Frenulum Tying!

Day 5.5 update.

It's definitely cutting through. It's stinging a bit now.

I had a spontaneous erection in the shower last night and had a quick wank. It hurt when the fren was pulling, but it was only for a short while until I came.

The stitch seems still quite firmly set in the skin; pulling on it doesn't move it at all.

Probably in another few days it will be starting to work its way loose...

Will update again soon.
 
guy_nz said:
Day 5.5 update.

It's definitely cutting through. It's stinging a bit now.

I had a spontaneous erection in the shower last night and had a quick wank. It hurt when the fren was pulling, but it was only for a short while until I came.

The stitch seems still quite firmly set in the skin; pulling on it doesn't move it at all.

Probably in another few days it will be starting to work its way loose...

Will update again soon.
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Very clean! Keep taking your time and making this perfect.
 
Day 7.5 update.

Last night, I noticed that the tie was loose. I was easily able to insert another suture (without using the needle) through where the tie passed through the skin. I then cut the existing tie with surgical scissors and tied a new tie in its place.

The new tie I tied as tight as I possibly could. It didn't cause any pain, I couldn't even feel it. I wonder if the last remaining part of the fren, the central core, doesn't actually have any nerve endings in it.

I'm hoping it will cut through fully soon, I think it needs to heal soon. I'm going to watch it carefully over the next two days, and if it's not making progress I am tempted to cut the final part with the surgical scissors.
 
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Day 10.

The tie wasn't making much progress anymore, so I carefully cut it out using surgical scissors. It's instantly looking so much better!

Still has to heal, before I can consider a second tie. The swelling in the remaining fren should go down over the next few days.

I'll update again once it's healed. So far, pretty happy with the process and the result.

Keeping my penis up / to the side (to keep it dry, so it's not touching my scrotum during the day) seems to help it progress better (healthier, less moist). So any further ties I will definitely keep the tie away from other skin.
 
guy_nz said:
Day 10.

The tie wasn't making much progress anymore, so I carefully cut it out using surgical scissors. It's instantly looking so much better!

Still has to heal, before I can consider a second tie. The swelling in the remaining fren should go down over the next few days.

I'll update again once it's healed. So far, pretty happy with the process and the result.

Keeping my penis up / to the side (to keep it dry, so it's not touching my scrotum during the day) seems to help it progress better (healthier, less moist). So any further ties I will definitely keep the tie away from other skin.
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Hi there ? do you reckon you could have pierced closer/deeper to the shaft? In order to have a more pronounced separation of the frenulum?
What do you think will happen with the rest of the frenulum? I mean the skin will still form a kind of bulge?

Don't misunderstand, i'm not trying to teach you something or whatever, just trying to understand the process better for my own experience.
 
Ultratour said:
Hi there ? do you reckon you could have pierced closer/deeper to the shaft? In order to have a more pronounced separation of the frenulum?
What do you think will happen with the rest of the frenulum? I mean the skin will still form a kind of bulge?

Don't misunderstand, i'm not trying to teach you something or whatever, just trying to understand the process better for my own experience.
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Good questions!

I could have gone deeper, but the tie I made was about 5mm or so, which seems to be the best amount of skin to tie in one go (per previous posts here, other research online, etc). I expect to make at least one (possibly two) additional ties to release it fully. I'm looking for the pronounced separation you mentioned.

I'm not sure exactly what will happen with the rest of the fren - at the moment the "bulge" is principally due to swelling during the healing process, but some may persist after a second tying, and after it's fully healed. If that's the case, I might consider what I've seen others do, which is to use sterilised nail clippers to just "snip" off the bulge and flatten it out.

Have you got some pics of your fren you can share?
 
Two weeks and two days after the first tie. I’m very happy with how it’s turned out. In hindsight I would have done a smaller tie to help prevent the bump that has formed - although it may still be swollen and further reduce in time.

After another week or two I will do another tie, to further release the fren.

The pic with the thread is on day 1, for comparison.
 
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guy_nz said:
Two weeks and two days after the first tie. I’m very happy with how it’s turned out. In hindsight I would have done a smaller tie to help prevent the bump that has formed - although it may still be swollen and further reduce in time.

After another week or two I will do another tie, to further release the fren.

The pic with the thread is on day 1, for comparison.
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looks very clean! Excellent work
 
guy_nz said:
Good questions!

I could have gone deeper, but the tie I made was about 5mm or so, which seems to be the best amount of skin to tie in one go (per previous posts here, other research online, etc). I expect to make at least one (possibly two) additional ties to release it fully. I'm looking for the pronounced separation you mentioned.

I'm not sure exactly what will happen with the rest of the fren - at the moment the "bulge" is principally due to swelling during the healing process, but some may persist after a second tying, and after it's fully healed. If that's the case, I might consider what I've seen others do, which is to use sterilised nail clippers to just "snip" off the bulge and flatten it out.

Have you got some pics of your fren you can share?
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I there again!

I've taken a few pics of my fren, hope they are good enough.
As you can see, i don't really need to reduce my fren, i just want to tie it because it looks much better without it, more clean, more appealing, imo. It's never been unconfortable during sex, i can open it and pull it completely without any problem.
And i don't want to get circumcised either, so a tie is the better option for me, i guess.

Although i also consider just cutting it clean, a small cutt of 0.5cm would probably do the trick.
But i'm afraid of how long the healing process would take.

Did you manage to wank while you had the tie? Did you try to have sex since the tie is done?

I have many more questions, i will ask later ^^

Anyway, your tie seems to be very successful and clean! Good job ?
 
Ultratour said:
I there again!

I've taken a few pics of my fren, hope they are good enough.
As you can see, i don't really need to reduce my fren, i just want to tie it because it looks much better without it, more clean, more appealing, imo. It's never been unconfortable during sex, i can open it and pull it completely without any problem.
And i don't want to get circumcised either, so a tie is the better option for me, i guess.

Although i also consider just cutting it clean, a small cutt of 0.5cm would probably do the trick.
But i'm afraid of how long the healing process would take.

Did you manage to wank while you had the tie? Did you try to have sex since the tie is done?

I have many more questions, i will ask later ^^

Anyway, your tie seems to be very successful and clean! Good job ?
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Hey mate - thanks! Yeah it's really worthwhile releasing the fren.

It's hard to take pics of your fren (I know!) but those pics make your situation nice and clear. My fren removal was mostly for aesthetics too, so I understand.

Yes I did wank a few times with the tie, maybe two or three times, but it was more of a "release" than a proper wank.

I haven't had sex since the tie, but if I was in a relationship would I have sex with my partner (with a condom) now? Yes. But I'm not going to have sex until the scab has fully healed and the skin is completely sealed.

I recommend you tie your fren (or cut it, if you prefer), it will definitely improve the look. I'm not sure why you're not leaning towards a circumcision too, but to let you know that I got cut 4 years ago and it is so much better in every way - cleaner, looks better, better feel during sex and masturbation. I didn't have any problems with my foreskin (it wasn't tight, or infected, etc - definitely a bit ugly looking! haha) but being cut is so good I really wish I got cut earlier. I can't recommend it enough, it's really much better.
 
Pump4girth said:
This whole thread has made me freak out! Awesome info but too much for me-???
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They have gotten it to the point where it’s clean and surgical, You just have to take your time and follow the directions and you too can be successful at tying the frenulum.
 
guy_nz said:
Tbh it's quite straightforward; if it's something you're interested in then the resources in this thread are what you need to make it happen. If it's not for you, fair enough :)
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Scary at first but once they understand it’s a blessing
 
Hey guys , Ive been keeping an eye on this forum for a while and i think its great what you guys are doing :)
Recently went to a urologist that said i have a frenulum breve and instead if of going through with it id like to do the tying mainly because it would hurt less using my emla cream that i have and also make it look how i please whilst saving $1500 dollars.
i have photos here and id just like anyone here to let me know where i should tie because i can retract my foreskin flaccid but when im erect it will retract three quarters and even all the way to the point of seeing the glans but just cant force it down anymore then that when erect for the gliding action youd need during sex.
also got this vein on the side of my penis where my foreskin is that mainly shows more and bulges abit when flaccid if anyone can give an input on it :) Going into detail for me would be much appreciated and using my pictures to show me where ties should go and such would be very helpful and give you all my full permission <3 Thanks guys & hope your all doing well.

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DLD said:
Look at that the brotherhood just saved you $1500! ?
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yeah for sure but i havnt saved it yet because im not that sure were to put the thin needle and once you put it in do you feed it out the other side and just tie it over the whole frenulumn im just super confused and cautious because its my penis and i dont just want to do anything wrong , Thanks
 
yytvgyvg said:
Hey guys , Ive been keeping an eye on this forum for a while and i think its great what you guys are doing :)
Recently went to a urologist that said i have a frenulum breve and instead if of going through with it id like to do the tying mainly because it would hurt less using my emla cream that i have and also make it look how i please whilst saving $1500 dollars.
i have photos here and id just like anyone here to let me know where i should tie because i can retract my foreskin flaccid but when im erect it will retract three quarters and even all the way to the point of seeing the glans but just cant force it down anymore then that when erect for the gliding action youd need during sex.
also got this vein on the side of my penis where my foreskin is that mainly shows more and bulges abit when flaccid if anyone can give an input on it :) Going into detail for me would be much appreciated and using my pictures to show me where ties should go and such would be very helpful and give you all my full permission <3 Thanks guys & hope your all doing well.

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Hey man - you've come to the right place. The best guide is this pic attached. I recommend the length of the gap between the two black dots should be about 2-4mm, no more.

The vein you have circled in red is very far from where you will be tying, and will not affect the tie at all.

What questions do you have? I think you have most of the information to do your first tie - and save all that money!
 
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guy_nz said:
Hey man - you've come to the right place. The best guide is this pic attached. I recommend the length of the gap between the two black dots should be about 2-4mm, no more.

The vein you have circled in red is very far from where you will be tying, and will not affect the tie at all.

What questions do you have? I think you have most of the information to do your first tie - and save all that money!
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Thankyou man and yeah i just wasnt that sure and didnt want to risk something when it comes to my penis but its great because i did my needle around where you marked so i should be good and just want to let you know if this looks good to you guys & also i done a normal knot but twice so hopefully it can stay in place <3 Thanks yall
 
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