I have some advice. You say you're like 30. So you probably have about 15 years left of looking really good. I imagine you work really hard to look the way you do, as well as work really hard on other aspects of your life. Wasting time is not an option. I'm nearly 27 and I feel the squeeze of time. Keep in mind I haven't had any real relationships but this is how I see it:

a) You're with this girl because she is hot and provides sexual release. Ditch her and either start fucking multiple hot chicks or find another hot chick to regularly fuck. Like I said, you have about 15 years left to be able to do this before age starts making things difficult. Or just keep her and start seeing other girls. Play her at her own game, use her for sex. Clearly you are capable of pulling another hot chick no problem, if not multiple.

b) You have feelings for this girl. You want a real relationship - a soul mate. She's started lying to you and your trust is fucked. Staying with her any longer is a waste of your time. Don't settle for a woman with weak morals and lack of self control. Of course everyone wants to cheat. But lots of people just don't do it. It's called commitment.
 
MikeShlort;564498 said:
That old vacu vin is the one a guy here originally used for [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]X-40[/words], but [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]x40[/words] valve is a bit different.

Do you still pump with the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]gaiter[/words] when using this mod or just the wine mod ?

little bit with the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]gaiter[/words] first to get suction then the rest wine vac, works really well
 
Actually she isn't even that hot. She is about a 6. Actually a 7 cause she has 36DDD's. She used to have a good ass to, but she keeps getting fatter so now its just a bunch of blubber and cottage cheese. actually she's a lot bigger then 36DDD but refuses to admit it and stuffs herself into bras that are way to small.

I'm actually younger then you. I was saying I'm closer to 30 then I am to 20. Also, she isn't great for sex either because she rarely wants to have sex. I'm constantly trying to get something going, but we still only have sex twice a week. I want to have sex multiple times a day.

Anyway, we live together so it would be hard to break up even though its getting pretty obvious that she is spending a lot of time talking to this guy.
 
ShadedSam;559650 said:
Been lurking for awhile and I decided to start a progress thread. It will include pictures so I think I'm in the right forum.

Ok, a little background. I started using an [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] in January and I have been using it for 4 hours a day 5 days a week since then (7 months now), skipping weekends. I started at 7.5 inches and I am currently 8 bpel, 8 1/4 bpfsl. I also do manual stretches whenever I can, usually 5 days a week, sometimes less. I recently (last two weeks) started doing the [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] and stretches 6 days a week skipping Sundays. I also do some clamping but not often (2-3 days a week). I've gained a little from that as well. I started at 5.5 and now I'm at 5.8. Anyway, I guess the main reason I'm posting is because I feel like I've hit a plateau. I've been stuck at 8 inches for awhile now, but before now I could see progress every month. I am aiming for 10x6.5 bpel. I really only want about 9 inches, but I figure if I hit 10, even if it shrinks (or on a bad day) I will be at least 9. If anyone actually reads this, do you have any suggestions on how to break through my plateau?

Here's a couple pics. I'm 6'2" as a matter of perspective. I'll upload some measuring pics in the future. Also, how do I do a thumbnail?
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Flaccid hang has increased A LOT which is always good for confidence ;)
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WOW! Humbled Brother! Very big starting stats!
 
ShadedSam;564582 said:
Actually she isn't even that hot. She is about a 6. Actually a 7 cause she has 36DDD's. She used to have a good ass to, but she keeps getting fatter so now its just a bunch of blubber and cottage cheese. actually she's a lot bigger then 36DDD but refuses to admit it and stuffs herself into bras that are way to small.

I'm actually younger then you. I was saying I'm closer to 30 then I am to 20. Also, she isn't great for sex either because she rarely wants to have sex. I'm constantly trying to get something going, but we still only have sex twice a week. I want to have sex multiple times a day.

Anyway, we live together so it would be hard to break up even though its getting pretty obvious that she is spending a lot of time talking to this guy.



I'm sorry you're going through this situation. These are definitely signs of possible infidelity, and from the way you describe her she may be feeling insecure about herself. The attention from some other guy is making up for those insecurities.

It sucks, because once someone decides to allow someone else into their life they'll start lying their asses off while continuing the affair, almost as if they want you to go crazy so they can turn you into the bad guy (I've had this happen to me, it isn't fun.)


You could try talking to her about where the both of you stand in your relationship right now. (Calmly, don't accuse.) You're feeling as though your sex life is a bit lacking, she might feel like that you're just using her for sex, and doesn't want to be treated that way, even if that isn't your intention.


That way you can decide whether or not this relationship is worth pursuing, if you're unable to fulfill each others needs. If you're in a living situation together it may be best to end it without things getting ugly.


MikeShlort;564538 said:
Of course everyone wants to cheat. But lots of people just don't do it. It's called commitment.


It's called not being a shitty person. I really don't fit that mentality at all. "Sure, I'll enter a relationship with you, but during the duration of it I really want to fuck someone else without your consent." No, I only want to be with the person I'm in a relationship with, that's why I entered the relationship in the first place. Otherwise I'd stay single.

There's gotta be other people who feel the same way. I doubt everyone wants to cheat on their partners. That crushing feeling of despair created by cheating is something I'd only wish upon my enemies.
 
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Thanks DLD! Hopefully my ending stats will be even MORE impressive :)

So I've been keeping at it. I took Mike and Coogi's advice and pumped again on Monday. I did it with a cock ring on, and I will never do that again. Now I have a nasty purple bruise on the right side of my penis, and I have two ugly black-blue spots underneath near my balls. I think next time (probably next week) I will pump at low pressure for a long time, because high pressure is giving me injuries. Good news is I was past the last mark on the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]penomet[/words].

I think I've pretty well cemented the 8.2 length, but I'm not sure yet. I'll wait a week and see. I decided to start focusing more on lig stretches, and at the end of the exercises I can get to 8.5 inches bpfsl. I think I have a lot to gain from lig stretches since I still haven't finished my "newbie gains". I've only gained .7 inches, and there is a LOT of penis that is still tucked inside that I think I can release with just lig stretches. I'm going to try doing 3 hours of lig stretches plus 3 hours in the [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] a day. I've also noticed that lig stretches have helped increase my nbpl, which is what really matter lol. It also helps my 90% erection length to be closer to my 100% which is good because before my 90% was about an inch shorter (but almost the same thickness).

I really need to get something I can use for all day. Its now been 3 weeks since I bought the stealth and it still isn't here. Luckily they have good customer service. My tracking number went to the junk mail and got deleted, so I emailed them and they emailed me the tracking number a few hours later. It is in New York right now about to be shipped here.
 
The best way to do Penis Enlargement is starting with low amount of time and force and gradually building up time and force each day. Also, you should be milking gains from basic exercises before you start doing very advanced things, like pumping with a cock ring.

Pumping is an advanced and effective enough exercise. You don't need to be using a cock ring while pumping. Maybe after you've been doing 3 pumping + girth session/day with pumps of various sizes, maxing all of them out with pressure by using mods and you're still not gaining, then you might want to try something like using a cock ring while pumping. But by then you'll be like 7 inches of girth.

Using a cock ring AFTER pumping is a different story. I essentially did that (I tied off my balls and extreme base with a bathrobe cord after pumping). It kept the temporary pump longer. But this was after I was maxing out the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Herc[/words] pressure wise. And I wake up every 3 hours at night, so I was able to monitor myself.

If you can stretch with your hand 3 hours/day and not go crazy, well done. If you happen to get sick of doing that, instead of quitting, you should try hanging. If you're crazy enough to pump with a cock ring, there is no reason to fear hanging.

Hanging is essentially pulling on your dick with you hand for 3 hours/day, except instead of the fluctuating and eventual weakening of force, it's a constant, measurable force that can be applied in 20 minute sets. Also, you can accomplish other things while hanging, since both hands are free. The downside is you are on your back, so you can't eat. But you can read, type, play an instrument, practice sign language, do sit ups... It's great!
 
Lol, I didn't know pumping with a cock ring was crazy! I decided to take your advice Mike. I have been doing these lig stretches and seem some amazing nbp increases. My dick hangs lower and it looks so much bigger because of that. I want to continue getting these lig stretches, so I bought all the equipment to build a captain's wench. I'll put it together tomorrow. What would you recommend as a starting weight?
 
ShadedSam;565451 said:
Lol, I didn't know pumping with a cock ring was crazy! I decided to take your advice Mike. I have been doing these lig stretches and seem some amazing nbp increases. My dick hangs lower and it looks so much bigger because of that. I want to continue getting these lig stretches, so I bought all the equipment to build a captain's wench. I'll put it together tomorrow. What would you recommend as a starting weight?

With captain's wench, under 5lbs, unless you can hang 5lbs without discomfort. I suggest you use t-shirt material as under wrap and theraband as outer wrap. Use scotch tape to tape the wraps on.
 
Thanks Mike. I am hanging 5 lbs right now, and I am really liking it. It is giving me the same lig stretch as manuals, but with more control, plus I can type while doing it! Also, it makes it easier to keep my heating pad on the ligs while they are being stretched. I think I will do this twice a day for 3 20 min sessions each time. That should bring me at 14 hours a week.
I am fast on my way toward my goal of 8.75 bpel by January!

I also FINALLY received my stealth in the mail today. I thought they were going to send me two sizes because I wasn't sure what the right size was (I clicked the "ship 2" button) but both were the same size and they seem to big. I will try washing it and putting it on after a pump session and see if that makes it fit right, but it might be because I measured around my shaft and not my head, and my head is smaller.
 
Still going at it. Been hanging 6 pounds 2 hours a day. Haven't had time for much [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] work, but I still do manuals and get about an hour a day with the [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] and I try to use the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Penomet[/words] every day. I got the wine vac in the mail today for the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Penomet[/words], and holy shit. I did a 3x5 with it and took a pic :)View attachment 27833
 
ShadedSam;565957 said:
Still going at it. Been hanging 6 pounds 2 hours a day. Haven't had time for much [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] work, but I still do manuals and get about an hour a day with the [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] and I try to use the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Penomet[/words] every day. I got the wine vac in the mail today for the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Penomet[/words], and holy shit. I did a 3x5 with it and took a pic :)View attachment 27833

Either you have a 14" cock or a 3" foot:) J.K>:)

Awesome cock picture, great expansion and I wish you the best in your further enlargement!
 
Haha DLD. I didn't even notice my foot in the pic.

So last night my gf finally said I was big while we were fucking. We went into an empty room at a party after everyone fell asleep. We were both drunk and going at it hard for a long time and she came a few times then I was fucking her doggy and she said "you're so BIG" probably loud enough for people to hear it if they were awake. So that was a confidence boost and motivation to keep at it!
 
ShadedSam;566089 said:
Haha DLD. I didn't even notice my foot in the pic.

lol. perspective is EVERYTHING:) You are truly massive my Brother!
 
Hey Sam it's cool that your hanging, I started hanging 4-5 weeks ago with the lg vacuum hanger I'm currently doing 2 x 60 mins BTC a day at 1.93kg (not sure about the pounds) increasing weight every week, I'm half way through my second set of the day right now! You should consider vacuum hanging in the future, what you would normally accomplish with 1 & a half hours regular hanging including breaks I accomplish in 1 hour with a 1 hour set, time is money! I actually fell asleep on my first set lol lucky I had the timer on my iPhone and not the stopwatch.

Try the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]penomet[/words] as an air pump too, I've seen much better results from air pumping with the wine vac in 1 month than I saw in 3 months [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]penomet[/words] water pumping. And i played around with Lots of techniques (supersets, long sets, short sets Etc) It's also very cool to see what your dick looks like when it's expanded in the tube without the water magnifying effect. I now get way less retention and better expansion and its more convinient, try 3 x 6 mins with edging between and use Lube on your dick, with air pumping, lower pressures are better, use a good amount of vacuum that doesn't cause you discomfort and slowly build it up over the sets. If you like air pumping just listen to your body In regards to safe pressures and play with longer sets too 2 x 8 is good as well. Good luck, and sorry to hear about your purple spots!

*edit, to clarify, [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]penomet[/words] air pumping is only effective with the wine vac mod*
 
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Coogi, never tried it with air and vac, will give it a try. Wondering the same thing about the new [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Hydromax[/words] Extreme?
 
Hey dld it's awesome like I said great results for me so far, for some reason theres a lot of negative stigma with air pumping, everybody will tell you water pumping is the way to go but I much prefer air pumping with my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]penomet[/words], not sure about the extreme but if it has the wine vac the it should work! I encourage you to try it.
 
I think its more an issue of how long people pump for. If you pump longer than 5 minutes, wet or dry, for some people is too much. Everybody has got to try themselves and figure out what's right for them. The 5x5x3, in my opinion, is the best method dry or wet. It Gives the best expansion and gives the lease water retention.
 
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