really is annoying me, i actually just feel like she is not interested in me tht way. phsically, i think it is more emotionally she is attached to me. she is really really shy, and its hard to to figure out why she wont do it!!!
Have you told her how you feel and I mean really told her your true feelings about the situation i.e. not feeling wanted, etc... If not sit her down and pour all the feelings out, not in a 'I'm really desperate for a fuck' type way but from the heart.
After that ask her to open up to you too. This might be hard for her if she's very shy but if you open up first then maybe she will follow.
I don't know if all this will work but your best bet is to try and let her know how you're really feeling about the situation on an emotional level. I'm sure if she realises that your hurting that she will feel bad and want to help sort things out.
You might still not get a fuck but it just might help you understand her more. If there's a genuine reason then you will wait but if she's messing you around then at least you'll know and maybe then it might be time to let her go and move on.
Maybe it's just that because she's so shy she is frightened of making a fool of herself, or you thinking she's not good enough. Just as we men have our insecurities she do women.
Just remember that when someone is acting in a way that we don't like or understand there is always a reason. Most of the time if we try to find out why then we realise that it was nothing about what we originally thought and things begin to fall into place. Basically what I'm saying is communication is the key.
I hope you get things sorted either by getting your leg over or at least getting to the bottom of her reluctance.
All the best
Manimal
