The Truth About Dick Size

[petersouth]

So how do you know if you're good looking or ugly? If you are good looking will women just hit on you? What if you never try to talk to them but they are the first to talk to you, in a workplace setting? Are they just trying to be inclusive and nice to the loner?
Do good looking guys have to work for it ie- approach women or do women approach them? (At a bar, at the mall etc) I really can't tell what they are thinking when they look at me. A friend once said it's impossible to tell, they could find you attractive, or maybe they just think you're funny looking. Is there some sort of way to test this or would it just be that if you were good looking, you would not be single all the time and women would come up to you and hit on you?

Unless you are hot enough to earn a comfortable living from your looks alone or so ugly that children run screaming from you I wouldn't worry about it. You are probably not ugly, there are many other things that could trip you up. Nice looks are one check box on female laundry list.

Yes, women will hit on standard ok handsome guy. Mostly for ego boost or they want to give you an audition not to be confused with the role.

Better just make your own approach since it's easier to work with neutral than insincere. A man should act upon a woman not react and anticipate what she thinks. Best thing to do when woman hits on you is politely brush her off or tease her, that raises your status and maybe she will up the ante. If she doesn't, fuck her.

Looks is just one thing, there is personality, social status, and much of this she will take from behavior cues. If you act nervous you are fucked even if cute because that is a low status indicator. If she finds out you are a shy loner you are fucked again. If you are reacting to what she does there is another low status indicator. Fucked city.

Of course the easiest way to bypass all this shit is to focus on who you are and what you want to do then naturally you will not react to her or be nervous or be a shy loner. That is why I said that.

 

[Wrallyliz]

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[insaneone2]

yeah, this pretty much sums it up. the women have something called pre selection. you know how men fish in the sea is always showing off their colours. the flashy and brighest that attrect a lot of fish because of the brightness automatically have a lot of mates. well, humans are kinda of the same way, only with other humans.

Ifa woman see the man that a lot of women are wanting, that woman will automatically 50% want to talk/get know you. they already decide if they wanna fuck you or not. the dick size is really the icing on top. if youre hung.

once again, pre selection. (fitler system for the women toward men)|

research it. it holds true to me.

 

[insaneone2]

Use Pre-Selection to Meet More Women!





Pre-selection is part of what we call a display of Higher value, or a DHV. Pre-selection in a nut shell is exactly how it sounds. You are thought of as pre-selected when a woman observes the actions of other women in your life. For example if you walk into a club with a pretty girl, and many others are happy to see you and are open and social with you. This shows any observing women that you are ok with other women; Therefore, there must be something appealing about you that she would find interesting too. And if you recall from our definition of attraction , having interest is having some sort of attraction.

Personally, I feel pre-selection is one of the most under rated attraction switches people use.

I think a lot of people think that it is hard to get it, and impossible to fake it. Both are false. I am a big believer in fake it until you make it, but it also is not hard at all to build a circle of female friends. The trick is not being the creepy guy nor the emotional tampon. Ill explain more about that later.

The reason why it works to get women attracted to you is because women know instinctively from evolution that they can not depend on how good a man may be for them just from the outside impression a man gives. They know we can fake value and that we do. It’s also a reason they “shit test” us. They need to know that a man has value from some type of other proof. There are many things that can provide that proof, and pre-selection is a very strong one. Pre-selection is a strong one because they see first hand that other women accept you. They see that other girls want you and find you trustworthy. That allows a new female observing this to come to the conclusion that you must be high value and you must be OK for them too. This allows them to put the guard down and go straight to knowing more about you. This is a huge attraction for them.


They see that other girls want you and find you trustworthy

Think about how many men women come across all the time. Think about all the normal barrage of bore they come across at bars and clubs. They see it all, and most men get lumped into that category very fast, unless you can stand out from that group. If you don’t, you have a much harder battle to get even noticed.

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Just imagine this for a moment. Imagine a guy up at the bar either by himself or just standing there with a beer in his hand up by his chest like a predator hunting women.

Now imagine that same guy with his back against the bar and very comfortable. 2 or three girls looking at him and smiling and laughing at what he is saying. You can see they are giving him their complete attention. Now imagine other guys outside of that circle of people, looking in and watching and talking too.

Now what do you think of these two guys? The guy with three girls talking to him looks much higher value, and there has to be some reason that those girls are spending their time giving him attention. Even more high value that other men are doing the same.

When women see this attention from females to the guy, then it is a sure sign to them that this guy is used to women, has women in his life, and therefore, accepted and wanted by women.

I don’t think I need to tell anyone this, but I think we all know that women want what other women want. It’s a great thing to understand, trust me. Use it to your favor.







So how can you use this Pre-selection?

The key to getting good pre-selection is to get yourself a group of platonic girlfriends. I learned a lot about this from Love Systems , they go into this in great detail in Social Circle Mastery and it can take many, many articles to explain this fully. But for now let’s just say you need to befriend many women and not as the nice guy or the creepy guy. Let’s go back and talk about friend guy and creepy guy very briefly. ( more about these in separate articles).

Nice Guy is the guy that gets a lot of girlfriends but it is not because they respect him or want him. It’s because they use him as an emotional tampon to dump their issues on to like some sort of therapy for them.Or because they think of him as safe and cute like a puppy. You don’t want to be considered cute as a puppy.

Then there is creepy guy, and this is when a guy tries and hits on every girl that is around him, doesn’t use kino (touch) right and goes way past acceptable with it. It basically oozes out he just wants sex in everything he does.

You see the things these two have in common are agendas. They both come at this with an agenda of getting the girl somehow with the friendship. That is creepy. If you are setting out to get girls as friends you need to keep your bad boy edge. You still need to be seen as a possible sexual friend. You just have to make the first move of making them a friend. You need to be fun and exciting, yet you are the one that is making them a friend.

This not only turns the girls on that you are doing this to, it also makes them respect you. They know you are sexual, they know that there is a chance you to could have something, but it’s you that is stopping it. What reason can you use for not wanting to ? It’s easy. The statement of “I’m not good for you, you’re a great girl and I’m not the type of guy a girl like you should get involved with”. Something along these lines played well at the right time will work wonders. Even if there has never been any interest from her to you, you can use this. You simply throw it in as a funny comment at some point, then let it resonate. She will start to think about this all the time. It’s like a cat that can’t get what it wants. It bothers them. This process of them wondering why you chose not to have them will turn around and make them attracted to you.

The key to remember here is unless you really want to go that route with this girl, you need to keep that fish on the line and not reel it in. These girls will eventually understand and then become your best friend. They know it’s not because of them, but that your really just a good guy at heart. Although they may feel that you are just sexual ( which is not a bad thing to have), they will trust you aren’t out to use anyone. You will now be introduced to all of her friends as a great friend.

This is a huge difference e then just being a guy she knows that is trying to date her but can’t man up. Your the guy that put her in the friend zone.

What does this have to do with pre-selection?

Well the more of these you can gather up as friends, the better off you are. Now as you start going out places you will start to run into them all over. If you were smart you would find out what they are all doing on the nights out and arrange that you all meet out, or go out together as a group, or just plain “end up” at the same place.

You will be getting attention from them all night, and trust me, every girl in the place will notice this.

You just got pre-selection….. To Learn much , much more on this and find out exactly why I feel this is the most important aspect you should work on in your game


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[petersouth]

Actually yes getting platonic girlfriends is good especially if you have a big dick or like me you can invite her to your concert later. In fact I used to give flyers to women on campus all week and on the big day I have women waiting for me in the green room. This is a strong position.

The key to avoiding friend zone is show no interest and disqualify constantly, mention other women you are seeing or that you think are better in a low key, believable way. If she starts to show obvious signs of attraction good but you keep your [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83810-MoS-Online-Texas-Holdem-Poker-League-and-Tournament-to-win-P-E-Prizes!!!]poker[/words] face.

One day get her alone (tell her you have this super awesome aquarium or some shit even if it's a fishbowl with one fish, really sell it). change subject to sex and ask "Truth or dare time...be honest. What's the biggest dick you've ever seen". Then lay it on her "Have you ever seen one like this?" take your pants off, sit on top of her and put it right between her tits. She will either fuck or run. If she physically resist let it go but if she's whining about some boyfriend tell her "cut the shit, time to fuck" and stick to your guns. Take off rest of your clothes get on top and kiss while dry humping, commit totally and she will fold. Odds are she will be very horny, may even come with her pants on. I always made fun of them for ejaculating prematurely, they love it.

The big mistake is too much talking and no action, you don't talk a woman into bed. You physically make the move, talk just makes the introduction and it should be emotional (joking, negging, getting a rise out of her, disqualifying). Push her against the wall and kiss her, pick her up over your shoulder like a caveman and carry her off, tickle her until she falls down then get on top of her and start kissing.

You have to think like chess player, looking for the check mate. Conversation is only a way to get her alone but you can even go caveman on her in front of her friends or her boyfriend. You have to have large size eggs for this but women have not changed much for the past 40000 years. Boldness is a huge status indicator, it means you are used to having your way.

You can approach women who have boyfriend with them, if things get sticky you can say "whoa sorry pal I thought you were her brother". If you see man and woman making out walk up and say "pardon me, may I cut in?". They will probably laugh or the man will try to kill you. Then you can say "whoa sorry pal I thought you were her brother". :s

 

[petersouth]

Another thing you can do if you just don't give a fuck is refuse rejection. I used to do this a lot. All objections redirected into sex talk or hyperstimulation.

Woman: I have a boyfriend
Me: That's fine, I will let him watch. I just want to fuck you until my dick falls off, not get married and have 2.5 kids.
Woman: OMG no way
Man: Well I'm really sorry to hear that. Maybe you would prefer this (gets behind her tickles her, hands under armpits, she falls to the ground and begs to stop). This is what you wanted, you don't want sex so I can only show you good time this way. Good clean wholesome fun. Does your little boyfriend make you laugh like this I bet his a real comedian isn't he?
Woman: (screaming) Stop stop
Man: Only if you beg, whine for me slut. If you think this is good wait until you feel my dick stretching your tight little pussy. Ok slut get ahold of yourself, enough of this fooling around, let's go. Those fat knockers of yours are driving me crazy. I got a fat rod in my pants with your name on it.

At this point you can either put hands under armpits and launch her into the air and carry her off or if the location is private you can get on top and go straight to dry humping and makeout.

This is the level of effort, totally fearless and speaking your mind.

Most guys cannot get away with this in public with a stranger but when you are alone and you know her pretty well it is ok.

And this is why thugs and other miscreants tend to fuck a lot. Regular guys seem almost dickless or gay by comparison.

 

[MikeShlort]

I agree. Once at a party I was in the invincible state. I could do no wrong, everything I said was hilarious and gold. I socialized perfectly. I had no insecurities and my dominance shone through the room. I had a girl in the bag, just waiting for me to reel it home and play it properly. But I went too far, I said something too over the line. It would not have been a big deal if I had been able to maintain my demeanor I would have recovered from the faux pas, but I shat the bed, got drunker and tried to fight. I went from everyone loving me to everyone hating me and getting kicked out. I lost it. My reign was short lived, 2 hours of the ideal me. Then I reverted to the mentally wounded social parasite. I had it, I felt what it felt like to do no wrong, what it felt like to shit where I please, what it felt like to be comfortable enough with myself to be able to say clever things in front of a room full of people I had just met. But I lost it and I have not retrieved it since. This was a good 3 months ago. At least I know the formula and the patterns in which I fucked up. It proves the theory that when everyone loves you, you will get what you want just because people are programmed to want what everyone else wants.

I really hope I can manage to get back into this state again.

 

[petersouth]

That's the problem with talking, you talk enough and eventually you will say something that offends people.

Parties, I avoid them like the plague. I used to sit there frozen not talking to anyone because I had nothing to say. I also used to drink and embarrass myself trying to fit in. Now I refuse to go, problem solved.

You should always avoid your weaknesses and play to your strengths, if you are not good at parties stay away from parties. If you are a shy or unsociable smart guy or have a talent hone that until it puts you in the limelight.

For example right now I'm working on the next chapter in my life which will be in semi-retirement playing music. Maybe playing on a cruise ship for a few months of the year and then playing in classical music competitions, teaching lessons, play in a band, whatever.

This gives me an attractive and independent lifestyle but it also coincides with me reaching my potential as a human being. That is a very powerful narrative to women, a woman will even support a man like that financially. If I have a concert I can talk to a woman and say "by the way I'm playing tonight, you should check it out" and hand her a flyer or something.

That way I never go out of my way, I am big on things happening on my terms and wouldn't waste my time with a party unless I was the guest of honor.

You don't have to fit in if you can make the rules. There are a lot of eccentric guys that are popular because they have high status.

For instance at work, I come in late and other people adjust their schedule so they can work with me. Why? Because replacing me would be much more difficult than replacing them. If I worked in the mail room they would can me and get someone else. Sometimes you fail because you are aiming too low.

Maybe you are more alpha than you think and you should be calling the shots instead of going to other people's parties and trying to play nice doggy.

 

[MikeShlort]

Ya but how do I call the shots if I am alone?

I see how this works. I had no friends. Got a job, slowly met people. Eventually got invited to parties they hosted. Girls from work came one of the three times I went. This is how it works. I see the girls at work, maybe talk to them the odd time, then my only chance of anything is at a social function outside of work. I can't try to make out with them at work. So I rely on gatekeepers to invite me to social functions.

I can't see a way around it. Girls don't want to be asked out by someone they work with, they want to fuck around with them while drunk at a party at best. I probably blew my chance with this group, but there will be other menial jobs and other people to meet. I just don't have time on my side.

 

[joanlynch21]

We want the size and of course the skills and know how on using your too.

 

[DLD]

We want the size and of course the skills and know how on using your too.

Size and Technique will always be best!

 

[petersouth]

Ya but how do I call the shots if I am alone?

I see how this works. I had no friends. Got a job, slowly met people. Eventually got invited to parties they hosted. Girls from work came one of the three times I went. This is how it works. I see the girls at work, maybe talk to them the odd time, then my only chance of anything is at a social function outside of work. I can't try to make out with them at work. So I rely on gatekeepers to invite me to social functions.

I can't see a way around it. Girls don't want to be asked out by someone they work with, they want to fuck around with them while drunk at a party at best. I probably blew my chance with this group, but there will be other menial jobs and other people to meet. I just don't have time on my side.

Try bartending or something in the entertainment field, you'll meet many more girls and they will see you in a much better light. You will also make friends and develop a clique.

If you keep working menial jobs, nothing will help you.

Raise status instead of worrying what you did wrong or how old you are. Accomplished or cool old guy in shape is ok.

Imagine a young Steve Tyler pining away for one special woman wondering how to win her heart and how to talk to her. "But I'm ugly and have big lips and time is not on my side!".

Uh bro, there's a band you need to start, it's called Aerosmith. Now write a song about it.

 

[MikeShlort]

I know you knock College but I think I am going to try that. I might go in the direction of a trade. At least that way I will have skills to be hired somewhere no matter where I live. I don't like the idea of working at the same place for 5 years and going on vacation 2 weeks a year. I don't want a house so what's the point? I can do that when I'm older.

You've probably traveled a lot, being a musician. Do you find that it is easier to approach women when you are in a strange country? Or would I still need to be with others to make that possible?

Remember older movies, like from the 80s and earlier, where the lone guy out on the town in the smoky night was considered cool and mysterious? Do women in other countries have the same stigma about guys who aren't in a group that there is here in MTV controlled North America? Or are they more accepting? I'm hoping to travel alone and meet people to party with/have sex with. Don't really know anyone in my age range who has ever traveled alone, but then again, I hate 90% of the people I've ever met. They usually go to all inclusive packages in places like Cuba and Mexico with their bros, to eat buffet food, post pictures on facebook and gang bang sluts. I want to bicycle around the countryside in Europe and meet pretty girls in bars to defile out back.

 

[DLD]

Try bartending or something in the entertainment field, you'll meet many more girls and they will see you in a much better light. You will also make friends and develop a clique.

This is so true. I work at home and sometimes out of a cafe and rarely meet anyone, especially girls. Maybe I will start applying for some bar tending positions

 

[DLD]

Sounds like a blast tooling around Europe fucking, eating and drinking! I wish I could do this!

 

[Gravik]

Ahh the black stereotype is still alive and well....is there suc ha thing as a black guy with a flaccid smaller than 6"?

 

[petersouth]

I know you knock College but I think I am going to try that. I might go in the direction of a trade. At least that way I will have skills to be hired somewhere no matter where I live. I don't like the idea of working at the same place for 5 years and going on vacation 2 weeks a year. I don't want a house so what's the point? I can do that when I'm older.

You've probably traveled a lot, being a musician. Do you find that it is easier to approach women when you are in a strange country? Or would I still need to be with others to make that possible?

Remember older movies, like from the 80s and earlier, where the lone guy out on the town in the smoky night was considered cool and mysterious? Do women in other countries have the same stigma about guys who aren't in a group that there is here in MTV controlled North America? Or are they more accepting? I'm hoping to travel alone and meet people to party with/have sex with. Don't really know anyone in my age range who has ever traveled alone, but then again, I hate 90% of the people I've ever met. They usually go to all inclusive packages in places like Cuba and Mexico with their bros, to eat buffet food, post pictures on facebook and gang bang sluts. I want to bicycle around the countryside in Europe and meet pretty girls in bars to defile out back.

College was ok but staying out of debt is very important to you future well being, 2 year programs in marketable fields have more value and you avoid debt. Tradesman sounds pretty good to me when I hear about these horny housewives. You can also own your own business in some cases. With all the money you save not repaying loans you'll catch up financially in no time.

I've never been to another country in my life, I hate traveling. I will only travel if it it can further my career, otherwise I won't drive 50 miles in either direction. Scenery change has no positive effect on me, only negative - the inconvenience, making arrangements, unfamiliar places, I have no patience for it. I also hate spending money, I need to have the whole trip covered to even consider it.

From what I understand from expats and knowing a lot of foreign women yes life is less cliquish and there is less stigma. The loner guy could be cool in other places. The US and Canada in many ways are sick cultures the way they stigmatize people over trivial things and relentless social score keeping. Europe has far less fat chicks and that is one of the big problems here. It is more common to be unmarried and not have kids. Not owning a car is less stigmatized due to better public transportation.

In the US the average woman is obese so it's difficult to get one of the few hot ones and even worse now with facebook and smart phones pumping up even that fattest bitches ego 24/7. You want to go to a place that has enough good looking women to go around. The less feminist and off the beaten trail the better, find a place where every woman doesn't have a smart phone and you are golden.

Another thing is that in certain countries you will be the exotic traveler. In asia, africa or south america the dynamic will be much different depending on your appearance. For example I have pale skin and light hair, asian women eat that up. I would go but I bang all the asians I want right here.

Also, the stigma against being a "nerd" or intelligent is less. Asian or african woman doesn't care if you are a computer programmer, she thinks it's good. Say that to an attractive American woman and you're a loser. Here every guy is supposed to play rock star, not sure about Europe.

But yes go ahead and travel if you like that. Go and teach english in different places around the world and take advantage of your students. It's better than staying here and sweeping up.

 

[DLD]

Scenery change has no positive effect on me, only negative - the inconvenience, making arrangements, unfamiliar places, I have no patience for it. I also hate spending money, I need to have the whole trip covered to even consider it.

I am the same way, I will not travel more than 20 miles out of my comfort zone. I only travel when I absolutely need to for work.

 

[MikeShlort]

College was ok but staying out of debt is very important to you future well being, 2 year programs in marketable fields have more value and you avoid debt. Tradesman sounds pretty good to me when I hear about these horny housewives. You can also own your own business in some cases. With all the money you save not repaying loans you'll catch up financially in no time.

I've never been to another country in my life, I hate traveling. I will only travel if it it can further my career, otherwise I won't drive 50 miles in either direction. Scenery change has no positive effect on me, only negative - the inconvenience, making arrangements, unfamiliar places, I have no patience for it. I also hate spending money, I need to have the whole trip covered to even consider it.

From what I understand from expats and knowing a lot of foreign women yes life is less cliquish and there is less stigma. The loner guy could be cool in other places. The US and Canada in many ways are sick cultures the way they stigmatize people over trivial things and relentless social score keeping. Europe has far less fat chicks and that is one of the big problems here. It is more common to be unmarried and not have kids. Not owning a car is less stigmatized due to better public transportation.

In the US the average woman is obese so it's difficult to get one of the few hot ones and even worse now with facebook and smart phones pumping up even that fattest bitches ego 24/7. You want to go to a place that has enough good looking women to go around. The less feminist and off the beaten trail the better, find a place where every woman doesn't have a smart phone and you are golden.

Another thing is that in certain countries you will be the exotic traveler. In asia, africa or south america the dynamic will be much different depending on your appearance. For example I have pale skin and light hair, asian women eat that up. I would go but I bang all the asians I want right here.

Also, the stigma against being a "nerd" or intelligent is less. Asian or african woman doesn't care if you are a computer programmer, she thinks it's good. Say that to an attractive American woman and you're a loser. Here every guy is supposed to play rock star, not sure about Europe.

But yes go ahead and travel if you like that. Go and teach english in different places around the world and take advantage of your students. It's better than staying here and sweeping up.

I've always been very interested in the other countries of the world since I was a kid learning about them.

I think it's my only hope to have sex with beautiful women, in a foreign country. I don't have what it takes to play the social game here. I want to do it while I'm still young and have a shot at it.

Although, if things continue the way they are, I will probably be impotent in a month and only be able to think of German Shepherds and pine cones when I close my eyes to masturbate.

 

[DLD]

I've always been very interested in the other countries of the world since I was a kid learning about them.

You and me both.