I didn't mean it as a dig, I understand everyone has their own view on women and I fully appreciate your perspective and I do agree with a lot of it, I have trusted women and been cheated on and it sucks, but to be fair that experience made me stronger. In any relationship there's a chance one of you could cheat, if my gf cheats then I pick myself up and move on. The key for me is not never letting a women get close to you in fear that she may cheat but more having the self respect that if you are with a girl and it sadly happens you know you are worth more than that and you move on.
The whole, all women want big hung dicks of course is true, but from a lot of what you have posted you really seem to have a deluded idea how how rare they see one. Most women you personally have been with Mike (from your stats) will find you to be the biggest they have had, if (on the rare occasion) not, easily within the top tier. Whether you choose to believe that or not is up to you but it's FACT. That's why these size charts are important and valid, guys lie about size and women cannot measure, these charts give you factual information on what most people are packing.
For me I feel women are a lot more attracted to confidence rather than dick size. They both just sometimes come hand in hand, any guy who is genuinely hung will probably try and whip it out whenever he can so women can see it, now yes women will want to know what a big cock feels like but a lot of them will be massively turned on by just the share confidence of a guy openly getting his cock out or talking about his cock so openly, make sense?
I have a friend that always gets his cock out, I'm talking he will go up to girls in a club with his dick
hanging out. I shit you not he walks up to tables of hot girls and puts his dick on their shoulder. Now he is not hung, he's rocking a 6" give or take and he tells every girl he has a small dick. His gets so much ass it's unreal, Ive spoke to women he's fucked and a lot of what they say is they just loved his confidence and could see he is very happy with himself and his self image, which was a huge turn on for them.
Imagine a women had two guys, one rocking a 8x6 but extremely nervous in the bedroom, could take not take control, had no confidence and just kept asking her needy questions (generally a bad lover). Then you have a guy with a 6x5 but huge self confidence, will take full control in the bedroom, will tell her what he wants and will smash her to high heaven. If she fucked them both, I do genuinely believe, if we based it on the whole experience she would enjoy it with the average guy more.
Anyway that's just my opinion.