There's a way around it. Consider the last 10 posts on this page. The answer is all of them put together. All the ideas and opinions here are correct - it's like punky saying he's confused that I say in one post that women all want black dick but in another that I want a woman I can respect. That's the conflict of life. Everything is a paradox. There is not black and white, right and wrong. That's why I try to eliminate grey areas in things like penis size to either Big or Small. No in between, no factoring in emotions, experiences, different sizes etc.
Women are selfish. They do all want black cock. They do all want everything. They are also beautiful. They are also intelligent and deep. They want a man who can please them, make their friends jealous, have other women want to fuck them while at the same time be loyal and mysterious and emotionally connected and strong and withdrawn and complicated and simple and aggressive and calm......
I try hard to figure out in my head how two people can stay together for life in this day and age and can't come up with an answer, and a lot of it includes my own tendencies.
I guess what I'm saying is there is some sort of happy medium.... a happy medium of these posts, these opinions, of what a man should be.... something in between the thug dick whipper outer and the sensitive, repressed doormat. I think a man should be all these things. I don't want a woman who is just one dimension either.
I don't know... life's a bitch if you're average, or even worse, below average. In anything. But I think the answer of this problem lies in these posts here..