Alrighty, after 2 days and several hours, I have read this entire thread. It has great significance for me in my personal life. I am white, and the "__________" complex shaped my life and set me on the road to Penis Enlargement. I want to share my story about how the "black is bigger" myth (and I don't think it's a myth) affected my life.
I was married at the age of 18, over 40 years ago. I had no __________ complex back then for the simple fact there were no black people where I lived. My young wife and I had been married about a year when her sister, whom I'd never met, came up from Las Vegas for a visit. She was a bit of a party animal, worked as a prostitute, and ONLY dated black men. She got to talking with my wife (her sister) and brainwashing her into thinking that she was really missing out, being married to some guy who works in a factory. And she told her how black guys were so hip, and that they had huge penises. Within a month after her visit, my wife told me she was leaving, because she needed to "get out" and experience life. She packed a suitcase, walked down to the highway, stuck out her thumb and was gone. She moved in with her sister in a city about 200 miles from where we lived. In less than a week, she told me on the phone that she had gone home with a black man playing in a band in a local disco bar (disco was all the rage back then.) I was kind of sarcastic and said, "I guess he was really big, right." And she said "He was really thick!" Then I said, knowing from her sister that black men have a reputation for great sexual endurance, "I bet he screwed you for 2 solid hours" to which she replied, "More!" Bitch! Shortly after that she was shacked up with a black man in a town where the number of black men could be numbered on one hand with 2 fingers left. I corned that guy a couple weeks later and threated to break every bone in his body, but my now ex-wife told me she would never speak to me again if I hurt him. But I guess my point is that she went hunting specifically for a black man. I continued to work in my factory where my whole shift, consisting of about 25 men, would all hit the showers at the same time. Most seemed relatively close in size, but there were a couple who were quite large. But there were no black men for me to take notice of. But one day, while going through a different plant, I went past the showers and noticed a naked black man in the shower, alone with his back to me. I stood there wondering, "Is it true," and waited for him to turn around. Well, when he did my jaw almost hit the floor. This guy had to be at least 8" flaccid, maybe more. Definitely larger than anyone I'd seen before. Since that time, the only black man I'd ever seen naked was in a gym in a nearby city. Several nude men in the shower, but he was the only black guy. When he turned around, I was presented with the thickest cock I'd ever seen. Maybe 7" girth.
Flash forward a couple years later. I won't go into the details but my ex and I had reconciled (we've long been divorced at the present). Her sister once again was down for a visit and was talking about black men. She really liked this black guy in Vegas, as he was "so cool." But, she said sadly, "He is only 6". How heartbreaking! Then she went on to talk about this other black guy she had a couple rolls in the sack with. Said he was 14". I pulled a long English cuke out of the fridge and she said, "he was just like that, no bullshit!" I asked her if she could take it all and she said, "no, about 4-5 inches just couldn't fit."
Well, this was some 30 or more years ago. I've had a complex about my penis size my entire life as a result, spending thousands of dollars on every PE contraption ever designed, and so much time trying to enlarge my penis that if I had used that time in other ways, I could have been a world class brain surgeon or whatever. Now here I am, in my early 60's, still trying to get bigger. I have never felt confident about my size or skill in decades and it has put a damper on my entire adult sex life. One other thing I'd like to point out, as this thread was basically, at least in the beginning, about whether or not Black men, on average, were bigger than other races.
The town I grew up in here in Canada had no black people. But for the past 20 years I've lived in a larger city that has grown rapidly. Although still predominantly white, there are a significant number of black people here now. Over the years, I have seen dozens of interracial black/white couples. But I have never, ever seen one where the woman was black. Not one. Ever. It seems obvious to me that white women, at least up here, pursue black men, and that the reverse, black women pursuing white men, is non-existent. Not here anyways.
So, in short, and to sum it up: I've only seen 2 black men naked, and both had bigger dicks than the dozens of white men I've seen. Could be an extraordinary coincidence, but I doubt it. And the fact that every single black/white couple I have ever seen in 20 years is the same: Black man, white woman.
That's gotta tell you something.
