I have some advice. You say you're like 30. So you probably have about 15 years left of looking really good. I imagine you work really hard to look the way you do, as well as work really hard on other aspects of your life. Wasting time is not an option. I'm nearly 27 and I feel the squeeze of time. Keep in mind I haven't had any real relationships but this is how I see it:
a) You're with this girl because she is hot and provides sexual release. Ditch her and either start fucking multiple hot chicks or find another hot chick to regularly fuck. Like I said, you have about 15 years left to be able to do this before age starts making things difficult. Or just keep her and start seeing other girls. Play her at her own game, use her for sex. Clearly you are capable of pulling another hot chick no problem, if not multiple.
b) You have feelings for this girl. You want a real relationship - a soul mate. She's started lying to you and your trust is fucked. Staying with her any longer is a waste of your time. Don't settle for a woman with weak morals and lack of self control. Of course everyone wants to cheat. But lots of people just don't do it. It's called commitment.
a) You're with this girl because she is hot and provides sexual release. Ditch her and either start fucking multiple hot chicks or find another hot chick to regularly fuck. Like I said, you have about 15 years left to be able to do this before age starts making things difficult. Or just keep her and start seeing other girls. Play her at her own game, use her for sex. Clearly you are capable of pulling another hot chick no problem, if not multiple.
b) You have feelings for this girl. You want a real relationship - a soul mate. She's started lying to you and your trust is fucked. Staying with her any longer is a waste of your time. Don't settle for a woman with weak morals and lack of self control. Of course everyone wants to cheat. But lots of people just don't do it. It's called commitment.