How a Positive Stereotype can be BAD.

Egghead1 · Jul 22, 2018

This topic has been discussed many times here at MoS and also on other PE forums but I just heard it on a podcast about 30 min ago AND it came up while talking to my woman a couple of days ago. I listen to the Joe Rogan podcast almost daily and every now and then he brings up the all black guys have big dicks thing and most of the time it's just funny but today he was talking to Joey Diaz about how he thinks that is a positive stereotype and that no black guy really complains about it...

It angers me to hear people say this about that stupid fking stereotype. It haunted me so much when I was younger being a black man myself. Isn't that crazy? A positive stereotype like that scared the fuck out of me and made me feel like shit and insecure. Someone pulling down your pants expecting one thing and getting something else. God damnit that stereotype pisses me off so much. I guess you could argue that my starting stats are larger than average... but I'm telling you right now, at the height and weight that I am my hands could hide my entire erect penis so it was like holding a pencil. I'm just had to vent that out. I know this is the same topic that gets beaten like a dead horse. 😣 Just living on that shadow made me keep my pants on until I was almost 20 and passed up opportunities with women to the point where they started questioning my sexuality.

Btw I don't post very often anymore but I still creep on you guys 🤗. I've made gains being consistent over the past year but I'm being stubborn and not editing my signature yet 😁

Big86 · Jul 22, 2018

Egghed;764824 said:
This topic has been discussed many times here at MoS and also on other PE forums but I just heard it on a podcast about 30 min ago AND it came up while talking to my woman a couple of days ago. I listen to the Joe Rogan podcast almost daily and every now and then he brings up the all black guys have big dicks thing and most of the time it's just funny but today he was talking to Joey Diaz about how he thinks that is a positive stereotype and that no black guy really complains about it...

It angers me to hear people say this about that stupid fking stereotype. It haunted me so much when I was younger being a black man myself. Isn't that crazy? A positive stereotype like that scared the fuck out of me and made me feel like shit and insecure. Someone pulling down your pants expecting one thing and getting something else. God damnit that stereotype pisses me off so much. I guess you could argue that my starting stats are larger than average... but I'm telling you right now, at the height and weight that I am my hands could hide my entire erect penis so it was like holding a pencil. I'm just had to vent that out. I know this is the same topic that gets beaten like a dead horse. 😣 Just living on that shadow made me keep my pants on until I was almost 20 and passed up opportunities with women to the point where they started questioning my sexuality.

Btw I don't post very often anymore but I still creep on you guys 🤗. I've made gains being consistent over the past year but I'm being stubborn and not editing my signature yet 😁

Big86 · Jul 22, 2018

Yeah I hate that stereotype,even though I’m starting out at 7.5x5.2 I feel like women are expecting a 9x6.5 just because of the stereotype.

huge-girth · Jul 23, 2018

Big86;764826 said:
Yeah I hate that stereotype,even though I’m starting out at 7.5x5.2 I feel like women are expecting a 9x6.5 just because of the stereotype.

I'm going to get that 9 inches length and 7 inches girth.

arkailija · Jul 23, 2018

It truly is a conundrum! While there is certain positivity to the stereotype, you Egghead, wrote very clearly that it can work against black men. Several studies have found black men to be hung more prominently, but in the end we're more or less individuals.

I am hoping that this vent and time has made you more open and that you're able to conquer many women if you so wish!

And it is good that you creep around.

I raise my glass for you to get to your goals!

Just a quick sum up; Stereotypes, positive or negative, are often "wrong" way to look at the world. Certain stereotypes can be a survival mechanism in this world, that is to my understanding why there are stereotypes; to save time.

stillwantmore · Jul 23, 2018

Yea, I hear ya. Back in the day when I was younger and single/dating I recall having a girl say "damn, are you part BLACK?". I hope we can all move past stereotypes in general as a species one day and just learn to appreciate each other for being fellow humans.

DLD · Jul 23, 2018

stillwantmore2;764853 said:
Yea, I hear ya. Back in the day when I was younger and single/dating I recall having a girl say "damn, are you part BLACK?". I hope we can all move past stereotypes in general as a species one day and just learn to appreciate each other for being fellow humans.

Big Schwanz Acht · Jul 23, 2018

All of these racial biases aren't going away anytime soon, so it's best we maintain our focus and dispel each stereotype on an individual level. I can only imagine how a smaller than average black man feels in society today...truly unfair (but I've experienced almost unilaterally the perpetuation of The Black Myth within The AA Community, so...)

huge-girth · Jul 24, 2018

Big Schwanz Acht;764901 said:
All of these racial biases aren't going away anytime soon, so it's best we maintain our focus and dispel each stereotype on an individual level. I can only imagine how a smaller than average black man feels in society today...truly unfair (but I've experienced almost unilaterally the perpetuation of The Black Myth within The AA Community, so...)

I used to be that man until 2013.

DLD · Jul 24, 2018

Big Schwanz Acht;764901 said:
All of these racial biases aren't going away anytime soon, so it's best we maintain our focus and dispel each stereotype on an individual level. I can only imagine how a smaller than average black man feels in society today...truly unfair (but I've experienced almost unilaterally the perpetuation of The Black Myth within The AA Community, so...)

Myths never go away, that is why they are myths. A myth does not denote a truth though, it simply gives a story that has been passed down for a long time.

Chaoskampf · Jul 26, 2018

doublelongdaddy;765015 said:
Myths never go away, that is why they are myths. A myth does not denote a truth though, it simply gives a story that has been passed down for a long time.

But myths also do derive from archetypes deeply rooted within our psyche. For example the myth of the dragonslayer. A mighty warrior who slays a serpent or dragon in order to win the heart of a woman or to understand the sounds of nature. This talks about how humans are able to transcend to higher states of consciousness by destroying illusionary self identifications.

By the way it is interesting how this dragonslayer myth is related to sex: The energy which sleeps in our root chakra is supposed to be awakened so that it goes up our spine to reach the head. This energy is a dragon in a sense. Also the penis is easily related to a snake. With a little bit of fantasy these things start to make some sense. However our modern perception of the world is very mental so it is not easy to understand these things. Others say that the myths are supposed to bypass the mental faculties so that they will be sucked up by a deeper intelligence within us - they achieve that best if the mind doesn't understand them so it can't filter.

I still would say that, on average, black people are more connected to their body whereas white people are more connected to their mind. If you are connected more to the body then the energy lies more in the root chakra and it would make sense to be better equipped.

DLD · Jul 26, 2018

Egghed;764824 said:
Btw I don't post very often anymore but I still creep on you guys 🤗. I've made gains being consistent over the past year but I'm being stubborn and not editing my signature yet 😁

#Egghed creep up on us with a huge gain, please!

Big Schwanz Acht · Jul 26, 2018

Chaoskampf;765147 said:
But myths also do derive from archetypes deeply rooted within our psyche. For example the myth of the dragonslayer. A mighty warrior who slays a serpent or dragon in order to win the heart of a woman or to understand the sounds of nature. This talks about how humans are able to transcend to higher states of consciousness by destroying illusionary self identifications.

By the way it is interesting how this dragonslayer myth is related to sex: The energy which sleeps in our root chakra is supposed to be awakened so that it goes up our spine to reach the head. This energy is a dragon in a sense. Also the penis is easily related to a snake. With a little bit of fantasy these things start to make some sense. However our modern perception of the world is very mental so it is not easy to understand these things. Others say that the myths are supposed to bypass the mental faculties so that they will be sucked up by a deeper intelligence within us - they achieve that best if the mind doesn't understand them so it can't filter.

I still would say that, on average, black people are more connected to their body whereas white people are more connected to their mind. If you are connected more to the body then the energy lies more in the root chakra and it would make sense to be better equipped.

interesting take on mythology and how logic/science can take us further from the sub-conscious

cladre60 · Jul 26, 2018

Stereotypes may be why you don't see a lot of Asian men with white and black women. The assumption is that they're all small.

Many people also believe that body size indicates penis size. I'm sure that's hurt me before as I'm 5'6" and women have thought the taller guy would have a larger penis for a good 1 night stand.

Stereotypes and prejudices will always exist at least in our lifetimes. I try very hard not to judge people by their looks but it still happens and we all do it. We need to teach our children to not judge and hope they teach their children too. We could eliminate all of it within the next 2 generations that way.

DLD · Jul 26, 2018

The cold hard to swallow truth!

huge-girth · Jul 27, 2018

doublelongdaddy;765015 said:
Myths never go away, that is why they are myths. A myth does not denote a truth though, it simply gives a story that has been passed down for a long time.

Maybe to some extent the myth might no longer affect those of us on MOS because we know the truth.

Big Schwanz Acht · Jul 27, 2018

cladre60;765875 said:
We need to teach our children to not judge and hope they teach their children too. We could eliminate all of it within the next 2 generations that way.

...or we could build a wall

DLD · Jul 27, 2018

It all starts with the parents. If you do the right thing and set a stellar example for your child they will follow. My Son was taught to work everyday, never take a hand out, bust your ass and make a life for yourself. Today He is 23 with 2 kids 2 houses and 2 cars. He runs His own printing company and is the best Fathers I have even known. His children will b brought up the same way. Fuck the schools, all of my children were and will be homeschooled. I do not trust society and the teachers of these awful schools teaching children fucked up values, No, I will not risk it. My Son did just fine so will my Grandsons.

cladre60 · Jul 27, 2018

Big Schwanz Acht;765941 said:
...or we could build a wall

A circular wall. Put all the dems wasting taxpayers money on a failed witch hunt in (Mueller first) and flood it. At this point I'm more pissed about the waste of money than if they even find anything.

huge-girth · Jul 28, 2018

doublelongdaddy;765959 said:
It all starts with the parents. If you do the right thing and set a stellar example for your child they will follow. My Son was taught to work everyday, never take a hand out, bust your ass and make a life for yourself. Today He is 23 with 2 kids 2 houses and 2 cars. He runs His own printing company and is the best Fathers I have even known. His children will b brought up the same way. Fuck the schools, all of my children were and will be homeschooled. I do not trust society and the teachers of these awful schools teaching children fucked up values, No, I will not risk it. My Son did just fine so will my Grandsons.

I know a few people in my country who refused to allow their children go to school but instead schooled them at home. We learn so many negative things in school, I can attest to that fact.

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