I've done a ton of jelqing and got nowhere. I swear it got thinner. I want an inch in length and an inch in girth. Surely that should be relatively easy to achieve? Manually, with a Bathmate and a cock ring. I can't be buying more equipment lol.
 
Spamjavelin76 said:
If I need anything, it's girth. I'm 6 and a half inches hard, modest by MOS standards, but slightly above statistical average and it's what I was born with. Otherwise? I got nothin'. That's why i get depressed. Does that sound stupid? Yeah. I get depressed because my wang is kinda thin. I've done a ton of jelqing and got nowhere. I swear it got thinner. I want an inch in length and an inch in girth. Surely that should be relatively easy to achieve? Manually, with a Bathmate and a cock ring. I can't be buying more equipment LOL.
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The SlowSquashJelq will not damage your penis in any way. This exercise I created years ago and there’s never been a report of injury. And the fastest way to gain girth is using the 5×5×3 found in the SRT - Suppressed-Restricted-Transposition Theory. If you have a BathMate you’re all set. Practice the SSJ and master it, it makes jelqing useless.
 
Starting tomorrow, sir! With optimism and belief!
 
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I had sex today. It was awesome but even with 50mg viagra I wasn't 100% steel-hard. Now....I've been working nightshifts lately, I only had 3 hours sleep and hadn't eaten in 15 hours. But usually with viagra I hang splendidly for the rest of the day. Today, though? Mega shrinkage.

Guys, in all seriousness......I'm really fucking scared. What the hell is happening to me? I'm not overweight, my diet is clean, I exercise daily, I smoke but not to excess.....had blood tests and all is perfect. Why have I shrunk, and why am I completely impotent??? My fiancee is stunning, really really sexy. Why can I not get wood??

I'm starting to seriously consider surgery. I can't go on like this. I'm sorry that sounds so melodramatic, but this issue is ruining me.

I need this bathmate to work. And I honestly think I need counselling.
 
Spamjavelin76 said:
I had sex today. It was awesome but even with 50mg viagra I wasn't 100% steel-hard. Now....I've been working nightshifts lately, I only had 3 hours sleep and hadn't eaten in 15 hours. But usually with viagra I hang splendidly for the rest of the day. Today, though? Mega shrinkage.

Guys, in all seriousness......I'm really fucking scared. What the hell is happening to me? I'm not overweight, my diet is clean, I exercise daily, I smoke but not to excess.....had blood tests and all is perfect. Why have I shrunk, and why am I completely impotent??? My fiancee is stunning, really really sexy. Why can I not get wood??

I'm starting to seriously consider surgery. I can't go on like this. I'm sorry that sounds so melodramatic, but this issue is ruining me.

I need this bathmate to work. And I honestly think I need counselling.
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Everyone’s penis shrinks when it’s soft the way to enlarge your penis when it is flaccid is by doing exercises that will make that happen like keeping yourself elongated. The penis needs to learn how to remain a long gated because the natural state of the penis when it is soft is to shrivel.

I think a lot of what you’re going through is mental and obsessive. When something sticks in my head long enough we i start to imagine that it was a is real problem when it may just be psychological. Are you having these problems when you masturbate?
 
I don't masturbate anymore. I have sex 2-3 times a week and that's plenty for me. Having ED makes it pointless anyhoo.
 
DLD said:
Everyone’s penis shrinks when it’s soft the way to enlarge your penis when it is flaccid is by doing exercises that will make that happen like keeping yourself elongated. The penis needs to learn how to remain a long gated
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Stretches help, but it's the girth - or lack of - that's upsetting me. I've always been more grower than a shower, but blood isn't getting in. No morning wood, no nice hang after a hot bath......nada. I used to have a beautiful - if modest - hang. Not any more. This has only been really bad in the last few months, with no good days. I went through this in my early twenties and came out the other side, everything returned to normal but it lasted a few months. It's been about six months this time and no sign of improvement. eally worrying. And worrying doesn't help that kind of problem.

I am obsessed, and upset. I'm hiding all of this from my fiancee, of course, but I'm bordering on neurotic because she's going on vacation. My mind is telling me she loves me, but she's going to get some size while she's away. It's not even that she's not trustworthy - it's just me who's in a really bad place because of what's going on with my dick, and I'm so sorry to come back with all this negativity. I'm in a bad place right now and have nobody to talk to about it. It's gonna be a tough week, but i'm going to be doing PE faithfully and taking steps to change myself.
 
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Spamjavelin76 said:
Stretches help, but it's the girth - or lack of - that's upsetting me. I've always been more grower than a shower, but blood isn't getting in. No morning wood, no nice hang after a hot bath......nada. I used to have a beautiful - if modest - hang. Not any more. This has only been really bad in the last few months, with no good days. I went through this in my early twenties and came out the other side, everything returned to normal but it lasted a few months. It's been about six months this time and no sign of improvement. eally worrying. And worrying doesn't help that kind of problem.

I am obsessed, and upset. I'm hiding all of this from my fiancee, of course, but I'm bordering on neurotic because she's going on vacation. My mind is telling me she loves me, but she's going to get some size while she's away. It's not even that she's not trustworthy - it's just me who's in a really bad place because of what's going on with my dick, and I'm so sorry to come back with all this negativity. I'm in a bad place right now and have nobody to talk to about it. It's gonna be a tough week, but i'm going to be doing PE faithfully and taking steps to change myself.
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You’re really overthinking this and putting yourself into a situation that you don’t need to be in. Can’t know what your wife’s going to do when she goes away, this is just projecting unless you guys have a marriage where you can sleep with other people. Has this issue cause your wife any problems? I’m asking if you’ve experienced this with masturbation because if you do not experience it with masturbation and only when you’re having sex it is most likely in obsessional problem. So is there are times outside of sex where you’re able to get 100% h has this issue cause your wife any problems? I’m asking if you’ve experienced this with masturbation because if you do not experience it with masturbation and only when you’re having sex it is most likely an obsessional problem. So is there are times outside of sex where you’re able to get 100% erect?
 
No. Not recently, as in the last few months. When I met my fiancee, i had sex on viagra to cheat myself a more impressive size. Now I can't get up without it. I can't get hard from watching �naked people movies� or anything else for that matter. I feel a stirring in my loins like blood is trying to flow, and get maybe 50-60% hard on occasions but not enough to penetrate. Have had maybe three or four naturally occurring erections in about a year.

She doesn't know I take Viagra.

We are insanely in love, planning our wedding for October of this year, and both believe in 100% monogamy. I believe her but I doubt my own appeal. That's all. I look at myself and think "I'm a decent guy. Fairly good looking, I make her laugh, treat her well and I know she feels loved. Our sex life is explosive and she regularly tells me I'm the best sex she's ever had. But *I* feel like ai have a small dick, because I compare myself to �naked person� and have ruined my own perception of size. And what woman wouldn't want the chance to sit on a bigger dick once in a while?"

She knows I hate my dick but she tells me I'm insane, and says incredible things about it. Nobody ever complimented a dick the way this girl compliments mine. But she asks me to whip it out a lot and I refuse because I'm small flaccid. She has never once complained or given the impression sex was anything less than fantastic. She says all the right things before, during and after. She has never once faked an orgasm. Physiological proof can't be faked, and you know it when you see it.

Yes. This is upwards of 50% a mental problem on my part. I've felt like this since I was very young. But I will never get over it. I have to grow. Just a inch, Lord. I swear to you, one inch and I will be the happiest man alive. I don't wanna be 8 or 9 x 6. I just want to have something I'm not afraid to get out.
 
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No. Not recently, as in the last few months. When I met my fiancee, i had sex on viagra to cheat myself a more impressive size. Now I can't get up without it. I can't get hard from watching �naked people movies� or anything else for that matter. I feel a stirring in my loins like blood is trying to flow, and get maybe 50-60% hard on occasions but not enough to penetrate. Have had maybe three or four naturally occurring erections in about a year.

She doesn't know I take Viagra.

We are insanely in love, planning our wedding for October of this year, and both believe in 100% monogamy. I believe her but I doubt my own appeal. That's all. I look at myself and think "I'm a decent guy. Fairly good looking, I make her laugh, treat her well and I know she feels loved. Our sex life is explosive and she regularly tells me I'm the best sex she's ever had. But *I* feel like ai have a small dick, because I compare myself to �naked person� and have ruined my own perception of size. And what woman wouldn't want the chance to sit on a bigger dick once in a while?"

She knows I hate my dick but she tells me I'm insane, and says incredible things about it. Nobody ever complimented a dick the way this girl compliments mine. But she asks me to whip it out a lot and I refuse because I'm small flaccid. She has never once complained or given the impression sex was anything less than fantastic. She says all the right things before, during and after. She has never once faked an orgasm. Physiological proof can't be faked, and you know it when you see it.

Yes. This is upwards of 50% a mental problem on my part. I've felt like this since I was very young. But I will never get over it. I have to grow. Just a inch, Lord. I swear to you, one inch and I will be the happiest man alive. I don't wanna be 8 or 9 x 6. I just want to have something I'm not afraid to get out.
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I think that the 50% mental issue may be exasperated by the mental dependency on Viagra. Of course I can’t know exactly how much but even 50% is too much. but if Viagra helps you then there’s absolutely no issue, it’s doing it’s job. You just do not realize you can do it on your own.

I can relate because I became psychologically dependent upon it and I went off it for a few months just to prove that I was not dependent. It took a little while but eventually I realized I didn’t need the Viagra at all. So don’t worry too much on that.

I also think what you’re projecting from her mind I think he is probably off. Most people who are planning their wedding and are in love don’t go out for a bigger cock ? you’re worrying way too much.

Your Christian so you obviously understand that “ask and you shall receive” and if you believe it and it is righteous the Lord will deliver it. I think what you’re aiming for is easy! I made a 2 inch gain in six months, If I can do that you can easily do what you want to do. always ask God for those things you want and believe with all your heart and mind and body and soul and they shall be delivered.

How to get there is through using the best methods available. SRT delivers the fastest possible results and has been proven over and over again to be the best workout. Have a read through on SRT and let me know what you think. I can help you put a routine together to make it all happen, just let me know.

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Thank you so much for the much-needed inspirational post, my brother! Fortunately it's not always going to be doom and gloom with me - had a fabulous session with the Bathmate a little while ago and getting unreal expansion. I did the way you recommended, 3x5 with SSJs in between, and maintained a great hang much longer afterward. My cock is a little bit purple and sore though - so I need to pull back just a tad on the pressure. I do not want discoloration or the donut. Such a same there's no gauge on these.
 
Spamjavelin76 said:
Thank you so much for the much-needed inspirational post, my brother! Fortunately it's not always going to be doom and gloom with me - had a fabulous session with the Bathmate a little while ago and getting unreal expansion. I did the way you recommended, 3x5 with SSJs in between, and maintained a great hang much longer afterward. My cock is a little bit purple and sore though - so I need to pull back just a tad on the pressure. I do not want discoloration or the donut. Such a same there's no gauge on these.
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You are so welcome my Brother! I understand your cautious and that is smart. Increase time/intensity when you are ready. I am glad it’s not all bad and knowing your getting the Girth program (SRT 5x5x3) in and mastering is more good news.

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...try entering the Bathmate cylinder with the highest EQ as possible and maintain it throughout each 5 minute leg
 
I pretty much did that today and my cock came out like a fucking soda bottle. Never seen it look like that before. I was so happy!! I need to persevere with this if there is ANY chance of that becoming permanent. It was all fluid retention but wow, I felt amazing. Sore, but amazing.
 
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