Hey all,
Just checking in, and just wanted to say, I am achieving EXACTLY what I sought out to do. And the fact it is working so nicely, I just feel awesome. Imagine having a collar around your neck, or a motorcycle helmet over your head your whole life. And imagine the moment you get it taken off, the sense of new freedom, and how fresh the air seems now, completely unrestricted.
JanBarrel, I am not even sure how many ties it is now, because I did so many ties of two and three at a time, I must be around a dozen total or more? My last tie was very quick to cut through, maybe only 3-4 days, but up until now I have been tying very small distances, maybe releasing a few mm at a time with each tie.
The benefit of this method is the cosmetic end result. My last ties before detached the glans or head of the pens completely. Utter freedom, and my gf says definite increase in size she can notice the difference in her mouth when giving oral sex. I would also say it really seems like a 10-20% increase in just how much it can now fill up with blood and swell. Think of it like a balloon that was stretched out before inflating, it won't fill to the max. But a balloon without the pull or tug, your frenulum for example, restricting inflation/expansion, it's almost as if you really need to go through and complete this procedure to see for yourself. Obviously there's pictures but really, I didn't expect this many positive benefits at all. I just wanted to prevent future tearing and pain during rough sex or fast sex thatbwasnt smooth and controlled. My gf says it's like I'm an animal now in bed raging with hormones, I love it, she loves it. If you have this problem, do it. Tie yourself. You won't regret it at all.
The only thing I regret is not starting sooner. And I know with Penis Enlargement EXERCISES its not quick or fast, but a long term commitment. Before I found this Page (wow, thank you so much Phimosis, you absolutely do rock!) all I read about was circumcision, sorry but NO THANKS, stretching exercises lasting 3-5 yrs without guaranteed results, or what I was willing to look into. Frenuloplasty type procedures, before I found out about tying.
Sorry for the long post, just rather excited I'm finally almost done. I think started this procedure approx 2 months ago, which is still lengthy, but I'm through the worst and see the light at the end of the tunnel. I'm 1-2 ties away from finishing and complete freedom. Not to mention, it just looks awesome now. I could be a poster boy for advertising the results, a poster dick for advertising cosmetic procedures (really, it's looking that good), or a stunt sick to fill in for pornos or maybe movie scenes for celebs who are shy or have problems down there. Hell, I feel like walking around naked just to show off, but I'm sure my neighbour's and gf would have something to say about that idea.
Anyways, the major problems I had before like JanBarrel regarding excess skin and getting rid of it, my method has created those small flaps between ties. Normal people with less excess skin, they can tie along the length of their frenulum and apparently the remaining skin nubs will sink back or absorbed into the shaft. I didn't notice that happening, nor did I have months recovery time to see if they would. So just being careful and also good eye, fter numbing with emla cream, they can literally be snipped off like your nails, be careful and precise. My very first clip I went too deep and into the shaft, the latter clips were perfect, but I did a few practice squeezes before the final clip these times..
I made sure to do many ties and keep things small so I wouldn't have a giant flap or slices to remove afterwards that would bleed profusely from the size. Everything was very much easy to do, and after so many ties, I feel like I could do this in my sleep and almost blindfolded. I believe at first I wanted just one tie, deep, cut a lot at once just to get the procedure over with, but that would have left two ugly ends of the frenulum still attached to deal with. And although you could clip those too, I found it beneficial to do everything from the top down, that way, the frenulum actually keeps pulling pressure from down below while the ties cut through. I feel with no tension at all, the cuts or ties wouldn't be so nicely done, or close to the shaft.
I'm sorry somewhere between the last few sets of ties, I stopped photographing each time I tied, so when I get my pics up, there may be a couple ties not documented near the tail end of my procedure. I am disappointed I didn't take a pic of the second last bottom flap before and after I clipped it. I guess I can still take an after shot once my current to that is in cuts through, and take a couple more pics just to document my last and final tie, and then the clipping of the last, uppermost, and biggest flap left as the final clean up step in achieving the ultimate result. I know I seem to be talking it up, but I am seriously ultra impressed and I'm sure anyone who checks out the photo evidence, you'd agree. It's almost as if, if I didn't document the whole procedure, and had the pics to prove it, I wouldnt believe the before and after was the same person - and I'm the guy who did the procedure!!!!! And it's me!!!!!! I'm still in shock.
Anyways, just wanted to give a detailed update. As detailed as what i read and found online was, I didn't have the guts to do it until I read this thread. And now have become a part of it. Seriously, for all the self conscious bullshit I put myself through over the past decade or more (I am 24 now) some since teenage years, and all the times I held back over some great sexual opportunities in the past, suffering from my frenulum, if I can help just one other man out there in this world, all my long posts and efforts would have been worth the while. I'm grateful for you guys having the cahonas to post prior to my website search, and allowing me to metamorphosis out of one phase of my life and catapult into another.
I wish you all the same success to all those currently tying, thinking about it, or have ties in as we speak. Anyone can do this. Anyone who needs to, should. It'll be one of the best things that ever happened to you, your ego, your manhood, your confidence in yourself. All side benefits gained from such a simple thing. Also if I ever need to do sutures or stitches on myself or someone, I feel skilled and comfortable enough now after this. Before I used to cringe at needles and poking stuff into your skin, although I do have multiple piercings and two tatoos, but now I'm much more comfortable with things, life has gotten better in so many ways. It will for you too.
I will post again soon, when something changes. My next tie should cut through in the next few days. Then I can heal a few days (like every time so far) and then tie again. It looks like my next tie might be my last. I've done this so many times now, it almost feels like habit. So weirdness it sounds, I might even miss the whole process of putting a tie in, waiting to cut through, then inspecting the positive changes and results, before moving forward again. But I guess it will be so nice just be finished entirely. I just wish I did this ten years ago when I was younger. It would have made a massive difference in my life.
Cheers all,
I wouldn't worry about it unless it gets considerably more noticeable.