tbone77;492429 said:
if you're gonna go with the "i don't give a fuck" approach, you really have to not give a fuck. otherwise your cover is blown, and instead of being alpha, you look like you don't know who you are. and that will get you no where. and there's nothing wrong with being a "nice" guy as much as we all hate the phrase....you just can't be a push over. women like men who are men, and that has absolutely nothing to do with the size of your cock.
True, guys really have to find a way to be less needy and appreciate what they have and their unique position as a men. I'm not needy because I truly don't care, of course I was having sex with other women whenever I wanted. I don't fall for the relationship scam.
Objectively speaking, women are basically weak little men who have trouble thinking clearly and who's main asset in life is a wet hole between their legs that is in demand for a very short window of time. They are good for making babies and spending all your money but if you want a good conversation or personality chances are you're better off talking to another guy. I know you want a beautiful woman with D cup knockers who is also an expert on philosophy and has all kinds of deep thoughts and is your true soulmate but maybe you better try that lottery ticket instead.
The reality is if you want reliable sex you are probably better paying for it. What you are paying is not for the sex, it's for lack of hoop jumping, head games and leaving you alone afterward.
Put it this way: if you could see the girl you like so much and sex her as much as you want but you couldn't go to the mall, yack on the telephone, pick out flowery curtains, meet her parents, hang out with her idiotic friends, listen to her complain about your shortcomings would that be ok?
I know what my answer is, the day I understood this was a big turning point for me. I don't say this to rag on women so much as to encourage objectivity.
The reality is one day that girl you are so infatuated with will be old and ugly - and no one will look at her or want to listen to her talk about her cat. And then for the first time she will understand what reality is for 80% of men and she will become BITTER. For many women this will be their first taste of reality after a lifetime of freebies.
When I look at a beautiful woman I see not only the beauty but I see the downsides and ugliness. Picture her with poop coming out of her butt, hobbling around in a walker, arguments over the junior's school payments, the divorce settlement, nagging, middle age and all the wrinkles, menopause, etc. Think about that then get back to me on how you can't live without her, sometimes losing is actually winning.
I'm 38 and I've looked up a few of the "ones that got away" on Facebook and I always get a good laugh, they're all fat warthogs now. Me on the other hand, 10 years of bodybuilding/steroids, good diet, growth hormone peptides, low bodyfat, no wrinkles, a little botox here and there, women don't believe me when I tell them my age. I have to whip out the DL and then they freak, everyone guesses 23-27. I get talked down to and called "young man" by 30 year olds and soon I'll have a big fat 7 inch cock. haha. BTW women your age will hate it when you get carded and they get waved through, they turn green.
A beautiful woman is a depreciating asset that someday no one will want to get stuck with. If it floats, flies, or fucks you are better off leasing. There's your perspective.
