i knew about this before. to sum it up in one word,AMAZING! having a strong pc muscle will make you last even longer without trying. i made love to my girlfriend for 2 hours and finally came when she had enough. could have gone for longer but its she was satisfied. if you want a intense workout, search "advance pc muscle excercises love scene" on google. do those every day or every other day and in just one week you will be amazed. its more intense thatn the 100 squeezes. so, check it out all of you that want to become even BETTER!!
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I have had problems with enlarge prostate and early ejaculation for sometime now, my urologist gave me a combo a two drugs to shrink it and increase the flow of urine. I find useful apart from reverse kegels to relax the muscle surrounding the front pelvic bone and return to more normal breathing without the over excitement in expectation to ejaculate as it occurs with masturbation
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And finally, I have a non-Penis Enlargement related question: kegels! Now, months before I began my Penis Enlargement enlargement I wanted to learn how to increase my sexual stamina, and I read many sources that advised the strengthening of one's pelvic floor muscles. I was hungry to know this knowledge because I did not last too long with my hands...so I knew an abysmal future of ejaculating prematurely would be awaiting me at this rate. Yes, I am a virgin. I knew that if I could not last too long with my hands, then there would be no way in HELL I could last in a good, wet piece of pussy.
Luckily, I have been doing kegels for months which helped my Penis Enlargement from the get go. I eased into my stretches naturally as there was no "pullback" or any other involuntarily reflex from grabbing my penis. I have conditioned my pelvic floor muscles, along with the muscles adjacent to it, to remain calm and not constantly stay flexed. When I first began my kegels, it was odd, to say the least. It was even more eccentric thinking of the visual imagery...the idea of me isolating a muscle that is near my anal sphincter. About a month and a half down the road, I am able to clamp my muscle for a much longer time and blast away those kegels with less fatigue, but yet I was still confused as to why I was ejaculating even quicker. I figured I had to be doing something wrong...I hate to compare myself to �naked person� since they are biologically just built to do what they do best(not to mention the fact that you can last as long as you want thanks to Viagra, creative editing etc), so I will just compare myself to a more sexually experienced and conditioned male.
Every source of information regarding Penis Enlargement told me to clench my muscle tightly every time I was nearing orgasm, only to exacerbate my feeling of arousal and make me orgasm even quicker...frustrating. Sure, I was feeling a harder erection along with stronger orgasms, but I kept nutting quicker and quicker without a chance to enjoy my various movies that were playing.
It was only one day during my session that I discovered the secret--I won't even call it a "secret," but a the method that I believe all guys use(as part of one big technique) to last longer. I kept stroking during this session and noticed that I did not blow my load at that point as I usually would. The moment that I clenched my BC muscle, the sensation immediately came back and my body was on its way to ejaculation. It was at this very moment that I experienced an epiphany and realized what I had to do. I isolated my BC muscle, but instead of clenching it, I made the bold move of relaxing it and see if it would make a difference. I knew that I had done something different because my pelvic floor muscles felt like they had "sunk" all the way down, in contrast to the constant clenching feeling that I had been used to. I had no idea that I performed a "reverse kegel" and relaxed my pc muscle. I went on for about seven minutes of constant stroking before finally ejaculating...all over my black shirt, bed, and even my carpet, greatly astonished at what had just happened. Those seven minutes were significant to me, as I went 7 times longer as I normally would had without the need for a pause or to even slow my speed down.
Months have passed since then and I have greatly augmented my knowledge on how the male reaches his orgasm + ejaculation, from a to z. I took a completely different look at Penis Enlargement...I don't even like to call it Penis Enlargement as it is not a medical condition for virtually most men; one's sexual stamina can be trained, rather than "cured." I realized that the constant clenching of my muscle placed a lot of tension, causing constant exhaustion that always led to quick ejaculations as a result of a muscle that is always overworked without sufficient recovery. In this time period, I did more kegels than ever, with the emphasis of clenching in as much as I can, but also focus on pushing it out as much as I can as well. And let me be the first to tell you that it took me a while to learn how to push out my BC muscle. And again, this is something we all know how to do, it's just a movement we don't workout in excess. I learned a couple of days later that I did a reverse kegel. The following sessions after that were hit and miss: some days I lasted longer, some days I busted quickly. I read that reverse kegels are the same movement you do do release your stream of urine and let it jettison, in contrast holding your BC and delay your urination. Once again, these are movements that everyman know how to do.
Today, I am still a virgin(still waiting for that special someone, :blush
. To be honest, I masturbate for the sake of improving my arousal and control. I am taking it to the next level by learning how to control small nuances, like my breathing. I learned that short, shallow breaths can easily contribute to one prematurely ejaculating. I began practicing longer, deeper breaths and focusing on filling my stomach, hold it for 3-5 seconds and slowly exhale. I believe that this is helping me out tremendously. It makes sense that a man who is breathing shallowly and quickly would cum quicker, as it speeds up the entire process by raising your blood pressure and etc. And when deeply breathe in, I think that I feel my pelvic floor muscles even more relaxed.
I know that my hands are nothing like the real thing, but I feel that I am ready to take it to the next level. I have been reading up the STU(Stamina Training Unit) and I wanted some serious input from you guys before I make such a leap. It is a made from the makers of the original FleshLight, and is one of the many products available. The idea of a toy that can train you for the real thing intrigues me,and I so want to try doggystyle and other positions that quite aren't possible with my hands. So, is anybody here experienced with this or any other FleshLight?
Thanks for reading this rather long post!
Luckily, I have been doing kegels for months which helped my Penis Enlargement from the get go. I eased into my stretches naturally as there was no "pullback" or any other involuntarily reflex from grabbing my penis. I have conditioned my pelvic floor muscles, along with the muscles adjacent to it, to remain calm and not constantly stay flexed. When I first began my kegels, it was odd, to say the least. It was even more eccentric thinking of the visual imagery...the idea of me isolating a muscle that is near my anal sphincter. About a month and a half down the road, I am able to clamp my muscle for a much longer time and blast away those kegels with less fatigue, but yet I was still confused as to why I was ejaculating even quicker. I figured I had to be doing something wrong...I hate to compare myself to �naked person� since they are biologically just built to do what they do best(not to mention the fact that you can last as long as you want thanks to Viagra, creative editing etc), so I will just compare myself to a more sexually experienced and conditioned male.
Every source of information regarding Penis Enlargement told me to clench my muscle tightly every time I was nearing orgasm, only to exacerbate my feeling of arousal and make me orgasm even quicker...frustrating. Sure, I was feeling a harder erection along with stronger orgasms, but I kept nutting quicker and quicker without a chance to enjoy my various movies that were playing.
It was only one day during my session that I discovered the secret--I won't even call it a "secret," but a the method that I believe all guys use(as part of one big technique) to last longer. I kept stroking during this session and noticed that I did not blow my load at that point as I usually would. The moment that I clenched my BC muscle, the sensation immediately came back and my body was on its way to ejaculation. It was at this very moment that I experienced an epiphany and realized what I had to do. I isolated my BC muscle, but instead of clenching it, I made the bold move of relaxing it and see if it would make a difference. I knew that I had done something different because my pelvic floor muscles felt like they had "sunk" all the way down, in contrast to the constant clenching feeling that I had been used to. I had no idea that I performed a "reverse kegel" and relaxed my pc muscle. I went on for about seven minutes of constant stroking before finally ejaculating...all over my black shirt, bed, and even my carpet, greatly astonished at what had just happened. Those seven minutes were significant to me, as I went 7 times longer as I normally would had without the need for a pause or to even slow my speed down.
Months have passed since then and I have greatly augmented my knowledge on how the male reaches his orgasm + ejaculation, from a to z. I took a completely different look at Penis Enlargement...I don't even like to call it Penis Enlargement as it is not a medical condition for virtually most men; one's sexual stamina can be trained, rather than "cured." I realized that the constant clenching of my muscle placed a lot of tension, causing constant exhaustion that always led to quick ejaculations as a result of a muscle that is always overworked without sufficient recovery. In this time period, I did more kegels than ever, with the emphasis of clenching in as much as I can, but also focus on pushing it out as much as I can as well. And let me be the first to tell you that it took me a while to learn how to push out my BC muscle. And again, this is something we all know how to do, it's just a movement we don't workout in excess. I learned a couple of days later that I did a reverse kegel. The following sessions after that were hit and miss: some days I lasted longer, some days I busted quickly. I read that reverse kegels are the same movement you do do release your stream of urine and let it jettison, in contrast holding your BC and delay your urination. Once again, these are movements that everyman know how to do.
Today, I am still a virgin(still waiting for that special someone, :blush
. To be honest, I masturbate for the sake of improving my arousal and control. I am taking it to the next level by learning how to control small nuances, like my breathing. I learned that short, shallow breaths can easily contribute to one prematurely ejaculating. I began practicing longer, deeper breaths and focusing on filling my stomach, hold it for 3-5 seconds and slowly exhale. I believe that this is helping me out tremendously. It makes sense that a man who is breathing shallowly and quickly would cum quicker, as it speeds up the entire process by raising your blood pressure and etc. And when deeply breathe in, I think that I feel my pelvic floor muscles even more relaxed.I know that my hands are nothing like the real thing, but I feel that I am ready to take it to the next level. I have been reading up the STU(Stamina Training Unit) and I wanted some serious input from you guys before I make such a leap. It is a made from the makers of the original FleshLight, and is one of the many products available. The idea of a toy that can train you for the real thing intrigues me,and I so want to try doggystyle and other positions that quite aren't possible with my hands. So, is anybody here experienced with this or any other FleshLight?
Thanks for reading this rather long post!
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skarmclops;449341 said:And finally, I have a non-Penis Enlargement related question: kegels! Now, months before I began my Penis Enlargement enlargement I wanted to learn how to increase my sexual stamina, and I read many sources that advised the strengthening of one's pelvic floor muscles. I was hungry to know this knowledge because I did not last too long with my hands...so I knew an abysmal future of ejaculating prematurely would be awaiting me at this rate. Yes, I am a virgin. I knew that if I could not last too long with my hands, then there would be no way in HELL I could last in a good, wet piece of pussy.
Luckily, I have been doing kegels for months which helped my Penis Enlargement from the get go. I eased into my stretches naturally as there was no "pullback" or any other involuntarily reflex from grabbing my penis. I have conditioned my pelvic floor muscles, along with the muscles adjacent to it, to remain calm and not constantly stay flexed. When I first began my kegels, it was odd, to say the least. It was even more eccentric thinking of the visual imagery...the idea of me isolating a muscle that is near my anal sphincter. About a month and a half down the road, I am able to clamp my muscle for a much longer time and blast away those kegels with less fatigue, but yet I was still confused as to why I was ejaculating even quicker. I figured I had to be doing something wrong...I hate to compare myself to �naked person� since they are biologically just built to do what they do best(not to mention the fact that you can last as long as you want thanks to Viagra, creative editing etc), so I will just compare myself to a more sexually experienced and conditioned male.
Every source of information regarding Penis Enlargement told me to clench my muscle tightly every time I was nearing orgasm, only to exacerbate my feeling of arousal and make me orgasm even quicker...frustrating. Sure, I was feeling a harder erection along with stronger orgasms, but I kept nutting quicker and quicker without a chance to enjoy my various movies that were playing.
It was only one day during my session that I discovered the secret--I won't even call it a "secret," but a the method that I believe all guys use(as part of one big technique) to last longer. I kept stroking during this session and noticed that I did not blow my load at that point as I usually would. The moment that I clenched my BC muscle, the sensation immediately came back and my body was on its way to ejaculation. It was at this very moment that I experienced an epiphany and realized what I had to do. I isolated my BC muscle, but instead of clenching it, I made the bold move of relaxing it and see if it would make a difference. I knew that I had done something different because my pelvic floor muscles felt like they had "sunk" all the way down, in contrast to the constant clenching feeling that I had been used to. I had no idea that I performed a "reverse kegel" and relaxed my pc muscle. I went on for about seven minutes of constant stroking before finally ejaculating...all over my black shirt, bed, and even my carpet, greatly astonished at what had just happened. Those seven minutes were significant to me, as I went 7 times longer as I normally would had without the need for a pause or to even slow my speed down.
Months have passed since then and I have greatly augmented my knowledge on how the male reaches his orgasm + ejaculation, from a to z. I took a completely different look at Penis Enlargement...I don't even like to call it Penis Enlargement as it is not a medical condition for virtually most men; one's sexual stamina can be trained, rather than "cured." I realized that the constant clenching of my muscle placed a lot of tension, causing constant exhaustion that always led to quick ejaculations as a result of a muscle that is always overworked without sufficient recovery. In this time period, I did more kegels than ever, with the emphasis of clenching in as much as I can, but also focus on pushing it out as much as I can as well. And let me be the first to tell you that it took me a while to learn how to push out my BC muscle. And again, this is something we all know how to do, it's just a movement we don't workout in excess. I learned a couple of days later that I did a reverse kegel. The following sessions after that were hit and miss: some days I lasted longer, some days I busted quickly. I read that reverse kegels are the same movement you do do release your stream of urine and let it jettison, in contrast holding your BC and delay your urination. Once again, these are movements that everyman know how to do.
Today, I am still a virgin(still waiting for that special someone, :blush
I know that my hands are nothing like the real thing, but I feel that I am ready to take it to the next level. I have been reading up the STU(Stamina Training Unit) and I wanted some serious input from you guys before I make such a leap. It is a made from the makers of the original FleshLight, and is one of the many products available. The idea of a toy that can train you for the real thing intrigues me,and I so want to try doggystyle and other positions that quite aren't possible with my hands. So, is anybody here experienced with this or any other FleshLight?
Thanks for reading this rather long post!
Funny you post this, I was considering looking into FleshLight as a possible way to deal with premature ejaculation. I was about to approach the company
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Sorry for the vagueness; I meant a deal between you and FleshLight!
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If you have a Bathmate and want to work in Kegels, your in a good position actually. I have found when pumping and doing kegels it works them more intensely. Let me be more specific. When in the Bathmate fully pumped and in the rhytHydromax of the session, not right at the start you wont have enough suction. Grip the tube and pull it towards you (Your belly) this doesn't need to be hard otherwise the suction will go, the base will come loose and its pointless ... so ease it upwards and you start to feel an inner stretch to the penis at first.
Go as far as you can with this stretch and once your at the borderline of loosing this, you start to kegel ... feel the pullback? you should be fully pumped by now and it helps allot if your keeping arousal levels high, so the blood flow is good and not limp but pumped ... a difference exists with a pumped dick un-aroused and a pumped dick aroused take that from me!!
So your pulling the Bathmate towards you and kegel. The pullback is felt. That is the muscle working, now you will notice one must keep a stronger grip on the Bathmate to stop it moving ... so do that otherwise the Bathmate will want to move about. Your essentially isolating the PC muscle via suction from the Bathmate and then with your strength in the arm and hands, guiding the tube to an angle of attack in order to work the muscles more effectively.
You can squeeze slowly, fast, holds etc etc and you will feel it. Another I tend to do is in this upper stretched position is squeeze the PC muscle and hold, then stretch out the Bathmate and its really intense. Sometimes I have had a slight dry orgasm that comes right from the prostate, it feels very different to the ordinary orgasm ... very pleasant indeed and comes from the anus region. When stretching like that a force must be placed around the prostate I assume as the PC muscles get moved or contract, perhaps they spasm? and this has the reaction it does.
In time you will find I promise you a stronger muscle, better orgasms, harder erections and multiple dry orgasms ... the pleasure is beyond words and nothing like your legs shaking as your cant stop orgasmic rays hitting you and your girl is fucking you at the same time ... its pure ecstasy.
Go as far as you can with this stretch and once your at the borderline of loosing this, you start to kegel ... feel the pullback? you should be fully pumped by now and it helps allot if your keeping arousal levels high, so the blood flow is good and not limp but pumped ... a difference exists with a pumped dick un-aroused and a pumped dick aroused take that from me!!
So your pulling the Bathmate towards you and kegel. The pullback is felt. That is the muscle working, now you will notice one must keep a stronger grip on the Bathmate to stop it moving ... so do that otherwise the Bathmate will want to move about. Your essentially isolating the PC muscle via suction from the Bathmate and then with your strength in the arm and hands, guiding the tube to an angle of attack in order to work the muscles more effectively.
You can squeeze slowly, fast, holds etc etc and you will feel it. Another I tend to do is in this upper stretched position is squeeze the PC muscle and hold, then stretch out the Bathmate and its really intense. Sometimes I have had a slight dry orgasm that comes right from the prostate, it feels very different to the ordinary orgasm ... very pleasant indeed and comes from the anus region. When stretching like that a force must be placed around the prostate I assume as the PC muscles get moved or contract, perhaps they spasm? and this has the reaction it does.
In time you will find I promise you a stronger muscle, better orgasms, harder erections and multiple dry orgasms ... the pleasure is beyond words and nothing like your legs shaking as your cant stop orgasmic rays hitting you and your girl is fucking you at the same time ... its pure ecstasy.
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I totally agree. Kegals in the Bathmate totally challenge my pelvic floor muscles; I had been doing kegels months prior to starting Penis Enlargement, so I already had an advantage in my girth training since I can engorge my peins fairly easily when my arousal levels are right. As soon as I develop super strong pelvic floor muscles, I will command my orgasms...become the master of my domain, haha! I can totally control masturbation now, and it all makes sense. I was taught, like most guys, that ejaculation happens whenever your body wants to, and that ejaculatory control could not be trained.
I am still a virgin, but I do not believe that I will be a two pump chump. Maybe a three pump chump lol. Every time I masturbate, I do it for the sake of control. Wish me luck for when the real deal comes around, guys.
I am still a virgin, but I do not believe that I will be a two pump chump. Maybe a three pump chump lol. Every time I masturbate, I do it for the sake of control. Wish me luck for when the real deal comes around, guys.
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Very good mindset; we should all follow suit!
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Free software The Kegel-Lite to help you time your kegels - Effectively a stopwatch.
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I thought this was Common Knowledge! lol
I honestly don't feel this technique works for me long enough but maybe with practice I can master it along with kegels. My penis is really sensitive So maybe I can get something going.
I honestly don't feel this technique works for me long enough but maybe with practice I can master it along with kegels. My penis is really sensitive So maybe I can get something going.
I have read a lot of information lately regarding this and I see everywhere that yous should be training kegels.
My question is do you need to train reverse kegels aswell or just normal kegels will build up the reverse technique aswell when need to apply it comes?
Or shall someone train first normal kegels and then sets of reverse kegels and should they be done together/different days etc...
My question is do you need to train reverse kegels aswell or just normal kegels will build up the reverse technique aswell when need to apply it comes?
Or shall someone train first normal kegels and then sets of reverse kegels and should they be done together/different days etc...
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