Is a bigger penis better for women?

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grgr;385955 said:

he's THE SHIT, he doesn't care - i love it!
it's not your cock that stops you, it's you.

"then he told me to stop BEING a pussy and start GETTING some" - that's fucking GOLD. i should tattoo this statement on my dick.

Penis Enlargement is only a supplement to lifestyle and personality.
there were times, when i had the same attitude - i didn't give a shit - i just didn't know that my cock isn't big. girls loved it, they wanted more.
than i realized that - i'm not big. i watched a lot of �naked people movies� - i felt small... i felt insecure, girls can smell it - they don't want more of insecure guy who doesn't accept himself.

i realized that lastly - when my ex girlfriend was cheating on her new bf with me... and as she claimed (being drunk) that his dick was so fat that he couldn't use normal condoms... when i heard that i was devastated. but... when she was with him she fucked me like ten times more than him, because of his pussy-attitude. he was more insecure than i ever was!

so, yeah, i want to have bigger unit. but - it's only nice addition to me as a person. it's like everything else - you can go to the gym, get some muscle, you could dress nice, get tan, etc - but it's not what makes you attractive - it only helps in some percentage.

and of course - i am attracted to smaller, skinny girls - because i am rather short guy - it helps me a lot, they are more adequate for me. it's just my type. my dick would look ridiculous in front of a huge girl with fat ass- but even then - who cares. dick size is for you, not for her.

i have this friend - he's a bantender - so he has a great conversion skills, he is tall, looks awesome, all my female friends claim that he is the most masculine man they saw in a long time, and as he claims his size is 21,5 cm (i think it's above 8" ? ). but... he has the same pussy-attitude. he never makes the first step, because he is afraid of failure... so he fucks fatties and uglies... i always had better girls than he... that's fucking insane!!

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I really need to start working on my attitude then. I don't come off as insecure around them though, probably just stuck up even though that is not me at all. I need to start acting like they are "just one of the guys" honestly and I think that would help. I really don't get what I'm about to say now though. Maybe you guys can tell me why this situation is as it is.

Men and older women complement me all the time on how good I look. Women 40 and over are constantly touching me and flirting with me (I'm 27), telling me how beautiful my eyes are and that I'm handsome or pretty. One of my best friends, a guy, told me I had a nice ass the other day. I thought he was just talkin' shit and messin' with me like friends often do but he told me he was serious. He's not gay by any means and he has been with roughly 300 different women.

Now for the young ladies. I NEVER catch them looking at me and if I do, they turn away lightning fast as if I were Shrek and they are hoping I don't speak to them or look at them. If it weren't for that I would consider myself to be a good-looking guy. It makes me feel great when guys and older women tell me that stuff but I can't even get a passing glance from a woman I'd actually consider being intimate with. Maybe I need to start looking at older women LOL.

Just ignore women completely, this makes them want you so much more. If you act like you do not need them they start wanting you.

You may be on to something there, DLD. I'm in class this summer with some cute women and I've barely spoken to them. I'm busy as hell but I'm like the only guy in class that hasn't paid much attention to them. All the other guys are all over them like a hobo on a bologna sandwich but I just nod, smile, and go about my business. This one girl seemed to give me a pretty seductive look the other day but I didn't read into it since I'm so bad at picking up on their signals. They are so damn subtle about it. A few years ago I was eating with a girl friend at Chili's and she told me our waitress was flirting with me. I asked how she knew that because the waitress didn't so much as look at me the whole time we were there and she said the waitress did it by brushing my shoulder with hers as she sat down next to me to take our order. Talk about subtle. Apparently I was supposed to take that as a signal that she was interested LOL.

Yup DLDs advise about ignoreing them works well but is a double edged sword take it from me, unless your not arsed about finding love at the scene and in my case that was college. I would go about my daily routine and just speak when need be, many of the girls in the class were too immature for me anyway and I rarely spoke or looked at most of them but I did catch a few of them, incl the more attractive ones checking me out from time to time.

It wasn't so much a seductive glance, more checking me as women do .. who knows, I do reckon some fancied me but they were more trouble than they are worth.

I also noticed they would pay great attention when I spoke to the tutors or other girls that came into the class from other classes, like being nosey. The double edged sword is it can seem to be your ignorant, rude or just don't like them so be careful unless your not arsed which is probably best.

When your out in the clubs, do the same but its not as direct. You don't be the Casanova common-type, which is boring and predictable. Just don't do the typical swarm all over a girl and buy her drinks, than touch her up. Be pleasant but cool. Ask like can I buy you a drink and she will say yes, than say only if you buy me one first and smile. Shows humour and I use this often. Just build on being different and unique as this brings out your INDIVIDUALITY more instead of being a sheep like what David D and co often transfer men into.

Women want one thing more than anything, attention, and when they get it from every guy out there and you ignore them you end up in the better position because they will work extra hard to get you to notice them.

On a side note, I noticed that you're in New England. You wouldn't happen to be a Patriots fan, would you?

doublelongdaddy;379613 said:

I just wanted to put some light into a dark place...the mind of a woman

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Well said.

GOMER_PYLE;386279 said:

On a side note, I noticed that you're in New England. You wouldn't happen to be a Patriots fan, would you?

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I live in New England but I am a New York fan...GIANTS!

LarryTheNovice;386637 said:

Well said.

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It is not their fault they lack a penis but damn that lack of penis really makes them psychos.

doublelongdaddy;386714 said:

I live in New England but I am a New York fan...GIANTS!

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LOL ouch on that one! I'm a diehard Pats fan and have been as long as I can remember. I'm sure you can imagine how disappointed I was when your team stomped mine in that Super Bowl.

From my own past experience, when a woman has been ''into'' me my penis was the biggest she'd ever had (whether it was or not). When we broke up or I pissed her off, it was smaller than her last or she knew a girl who dated a guy with a cock as ''long as her forearm and thicker than her wrist''. (Rolls eyes). Yea and your twat is drier than the Sahara and is looser than a teflon coated wingnut. If you ever want to play a fun game with a woman, have her actually MEASURE her wrist. Chances are, it's 5'' or less in girth.

Women will chew you up and spit you out if you let em. The key is learning to filter the bullshit and just say ''yea ok babe''. Also, knowing the real life averages on penis size has helped me keep a grasp of reality at times. I know better, 'nuff said. I know my own 7'' non bp erect length is rare enough, but to have a combined bigger than average length AND girth (6.25'' midshaft) is like the proverbial ''needle in the hay stack''.

I'm VERY happily married now by the way. Been with an amazing woman for the last 5 years nearly.

As you said but loved this one

Yea and your twat is drier than the Sahara and is looser than a teflon coated wingnut

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So true Still! Women are like people that borrow money from you, they are happy and loving when they get the money but when it is time to pay they become a different species. I have stayed clear of women, I mean I am dedicated to Jen, but while she is away I don't even look at girls...they are a big headache.

I've been watching a lot of Ramon's stuff on the free video sites around. The guy is definitely hung like crazy but judging by most of the girls' reactions to it, I think he is too long at whatever size he is. I've watched 35 vids of his and about 30 of them (a few were hard to judge whether it was pain or pure ecstasy) showed the girls in obvious pain. The other 5 seemed to enjoy it and 1 of those 5 squirted like 5 times and had a drunk, out-of-it look on her face. I remember seeing one with him and Brandi Belle and she commented that he was pretty much fucking her stomach and it hurt her. The look on her face was like she was about to puke or something. I remember reading somewhere (probably here) that he is about 9" NBP and I have no idea on the girth but he looks like he is around 6.5" EGMS to me. I guess 8x6 really is a good size to aim for and will be considered huge by just about any female I would meet. I've got about 1.5" to go for the length and .25" to go for the girth. 1.5" doesn't seem like much of a difference but I cut a piece of copy paper into an 8x6 tube and that is substantially larger than I currently am. If a girl ever tells me I'm small when I get to that size I'll know with 100% certainty that she is full of shit. Looks like 8x6 is the goal for me.

Gomer Pyle, I was really moved by your post. Your situation is not that different from mine. I'm 29. not a virgin. but every time I've had sex with a girl (not often, I've only had 3 girl friends in my entire life-only had sex with two of them) the whole time I was scared to death I would not be big enough. I'm average(6x5). I have great sexual stamina from years of masturbating alone in my room all night. I also have decent technique because I read a lot of books about sexual technique for men. But my size-fears have ruined my confidence. I have zero game. The only way I was ever able to get a girl-friend or get laid was because I was lucky enough to be the right guy in the right place at the right time. In high school and college all the really hot girls liked me because I'm decent looking, easy to get along with, and I was always in a band (guitar). But my confidence was crap because of my size-fears. Basically, if a girl makes the first moves sometimes i'll try to go with it as far as I can, but mostly I'm the one rejecting them so they never have a chance to reject me! (crazy- I know!) Also like you I'm interested in starting a regimen of physical culture of witch p.e. would be a part. Any way, just thought I'd say I very much appreciated your post. If you ever need a buddy don't hesitate to drop me a line. I love how everyone on this forum is very supportive of each other. So keep up the great work and I'll do my best to keep up with you. (P.S. I lost my virginity when I was 19 in college and I have not even kissed a girl in about 7 or 8 years, and I'm not even in prison..... But we do our best). -Mike.

Good points by all but something we all forget is women\girls aint everything and like DLD said they bring a massive headache. I'm single and aint fucked in ages, cant say I'm that bothered. Sure I love to see a girl orgasm and to feel that intense connection with sex but I cant be doing with the shit some women bring. Better off wanking yourself sili, do the Penis Enlargement and oneday you will meet her.

TimeBomb;387155 said:

Gomer Pyle, I was really moved by your post. Your situation is not that different from mine. I'm 29. not a virgin. but every time I've had sex with a girl (not often, I've only had 3 girl friends in my entire life-only had sex with two of them) the whole time I was scared to death I would not be big enough. I'm average(6x5). I have great sexual stamina from years of masturbating alone in my room all night. I also have decent technique because I read a lot of books about sexual technique for men. But my size-fears have ruined my confidence. I have zero game. The only way I was ever able to get a girl-friend or get laid was because I was lucky enough to be the right guy in the right place at the right time. In high school and college all the really hot girls liked me because I'm decent looking, easy to get along with, and I was always in a band (guitar). But my confidence was crap because of my size-fears. Basically, if a girl makes the first moves sometimes i'll try to go with it as far as I can, but mostly I'm the one rejecting them so they never have a chance to reject me! (crazy- I know!) Also like you I'm interested in starting a regimen of physical culture of witch p.e. would be a part. Any way, just thought I'd say I very much appreciated your post. If you ever need a buddy don't hesitate to drop me a line. I love how everyone on this forum is very supportive of each other. So keep up the great work and I'll do my best to keep up with you. (P.S. I lost my virginity when I was 19 in college and I have not even kissed a girl in about 7 or 8 years, and I'm not even in prison..... But we do our best). -Mike.

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Hey thanks man, I appreciate that. There is this girl in my class that started talking to me and I'm REALLY attracted to her. I might actually be willing to go through with it this time because she is so tiny. She is like 5'3" and 100 pounds if that and her waist is about as big around as my thigh LOL. Her pupils were really dilated the other day when I talked to her in the hall so I believe that is a sign of attraction. She seems really cool too so hopefully it would be substantially more than a ONS.

As for your situation, I find that kind of discouraging for myself because I've been thinking this whole time that if I just get laid that will alleviate all of my concerns. However, I don't think it will now. In fact it might make them worse especially if I don't think she feels tight or if she seems to not like my dick. I am SO INCREDIBLY OBSESSED with getting a bigger dick that I think about it more than I do sex. I don't even watch �naked people movies� now unless it is monsters of cock or bang bros with Ramon or some other monster in it. At least now I finally understand what it takes to gain. I don't know if you lift weights or not but I recently got into body building in March of this year. Your dick basically needs to feel sore and fatigued like your muscles do or, like like your muscles, it won't grow. It takes intense pressure from clamping and stretching from hanging (for me anyway, YMMV) and it has to feel sore. The use of a heating pad seems to work wonders too. I'm considering purchasing a Bathmate but I'll have to do some more research on it first. Surgery isn't entirely out of the question either since I only need about an inch and a half to reach my length goal.

As for girth, I think I'll gain quickly in that department. When I clamp I don't do any special squeezes or anything like that because of the intense pressure from the two clamps. My hands and fingers can't squeeze the clamps tight enough so I use adjustable pliers like these: http://www.toolsandleisure.co.uk/ekmps/shops/toolsandleisure/images/12_inch_water_pump_pliers.jpg

I was clamping for 25 minutes at a time but I had to back it off to 20 minutes because the skin burn/pain was almost intolerable. At 20 minutes it makes me sweat a little bit but it isn't too bad. No pain, no gain, right? Anyway, good luck to you and I'll definitely be around here for a long time to come if you want to chat.

REDZULU2003;387180 said:

Good points by all but something we all forget is women\girls aint everything and like DLD said they bring a massive headache. I'm single and aint fucked in ages, cant say I'm that bothered. Sure I love to see a girl orgasm and to feel that intense connection with sex but I cant be doing with the shit some women bring. Better off wanking yourself sili, do the Penis Enlargement and oneday you will meet her.

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LOL no wonder with your girth. IIRC, you are over 7" EGMS so that basically means that you might not fit into the center hole of a 45 pound olympic barbell plate. Now THAT is a pussy splitter!!!!

redzulu2003;387180 said:

good points by all but something we all forget is women\girls aint everything and like dld said they bring a massive headache. I'm single and aint fucked in ages, cant say i'm that bothered. Sure i love to see a girl orgasm and to feel that intense connection with sex but i cant be doing with the shit some women bring. Better off wanking yourself sili, do the pe and oneday you will meet her.

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