Is a bigger penis better for women?

I believe more than ever now that bigger is better for a man's esteem even more than for a woman's pleasure. Women all seem to have a certain preferance as far as area and type of stimulation. For many it is not the CDS, so the deep pounding we aim for doesnt even do it for them.

Some are into clit stimulation and physically size doesnt matter here. It is all about angles. For the Gspot as long as it is 3-4 inches and rubbing that seems to work for the ones who like it there. Thickness always helps especially here.

For the women who really like to get stretched out and pounded, yes bigger is better. And a bigger cock seems to turn them on more in general. They want to play with it more... touch it... suck it.

But when it comes to down and dirty banging it is really not for all of um in my opinion.

airshy;307565 said:

I believe more than ever now that bigger is better for a man's esteem even more than for a woman's pleasure. Women all seem to have a certain preferance as far as area and type of stimulation. For many it is not the CDS, so the deep pounding we aim for doesnt even do it for them.

Some are into clit stimulation and physically size doesnt matter here. It is all about angles. For the Gspot as long as it is 3-4 inches and rubbing that seems to work for the ones who like it there. Thickness always helps especially here.

For the women who really like to get stretched out and pounded, yes bigger is better. And a bigger cock seems to turn them on more in general. They want to play with it more... touch it... suck it.

But when it comes to down and dirty banging it is really not for all of um in my opinion.

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I think that you are correct I have been going through the internet googleing more then ever and for the most part size is nothing.
What women are looking at are as follows.
1. Smile this is what they like
2. Nice Butt
3. Eyes
4. Chest and shoulders
5. Arms.
6. Penis size.

So there are many other things on womens minds then penis size. But I still feel that if I had two say they where clones of each other perfect in every way for that special women they had all the traits that I just mentioned above. But one of these guys had a 4 inch penis and the other has a 7 inch penis. I wonder what most women would go for.

But I must say that I agree penis enlargement is great for ones self esteem but and you are even luckier if you are just gifted with a large penis but I am still curious as to what you think about my statement above.

First of all you have a larger penis than normal. That girth size makes you more desired by women they want more girth. You got girth! Besides women are double minded when it comes to the desired size. Find the "G" spots!

I believe size is something. I am just saying it is more of a physological thing than anything. and 8 x 6 cock is impressive to a woman. it is statistiaclly more than the average woman can take.

here is the kicker - there are some women who would love to be fucked by it more than anything else sexually. it is just what they like. however, from a sexual statistical end, this is not at all most women. These are just the ones you want if you have an 8 x 6 cock haha.

i heard women say that size doesn't matter then in the next sentence say that they can't wait for me to wreck them with the ol nine'er...they're fulla shit.

if any woman says that it doesn't count, direct the convo towards an ex of theirs. i bet you'll hear "size doesn't matter but my ex was small, like..really small..i couldn't feel that much"

..gods honest truth i heard that from a girl straight from her mouth. they're alllll fulla shit.

samzman;307584 said:

if any woman says that it doesn't count, direct the convo towards an ex of theirs. i bet you'll hear "size doesn't matter but my ex was small, like..really small..i couldn't feel that much"

..gods honest truth i heard that from a girl straight from her mouth. they're alllll fulla shit.

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Thank you that is what I was saying if I had to clones both look identical the women are going to take the one with the bigger dick no matter what they size does matter. An it goes with the dildo as well why do they choose to use a large dildo well simple it feels better.
I am not saying that women choose there partners by the size of there cocks well maybe some do but what I am saying if a chick just wants a one night fling they want something that is going to do it for them.

i just think it is important to put it in perspective. i dont know the stats but even at 7 inches you are going to bottom out on a large percentage of women. if that is the case, assuming the same girth, physically size would not matter in this instance if you were bottoming out at 6 or whatever it is.

It's really about how you use it and if you can please them. I'd say it's not an issue to 80% of the girls out there.

If size didn't matter, 4x4 would be the ideal dildo size, but those don't sell do they?

Honestly, from my experience few men/women every actually get to experience a legit, LARGE, BIG, or "HUGE" penis. Studies have been done over the years by various credible institutions. The fact IS average is in the range of 5-7" NON BP erect length, and 4-6" erect girth at mid shaft. 7" (length), and 6" (girth) being on the higher, and less frequent end of the scales. It's rare enough to see a penis 7" long, or longer, OR a penis 6" in girth or thicker. EVEN MORE RARE is a combination of above average length AND girth. SO, while a woman/man may indeed have encountered at one point a 7"+ penis, it was most likely average in girth.

Girth is king in the area of sexual satisfaction. (Most women can only take so much length without pain, or severe discomfort) It's always going to be debatable as to how much girth is "best". I've found though that my size (7" non bp, and 6.25" girth) has done nothing but satisfy the women I've been with. My current woman, is even able to take me anally (GASP!) with total pleasure. It's the "best orgasm I've ever had" according to her.

I would not say that most women are "size queens". However, the women I have been with never complained, or said anything negative...some even bragged to their friends about my size. So, while a woman (or man) may say "size isn't that important", or something similar, bigger does seem better...to an extent anyway.

Still - What percent of women if you had to guess can take 7 inches nbpel doggie without pain? I am curious what you think - I would guess 40%

little fella;307585 said:

Thank you that is what I was saying if I had to clones both look identical the women are going to take the one with the bigger dick no matter what they size does matter.

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Not necessarily. Most women would pick an 8x6 over a 12x10 without question. Just aim for 8x6 and don't worry about all this.

stillwantmore2;307616 said:

If size didn't matter, 4x4 would be the ideal dildo size, but those don't sell do they?

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Exactly.
But through reading your post you have some good points when it comes to women and ideal size it differs from female to female. No one likes to feel pain and that is a fact so yes I think that you can be to big. But I think that a lot of women get more turned on by seeing a large penis.

airshy;307618 said:

Still - What percent of women if you had to guess can take 7 inches nbpel doggie without pain? I am curious what you think - I would guess 40%

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I personally think that there are not many but the fact still remains that they love a big penis I will explain why in my next post.

Ok a little update her. Through reading through a few articles it has come to my attention that no matter what any one says SIZE DOES MATTER and her is why on a scientific and psychological basis.

Ok we need to look at evolution her thousands upon thousands of years ago only the strongest survived and part of being strong was having a bigger penis. Females actually looked for men with a larger penis and why you may ask. Well very simple the longer the penis the easier it is to get pregnant it is a scientific fact because the penis is further inside the female sperm does not have as far to travel. So her comes the visual aspect looking was important they had to size up the male the funny thing was apparently that yes even if they where on the smaller size the female would still have sex with them. But her comes the bummer for the male the female would look for another partner to try and fall pregnant and if the next male that came along had a bigger penis the female would have sex with him and only if the male had a bigger penis then the other male. So apparently this is why the gland is shaped the way that is on all mammals it is to scrap out the oppositions sperm and replace it with there own sperm. This has apparently been embedded in females minds as it is a evolutionary thing and this is why females like bigger penises yes more girth makes it feel better but this is why length plays a big role in why females get turned on.

little fella;307643 said:

Well very simple the longer the penis the easier it is to get pregnant it is a scientific fact because the penis is further inside the female sperm does not have as far to travel.

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Scientific 'facts' don't even exist per se. It could be a scientific theory, but then you would have to have studies supporting it. My guess is that no such studies exist. My intuition also tells me that your hypothesis is incorrect. Furthermore your reasoning would actually argue against the usefulness of extra large sizes, as they would deposit the sperm in the anterior or posterior fornix, which is farther away from the cervix than where a 7" would be.

Going beyond that I feel like you're wasting your time here. What exactly are you trying to accomplish? Everybody here already believes they would be better off being bigger, otherwise they would be off somewhere else. What's the point of harping on reasons?

spinner2;307649 said:

Scientific 'facts' don't even exist per se. It could be a scientific theory, but then you would have to have studies supporting it. My guess is that no such studies exist. My intuition also tells me that your hypothesis is incorrect. Furthermore your reasoning would actually argue against the usefulness of extra large sizes, as they would deposit the sperm in the anterior or posterior fornix, which is farther away from the cervix than where a 7" would be.

Going beyond that I feel like you're wasting your time here. What exactly are you trying to accomplish? Everybody here already believes they would be better off being bigger, otherwise they would be off somewhere else. What's the point of harping on reasons?

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Sorry I stuffed up on this I read the article wrong it is the theory of why the male became so obsessed with the penis size. Which kind off makes a lot more sense.

Ok I am going to give up now I accept the fact that not all women are size queens and I accept the fact that there are always going to be theories about this. I am sorry for the sili thread. This has made no difference to the way that I feel about penis size and it never will actually I have come to accept that I am actually not doing Penis Enlargement for anyone else but myself and my self esteem.
Perhaps I was thinking that if I could prove that size did not matter to women then it would not matter to me.

If you do want to read more about this theory though just google the Human sexual selection penis. There is a tone of information about this theory as spinner pointed out to me it is a theory and I completely believe it as I could not find anything that actually backed up the theory.

It's natural selection. It's either because a larger penis is more efficient or (more likely) because it's more "attractive".

Here's an interesting analogy- Out of all of the primates, human females also have the largest breasts. There's no real physical advantage to having large breasts, so breast size in humans evolved because they're a desireable characteristic. Even in this modern age, large breasted females usually get more attention.

I've been with a few, out of probably the 30 or so women I've been with who I could "bottom out" in. Depending on their weight.