Does Having a bigger dick make you more attractive?... I think so? Here's my reasoning...

jekyllnhyde360 said:
I've heard that sooo many times and I think its fucking retarded. Why would I want to put in the energy, pain and time, to grow my dick if it has zero relevance to anyone but myself... seriously, this new age delusion of the actualized self is garbage... FACT we do things for outward validation, there's literally zero pleasure that comes from having a big dick if it's completely irrelevant to your sexual climate/partner. if there was no value in having a bigger dick, few men, if any would bother.
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In my POV, you're either overcomplicating, or oversimplifying this. Yes, we do things for outward validation TOO, but if that doesn't bring you self validation, you'll end up throwing it all away or doing things with the wrong mindset (which may lead to wrong decisions, and so on). If you work on having a big dick solely to impress others and you, yourself, do not feel impressed at all (and I do mean zero personal satisfaction from it), you will never reap one of the greatest benefits of enlarging your dick, which is an increase in self confidence.
Self confidence is like a cold war on the verge of becoming a full blown massacre. If you're not confident in your arsenal, you've already lost the battle even before it starts.
Ultimately, self confidence = self preservation (yes, I took a quantum leap here, but I'm sure you'll understand). So, any boost you can get for self confidence is a boost in your self preservation abilities. That is part of the whole infamous "Big Dick Energy" concept.
Look at it the other way. If you have a big dick but feel terrible about it, you might as well forget about outward validation. So, yes, we do need to do it for ourselves.
 
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I was expecting it all out brawl LOL I was hoping we would have some MMA action going on ?

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stillwantmore said:
I think more often than not, it's personality vs what's in your pants. An upbeat, not necessarily the "center of attention", but happy and welcoming personality is more magnetic. A lot of guys (been guilty of it too in the past) get it wrong. They think they need magic pick up lines, tricks, to be "cocky", or "edgy" etc. That all works for a slim minority, and a few of those guys unfortunately took advantage of it working for THEM and then wrote a book about it, or started a YouTube series about it and now we have a sub generation of guys thinking well, it worked for them, it just might for me.

The main focus for attractiveness should be what has been attractive since the beginning of human relationships. Work on the things that make you attractive toward the type of partner you are looking for. A better personality, a better paying job, a nicer car, a cute dog, borrow someone's kid (single dad's are really hot to some), whatever.

If all else fails, maybe your standards are too high and you need a reality check. Sometimes the "type" of partner you think you're after isn't right for you. Often, that takes trial and error.
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Wonderful advice
 
REDZULU2003 said:
Has anyone tried the bulge enhancement method I posted a few pages back?
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I'm very self conscious, and prefer not to accentuate my package. For me, it is very embarrassing and uncomfortable to have people looking at me unless engaged in conversation.

I remember when I was a child, and these guys would wear their tight jeans in a public place while obviously sporting a cock ring. I would just be thinking, "really dude?". Lmfao, scar the minds of elementary school children much? Hehehe
 
DLD said:
Not a problem my brother. And you’re right every brother here should be doing this exercise just for safety precautions never mind the incredible hang it gives you.
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I will start doing it daily starting from tonight.
 
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huge-girth said:
I will start doing it daily starting from tonight.
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Let me know the results you’re having my man I’m sure you’re going to be very pleased
 
savageblue said:
In my POV, you're either overcomplicating, or oversimplifying this. Yes, we do things for outward validation TOO, but if that doesn't bring you self validation, you'll end up throwing it all away or doing things with the wrong mindset (which may lead to wrong decisions, and so on). If you work on having a big dick solely to impress others and you, yourself, do not feel impressed at all (and I do mean zero personal satisfaction from it), you will never reap one of the greatest benefits of enlarging your dick, which is an increase in self confidence.
Self confidence is like a cold war on the verge of becoming a full blown massacre. If you're not confident in your arsenal, you've already lost the battle even before it starts.
Ultimately, self confidence = self preservation (yes, I took a quantum leap here, but I'm sure you'll understand). So, any boost you can get for self confidence is a boost in your self preservation abilities. That is part of the whole infamous "Big Dick Energy" concept.
Look at it the other way. If you have a big dick but feel terrible about it, you might as well forget about outward validation. So, yes, we do need to do it for ourselves.
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No! you're overcomplicating this with a thousand reason other than reality, which is, I want a big dick because it makes me fell better/more confident, because having a big dick is of value... if it wasn't I wouldn't bother, and it wouldn't make me feel better, because it would have ZERO impact on my life. smh
 
DLD said:
Let me know the results you’re having my man I’m sure you’re going to be very pleased
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Is it mandatory to use a lubricant for it? Can't I just do the testicle massage like that as long as my balls sack is loose enough?

I'm asking this question because I don't masturbate anymore so I don't want to bring any lubricant close to my dick when I'm not working on girth.
 
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huge-girth said:
Is it mandatory to use a lubricant for it? Can't I just do the testicle massage like that as long as my balls sack is loose enough?

I'm asking this question because I don't masturbate anymore so I don't want to bring any lubricant close to my dick when I'm not working on girth.
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You do not need to use a lubricant as long as you can relax the scrotum enough.
 
DLD said:
You do not need to use a lubricant as long as you can relax the scrotum enough.
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Okay now I think I can do the exercise. My balls sack is always loose at night time right before going to bed.
 
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jekyllnhyde360 said:
i disagree, completely with the ''in our heads''... it's not, and frankly i'm beginning to think we have a bunch of male feminist philosophy teachers running a PE site. Like i said, i have personal experience, i have numerous forum write-ups of women talking about how it attracts them, and there are literally videos on youtube of women talking about checking for the bulge and how it raises the man's appeal... seriously don't get whats so hard to understand about this...
thoughtcatalog.com

64 Girls Confess The First Thing They Check Out On A Guy

“Literally every girl checks out your package. You can usually see a bulge in the pants. We look. A lot.”
thoughtcatalog.com thoughtcatalog.com
www.rebelcircus.com

Modern-Day Women Are Obsessed with the Bulge: Here’s Why!

Women are being caught ogling a man’s bulge much more often and they are not trying to hide it, but why? Science has an explanation.
www.rebelcircus.com www.rebelcircus.com

Size Does Matter: Women Find Large Penises More Attractive - "We've found that penis size did influence a man's sex appeal, and it was just as important as height, which is a well-known factor in male attractiveness."
www.buzzfeed.com

Gray Sweatpants Are The Most Important Things A Man Can Wear

<b>Gray sweats.</b> Tank top. Fresh cut. Have mercy.
www.buzzfeed.com www.buzzfeed.com

Penis Psychology Expert Explains What Makes Big Dick Energy a Real Thing - i just threw this one in because i think it's a good read on the psychological effects having a big dick can make a man more confident, and men who were born packing tend to be more confident in overall situations, even though they may have never realized this.
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I don’t believe that his point of view is 100% accurate either...some women may fall into that description, others won’t but I think a large percentage of women like big dick and covet it, whether in their fantasies or in life...

However, Jackxxx believes it totally and I respect that. And to be fair, it’s difficult to fault his reasoning!

I would say that much if the ���� for women, purportedly (I say purportedly because who knows anymore...it may just be a marketing scheme...) made by women will have ripped up hung men as a focal point...
 
Y'all overcomplicating this.
Women look, check out, value a package just like we look at titties. But when you see a really pretty girl, or if you come across a girl with the most wonderful personality in the world, will you judge her by the size of her titties? NO. Of course, maybe you like em huge, or you like em flat, or you like big nipples, etc., but ultimately you will accept a partner as a whole.

With the dick is the same. As longs is average to provide proper pleasure to your partner, there is a lot more into it. True, she might fantasize with a big one but it doesnt mean he whole life purpose and quest it to walk this planet in search for a man with a gigantic tunica albuginea that can destroy her uterus.

This is similar to bodybuilding. When you haven't workout ever in your life, you dream to have the body of a Calvin Klein model. After a few years of working out and looking like a model, you look at yourself in the mirror and is not enough. You wanna grow and look like some athlete you saw in a magazine. If you ask a girl, you have an awesome physique but you wanna keep going. Similar thing happens with our dick,
 
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