Frenulum Tying!

Ok guys. So I just did it. I tied my frenulum about 15 minutes ago. Here's the story:
I numbed myself first with lidocaine (from Swiss Medical). Waited about 20 min to numb cream to start working. In the mean time I sterilized everything: needles, hands, that elastic thread I was using; for sterilizing I used lighter and alcohol wipes.
Next I checked if my dick was numb. It was and, let me tell you, it's the wierdest feeling of all time. Like you have no dick. If that's what women feel than thank God I was born a man! rofl
So after making sure it's numb (by poking it with a needle a little), I removed lidocaine cream; than sterilized my penis with alcohol wipes.

And it was go time. I wanted to pierce a hole with a syringe needle first and than go through the hole with sewing needle with the magic cord. But my hands were shaking so much it was difficult to use small syringe needle.
After a few tries I just use a sewing needle. Old, big and a little blunt. At first it was difficult to find a right angle, but quickly I found how to do it. I just put needle under my frenulum and turning my penis so I see it, found right place to go through.

So I went through. Didn't really hurt. No bleeding whatsoever. Than I just tied and voila! I used a usual, square tie a few times, than a suregons knot on top. I cut off excess stretch magic, and than disinfected with Octenisept spray.

I tied my knot really tight I think, but it's diffucult to tell when dick is numb and hand are shaking. But it looks tight now.
I used 0.6 mm elastic stretch-magic type thread. IMO best from what I could find.

One question: My dick is now cold, especially the glans. Is it from trauma or numbing cream or did I limit blood circulation somehow?
 
GhostRider;688665 said:
One question: My dick is now cold, especially the glans. Is it from trauma or numbing cream or did I limit blood circulation somehow?
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Be proud of yourself bro, you did it !
The cold dick is very normal, mostly from numbing cream.
Your dick will be as good as new next day. Do warm/hot water sea salt soaks multiple times a day bro to make it as fast as possible, no scar tissue, no pain.
 
BigBeardBig;688677 said:
Be proud of yourself bro, you did it !
The cold dick is very normal, mostly from numbing cream.
Your dick will be as good as new next day. Do warm/hot water sea salt soaks multiple times a day bro to make it as fast as possible, no scar tissue, no pain.
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It's not cold anymore. And thanks a lot for your support along the way. I wouldn't have done it without you, brother.
 
ALEX89;688734 said:
Hi, everyone just want to ask what is your suggestion about my situation, how many ties should I do 1 or 2? Where yo pierce? What knot should I use? cotton or fishing line?
Thank you.
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What's the issue you're having? Your frenulum looks fairly normal to me, though I don't have much to go on.

The knot I used was the surgeon's knot/square knot/reef knot: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_lvQ2YJ0RjQ
Some people have used blood knots and other knots too

If you just want to get a little more looseness/detach from the glans, I'd consider putting one here, but more experienced tiers may have other ideas:
 
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The issue what I have that my frenulum already was ripped of in my teenage, but not all of it and now when my pines erected my foreskin don't stay on a shaft permanently, snapping and covers half of my glans.
 
Looks like my tie is cutting through, slowly but surely. Should be done by friday, or maybe even earlier.
 
lightlyfried;689120 said:
What are the advantages for me to consider this?
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If you have frenulum problems (bent glans, trouble retracting foreskin, tearing of your frenulum, etc.) it will solve them.
If you don't have any problems related to your frenulum, I wouldn't bother doing it.
 
I gave myself one unintentionally. Started off as a weak spot on the fren which always gashed up during sessions. Over time I just got stretched and scarred to the point it looks tied.
 
templnite;689151 said:
I gave myself one unintentionally. Started off as a weak spot on the fren which always gashed up during sessions. Over time I just got stretched and scarred to the point it looks tied.
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And you don't have any problems now?

For me I believe short frenulum stopped my length gains. So at some point, at least for some PErs, frenulum needs to give up, or there will be no gains. In your case it happened naturally, I had to help mine with tying.
 
_MustNotFap_;688594 said:
It seems the tie closest to the meatus slipped last night, so the area it was pinching off was too small. I don't think it was quite tight enough to begin with, so I tried to untie it and retie it - big mistake - all i succeeded in doing was making it looser and rubbing the frenulum raw :(.

I ended up cutting both ties off (couldn't get the needle through where the lower tie was and I wanted a common point of entry) and retying them. unfortunately I couldn't find the original hole on one side, so I ended up having to make a new exit - oh well. Knots have been retied, hopefully this time they go full term and fall out naturally and I haven't done too much damage
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_MustNotFap_, how to do you feel now? If the knot is become loose then put another tie on top of that and never cut the tie off without having another more tight tie on.
 
GhostRider;689156 said:
And you don't have any problems now?

For me I believe short frenulum stopped my length gains. So at some point, at least for some PErs, frenulum needs to give up, or there will be no gains. In your case it happened naturally, I had to help mine with tying.
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Like I said it used to get damaged from just training, over time it just started adapting. It looks just like I did a small tie near the meatus. Now I don't get discomfort like when it started to pain me, its pretty much fixed
 
It's been going well, sort of.

The lower knot became quite loose (the knot didn't untie, it just cut through so much frenulum and was no longer effective), so I replaced it. In this instance there was a bridge of frenulum and getting a new string through was extremely easy. I actually threaded the string, cut the knot off and retied.

The knot close to the glans slipped again, not as badly this time. I left the knot in place and added another knot where I wanted the glans knot to be. Essentially I had 2 knots right next to each other; this stopped the slipping.

Yesterday (~24 hours ago) I got impatient. The dying frenulum (picture 1, taken 2 or 3 days ago) was starting to shrink and get very tight and I was struggling to retract my foreskin, so I cut it in half; as the tension released it made a sound like when you cut a string or rubberband that is under tension, a sort of snappy twang. The lower knot was 99% of the way through, so I cut it off and used the scissors to remove thee tiny bit of dead frenulum remaining. It felt so good to be free of the knot and that dead frenulum band.

At the moment I have a small amount of pain close to the glans on the frenulum (I think this is where the glans knot rubbed it raw) - it only hurts if I get urine or antiseptic on it or if I fully retract and put tension on it, rest of the time it's fine. The glans knot is still in place, though I've trimmed off most of the dead frenulum. Only issue with that knot is the knot and its strings irritating my glans, but I expect it to cut through in a day or 2.

I think I will let everything heal and do one more tie. I like that my frenulum is still attached to my glans, but lower down; I want it to look as close to natural as possible so I will probably make the next tie closer to the foreskin.
 
_MustNotFap_;689168 said:
It's been going well, sort of.

The lower knot became quite loose (the knot didn't untie, it just cut through so much frenulum and was no longer effective), so I replaced it. In this instance there was a bridge of frenulum and getting a new string through was extremely easy. I actually threaded the string, cut the knot off and retied.

The knot close to the glans slipped again, not as badly this time. I left the knot in place and added another knot where I wanted the glans knot to be. Essentially I had 2 knots right next to each other; this stopped the slipping.

Yesterday (~24 hours ago) I got impatient. The dying frenulum (picture 1, taken 2 or 3 days ago) was starting to shrink and get very tight and I was struggling to retract my foreskin, so I cut it in half; as the tension released it made a sound like when you cut a string or rubberband that is under tension, a sort of snappy twang. The lower knot was 99% of the way through, so I cut it off and used the scissors to remove thee tiny bit of dead frenulum remaining. It felt so good to be free of the knot and that dead frenulum band.

At the moment I have a small amount of pain close to the glans on the frenulum (I think this is where the glans knot rubbed it raw) - it only hurts if I get urine or antiseptic on it or if I fully retract and put tension on it, rest of the time it's fine. The glans knot is still in place, though I've trimmed off most of the dead frenulum. Only issue with that knot is the knot and its strings irritating my glans, but I expect it to cut through in a day or 2.

I think I will let everything heal and do one more tie. I like that my frenulum is still attached to my glans, but lower down; I want it to look as close to natural as possible so I will probably make the next tie closer to the foreskin.
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_MustNotFap_, I think the upper piece of skin will go out with time because its already dead cells. I also had my frenulum almost attached to my meatus, so the hardest cosmetic part is to make the right first tie and you did it very good. When you go more down its better to use piercing technique with total healing and after to tie the piece of skin in the middle or just tie one knot very close to the shaft to create better cosmetic result. I suggest to make tie as closer as possible to the glans or shaft of penis to eliminate any skin traces after cutting. I did my 3rd tie through piercing and still need to make 1 more but next time I will do just one knot without piercing.
 
Guys, how do I know if my knot is tight enough? Cause cutting tends to slow down (or maybe I'm just getting impatient?), and there's very little left.
 
GhostRider;689429 said:
Guys, how do I know if my knot is tight enough? Cause cutting tends to slow down (or maybe I'm just getting impatient?), and there's very little left.
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tie another one close to the one you are not confident about. Can help. Should be tight as much as you can possibly tie it.
 
Brahmanion;689433 said:
tie another one close to the one you are not confident about. Can help. Should be tight as much as you can possibly tie it.
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I wanted to avoid that. But if it doesn't cut by Friday night/ Saturday morning, I"ll do another tie. Should I numb it and try to go through the same hole with a needle?
 
GhostRider;689510 said:
I wanted to avoid that. But if it doesn't cut by Friday night/ Saturday morning, I"ll do another tie. Should I numb it and try to go through the same hole with a needle?
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yes, numb if possible and go to the same hole, I tried many times like that and it worked well. But try to place the tie more closed to the shaft for old tie to be after a new one.
 
Brahmanion;689526 said:
yes, numb if possible and go to the same hole, I tried many times like that and it worked well. But try to place the tie more closed to the shaft for old tie to be after a new one.
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The thing is that is very little tissue left from frenulum. And it looks like it all dead tissue. So if I tried to tie a new knot, the needle probably will break the rest of fren. For now I'll just soak it and try to move it around a little bit. Maybe it will break.
 
GhostRider;689563 said:
The thing is that is very little tissue left from frenulum. And it looks like it all dead tissue. So if I tried to tie a new knot, the needle probably will break the rest of fren. For now I'll just soak it and try to move it around a little bit. Maybe it will break.
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send pic of this area to understand. All dead tissue will go out anyway.
 
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