homelesswombat;356623 said:
The only way to find this question out for sure: do a study!
Get a bunch of women to try a series of dildos. They should probably range from 4.5"x4" to 9"x7". The women would then be left alone in a room to try as many as they like, then report back which was their favorite.
Pretty simple, but I think a study like this would be revolutionary.
That would be, indeed, a great way to study if SIZE (and nothing but size) matters or not. The only problem is that, unless we're just talking about no-strings-attached sex, we cannot analize the size alone.
We've all heard about how women need much more than just a stick to shag in a relationship. They need the attention, the love, the caresses, etc. That is why this whole subject hasn't had any decent conclusion yet.
There's a saying here in Portugal that "as long as you have a finger and a tongue, you can face any woman" (something along those lines). This kind of supports the theory that size, alone, isn't that important. "It's the motion of the ocean", as they say.
It's the same for us, guys. I'm a boobs man. I prefer them from 38Cs and above. I like handfulls. However, I've been with women that hadn't such large breasts. Did I fail to get any pleasure from their boobs? Not at all. Since I'm no Mick Jagger or Steven Tyler, a 36B is more than enough to fill my mouth, and that's all I need to satisfy my oral urge to suck on them.
Bigger tits are much more a visual and psychological thing than a physical one. Are they more pleasurable? If you put the visual, psychological and physical stymulus together, YES, i find that bigger boobs are more pleasurable. But what I mean is that the fact that they are MORE pleasurable doesn't mean that I don't get a great kick from smaller boobs too, and I believe that's what many men forget when it comes to penis size.
Evolution has made a 5.5" penis the average, i. e., the majority, for a reason. It's because, in time, this proved to be the most suited size for the average, i. e., the majority of women. And evolution is hardly wrong when it comes to averages.
So, all things considered, I believe a big penis (not necessarily huge, just above average), is good for the following reasons:
• it is visually more attractive to women
• they may get the feeling their man is more manly, and thus a good biological choice for their offspring
• it may help you to reach more nerves in side her (not granted, you still need to know what you're doing =P)
• and, most important of all, I believe it can make you a better lover just because it makes you more confident (whoever said the most important organ in sex was the brain was absolutely right).
Being dumped just because of your dick size is like dumping a girl because of her breast size. Unless all you're looking for is some unnattached sex, it is damn shallow, meaning that is not the person you will want to share your life with.
So, to sum it up, I believe penis size is, in fact, much more important to us than it is for women, and when we feel insecure about it we let it show in our attitudes towards the fair sex.
We are doing this, basically, for ourselves.
. Seriously, with all respect I have of women, but I think they don't know what they want if it comes to penis size, of course I don't mean all of them but some haha.
