Frenulum Tying!

FIRST POST.

This is the fourth day since me and my gf performed the frenulum tying procedure on my self. Im not really sure if its actually cutting through or if any improvements are occurring. How What are the signs that its actually working?? Thanks to any replys.
 
Mrpennstate123;523994 said:
FIRST POST.

This is the fourth day since me and my gf performed the frenulum tying procedure on my self. Im not really sure if its actually cutting through or if any improvements are occurring. How What are the signs that its actually working?? Thanks to any replys.
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It really doesn't change too much. The skin where the knot is tied should appear slightly whiter as time goes on. You know like when you tie a string on your finger. But as long as you tied a good initial knot you should be fine, just give it some time :). Takes more than 4 days.
 
Hey there. I'm new to this forum. Glad to find a current discussion and log of everyone's different methods for tying off the fren.

Just took the plunge last night and tied off my frenulum (merry christmas, me!) I was pretty confident about doing it myself after reading through this thread. Couldn't get any EMLA cream without a prescription so I just iced it and stuck the needle through. Not bad! No blood, no pain, only slight discomfort that isn't even impacted by erections. Now I'm playing the waiting game as this is Day 1.

I initially ripped my frenulum having sex about three years ago, but unfortunately it didn't tear that far and healed much tighter than it used to be. I've basically just taken things slow and used a lot of lube to compensate since then. A couple of weeks ago I got another minor tear and thought "okay, that's it" time to remedy this shit. I saw a urologist a couple years ago after researching frenuloplasty and tying methods. SOB'd only recommend circumcision and claimed to have never heard of frenuloplasty...!

Glad I've taken matters into my own hands now. Think it'll probably take two or three ties to get me where I'm going. Wish me luck!
 
Ah I'm so glad this is helping even more people now! Everyone who've just started tying, let us know how it all goes for you :) We'll be here if there's any problems, questions or concerns about anything.
 
MFOMNI;524434 said:
dld...do you think your gains have been the result of your cut frenulum?
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Well I gained about quarter inch when I tied mine. The way the frenulum was pulling on the head of the penis made it bow considerably when fully erect so I wasn't experiencing my full length. When it finally snapped, my penis appeared larger and straighter.

I'm guessing if the others are experiencing some kind of odd "bowing" of the penis glans because of their fren, then they stand to gain a bit of length if they tie it.
 
MFOMNI;524434 said:
dld...do you think your gains have been the result of your cut frenulum?
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Well after I cut my Frenulum I gained somewhere between a quarter to half inch but this was after I had already gained 2". From that point forward it took 6 more years to gain to where I am today. I think it may have helped me gain in two ways, first, from the initial gains of the cut but also, once the cut was done my circumcision was not so tight any longer so that may have given me more ease in stretch.
 
First stitch cut through tonight. Actually it didn't quite so I cut it off with some small scissors, then sterilized them and cut through the TINY piece of skin remaining. Didn't hurt a bit + no blood or anything. Sweet! I'd felt a twinge yesterday and I think most of the skin separated then. Took 7 days to go through.

I'm going to let it heal now and keep stretching the skin while it does, but I'm guessing I'll need to tie it off again to get the results I want (I made a fairly shallow tie for starters). I'm a little concerned with the amount of excess skin that's starting to slide down my shaft. After I tore my fren a few years ago, it left a little gobbler piece of skin which is now stretching out to be quite long. Looks weird to me, but I'm MUCH more concerned with a healthy pain-free sex life than a little flap of skin. My gf has a funny little mole to the left of her pussy anyway so what the fuck ever, right?
 
SomethingElse;525338 said:
First stitch cut through tonight. Actually it didn't quite so I cut it off with some small scissors, then sterilized them and cut through the TINY piece of skin remaining. Didn't hurt a bit + no blood or anything. Sweet! I'd felt a twinge yesterday and I think most of the skin separated then. Took 7 days to go through.

I'm going to let it heal now and keep stretching the skin while it does, but I'm guessing I'll need to tie it off again to get the results I want (I made a fairly shallow tie for starters). I'm a little concerned with the amount of excess skin that's starting to slide down my shaft. After I tore my fren a few years ago, it left a little gobbler piece of skin which is now stretching out to be quite long. Looks weird to me, but I'm MUCH more concerned with a healthy pain-free sex life than a little flap of skin. My gf has a funny little mole to the left of her pussy anyway so what the fuck ever, right?
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Heh those extra features make it all the more interesting!

But congrats on getting the first stitch done :) It seems the time factor for these ties can vary depending on a number of things whether it's the type of thread used, how tight it is, the depth of the first tie, etc. Once it's all healed and you've got other stitches done, maybe we can look into your other concerns too. I wouldn't be surprised if using the same or a similar tying method, we can make the flap heal into itself. But one thing at a time :)

Keep us posted!
 
Just put my second stitch in. This one hurt a bit! I forgot to use any kind of lubrication after icing my frenulum, so the needle had a lot of resistance. I put on vaseline and it slid through fine. This one is deeper than the first and seems likely to relieve all the tension of the foreskin.

Tying the knot stung pretty fierce. I hopped around for a little bit. Surprisingly, when I went to pee later and pulled back the foreskin, I noticed instant results! The pain must have been the string cutting through, and I can already retract my foreskin farther down the shaft than I ever have. Fuck yeah! This was the best decision of my life. There's just a dull pain from the stitch now, but I'm sure it won't take long for the skin to desensitize.

I'll update when it cuts through. These few days are going to be agonizing!

Update: Been a full day now. No pain since waking up, though I went to bed sore. This stitch is much less irritating than the first one was and isn't sensitive to touch at all. Waiting out a few days!
 
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Second stitch cut through last night. Results are amazing! I can fully retract my foreskin without tugging downwards on the glans now. I'm letting it heal, but it looks great and the redness from the stitch went away overnight. Can't wait to see what sex is like with such more freedom of movement!

Whole process: two stitches starting Christmas day. First cut through in seven days, second in just four. No blood or unsightly scarring. Pain only because I didn't have numbing cream and forgot to lubricate the needle the second go round. I would HIGHLY RECOMMEND the tying off method to anyone who has experienced difficulties and pain with their frenulum. Seriously, it hasn't even sunk in yet what a change this is going to be for my sex life and general happiness.

Updates to come once I'm fully healed. I'm guessing that my current state will suffice until I get bored and decide to do a shallow third stitch to complete the separation (minor frenulum still exists)

Thanks to all of you guys for your posts and step by step accounts of the tying process!
 
(not sure if this is in the right section or whether it should be in the injuries section)

okay so im recently had a pain in my frenulum and discovered a very small tear. not completely sure how or when it happened, but its most likely due to either hanging or stretching. this has happened twice before over the past year and a half, so im wondering if i have a tight frenulum? the white circle is the small tear which may not be visible:

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Is the frenulum itself actually torn?
Or is it superficial?

I seem to remember, way back in the distant past DLD talking about tearing his own frenulum whereupon he started making his legendary incredible gains.

So....while painful, there are still opportunities for gain.
 
MAXAMEYES;528003 said:
Is the frenulum itself actually torn?
Or is it superficial?

I seem to remember, way back in the distant past DLD talking about tearing his own frenulum whereupon he started making his legendary incredible gains.

So....while painful, there are still opportunities for gain.
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sorry im not sure what you mean by it being superficial. the actual frenulum has a little nick/ tear in it, in the middle not at either side. its happened before, but the last time it happened it was on one side.

i may be wrong, but i seem to remember DLD's tearing one day, and him seeing a massive increase in length almost instantly due to the frenulum restricting him.

im not sure if my frenulum is too tight or not and if this is the case, could it be inhibiting length gains (as ive made 0.25 inch gains in girth doing a medium amount of work, and similiar if not more work for length and only gained 0.1 inch)
 
MAXAMEYES;528151 said:
Superficial means the skin only.
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i dont tihnk it is, the tear is in the actuall frenulum and has widened a little as i tried stretching through it. heres a (somewhat exaggerated) illustration of the tear as i can tell the original picture isnt that easy to see:

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(the red line is the frenulum, the curve is the penis head and the small oval is the tear)
 
Thank goodness I found this board. I took the big step last Thursday, it's Monday now, and boy am I glad I did it. It's definitely mind over matter because once that needle pierced through, I was, "what? It went through? I hardly felt it."

I did feel a small amount of tenderness getting the end of the needle and magic wire through the hole but nothing to cry about. Today, I was loosening the wire so I could clean it and saw that there was just a tiny bit of skin attaching the two pieces so I just your them apart; I'm too impatient. I'm so happy I did it. After it heels I'm probably going to do one more stitch.

I used a slip knot to tie. I found I couldn't get the knot as tight as I could using a square knot so the slip knot was much better.
 
Well, keep the wound clean and good ol' Neosporin seems to work pretty well against infection and to promote healing.
As far as you fitting the clinical classification of frenulum breve? I'm pretty sure a urologist needs to make that call.
And even then; I'm bettin' it'll be a judgement call.

You can look at it this way; I can't tell much from the picture, one way or the other, but if your frenulum is tight enough that YOU notice it hampering your Penis Enlargement goals or sex life, then it is, for all your intents and purposes, too tight.

How you would choose to handle that would be your call alone.

Whatever you choose to do: Good luck!
 
MAXAMEYES;528511 said:
Well, keep the wound clean and good ol' Neosporin seems to work pretty well against infection and to promote healing.
As far as you fitting the clinical classification of frenulum breve? I'm pretty sure a urologist needs to make that call.
And even then; I'm bettin' it'll be a judgement call.

You can look at it this way; I can't tell much from the picture, one way or the other, but if your frenulum is tight enough that YOU notice it hampering your Penis Enlargement goals or sex life, then it is, for all your intents and purposes, too tight.


How you would choose to handle that would be your call alone.


Whatever you choose to do: Good luck!
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thanks max, its healed up pretty much completely now so no need to worry about healing

and yeah im not going to be making an appointment with the doc just because im pretty sure they'll not refer me and tell me its nothing, and it'll also take weeks for me to get an appointment.
its not a problem during normal erections, just when i start to get past my normal erection limit through p.e if that makes sense.

regardless i think its preventing me from really gettin stuck into exercises and progress so i need to do something about it.

i think im gonna look into frenulum tying, although im a little scared about sticking a needle through and also have so many questions
 
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