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First problem was mention on a previous post and it mentions how a woman might be labeled if she admitted her true needs / wants. Knowing that sex with women is more of an emotional than a physical want, at least thats what a lot of the psych books claim, ladies deal with in what they want. Ultimately what really is the truth ? Women change their needs / wants so frequently its hard to keep track.
The second issue if a female is being honest about size is how that requirement changes according to mood. I have heard from several good sources that depending on how "in the mood" one is depends on what size man or vibrator she wants at any given moment. Many may claim ;one size fits all but I know from experience that given a choice if she "really wants it" out comes the larger toys, however if its just a quickie, then the smaller stuff suits her just fine. Sidebar note....just because you may have a larger dick does not a good lover make. I was the chosen one over a larger guy because I knew how to "deliver the goods", and that has a lot of truth too it. I have to tell you guys, there is no ego booster like being chosen over a 'larger" dude, especially when she is playing each of you against each other. I mean, seriously, I always knew when my gf was cheating on me because she was way looser than I remembered, I am telling you it was a real shot to my ego, 1 being cheated on and 2 being the smaller one..., I of course nailed her on it and confronted her about it, why was she cheating on me but at the time I did not care, I was young and learning .... but at the same time her needs were not being met (sexually, emotionally etc ) by her first bf. Later in our relationship after I made her chose him or me, she would say later on that I was "almost as large" and that sometimes I would be even larger but I knew otherwise. While being a young thing she did get tighter over time maybe I grew I don't know.... it I was always in my mind competing against the "stud". But that made me try harder and be a better lover. Education is the key !
I guess there is a fine balance to what fits, what works, what is too big / small but given the opportunity to answer honestly, anonymously most women I believe like the larger ride given a choice at their peak during any given month. A big prick is not the height of romance but I am sure its a bonus if you have one. (no offense to my larger brothers here )
The last issue is of course across demographics, as a woman ages her equipment naturally stretches (and older men shrink except here...ha ha) and might be able to take and enjoy a larger man, however given most monogamous relationships do not provide the variety for a comprehensive analysis you might find some interesting changes across age groups. Young girls being firmer and tighter might not like a large one, where as an older 30+ or 40+ or 50+ older woman would....I am curious how that would graph out.
What say you, ladies ?
I would be really interested in the survey results should they ever be posted.
The second issue if a female is being honest about size is how that requirement changes according to mood. I have heard from several good sources that depending on how "in the mood" one is depends on what size man or vibrator she wants at any given moment. Many may claim ;one size fits all but I know from experience that given a choice if she "really wants it" out comes the larger toys, however if its just a quickie, then the smaller stuff suits her just fine. Sidebar note....just because you may have a larger dick does not a good lover make. I was the chosen one over a larger guy because I knew how to "deliver the goods", and that has a lot of truth too it. I have to tell you guys, there is no ego booster like being chosen over a 'larger" dude, especially when she is playing each of you against each other. I mean, seriously, I always knew when my gf was cheating on me because she was way looser than I remembered, I am telling you it was a real shot to my ego, 1 being cheated on and 2 being the smaller one..., I of course nailed her on it and confronted her about it, why was she cheating on me but at the time I did not care, I was young and learning .... but at the same time her needs were not being met (sexually, emotionally etc ) by her first bf. Later in our relationship after I made her chose him or me, she would say later on that I was "almost as large" and that sometimes I would be even larger but I knew otherwise. While being a young thing she did get tighter over time maybe I grew I don't know.... it I was always in my mind competing against the "stud". But that made me try harder and be a better lover. Education is the key !
I guess there is a fine balance to what fits, what works, what is too big / small but given the opportunity to answer honestly, anonymously most women I believe like the larger ride given a choice at their peak during any given month. A big prick is not the height of romance but I am sure its a bonus if you have one. (no offense to my larger brothers here )
The last issue is of course across demographics, as a woman ages her equipment naturally stretches (and older men shrink except here...ha ha) and might be able to take and enjoy a larger man, however given most monogamous relationships do not provide the variety for a comprehensive analysis you might find some interesting changes across age groups. Young girls being firmer and tighter might not like a large one, where as an older 30+ or 40+ or 50+ older woman would....I am curious how that would graph out.
What say you, ladies ?
I would be really interested in the survey results should they ever be posted.
us_new_kids;353269 said:From my experience, some women MAY be visually stimulated by the sight of a large penis, but when it comes down to actually using it, they don't want it too big. As far as girth, it causes them pain when it's too thick, to the point where they may not even cum because of the discomfort. e.g the girl I am with right now isabout 5'6" so she is not small in any way, but she has pain when we have sex specially if i have pumped/done girth work earlier that day which usually puts my girth to around 6.4"-5.8" (base-to-tip). As far as length, I always DID argue that no matter how long you are, you should have no problem as long as you only use as much as the girl can take. BUT, one thing should be noted, and that's that women (specially when romantically involved with the man) like to take ALL of it in, because it makes them the sex feel more intimate, and makes them feel closer to the man. e.g My girl always tries to push me in all the way even though she finds it painful when I go all in @ about 7.5-8" long.
Nonetheless, she always jokes about why it's "so big", and that she wishes she could bite off half of it so it's smaller lol, and I think she actually DOES wish it was smaller, because she thinks sex would be more comfortable then. That still doesn't mean I am planning to stop Penis Enlargement anytime soon though
