Is a bigger penis better for women?

Gandolf said:

overcompensating, and yes, I am one of them.

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Me too!...I have serious problems:D

doublelongdaddy said:

Me too!...I have serious problems:D

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Yeah I second that!

I don't think you can say that's the ideal size because of that. When they're playing with dildo's that's a completely different story than being fucked. Sometimes they feel like being pounded, and I don't think they're gonna grab a 9" dildo and tear up their own pussy...

quijjiboo said:

I don't think you can say that's the ideal size because of that. When they're playing with dildo's that's a completely different story than being fucked. Sometimes they feel like being pounded, and I don't think they're gonna grab a 9" dildo and tear up their own pussy...

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I don't understand.... does a rubber dildo (like that one... it's designed to simulate the real feel of a penis - it's not hard and stiff like a plastic one) feel any different from a real penis? I find your argument to be rather shoddy. I'm not trying to be offensive, though.

Blu said:

I don't understand.... does a rubber dildo (like that one... it's designed to simulate the real feel of a penis - it's not hard and stiff like a plastic one) feel any different from a real penis? I find your argument to be rather shoddy. I'm not trying to be offensive, though.

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Yeah, its a lot different. First a penis is attached to a 150+ man, who can thrust his body aganist hers, two the heat a penis generates inside a womans vagina will never compare to a rubber dildo. Three fleash feels a hundred times different than a piece of rubber or plastic. There are many differences!

Blu said:

I don't understand.... does a rubber dildo (like that one... it's designed to simulate the real feel of a penis - it's not hard and stiff like a plastic one) feel any different from a real penis? I find your argument to be rather shoddy. I'm not trying to be offensive, though.

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It may or may not feel just like the real thing. But a girl isn't going to use it the same way she would as if she were getting fucked. It could be the ideal size for a girl to masturbate with, but that doesn't imply that's the ideal size for fucking

You can never substitute a real man's penis for a stupid fucking rubber dildo, I don't know why women buy these things for, if a women wanted to masturbate why doesn't she not just use her hand like a man does. A man can also put a lot more trust in fucking a women no matter what size his penis is.

Blu said:

http://terrisummers.adameveshops.co..._OtherSuggestions/product_id=7211/product.htm



Check out the reviews of the this penis-shaped dildo. It is 6.5 inches long, which in the distorted world of MOS/Penis Enlargement is kinda small, but 2.0 inches wide, which is pretty substantial. The reviews posted by husbands and their wives are just glowing. It just shows that length is only so important for pleasuring women (it seems that most prefer something between 6 and 7 inches - long enough but not uncomfortable), but GIRTH is what really is important.



Many members have stated this before - reaching absurd penis dimensions thru Penis Enlargement is a 100% personal issue (to do with ego, body dymorphism) - not a sexual one. If your wang is at least 6 inches and most important of all THICK, then you really shouldn't have much to worry about.

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There is no way that dildo is 2" thick, unless at the balls, if indeed it is 6.5" "insertable" length. This site isn't 100% accurate, but is more accurate on actual sizes than most...look at the pic of this dildo at 6.5" x 1.75"

http://www.bigsextoystore.com/cgi-bin/edatcat/BTSstore.cgi?user_action=detail&catalogno=H5512-6

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I'm not a girl but I know somethin,

Theres a big different between sticking a non-living thing up your pussy and something thats real, its not the same, theres alot of mutual feelings and emotional things going on there that makes them even more aroused.. Its just like with us guys, ever notice when your having sex your dick looks even a little bit bigger, its because your dick is at like 110% erection.. Theres a HUGE difference between having a sex with a toy and having sex with a real-life human being, if that was the case, girls would rather fuck themselves instead of us.

http://www.penissizedebate.com/page40_ideal-penis-size.htm

this site has a poll of what an "ideal" penis would be, and some odd hundreds of women voted on this, and the ideal penis is like 7 x 6

Check out the reviews of the this penis-shaped dildo. It is 6.5 inches long, which in the distorted world of MOS/Penis Enlargement is kinda small, but 2.0 inches wide, which is pretty substantial. The reviews posted by husbands and their wives are just glowing. It just shows that length is only so important for pleasuring women (it seems that most prefer something between 6 and 7 inches - long enough but not uncomfortable), but GIRTH is what really is important.

Reality check! If it's what women say is ideal, who are we as men to argue. How stupid is that?

Woman: "Mmm, I love a penis that's about 6 1/2 inches long and 2 inches wide."

Guy: "No, you don't. You want a cock that's 8X6!"

There's nothing wrong with wanting a huge cock. Hell, I want a bigger cock, too! But don't fool yourselves. What we want to stroke our own egos is not necessarily what women want to stroke their pussies, and we shouldn't try to fool ourselves into thinking that. I was never "hung". I never came across any size queens. Even before Penis Enlargement, no woman ever seemed unsatisfied with my average penis. I'm not saying they don't fantasize about big ones, but big for them is 6.5 to 7.5 where big for us is 8.5 to 9.

PS-- My NBP is 6.5 right now. My width is 2" and my girth is 5.5 to 6 (depending on hardness). My wife thinks its the cats meow. I still want my 8X6, but I am also intelligent enough to know that what men think the ideal penis is and what women think the ideal penis is is two very different things.

kong1971 said:

Check out the reviews of the this penis-shaped dildo. It is 6.5 inches long, which in the distorted world of MOS/Penis Enlargement is kinda small, but 2.0 inches wide, which is pretty substantial. The reviews posted by husbands and their wives are just glowing. It just shows that length is only so important for pleasuring women (it seems that most prefer something between 6 and 7 inches - long enough but not uncomfortable), but GIRTH is what really is important.

Reality check! If it's what women say is ideal, who are we as men to argue. How stupid is that?

Woman: "Mmm, I love a penis that's about 6 1/2 inches long and 2 inches wide."

Guy: "No, you don't. You want a cock that's 8X6!"

There's nothing wrong with wanting a huge cock. Hell, I want a bigger cock, too! But don't fool yourselves. What we want to stroke our own egos is not necessarily what women want to stroke their pussies, and we shouldn't try to fool ourselves into thinking that. I was never "hung". I never came across any size queens. Even before Penis Enlargement, no woman ever seemed unsatisfied with my average penis. I'm not saying they don't fantasize about big ones, but big for them is 6.5 to 7.5 where big for us is 8.5 to 9.

PS-- My NBP is 6.5 right now. My width is 2" and my girth is 5.5 to 6 (depending on hardness). My wife thinks its the cats meow. I still want my 8X6, but I am also intelligent enough to know that what men think the ideal penis is and what women think the ideal penis is is two very different things.

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Excellent point. That's one of the big reasons why i think smaller, intermediate goals are best. Hell, 10x7 sounds cool, but I doubt that there are many women who would want to ride it day in and day out.

I suppose it would be worthless to try any more convincing that the perfect size is close to the bottom of the list of what girls are looking for in a partner?

AlloyCG said:

I suppose it would be worthless to try any more convincing that the perfect size is close to the bottom of the list of what girls are looking for in a partner?

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That's a given. I don't think anyone would dispute that. But we're talking ideal penis size, not ideal husband qualities. We all know that women look at personality, kindness, romance, compatibility, work ethic, all that before they worry about penis size.

That being said, after getting a gal, one way to keep her is to keep her satisfied, and that is one of the reasons we are here debating. One VERY important factor in a long term relationship is mutual satisfaction with sex.

The major difference is the more turned on a woman gets the more her pussy "opens up" and the wetter she gets. Sitting on a piece of rubber while she's all alone is not the same as sex with a man she loves and who knows what he's doing.

I think using the size of the most popular dildo as a gauge of what women want in penis size is ludricrous. You have to remember that when she's using the dildo herself, there's going to be a portion of it used as a handle. She's going to be holding onto at least 2-3 inches with her hand. A real penis pretty much comes with a built-in handle: the man.

Actually, I'm quite surprised that the ideal size dildo is 'only' 6.5. That just tells me that most women aren't really inserting that much 'penis' in when they're using a dildo by themselves.

I actually, had a different theory on this, which depends on who is buying these dildos. Basically, my theory is that if mostly married women are buying them, then they may be taking into consideration that they might want to opt for something closer to normal, or else risk intimidating their husbands. Not saying this is the case, just the first thought that came to mind.

Last year, me and my wife got into toys. This was pre-Penis Enlargement, and I was heavier, so I was about 5 NBP. I didn't want to buy something way bigger than me because of insecurity, so what I bought was around 6X5.

She liked it. I liked it. We had some good fun with it. The only negative was that she felt a little guilty about using it. She said she felt a little like she was cheating, cause it was very different than mine, a little bigger, and straighter, etc.

I got a little braver, and thought, What they hey? I went and bought another one that was more expensive. It was one of those fleshy, realistic ones. It was also about 9 X 7. I figured bigger was better, right?

When I showed it to her, she said, "No fucking way!"

We tried it one time. It hurt her, and she wouldn't even let me stick more than the head of it in her before she said No Go.

We still use the 6x5 occassionally, but the king kong ding dong went in the garbage not long after.

How are you guys,
I am trying to work out if all women are size queens and they just do not now it. If you visit many forums on the net and if the question is asked does size matter nearly all women will come out and say not at all. I think that this is a load of bull shit. I have recently found out that my missus is a bit of a size queen after being together for 7 years. All this time I have thought that my size does not matter but deep down it did and the way that I found out this is another story but the truth of the matter is that she is.
I am on a quest to find the answer to this and so far I have come up with women do not care about size but in another argument that I read was on what size dildo they prefer. This argument was on a female forum the (link is posted in this forum somewhere). Well the funny thing is most liked a 8 to 9 inch dildo and there reason was they got more pleasure from it and they could get turned on just by looking at a large dildo. Hmmm all these women seemed to have contradicted themselves because the exact same women had said that they do not care if a penis was big or small.
So all in all it was bullshit women just do not want to be seen as vein or a size queen. I am not going to stop here I am going to continue this on a few other forums. I have the plan of taking the same action ask what size dildo they prefer the best thing about this is they can not get the size wrong it generally printed in big numbers on the pack and also ask what size penis they prefer. I do not understand why they hide the fact that a larger penis gives them more pleasure.

Please if anyone would like to add to this please feel free explain to me what there problem is and why they lie I am not saying that all women lie there are a few that come straight and say it and they generally will say something along the lines of any women that says that size does not matter has never had a big enough penis to say that size matters and when they do get a big one they will not turn back. Hey these women may be size queens but at least they are being honest.

Comments please.

Not all women are size queens. Most have a preference on size while a few don't care. Larger than average, but not crazy big, will give you the highest probability of being a woman's ideal.

If you put more thought into it than this you are only wasting your time. Trust me from experience. It's like a woman going around and asking men what size breasts are the best, and then becoming confused when there is no agreement.

spinner2;307550 said:

Not all women are size queens. Most have a preference on size while a few don't care. Larger than average, but not crazy big, will give you the highest probability of being a woman's ideal.

If you put more thought into it than this you are only wasting your time. Trust me from experience. It's like a woman going around and asking men what size breasts are the best, and then becoming confused when there is no agreement.

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Spinner I fully understand what you are saying but why do women that say that they like a large dildo say they do not care about size. Is it a self satisfaction thing I am starting to think that the reason that they like a larger dildo is the fact that they do not have anything else to look at example being they generally do not have a sexual partner while using the dildo so there full focus is on the dildo that is why they prefer them on the larger size. So in saying that when they are with a man they are not really worried about the penis they are more thinking about the man or person that they are with. But if they like a large dildo and they like the pleasure that it creates wouldn't they want a man that they can look at and a large penis. Hmmm it just seems as though there is a missing link in there somewhere and I feel that is the fact that they are generally lieing or have not the experience of being with a bigger man.