If you have venous leak, then you have to take a doppler test at the urologists, and talk to him regarding operations or just treat it with viagra or pumping. I think I am bit like you (please don't get offended),thinking that I will find an answer here at this site, for why I have this ED. If you have damage, then you have damage, be it tissue, nerves, or venous leaks. I will just have to take all the tests, including one for the nerves, if they have one, and take it from there. The point is: I have gained in flacccid length, but my erections are so shitty now, that the question is, will I have to do some kind Penis Enlargement, be it pumping, jelqing etc, for life? I just started with Penis Enlargement, because I was embarresed with flaccid length, errections wise it was fine, meaning; girls came back to me to have more sex, and there I was, obsessing with my flaccid, since I am/ was an extreme grower. I read about Pandoras plaque theory, but again, why would I, have the same kind of plaque in my arteries, as an old man? Doesn't make any sense to me, but then again, I could try B.T.B jelqs, if all the tests comes out fine. I may sound negative here, but when you have spongy erection for two months, then it is probably to some degree permanent damage. Now, I still want to have a healthy sex life, an I guess you also do, so I think I am more or less are going to face that I have ED, find a nice partner, and take it from there, be it cock rings, viagra, pumping whatever... If anyone, wants to comment here, please do, but it doesn't look that good for me. Remember, I have no idea, how I got this, except from two bad stretches, tough luck for me..But at least I'm not that depressed anymore, there are more to life than size and erections, and in the end if a woman falls in love with you, she will probably understand that you have a handicap, and things may not be in tip top shape down there, and if they don't, then adios, bye bye... We are still men here, remember that.