Is a bigger penis better for women?

Wow... this is interesting stuff, and now after reading this, I'm kinda shocked and I think I might have a problem, but maybe not in the way you guys might be thinking.

I'm a virgin, so I need a new perspective from the more experience members of this forum. Growing up, the only way I've really learned about sex was through watching �naked people movies�, so I was always under the impression that you could be... well... pretty much as rough with a girl as you'd like and she wouldn't get hurt; rather, she'd really enjoy it. And I always watch these videos of guys with huge dicks almost going balls deep (not all the time, tho, of course) with tiny girls.

Now I hear that in reality there might be a 'TOO BIG' category?? EEEEK!! How big is too big?

My stats are 6.75 NBPenis EnlargementL x 5.25 EG (6.0 EG at the base. w00t! lol). I'm 6'0" tall and 140 lb, so I'm a tall, lanky, and a skinny bastard. lol. So my dick looks pretty big on my body, which I think might add to visual appeal, and I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE and ADOOOOOOOOORE tiny, skinny emo girls. Like... really tiny girls. Like almost less than 100 lb almost anorexic girls haha. I can only imagine their pussies would be smaller than the average girl... is this gonna be a problem for me???? I'm already above average in length and girth, and I'm making Huuuuuuuuuge improvements and it's only gonna get bigger. Is there hope for me??? I'm not insecure about my dick at all.. I'm fucking looving every minute of this process! Penis Enlargement enlargement and this forum is one of the best things that's happened to me, and now I find out there's such thing as 'TOO BIG??' I don't want to hurt my next (first actually. lol) girlfriend, and I wouldn't want her to be disappointed because it's too big. I always thought that girls would be ENTHRALLED and incredibly turned on by a huge dick.

Like.. I agree with RED, I'm doing this for ME, not for the girls. I had a really rough time in High School, I was incredibly depressed, suicidal, emotionally and mentally unstable, and now I'm in college and I'm having the absolute TIME OF MY LIFE!! I'm completely revamping EVERYTHING in my life. I'm going full throttle with Penis Enlargement, and I'm even lifting weight and making great progress with my body to match the gains I'm making with my dick. So I really am doing this for my OWN gratification, but will getting a big penis actually hurt me in the long run if girls wouldn't even enjoy sex with me if it's too big?? ESPenis EnlargementCIALLY with the kind of girls that I'm attracted to - tiny, skinny girls??

What are your guys' perspectives? Cuz since I've never had sex, I don't have any reference experience, I was having a grand time building a huge dick, but now I'm really starting to freak out. lol

As confident as I might be, she will still laugh behind my back *sigh*

nystrongstroke;3333 said:

I've also read that gay men have larger penises then straight men.I figure its because of them consuming extra testosterone when they go down on guys,and also them having their prostate stimulated duringanul sex

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huh?????

Hey DLD, i think its a hard one to crack, you have found here (haha)

First of all, you should really give them dildos to measure from, since its hard to measure a cock.

And also i have found that every survey where they just ask a female about the size they always say: uhh not that big, its how you use it,

But when anonymous they suddenly DO care about size.
I think it has something to do with the usual bad reputation a female gets if she loves sex, and if she wants sex with a big cock she is a SLUT! the usual bullshit going down on the street.

And if you ask them while they are drunk suddenly 15 inches is nothing and they want more!

"Originally Posted by nystrongstroke
I've also read that gay men have larger penises then straight men.I figure its because of them consuming extra testosterone when they go down on guys,and also them having their prostate stimulated duringanul sex"

Ohh my God, the ignorance...

Maybe the Earth is flat and in the center of the solar system too huh?

Damn this pains me, some people have no clue whatsoever on even the most basic stuff regarding sexuality...well lets teach them the scientific way shall we?

Peace,

Mike

8InchMIKE;353195 said:

"Originally Posted by nystrongstroke
I've also read that gay men have larger penises then straight men.I figure its because of them consuming extra testosterone when they go down on guys,and also them having their prostate stimulated duringanul sex"

Ohh my God, the ignorance...

Maybe the Earth is flat and in the center of the solar system too huh?

Damn this pains me, some people have no clue whatsoever on even the most basic stuff regarding sexuality...well lets teach them the scientific way shall we?

Peace,

Mike

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Haha nicely put.

From my experience, some women MAY be visually stimulated by the sight of a large penis, but when it comes down to actually using it, they don't want it too big. As far as girth, it causes them pain when it's too thick, to the point where they may not even cum because of the discomfort. e.g the girl I am with right now isabout 5'6" so she is not small in any way, but she has pain when we have sex specially if i have pumped/done girth work earlier that day which usually puts my girth to around 6.4"-5.8" (base-to-tip). As far as length, I always DID argue that no matter how long you are, you should have no problem as long as you only use as much as the girl can take. BUT, one thing should be noted, and that's that women (specially when romantically involved with the man) like to take ALL of it in, because it makes them the sex feel more intimate, and makes them feel closer to the man. e.g My girl always tries to push me in all the way even though she finds it painful when I go all in @ about 7.5-8" long.

Nonetheless, she always jokes about why it's "so big", and that she wishes she could bite off half of it so it's smaller lol, and I think she actually DOES wish it was smaller, because she thinks sex would be more comfortable then. That still doesn't mean I am planning to stop Penis Enlargement anytime soon though

wesb;3502 said:

Do you plan to use photographs for graphics? If so, what frame of reference? How many different sizes should be represented? To be fair, concerning race it would be a good test to have the same sizes in white and black, possibly an "in between" color as well.

Obviously, any graphic must have a point of reference to judge size. I know that DLD has studied this in order to accurately judge sizes of �naked people movies� actors. I'm wondering how much variation that there is in hand size? A dick with one or better two hands wrapped around it seems that it would be the most accurate, allowing for hand size variation. Other methods, such as face height or width are rather difficult to judge accurately. Even though they can appear to be in the same "plane" in a photo, in reality a very small difference in angle can result in major distortions of relative size. DLD has illustrated this well in his penis size study.

DLD, in my surfing I found a site which has the largest selection of dildos I've ever seen on the net. This place has some inhuman monster dildoes, many that I've never seen elsewhere. I think you should check this out, as many of the dildos are pictured next to a coke can for reference and the site lists the actual insertable length, various diameters etc. Not only is it good visual information to compare sizes, many of the reviews are very interesting reading as well and should prove conducive to your study. Both male and female "size queens" post their reviews, often they directly compare different dildoes and how they feel. "I use the Jeff Stryker model as a warmup for my John Holmes"

Be sure to check out the "vinyl dildo" section as these are all the same color and are all pictured next to a coke can - and there are extreme ranges of size.

Here is the site:


http://www.bigsextoystore.com/cgi-b...=list&category=Dildos%3BReally Big Dildos

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OMG I wouldn't have believed this unless I saw it. Kinda scary...?
http://www.bigsextoystore.com/cgi-bin/edatcat/BTSstore.cgi?user_action=detail&catalogno=GD8210

Is this a futuristic skyscraper? Maybe... but it looks sort of like... a horsie dildo?

Whatever it looks like to you, this is one monstrous dildo! The Sky Rise Dong is 20" long, about 18" of which is insertable. The other dimensions are:

Thickness Circumference
Widest part of the head 3.75" 11.5"
Directly under the head 3" 10.5"
First fold 3.75" 11.25"
Second fold 4.5" 14"
Just above the base 5.5" 16.25"
Widest part of the base 6.25"

19"

This toy is oval in shape, and there's a slight ridge on the back that you can see in picture 3.

This is an extreme toy for advanced players. Are you ready to ride?

Riven650;318251 said:

There are several things that make us think women prefer big cocks. For instance, I have heard women say of an ex-partner things like. "... and he had a small dick anyway". I think that always smacks of trying to put him down in order to bolster her own ego that got damaged in the break-up. And women do seem to really enjoy cock size related jokes. I think it gives them a feeling of power over us. Like, we're stronger than them, but they know how to get (most of) us where it hurts - ie. right in the insecurities.

In the same way that most of us guys don't choose our girlfriends by breast size, women don't choose their partners based upon cock size either But women - lots of women - obsess about the size/shape of their breasts, and look at us right here, right now, obsessing about cock size ;o)

That well known (around here) statement 'Women can't measure' could easily be, and perhaps should be, substituted for 'women can't be bothered to measure'. But what size do they think they want? You could ask a bunch of women at a party what cock size is a good size, and a lot of them might come out with 7 or 8 or even 9 inches or more, but I really think they're being competitive rather than realistic. Those are the sizes they've read about in magazines, or they're the sizes they've overheard others bragging about. But I think if you were to ask women in isolation and in seriousness to 'hold your index fingers apart at the length of penis that you'd prefer on your man' and then measured the gap I think it might average somewhere around 6".

One last, hopefully objective, point. My wife agrees with me that after she gave birth to our son, her vagina never recovered it's former size. She is enjoying the results of my pe efforts because she now feels as full when we fuck as she did years ago. So her 'ideal penis size' has grown over the years, but it wouldn't have if I hadn't managed to 'grow' a little myself. What I mean is that it would never have occurred to her to 'want' more size if it had never occurred to me to try to provide it. That's the kind of woman she is. A real nice woman. And she loves me - not cock size.

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You have all heard me say it "size doesn't matter as long as the rest of the package is good." I would like to change that size matters, I can't speak for all women but here is what I think. I want to be filled, I said filled not stuffed. I don't want it too small or too big, being a woman I can't tell size accurately so I don't know the exact perfect size but I can say it is different for every woman. So to reiterate, all you guys who think that woman want a long thick one. Probably not, we just want a perfectly fit one. (the rest of the package is still important

well i think this argument can be summed up by a conversation i had with a girl a night or 2 ago. we were talking about size and how my ex couldn't handle my shit. basically, i told her my dick isn't that big compared to how most girls make it out to be and she said "oh well it doesn't matter. i'm still gonna fuck you anyways"

Riven650;318251 said:

In the same way that most of us guys don't choose our girlfriends by breast size, women don't choose their partners based upon cock size either But women - lots of women - obsess about the size/shape of their breasts, and look at us right here, right now, obsessing about cock size ;o)

My wife agrees with me that after she gave birth to our son, her vagina never recovered it's former size. She is enjoying the results of my pe efforts because she now feels as full when we fuck as she did years ago. So her 'ideal penis size' has grown over the years, but it wouldn't have if I hadn't managed to 'grow' a little myself. What I mean is that it would never have occurred to her to 'want' more size if it had never occurred to me to try to provide it. That's the kind of woman she is. A real nice woman. And she loves me - not cock size.

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That's a good point. Before Penis Enlargement my wife would say I was big. It took me awhile to figure out she was talking about my girth because I knew I wasn't long. My beginning girth was 5.5 which I guess is above the average.

I did Penis Enlargement in secret for years because I knew she would say not to, but after I grew in length I discovered that for her she had an A spot or what others call a culdesac.

When I finally told her about Penis Enlargement she was like, "How do you know that works?" I'm like ummm you know that spot I "discovered"? Well it wasn't from technique

So if a woman doesn't have an A spot but a G-spot length wouldn't be an issue for her but girth.

I don't see anything wrong with what we're doing as long as we deal with reality. Realizing that just because we gain or we're a certain size isn't the end of what we need to do with ourselves.

Developing marketable skills to provide for a family, being nice and treating others the way you want to be treated, understanding the need for grace and forgiveness in a relationship if it is to survive, keeping ourselves in descent physical shape so our mate will be attracted to us.

The only way to find this question out for sure: do a study!

Get a bunch of women to try a series of dildos. They should probably range from 4.5"x4" to 9"x7". The women would then be left alone in a room to try as many as they like, then report back which was their favorite.

Pretty simple, but I think a study like this would be revolutionary.

^^^agreed.

Women dont know what they want at the end of the day and the perfect fit is what? exactly. They want to be filled and not stuffed, well your going to need to sleep with several men at least in order to find the right fit ... where did old morals such as admiration, love, respect go? I blame the media and T.V for this warped thinking women have with size nowadays and sure I think that most dont want it bigger but they still have no fucking idea about size and how the whole issue when they talk about is often done insensitive and guys do have feelings about the subject ... better than having to worry about a sagging ass and tits I suppose.

most girls like a huge penis not only for the physical satisfaction it's also a visual turn on....I'd say around 75% of women whud like ATLEAST 9X7

If a woman says penis size matters, she should try to get my 9x5.5 all inside her and then say it again . Seriously, with all respect I have of women, but I think they don't know what they want if it comes to penis size, of course I don't mean all of them but some haha.

Xeyanex;356676 said:

most girls like a huge penis not only for the physical satisfaction it's also a visual turn on....I'd say around 75% of women whud like ATLEAST 9X7

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I have to disagree

I dnt think women are all that turned on by a small or average cock even though they might say it's "fine"

those of u that have committed reationships can back me up on this I bet your partner became a lot more excited at your enarged penis

Xeyanex;356684 said:

I dnt think women are all that turned on by a small or average cock even though they might say it's "fine"

those of u that have committed reationships can back me up on this I bet your partner became a lot more excited at your enarged penis

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Yes, I can back you up on this. My girlfriend was in a long time marriage to an &%?hole. Everytime we become intimate the first thing that she's interested in feeling is my dick (and we've been together now for 5 years so it's not some new thing). I think her ex had a little one and she is fascinated by something of a more substantial size.

GrowthSpurts;356685 said:

Yes, I can back you up on this. My girlfriend was in a long time marriage to an &%?hole. Everytime we become intimate the first thing that she's interested in feeling is my dick (and we've been together now for 5 years so it's not some new thing). I think her ex had a little one and she is fascinated by something of a more substantial size.

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thnx for the info, proofs in the puddin man.....