Frenulum Tying!

I've torn my frenulum a while ago. Tbh I really regret not being more careful because I've lost a lot of sensitivity.

Also I have a piece of detached frenulum dangling from my glans now as you can see.

Do you think it would be a good idea to removed it by tying it?
 
If it’s any consolation it looks like a really clean job. You’ll eventually get all of your feelings back how did you do some deep tissue massage at the affected area it’ll help it heal quicker
 
DLD said:
If it’s any consolation it looks like a really clean job. You’ll eventually get all of your feelings back how did you do some deep tissue massage at the affected area it’ll help it heal quicker
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Thank you for your reply.

It's been over a year now.

My frenulum tore right in the middle, where the foreskin folds over itself. I had to jerk off without uncovering my foreskin or else the tear would open again. I did so for 6 months but the tear hadn't healed yet.

So i got pissed off and decided to tear it completely, I just jerked off and it finally tore, there was nearly no bleeding (as opposed to the first tear which bled profusely for around a minute).

What kind of lotion should i massage the area with?

Do you have any sensitivity left after your frenuloplasty?
 
redditlurker said:
Thank you for your reply.

It's been over a year now.

My frenulum tore right in the middle, where the foreskin folds over itself. I had to jerk off without uncovering my foreskin or else the tear would open again. I did so for 6 months but the tear hadn't healed yet.

So i got pissed off and decided to tear it completely, I just jerked off and it finally tore, there was nearly no bleeding (as opposed to the first tear which bled profusely for around a minute).

What kind of lotion should i massage the area with?

Do you have any sensitivity left after your frenuloplasty?
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frenulum removal did not start happening until I made it happen by mistake ? One day I was measuring my penis with an old-school wooden ruler with that sharp blade that goes up the side. Trying to get a good bone press measurement the ruler slipped and removed my frenulum in one fell swoop! Pain was ridiculous and it took about 3 to 4 weeks to heal. After I healed I gained a half inch in length automatically. Obviously I realize that the frenulum was holding back a half inch of penis. So when I made my post about my experience I never imagined people would start doing it on purpose...If I never reported that half inch I don’t think that frenulum removal would’ve gone anywhere.
 
I think i might have gained half a centimeter in length, but i'm not really sure tbh. Also the loss of sensitivity isn't worth it. I got ED now.
 
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redditlurker said:
I think i might have gained half a centimeter in length, but i'm not really sure tbh. Also the loss of sensitivity isn't worth it. I got ED now.
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sensitivity will always come back eventually and a very quick way to speed this up is by doing deep tissue massage to the affected area. Give it time my brother and it will come back. I’ll also pray for you.
 
Thank you.

At the end of the day I have no idea what's causing my ED, it might be something else than the frenulum tear.

I will go see a doctor about this.
 
Update: ok so the reason why i tied is because i could not retract as far as i wanted without pain, and this also had an effect on my sex life as it would get uncomfortable.
i did the first knot on the 24th of September, and everything has healed nicely without any complications. I want to do another one, just so that there wont be any pull at all. I must admit that never in my life was i able to retract as far as i can now, and i love it, everything is nice and loose and more fun. Personally i am very happy with the result and don’t think one would say its ”home made”.
So the BIG question now is, where to do the second tie? I would appreciate any suggestions.
I indicated on the pics where i made the first tie.
 
Second tie done, i numbed the area with a small drop of clove oil, just rubbed it in and gave it a few minutes, no pain what so ever. (Just don’t get the oil anywhere else, just the part where you are going to tie) this time i didnt go as deep as with the first one, i will rather tie more times cutting through less skin.
so now the waiting starts again.
 
Hey all, just updating, done my tie a year ago. Here's how it is now.
The detached fren is still nice and sensitive, there's still a thin bit left which is due for another tie or snip, it tugs very slightly.
I can pull the foreskin completely down now which is really good, just that little bit left.
In the last pic the little bit of skin sticking up used to be attached up by the hole to give an idea of the movement gained.
As you might be able to see I also did a small meato which I want to continue once the last bit of the fren is gone!

Glad I found this forum :)
 
mrbj88 said:
Hey all, just updating, done my tie a year ago. Here's how it is now.
The detached fren is still nice and sensitive, there's still a thin bit left which is due for another tie or snip, it tugs very slightly.
I can pull the foreskin completely down now which is really good, just that little bit left.
In the last pic the little bit of skin sticking up used to be attached up by the hole to give an idea of the movement gained.
As you might be able to see I also did a small meato which I want to continue once the last bit of the fren is gone!

Glad I found this forum :)
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I’m glad you found us too ❤️
Very professional work and very clean
 
mrbj88 said:
Hey all, just updating, done my tie a year ago. Here's how it is now.
The detached fren is still nice and sensitive, there's still a thin bit left which is due for another tie or snip, it tugs very slightly.
I can pull the foreskin completely down now which is really good, just that little bit left.
In the last pic the little bit of skin sticking up used to be attached up by the hole to give an idea of the movement gained.
As you might be able to see I also did a small meato which I want to continue once the last bit of the fren is gone!

Glad I found this forum :)
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Looks good? How is your sensitivity? Did you have a short frenulum before?

Be careful with that meato though
 
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You’re playing pretty hard from the bottom I would start there and work your way up. You don’t want to go to severe either because that’s a pretty big arc. Take your time and slowly were tying from the bottom up. When you’re done with this it looks like you’re getting a half an inch in length
 
catalac said:
Any suggestions on where I should put the knots?
I am able to retract the foreskin when flaccid but not when I’m erect. The second two photos are me pulling the foreskin down (I assume this is how I must have it when inserting the needle?)
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I made three ties and am delighted with the result (refer to my previous posts). I suggest that you make the first one along the red line in the attached image. Wait until all heals and then make a second tie along the blue line. It is important to keep the ties close to the glans otherwise you will end up with a tiny flap of redundant frenulum attached to the glans - but be careful not to injure the glans. A long time after making my second tie, I made a third one just to complete the job.
Others (like me) have had great success with this, but it is your call whether you go ahead with a tie or not!View attachment 1828116
 
mrbj88 said:
Hey guys, just an update. Here's some pics fully healed, you can see the huge gap between the two points that have separated, the tip of the little triangular bit of skin was the point of where it used to be attached to just below the pee hole, that bit has gone soft now.

The outcome of this has been great for me, it's significantly relieved a lot of the tightness and I don't get a pulling on the glans now. The skin itself sits lower when hard too. One unexpected thing with the sensitivity, it seems to have improved! The extra sensitive bit seems to be a bit lower down now rather than right behind the glans, which means it's now getting more stimulated when "active". The first time I come after this had healed, it was like I had a new dick - I've not had such a strong sensation for years. I think where it was so tight, it was stopping the area get attention I suppose.

I still plan to do another tie/snip to detach it further.
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That so looks like my dick at the moment, I will update the board on my next move as the frenum is tight and need to be slacken of, its just how do I do it.
 
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