Thanks dld for making my thread a sticky one. This is so inspiring and motivating. I'm still waiting for my body to go back to normal. I've checked my diet and found nothing wrong. Is there any suggestion that can be given to me concerning my problem? I appreciate
 
huge-girth;743834 said:
Thanks dld for making my thread a sticky one. This is so inspiring and motivating. I'm still waiting for my body to go back to normal. I've checked my diet and found nothing wrong. Is there any suggestion that can be given to me concerning my problem? I appreciate

You are welcome but I did not stick it? It must have been Lightning....
 
Big Schwanz Acht;743935 said:
Lightening seems to like making things sticky

I guess so, I have not been able to get in touch with him. Unless it is a mod I am clueless.
 
After taking a long break, I did my girth workout again and hard similar problem of ejaculating but this time I was inside the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words]. Now I've come to the conclusion that this has everything to do with my diet. I've been taking too much sugar daily. I'm feeling heart broken from the way my girl treated me and I don't know if the stress from the heart break is another contributing factor. I've stopped taking sugar starting from yesterday and I am also looking for a way to take out carbs from my diet too. Can anyone tell if stress is a contributing factor to this problem?
 
Hey Huge, I'm truly sorry about your relationship...in time I'm sure you'll find the clarity necessary to heal and move-on, but right now I can only imagine how fully-encompassing it must be.
The short answer to stress/diet/emotions/exercise/alcohol/tobacco/pot/drugs/sugar/caffeine/adult entertainment/everything affecting the delicate balances within your brain/body...it ALL matters (just some more than others depending upon your personal sensitivities).

I'd suggest getting out and doing something that you love to do...for yourself. Force yourself if you have to. It's easy to hunker-down (especially this time of year) and wallow...I say do the exact opposite. You're in-charge of how you feel, take the wheel and make it happen!
 
Heatbreak is so hard and sad, I know from very hard experience. What I can tell you is heartbreak has no cure but time. You need to start doing things for yourself, start to love the person you are or this will turn on you and you will end up in an endless cycle of obsession and 'should of, could have would have' thoughts. For me, learning to live with myself alone was the best thing I have ever done for myself. Once I learned to live alone I learned to love myself. Every man should experience independence and self exploration to find himself and love himself. Once we love ourselves we are able to love others. Diet could have an impact as many other things, as BSA said. Avoid things that will replace your sadness, deal with emotions head on and never bury them as they will yield their ugly head in terrible ways. Things like drugs and alcohol will make things much worse, stay clear! In general, taking care of yourself or even bettering yourself is the fastest way to recovery. Do not bounce back into something new right away, learn to live with you first.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;746135 said:
Hey Huge, I'm truly sorry about your relationship...in time I'm sure you'll find the clarity necessary to heal and move-on, but right now I can only imagine how fully-encompassing it must be.
The short answer to stress/diet/emotions/exercise/alcohol/tobacco/pot/drugs/sugar/caffeine/adult entertainment/everything affecting the delicate balances within your brain/body...it ALL matters (just some more than others depending upon your personal sensitivities).

I'd suggest getting out and doing something that you love to do...for yourself. Force yourself if you have to. It's easy to hunker-down (especially this time of year) and wallow...I say do the exact opposite. You're in-charge of how you feel, take the wheel and make it happen!

I must admit that I've been taking excessive sugar during the time I was training. From the second week, I was consuming a minimum of 8 cubes of sugar daily so I believe this is where the problem came from. I just stopped taking sugar yesterday. I want to avoid taking sugar and see what will be my situation in 3 weeks time. I don't know if this has anything to do with my emotions but I will also work on my emotions too. I believe that if I can avoid sugar for 21 days, there would be some improvement. I will keep you guys informed.
 
doublelongdaddy;746141 said:
Heatbreak is so hard and sad, I know from very hard experience. What I can tell you is heartbreak has no cure but time. You need to start doing things for yourself, start to love the person you are or this will turn on you and you will end up in an endless cycle of obsession and 'should of, could have would have' thoughts. For me, learning to live with myself alone was the best thing I have ever done for myself. Once I learned to live alone I learned to love myself. Every man should experience independence and self exploration to find himself and love himself. Once we love ourselves we are able to love others. Diet could have an impact as many other things, as BSA said. Avoid things that will replace your sadness, deal with emotions head on and never bury them as they will yield their ugly head in terrible ways. Things like drugs and alcohol will make things much worse, stay clear! In general, taking care of yourself or even bettering yourself is the fastest way to recovery. Do not bounce back into something new right away, learn to live with you first.


I'm staying clear off alcohol boss, I believe it might be a contributing factor. As for drugs, I only smoke weed but I've stopped smoking for about 2 weeks now. I really hope I can conquer this ejaculation problem, it's so strange and annoying.
 
Sorry to hear about the relationship problem HG. I agree with what others have posted saying you need to get out and do something you enjoy. This may not be the total solution but it will give you some time where it is not weighing heavily on your thoughts. I would tend to think that stress would have the opposite effect but everyone is different so anything is possible. One good thing you have going for you is the support of the brothers here at [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] and we are all here should you need us
 
huge-girth;746216 said:
I'm staying clear off alcohol boss, I believe it might be a contributing factor. As for drugs, I only smoke weed but I've stopped smoking for about 2 weeks now. I really hope I can conquer this ejaculation problem, it's so strange and annoying.

Why stop the Cannabis? That is the best thing you can do in this situation, a proper strain will truly alleviate much of your suffering and allow you to go forward with that awesome knowledge from the Spirit? Does Cannabis cause issues for you? I use Cannabis daily for my prayers at night, I do not use outside of a spiritual manner. Cannabis is a huge help to me and that is why I advocate so much for it.
 
doublelongdaddy;746245 said:
Why stop the Cannabis? That is the best thing you can do in this situation, a proper strain will truly alleviate much of your suffering and allow you to go forward with that awesome knowledge from the Spirit? Does Cannabis cause issues for you? I use Cannabis daily for my prayers at night, I do not use outside of a spiritual manner. Cannabis is a huge help to me and that is why I advocate so much for it.

Cannabis gives me all the benefits you mentioned. It also helps me forget about the heart break but the only problem I have is that I'm unable to control my appetite. It makes me eat like a glutton.
 
doublelongdaddy;746245 said:
Why stop the Cannabis? That is the best thing you can do in this situation, a proper strain will truly alleviate much of your suffering and allow you to go forward with that awesome knowledge from the Spirit? Does Cannabis cause issues for you? I use Cannabis daily for my prayers at night, I do not use outside of a spiritual manner. Cannabis is a huge help to me and that is why I advocate so much for it.

I can't do cannabis, fucks me up too much. I have a very active, busy mind as it is. If I toke up, that accelerates exponentially, and I end up being totally paranoid and almost panicking. Had a friend recommend some cannabis oil for sleep, as I have problems with insomnia. Took a very small amount and went to bed. I fell asleep, but woke in about 2 hours. I sat up in bed and said, "oh no!" I was stoned out of my mind. I went to play on my computer to try and distract myself, but I was "rushing" like crazy. It almost felt like my heart was racing. But then I checked, and it was! About 120 BPM. I paced the house for over 3 hours and thought I was going to die, although I knew that was not likely. Pot may relax some people, and some people use it for spiritual exploration. Me? It just fucks me up royally. And the strain doesn't matter. They all do it.
 
Ever since I had this heart break and stopped smoking marijuana, I've been having insomnia and some sort of anxiety mixed with depression. Maybe this is the major cause of the premature ejaculation during girth work.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;746305 said:
I hated being high back in Hi School and that was 40 years ago...I couldn't imagine giving today's 'bud' a try (I'd be in a corner sucking my thumb)

I thought you are a young dude. You should be over 50 now aren't you? Such a big inspiration if you ask me.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;746305 said:
I hated being high back in Hi School and that was 40 years ago...I couldn't imagine giving today's 'bud' a try (I'd be in a corner sucking my thumb)

I'm with you on that, BSA. We're pretty much the same age far as I can gather. The pot back then was manageable. Today it is exponentially more powerful. 2 tokes and I spend the next 2 hours regretting it. I talked to guy recently who smoked such potent weed one time that he drove himself to the hospital thinking he was having a heart attack. And he was an experienced smoker, and works in a dispensary in town.
 
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