Is a bigger penis better for women?

[berufssoldat]

Odds of dying on contact with hot tap water....WTF?

Yea, you are very close to my size but a hair bigger in each category...I have been the biggest so far except one girl. I was 2nd with her out of 6, but the one guy she refused even tell me how big he was when she said they measured, but she explained it as being very uncomfortable...something along the lines of him going into her chest or throat or something. She told me also that she enjoyed mine much better. I was told also that he pulled it out in front of some girl in a car and her jaw dropped or some effect like that...so though it may cause awe in girls, doesn't mean they will actually like using it.

 

[DLD]

i wonder what the odds of being killed by a 9 inch penis are...

lmbao

 

[Grandspb]

15 cm and more is ENOUGH to make women CRY from satisfactions mates ))) believe me, she'll forget how many inches you have down there! Don't think penis size is the only thing to bring extasy in sex ))

 

[Grandspb]

Hmmm, I never asked how bigger or smaller I was comparing to my GF's previous guyes, but I always did my best for her to remember me as the best lover and not because of 9-inch gun

Learn the art of seduction guyes )

 

[DLD]

It's true, love will conquer all but in some situation love has nothing to do with it, some women are just evil.

 

[painekilla]

All women are lying evil sluts. Pound them out and hurt them during sex, and they will respect you. If you try that love bullshit, then you are going to be a depressed hermit when you find out she's cheating on you. Women don't go for that bullshit.

 

[REDZULU2003]

Just don't get too involved or serious EVER with a women until your ready for it. In the meantime always have our guard up and be ready for her to simply stray and fuck about, so don't allow it and do it yourself. Fuck her and keep her on a leash while fucking other whores at the same time, that-way when you get bored you can fuck her off and still have your wick dipped and avoid all the bullshit at the same-time. I never liked that sort of stuff and I'm not a bad guy or anything but I've come across so many nasty shallow bitches, that for now I will just date casually several women on the go and get rid when I suit and like my Romanian male friend says who also happens to have a stunning women on his arm every-time ''Women are like a game, you play it and have fun but than you get bored or complete the game so you try another game and so the cycle continues'' < Like it!

 

[painekilla]

Good advice Redzulu. It's good hearing a fellow [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]mos[/words] member that understands reality. So many men become brainwashed from society into thinking women deserve the best and men are the bad guy. Thanks for giving this excellent input.

 

[pest]

Hey,

I've no doubt many of you guys have been hurt badly in the past. I've no doubt many of the body/self issues that we all have stem from complications in relationships with gender (we seek to enhance that most male signifier of masculinity - the penis). So I understand that many of us will have issues with women. Luckily for us its out of our hands and the really great women will sweep you off your feet while we're trying to be all macho. Great.

I just wanted to let you guys know what women think about my penis size. I am 7.5" x 6". Universally, from virgins to prostitutes I have been called huge. Women usually estimate my penis to be 'about a foot long'. So if your girlfriend is telling you her ex had a ten inch dick then they are probably wrong.

I don't think women are being malicious I think they are just inaccurate. That's hardly something to hold against them. The issues are really in our own heads not theirs (although I am well aware they have their own). I don't think it is useful or accurate to call ALL women evil and I think it is dysfunctional to want to cause any person pain or suffering. Don't get me wrong, when I fuck, I fuck hard, I take ownership, sometimes I use and abuse that pussy, it depends. But my main issue is not to hurt, but to overwhelm - and that is because I have my own narcissistic issue.

There's no doubt in my mind (at least) that we would all be better off if we didn't hold women's inability to estimate penis size as an attack on our masculinity. I have no doubt some women have that as their motivation but the vast majority of women I know and have met and interfaced with never did.

 

[REDZULU2003]

Hey,

I've no doubt many of you guys have been hurt badly in the past. I've no doubt many of the body/self issues that we all have stem from complications in relationships with gender (we seek to enhance that most male signifier of masculinity - the penis). So I understand that many of us will have issues with women. Luckily for us its out of our hands and the really great women will sweep you off your feet while we're trying to be all macho. Great.

I just wanted to let you guys know what women think about my penis size. I am 7.5" x 6". Universally, from virgins to prostitutes I have been called huge. Women usually estimate my penis to be 'about a foot long'. So if your girlfriend is telling you her ex had a ten inch dick then they are probably wrong.

I don't think women are being malicious I think they are just inaccurate. That's hardly something to hold against them. The issues are really in our own heads not theirs (although I am well aware they have their own). I don't think it is useful or accurate to call ALL women evil and I think it is dysfunctional to want to cause any person pain or suffering. Don't get me wrong, when I fuck, I fuck hard, I take ownership, sometimes I use and abuse that pussy, it depends. But my main issue is not to hurt, but to overwhelm - and that is because I have my own narcissistic issue.

There's no doubt in my mind (at least) that we would all be better off if we didn't hold women's inability to estimate penis size as an attack on our masculinity. I have no doubt some women have that as their motivation but the vast majority of women I know and have met and interfaced with never did.

I think this is the most level headed mature post in a long time here on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words], well done it has actually helped me to realise how nasty I sounded in my previous post. Your experience with size and the women's comments to yours should hold positives with EVERYONE here, it has already with me! Thanks and post more.

 

[painekilla]

Pest, I completely disagree with you. You can write this bull all day, and I still won't listen to you. It seems like you've been brainwashed into believing you must slave for the female race. Men are superior to women. The more you show this, the more they will want to fuck. Take it from a real life mack that's been in jail for selling drugs. I've pimped hos out before. I've seen bitches o.d. from buying too many x pills from me. Moneys way more important than these useless sluts. Only thing they get from me is hard dick.

 

[DLD]

Pest, I completely disagree with you. You can write this bull all day, and I still won't listen to you. It seems like you've been brainwashed into believing you must slave for the female race. Men are superior to women. The more you show this, the more they will want to fuck. Take it from a real life mack that's been in jail for selling drugs. I've pimped hos out before. I've seen bitches o.d. from buying too many x pills from me. Moneys way more important than these useless sluts. Only thing they get from me is hard dick.

The only time you love em is when your dick is hard - Jay Z
All I got for bitches is hard dick and bubble gum - Big L
I got 99 problems and bitch ain't one - Jay Z

 

[pest]

Thanks Redzulu!

 

[REDZULU2003]

I have found a good source of information from pegym.com on actual data taken from Cancun LifeStyes condom study. A member from Thunders called Priapologist, has analysed this data and comeup with some really useful data. Its all aimed at length, so no girth but what it shows is from that Cancun study the average erect length is 5.877 inches.

See below for the copy and paste of the whole data.

Gentlemen,

There seems to be some confusion about the rarity of truly big (and truly small) penises, so I did a statistical analysis for everyone. I suBathmateitted some of this information in another thread yesterday, but I felt that it bore repeating and expanding. This summary is based on the LifeStyles condoms Cancun data set:

Mean length (n=300): 5.877 inches (14.928 cm) erect (assuming bone pressed)
Standard deviation: 0.825 inches (2.096 cm)

My analysis:

Lengths at each standard deviation:

5th sd below mean: 1.752 inches
4th sd below mean: 2.577 inches
3rd sd below mean: 3.402 inches
2nd sd below mean: 4.227 inches
1st sd below mean: 5.052 inches
Mean: 5.877 inches
1st sd above mean: 6.702 inches
2nd sd above mean: 7.527 inches
3rd sd above mean: 8.352 inches
4th sd above mean: 9.177 inches
5th sd above mean: 10.00 inches

Frequency in population:

1.752 inches: 1 in 3.5 million
2.577 inches: 1 in 31,574
3.402 inches: 1 in 741
4.227 inches: 1 in 44
5.052 inches: 1 in 6
5.877 inches: 1 in 2
6.702 inches: 1 in 6
7.527 inches: 1 in 44
8.352 inches: 1 in 741
9.177 inches: 1 in 31, 574
10.00 inches: 1 in 3.5 million

Rank in population, by percentile:

1.752 inches: 0.0000003rd percentile
2.577 inches: 0.000032nd percentile
3.402 inches: 0.14th percentile
4.227 inches: 2.3rd percentile
5.052 inches: 15.9th percentile
5.877 inches: 50th percentile
6.702 inches: 84.1st percentile
7.527 inches: 97.7th percentile
8.352 inches: 99.86th percentile
9.177 inches: 99.9968th percentile
10.00 inches: 99.99997th percentile


As you can see, the truly small (less than 2.5 inches) and the truly large (greater than 9 inches) are statistically very rare individuals. Given that the adult male population of the USA is approximately 105 million, there are only about 3250 guys in the entire country who are 9.2 inches long or longer, and only 30 in the entire country who possess 10 inches or more. And they are probably all in adult entertainment. See how a few dozen guys are screwing with the heads of ‘average’ length men? Making them feel small when they really, truly are not small.

71.5 million American men fall between 5.1 and 6.7 inches, so you are in good company if you are of average length. Further, only about 17,000 American men fall into the micropenis (2.7 inches or less) category.

Hopefully you guys find this information helpful in dispelling the ‘Monster Cock on Every Block’ myth. They really are pretty damn rare.

Cheers!
Pri

NOTE: I did not do a statistical analysis on the girth data, as they were not normally distributed (they did not have a bell shape). The mean and std dev were 4.972 inches and 0.508 inches, respectively, for what it is worth.

Source of the original data via this site

So as you can see 1 in over 31,000 men are likely to be 9.1 inches in erect length! and 10 inches is 1 in 3 1/2 million!! I can easily believe this as being true and women who say otherwise are either hookers or had ALLOT of cock, talking about going into the 100's here.

I have Mandingo himself in the late 9 inch range going on the borderline of 10 if I remember correctly, that was from using actual references in photos as well. He is truly 1 in several million or has practised Penis Enlargement.

 

[REDZULU2003]

Interesting topic

 

[DLD]

haha.. Well, the spoiler is.. She has a dildo fastened to some sort of headboard that hinges in case she needs it to. And rides it hands free.

freak

 

[DLD]

Well I bet a few bitches are out there going through the 3.5 million to find that 10 incher

 

[trainingtzr]

haha yeah. Maybe they should make Billboards of you DLD, with your adress and stuff on in.

 

[GOMER_PYLE]

Hey,

I've no doubt many of you guys have been hurt badly in the past. I've no doubt many of the body/self issues that we all have stem from complications in relationships with gender (we seek to enhance that most male signifier of masculinity - the penis). So I understand that many of us will have issues with women. Luckily for us its out of our hands and the really great women will sweep you off your feet while we're trying to be all macho. Great.

I just wanted to let you guys know what women think about my penis size. I am 7.5" x 6". Universally, from virgins to prostitutes I have been called huge. Women usually estimate my penis to be 'about a foot long'. So if your girlfriend is telling you her ex had a ten inch dick then they are probably wrong.

I don't think women are being malicious I think they are just inaccurate. That's hardly something to hold against them. The issues are really in our own heads not theirs (although I am well aware they have their own). I don't think it is useful or accurate to call ALL women evil and I think it is dysfunctional to want to cause any person pain or suffering. Don't get me wrong, when I fuck, I fuck hard, I take ownership, sometimes I use and abuse that pussy, it depends. But my main issue is not to hurt, but to overwhelm - and that is because I have my own narcissistic issue.

There's no doubt in my mind (at least) that we would all be better off if we didn't hold women's inability to estimate penis size as an attack on our masculinity. I have no doubt some women have that as their motivation but the vast majority of women I know and have met and interfaced with never did.

You've got me by 1" EL and 1/4" EGMS (I'm 6.5" NBPenis EnlargementL and 5.75" EGMS) but that cold hearted fucking demon I dated in high school fucked my mind up to where I think it is the smallest penis in the world. Those three little words "It's kinda small..." and the disappointed look on her face will haunt me until I am at 8x6 or whatever size will make sure a woman never says that about my unit again. This shit sucks, guys. I don't see how smaller guys than me, and I've seen plenty in the locker room and elsewhere over the years, aren't affected by that shit. It mentally kills me and one of my best friends from high school who gets more ass than probably anyone here on these boards is AT LEAST 50% smaller than I am.

Him, me, another guy, and three girls were all playing STRIP paper, rock, scissors one night while we were in high school and this lady's man I'm talking about got hard in front of all of us. I didn't grab my ruler and measure it or anything but he was about like this guy. http://www.dinkydicks.com/dinkydick.jpg

I guarantee you he heard what my ex girlfriend told me but he didn't seem to miss a beat at all. I even asked him about it and he told me he didn't give a shit and that he got laid to satisfy him and not them. LOL then he told me to stop BEING a pussy and start GETTING some. I know I should have listened but I care more about what the woman wants than that. I can't bear the thought of fucking some girl and her thinking the whole time that she wished she was with whoever was bigger again. Hopefully 8x6 will cure what ails me but I'll probably need therapy if it doesn't.

 

[grgr]

he's THE SHIT, he doesn't care - i love it!
it's not your cock that stops you, it's you.

"then he told me to stop BEING a pussy and start GETTING some" - that's fucking GOLD. i should tattoo this statement on my dick.

Penis Enlargement is only a supplement to lifestyle and personality.
there were times, when i had the same attitude - i didn't give a shit - i just didn't know that my cock isn't big. girls loved it, they wanted more.
than i realized that - i'm not big. i watched a lot of adult entertainment - i felt small... i felt insecure, girls can smell it - they don't want more of insecure guy who doesn't accept himself.

i realized that lastly - when my ex girlfriend was cheating on her new bf with me... and as she claimed (being drunk) that his dick was so fat that he couldn't use normal condoms... when i heard that i was devastated. but... when she was with him she fucked me like ten times more than him, because of his pussy-attitude. he was more insecure than i ever was!

so, yeah, i want to have bigger unit. but - it's only nice addition to me as a person. it's like everything else - you can go to the gym, get some muscle, you could dress nice, get tan, etc - but it's not what makes you attractive - it only helps in some percentage.

and of course - i am attracted to smaller, skinny girls - because i am rather short guy - it helps me a lot, they are more adequate for me. it's just my type. my dick would look ridiculous in front of a huge girl with fat ass- but even then - who cares. dick size is for you, not for her.

i have this friend - he's a bantender - so he has a great conversion skills, he is tall, looks awesome, all my female friends claim that he is the most masculine man they saw in a long time, and as he claims his size is 21,5 cm (i think it's above 8" ? ). but... he has the same pussy-attitude. he never makes the first step, because he is afraid of failure... so he fucks fatties and uglies... i always had better girls than he... that's fucking insane!!

 

[REDZULU2003]

Great thread

 

[GOMER_PYLE]

he's THE SHIT, he doesn't care - i love it!
it's not your cock that stops you, it's you.

"then he told me to stop BEING a pussy and start GETTING some" - that's fucking GOLD. i should tattoo this statement on my dick.

Penis Enlargement is only a supplement to lifestyle and personality.
there were times, when i had the same attitude - i didn't give a shit - i just didn't know that my cock isn't big. girls loved it, they wanted more.
than i realized that - i'm not big. i watched a lot of adult entertainment - i felt small... i felt insecure, girls can smell it - they don't want more of insecure guy who doesn't accept himself.

i realized that lastly - when my ex girlfriend was cheating on her new bf with me... and as she claimed (being drunk) that his dick was so fat that he couldn't use normal condoms... when i heard that i was devastated. but... when she was with him she fucked me like ten times more than him, because of his pussy-attitude. he was more insecure than i ever was!

so, yeah, i want to have bigger unit. but - it's only nice addition to me as a person. it's like everything else - you can go to the gym, get some muscle, you could dress nice, get tan, etc - but it's not what makes you attractive - it only helps in some percentage.

and of course - i am attracted to smaller, skinny girls - because i am rather short guy - it helps me a lot, they are more adequate for me. it's just my type. my dick would look ridiculous in front of a huge girl with fat ass- but even then - who cares. dick size is for you, not for her.

i have this friend - he's a bantender - so he has a great conversion skills, he is tall, looks awesome, all my female friends claim that he is the most masculine man they saw in a long time, and as he claims his size is 21,5 cm (i think it's above 8" ? ). but... he has the same pussy-attitude. he never makes the first step, because he is afraid of failure... so he fucks fatties and uglies... i always had better girls than he... that's fucking insane!!

I really need to start working on my attitude then. I don't come off as insecure around them though, probably just stuck up even though that is not me at all. I need to start acting like they are "just one of the guys" honestly and I think that would help. I really don't get what I'm about to say now though. Maybe you guys can tell me why this situation is as it is.

Men and older women complement me all the time on how good I look. Women 40 and over are constantly touching me and flirting with me (I'm 27), telling me how beautiful my eyes are and that I'm handsome or pretty. One of my best friends, a guy, told me I had a nice ass the other day. I thought he was just talkin' shit and messin' with me like friends often do but he told me he was serious. He's not gay by any means and he has been with roughly 300 different women.

Now for the young ladies. I NEVER catch them looking at me and if I do, they turn away lightning fast as if I were Shrek and they are hoping I don't speak to them or look at them. If it weren't for that I would consider myself to be a good-looking guy. It makes me feel great when guys and older women tell me that stuff but I can't even get a passing glance from a woman I'd actually consider being intimate with. Maybe I need to start looking at older women LOL.

 

[DLD]

Just ignore women completely, this makes them want you so much more. If you act like you do not need them they start wanting you.

 

[GOMER_PYLE]

You may be on to something there, DLD. I'm in class this summer with some cute women and I've barely spoken to them. I'm busy as hell but I'm like the only guy in class that hasn't paid much attention to them. All the other guys are all over them like a hobo on a bologna sandwich but I just nod, smile, and go about my business. This one girl seemed to give me a pretty seductive look the other day but I didn't read into it since I'm so bad at picking up on their signals. They are so damn subtle about it. A few years ago I was eating with a girl friend at Chili's and she told me our waitress was flirting with me. I asked how she knew that because the waitress didn't so much as look at me the whole time we were there and she said the waitress did it by brushing my shoulder with hers as she sat down next to me to take our order. Talk about subtle. Apparently I was supposed to take that as a signal that she was interested LOL.

 

[REDZULU2003]

Yup DLDs advise about ignoreing them works well but is a double edged sword take it from me, unless your not arsed about finding love at the scene and in my case that was college. I would go about my daily routine and just speak when need be, many of the girls in the class were too immature for me anyway and I rarely spoke or looked at most of them but I did catch a few of them, incl the more attractive ones checking me out from time to time.

It wasn't so much a seductive glance, more checking me as women do .. who knows, I do reckon some fancied me but they were more trouble than they are worth.

I also noticed they would pay great attention when I spoke to the tutors or other girls that came into the class from other classes, like being nosey. The double edged sword is it can seem to be your ignorant, rude or just don't like them so be careful unless your not arsed which is probably best.

When your out in the clubs, do the same but its not as direct. You don't be the Casanova common-type, which is boring and predictable. Just don't do the typical swarm all over a girl and buy her drinks, than touch her up. Be pleasant but cool. Ask like can I buy you a drink and she will say yes, than say only if you buy me one first and smile. Shows humour and I use this often. Just build on being different and unique as this brings out your INDIVIDUALITY more instead of being a sheep like what David D and co often transfer men into.

 

[DLD]

Women want one thing more than anything, attention, and when they get it from every guy out there and you ignore them you end up in the better position because they will work extra hard to get you to notice them.

 

[GOMER_PYLE]

On a side note, I noticed that you're in New England. You wouldn't happen to be a Patriots fan, would you?

 

[LarryTheNovice]

I just wanted to put some light into a dark place...the mind of a woman

Well said.

 

[DLD]

On a side note, I noticed that you're in New England. You wouldn't happen to be a Patriots fan, would you?

I live in New England but I am a New York fan...GIANTS!

 

[DLD]

Well said.

It is not their fault they lack a penis but damn that lack of penis really makes them psychos.

 

[GOMER_PYLE]

I live in New England but I am a New York fan...GIANTS!

LOL ouch on that one! I'm a diehard Pats fan and have been as long as I can remember. I'm sure you can imagine how disappointed I was when your team stomped mine in that Super Bowl.

 

[stillwantmore]

From my own past experience, when a woman has been ''into'' me my penis was the biggest she'd ever had (whether it was or not). When we broke up or I pissed her off, it was smaller than her last or she knew a girl who dated a guy with a cock as ''long as her forearm and thicker than her wrist''. (Rolls eyes). Yea and your twat is drier than the Sahara and is looser than a teflon coated wingnut. If you ever want to play a fun game with a woman, have her actually MEASURE her wrist. Chances are, it's 5'' or less in girth.

Women will chew you up and spit you out if you let em. The key is learning to filter the bullshit and just say ''yea ok babe''. Also, knowing the real life averages on penis size has helped me keep a grasp of reality at times. I know better, 'nuff said. I know my own 7'' non bp erect length is rare enough, but to have a combined bigger than average length AND girth (6.25'' midshaft) is like the proverbial ''needle in the hay stack''.

I'm VERY happily married now by the way. Been with an amazing woman for the last 5 years nearly.

 

[REDZULU2003]

As you said but loved this one

Yea and your twat is drier than the Sahara and is looser than a teflon coated wingnut

 

[DLD]

So true Still! Women are like people that borrow money from you, they are happy and loving when they get the money but when it is time to pay they become a different species. I have stayed clear of women, I mean I am dedicated to Jen, but while she is away I don't even look at girls...they are a big headache.

 

[GOMER_PYLE]

I've been watching a lot of Ramon's stuff on the free video sites around. The guy is definitely hung like crazy but judging by most of the girls' reactions to it, I think he is too long at whatever size he is. I've watched 35 vids of his and about 30 of them (a few were hard to judge whether it was pain or pure ecstasy) showed the girls in obvious pain. The other 5 seemed to enjoy it and 1 of those 5 squirted like 5 times and had a drunk, out-of-it look on her face. I remember seeing one with him and Brandi Belle and she commented that he was pretty much fucking her stomach and it hurt her. The look on her face was like she was about to puke or something. I remember reading somewhere (probably here) that he is about 9" NBP and I have no idea on the girth but he looks like he is around 6.5" EGMS to me. I guess 8x6 really is a good size to aim for and will be considered huge by just about any female I would meet. I've got about 1.5" to go for the length and .25" to go for the girth. 1.5" doesn't seem like much of a difference but I cut a piece of copy paper into an 8x6 tube and that is substantially larger than I currently am. If a girl ever tells me I'm small when I get to that size I'll know with 100% certainty that she is full of shit. Looks like 8x6 is the goal for me.

 

[TimeBomb]

Gomer Pyle, I was really moved by your post. Your situation is not that different from mine. I'm 29. not a virgin. but every time I've had sex with a girl (not often, I've only had 3 girl friends in my entire life-only had sex with two of them) the whole time I was scared to death I would not be big enough. I'm average(6x5). I have great sexual [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] from years of masturbating alone in my room all night. I also have decent technique because I read a lot of books about sexual technique for men. But my size-fears have ruined my confidence. I have zero game. The only way I was ever able to get a girl-friend or get laid was because I was lucky enough to be the right guy in the right place at the right time. In high school and college all the really hot girls liked me because I'm decent looking, easy to get along with, and I was always in a band (guitar). But my confidence was crap because of my size-fears. Basically, if a girl makes the first moves sometimes i'll try to go with it as far as I can, but mostly I'm the one rejecting them so they never have a chance to reject me! (crazy- I know!) Also like you I'm interested in starting a regimen of physical culture of witch p.e. would be a part. Any way, just thought I'd say I very much appreciated your post. If you ever need a buddy don't hesitate to drop me a line. I love how everyone on this forum is very supportive of each other. So keep up the great work and I'll do my best to keep up with you. (P.S. I lost my virginity when I was 19 in college and I have not even kissed a girl in about 7 or 8 years, and I'm not even in prison..... But we do our best). -Mike.

 

[REDZULU2003]

Good points by all but something we all forget is women\girls aint everything and like DLD said they bring a massive headache. I'm single and aint fucked in ages, cant say I'm that bothered. Sure I love to see a girl orgasm and to feel that intense connection with sex but I cant be doing with the shit some women bring. Better off wanking yourself silly, do the Penis Enlargement and oneday you will meet her.

 

[GOMER_PYLE]

Gomer Pyle, I was really moved by your post. Your situation is not that different from mine. I'm 29. not a virgin. but every time I've had sex with a girl (not often, I've only had 3 girl friends in my entire life-only had sex with two of them) the whole time I was scared to death I would not be big enough. I'm average(6x5). I have great sexual [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] from years of masturbating alone in my room all night. I also have decent technique because I read a lot of books about sexual technique for men. But my size-fears have ruined my confidence. I have zero game. The only way I was ever able to get a girl-friend or get laid was because I was lucky enough to be the right guy in the right place at the right time. In high school and college all the really hot girls liked me because I'm decent looking, easy to get along with, and I was always in a band (guitar). But my confidence was crap because of my size-fears. Basically, if a girl makes the first moves sometimes i'll try to go with it as far as I can, but mostly I'm the one rejecting them so they never have a chance to reject me! (crazy- I know!) Also like you I'm interested in starting a regimen of physical culture of witch p.e. would be a part. Any way, just thought I'd say I very much appreciated your post. If you ever need a buddy don't hesitate to drop me a line. I love how everyone on this forum is very supportive of each other. So keep up the great work and I'll do my best to keep up with you. (P.S. I lost my virginity when I was 19 in college and I have not even kissed a girl in about 7 or 8 years, and I'm not even in prison..... But we do our best). -Mike.

Hey thanks man, I appreciate that. There is this girl in my class that started talking to me and I'm REALLY attracted to her. I might actually be willing to go through with it this time because she is so tiny. She is like 5'3" and 100 pounds if that and her waist is about as big around as my thigh LOL. Her pupils were really dilated the other day when I talked to her in the hall so I believe that is a sign of attraction. She seems really cool too so hopefully it would be substantially more than a ONS.

As for your situation, I find that kind of discouraging for myself because I've been thinking this whole time that if I just get laid that will alleviate all of my concerns. However, I don't think it will now. In fact it might make them worse especially if I don't think she feels tight or if she seems to not like my dick. I am SO INCREDIBLY OBSESSED with getting a bigger dick that I think about it more than I do sex. I don't even watch adult entertainment now unless it is monsters of cock or bang bros with Ramon or some other monster in it. At least now I finally understand what it takes to gain. I don't know if you lift weights or not but I recently got into body building in March of this year. Your dick basically needs to feel sore and fatigued like your muscles do or, like like your muscles, it won't grow. It takes intense pressure from clamping and stretching from hanging (for me anyway, YMMV) and it has to feel sore. The use of a heating pad seems to work wonders too. I'm considering purchasing a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] but I'll have to do some more research on it first. Surgery isn't entirely out of the question either since I only need about an inch and a half to reach my length goal.

As for girth, I think I'll gain quickly in that department. When I clamp I don't do any special squeezes or anything like that because of the intense pressure from the two clamps. My hands and fingers can't squeeze the clamps tight enough so I use adjustable pliers like these: http://www.toolsandleisure.co.uk/ekmps/shops/toolsandleisure/images/12_inch_water_pump_pliers.jpg

I was clamping for 25 minutes at a time but I had to back it off to 20 minutes because the skin burn/pain was almost intolerable. At 20 minutes it makes me sweat a little bit but it isn't too bad. No pain, no gain, right? Anyway, good luck to you and I'll definitely be around here for a long time to come if you want to chat.

 

[GOMER_PYLE]

Good points by all but something we all forget is women\girls aint everything and like DLD said they bring a massive headache. I'm single and aint fucked in ages, cant say I'm that bothered. Sure I love to see a girl orgasm and to feel that intense connection with sex but I cant be doing with the shit some women bring. Better off wanking yourself silly, do the Penis Enlargement and oneday you will meet her.

LOL no wonder with your girth. IIRC, you are over 7" EGMS so that basically means that you might not fit into the center hole of a 45 pound olympic barbell plate. Now THAT is a pussy splitter!!!!

 

[DLD]

good points by all but something we all forget is women\girls aint everything and like dld said they bring a massive headache. I'm single and aint fucked in ages, cant say i'm that bothered. Sure i love to see a girl orgasm and to feel that intense connection with sex but i cant be doing with the shit some women bring. Better off wanking yourself silly, do the pe and oneday you will meet her.

true true

 

[REDZULU2003]

true true

You see mate, I want more than anything the companionship and closeness than the sex! May make me sound old, I'm only 26 but that tight emotional bond you get with a partner is something I crave more than anything else ... more than sex actually. The sex is just fucking sex to me, unless your in love and than its M A G I C as I mentioned in another thread today. I guess I'm a pretty deep and sensitive guy, been told this by a few as-well. Would be much easier if I was a heartless nasty fucker but I cant be like that and yearn to be loved even though I have not had a bad upbringing or anything like that. I love to cuddle, kiss and be so affectionate with my partner ... to me this is like treasure than the actual fucking .... but I have noticed many girls seem to not be as into this like I used to believe or I'm going with the wrong women. Few foreign mates tell me in Spain, Italy, Romania etc the latin type countries would love me because they are touchy feely .. the women like it allot and hey I may settle with one one day. At the moment I want more than anything with a women, is the companionship and closeness ... sharing that connection. Sex for me is like reading a book, even though I'm like a tiger in bed and do all the wizardry its going through the motions until I really connect with someone ... anyone understand me here?

 

[TimeBomb]

Thanks for the quick reply, Gomer. I'm now going to try to give you some advice that I find hard to follow myself. So please bear with my hypocrisy and take these words for whatever they are worth.
It sounds like that girl is into you. Even if there is only a chance that the girl is into you, then take that chance. By the way, you got a 7" cock! The day I measure 7 inches I'm going to go out and celebrate and see If I can put it to some good use. 7" is not small - 7" is quite large! Hell, as we now know - just tell her it's 10" and she'll believe you!!! None of the girls I was with ever told me that my dick was too small. At least, not to my face anyway. One of them even said I was big - she was also petite like the girl you described. And both of the girls said they never knew a guy could last as long as I could. I think the reason I was dumped was because they could tell that I had a problem with confidence. I was very clingy and jealous. In other words, maybe it's all just in our heads! So getting laid was not enough for me to get over my fears. But we're all different! Maybe this girl will be so impressed with you that she'll fall in love with you (and your cock, and your body, and if your lucky - your mind and spirit as well!) and you'll eventually get over your fears. I sure hope that for you. Because 7" is quite large and you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of or afraid of. But there is only one way to find out. If you don't give it your best shot you will regret it for the rest of your life and end up wondering about all the chances that you missed and what could have happened. (like me) I wouldn't want anyone else to have to go through that.
Basically, I'm just starting my own transformation. I'm 5'-6" & @ 150 lbs. I've been using calisthenics combined with Bodylastics rubber exercise cables for about a few weeks now and they're very good. I'm not really looking to build much size (body-wise) but I'll take what I can get. I'm really trying to go for the ripped Bruce Lee type of look. That's just closer to what my body structure is like to begin with. I've also just gotten a Thermophore Heating Pad and am doing DLD's [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words]. I'm still in the exercise learning phase. Thanks for letting me know about how intense I should be aiming for to make P.E. gains. By the way, should my dick/groin-area feel sore while doing the exercises, immediately after, or is there a delay like in body-building? And how much is too much?
I'm cutting way back on all kinds of adult entertainment because I figure it's just natural to compare yourself to the likes of Ramon, Diesel, etc. and my subconscious has probably already had too much of that. By the way, I don't really have much of a finite goal just yet. My goal is just to make a certain amount of progress over a certain amount of time. For example my goal right now is to make 1/8" in length gains over three months. That's about 1/2" per year. I'm still very skeptical of all of this so if I make 1/8" or more after 3 months I'll know that It works. Maybe then I'll revise my goal.
By the way, does all that pressure from clamping leave a semi-permanent ring around your dick??? I'd imagine you may want to give it a break before you introduce your cutie to your Joy-Stick!
Take care & all the best. -Mike

 

[TimeBomb]

Oh yeah, Gomer, I forgot to say... Don't be too concerned about tightness. Masturbating by hand is way tighter than pussy. At least in my experience, but then I'm not "big". Read about sexual techniques, kissing, using your hands, the clitoris, the G-spot, female ejaculation, positions, etc. etc. etc. Remember, you don't just fuck a girl's orifices with your dick. You fuck her entire body with your entire body. And you can make love to her mind with your words and your eyes. And when your doing it don't think about anything else, just remember that sex is about having fun together, playing with each other. Be playful and adventurous, and unpredictable, and be the leader. You can even be down right kinky and dirty and nasty. She doesn't want to have to tell you to do something. If she doesn't like something, she'll let you know. So be sure to pay attention to all of her subtle clues.
Good luck buddy, go get 'em!
Let me know how things go & if anything I said helped or not. -Mike

 

[GOMER_PYLE]

I appreciate the encouragement, Mike. The numbers in my sig are bone pressed though. I'm about 6.5" NBP right now and I was 5.5" NBP about a year ago before I started getting in shape. You're right about confidence and that is the sole reason I'm doing Penis Enlargement. Once I'm at 8x6 or 6.5, I will be fully confident that I'm the biggest guy at the bar or club when I walk in. I can't wait to have that confidence and when I do I'm going to try to bang everything I see LOL. This girl is really cool and I hope something happens between us because of that. I'm not going to try to start anything with her until we know if we're both in school or not though. This is just a summer class to see if we have what it takes, basically.

I'm close to your size at 5'9" and 160 pounds but our goals are definitely different. Its good that you are working out because that will definitely help build your confidence as well.

As for Penis Enlargement, start off slowly and condition yourself like DLD and the rest of the gurus say to do. This is EXTREMELY important. Had I started out double clamping like I do now, I would have probably exploded my dick. Maybe not but I can see that as a possibility for a newbie. Soreness and when it happens will depend on a variety of things like the way you wrap when hanging or clamping. Sometimes I wrap a bit too tight or I get a wrinkle in the wrap somewhere and that shit hurts the skin after about 15 minutes into a 20 minute session. Other times I wrap perfectly and feel no discomfort at all for the entire 20 minutes. Determining how much is too much will be pretty easy to do. Some soreness is good but if you are feeling really sore to where it is unpleasant to get an erection and masturbate, you probably need a break.

As for gains, that is definitely a realistic and achievable goal from what I've read. I haven't had much luck in the gains department but I had been hanging incorrectly since 2004. I still hung around here (pun intended) until now because I KNOW that Penis Enlargement works. If those people in Africa and places like that can make their necks (which actually contain bone) longer then we can make our dicks longer. If you put enough stress on it for enough time, it WILL grow. You just have to know how to do it correctly and I just didn't "get it" until recently. The clamping doesn't leave a ring around my dick but I fear that the skin at and above where I clamp is permanently discolored. After about a month off from Penis Enlargement, it looks like I've got a good tan on it compared to the rest of my body LOL.

I will definitely have to give it a rest before having sex. I tried using my [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] (which is amazingly life-like from what I've read) last night and it was kinda painful so I know that trying to get laid like that would be painful as well. A couple days rest before I get laid will probably be about right. I've been reading and watching all kinds of sexual how-to stuff so at least I've done that part. I'm almost ready to start trying to get laid, I would just like to make some length gains first so that it doesn't look so short to me.

Good luck to you too, Mike, and the things you've said have helped. -TJ

 

[DLD]

There are women who are actually human but they are few and far between.

 

[stillwantmore]

Something else that gets left out of this whole equation is the fact that many men also lie about their size to women. The women they lie to eat it up and of course tell others about this ''huge'' guy they were with. I've heard guys saying they were 8 or 9 inches or whatever just to impress other men in casual conversation.

 

[DLD]

Something else that gets left out of this whole equation is the fact that many men also lie about their size to women. The women they lie to eat it up and of course tell others about this ''huge'' guy they were with. I've heard guys saying they were 8 or 9 inches or whatever just to impress other men in casual conversation.

Very true. I used to be guilty of this myself when I was a youngster. The myths keep growing from mouth to mouth. Too bad pe does not work this efficiently

 

[GOMER_PYLE]

Well guys, I finally did it. It took me almost exactly 27 years, 7 months, 22 days, and 15 hours to do it but I am no longer a virgin. This chick started hitting on me one night and I just went with it. I had known her a long time ago but never really talked to her much.

Anyway, the thing that shocked me is last night she told me I am huge after we finished and were cuddling. While I was immediately inclined to not believe her and think that she was just trying to stroke my ego, I hadn't mentioned a word about it to her up until that point because I am simply not going to start a penis size conversation with a girl yet. She is also the kind of girl that seems to tell it like it is and she is very opinionated about things. Should I take her comment with a grain of salt or should I believe her? Even though I'm a minute man right now (popping the horny goat weed like candy should help) she did seem to enjoy it and she felt damn tight for having children naturally. The only thing that I can compare her to is my [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] and she is definitely as tight as it is. I'm just kind of confused as to how I should take her compliment. Either way I'm still going to Penis Enlargement until I am huge according to myself and the available stats on the net but it would really boost my confidence if I should have reason to believe that she meant what she said.

 

[GOMER_PYLE]

Any thoughts?

 

[DLD]

Do not read so much into it, take the compliment and let it fuel your continued efforts of enlargement. If she said you have nice hair would you read into it? Of course not, so don't with this.