Frenulum Tying!

realtonytones said:
I used the finest and sharpest sewing needle I could find. Will go through much easier this way.
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Thanks I will see what I can find, I've pushed a needle through it before to try it out and it wasn't bad at all.

Also reading back through this thread I noticed meatotomy being mentioned. Was quite interested so I'm considering opening the 'hole' by 2 or 3mm using the tying method too. Happy to document if anyone is interested. This is mainly due to the tightness issue.
 
mrbj88 said:
Thanks I will see what I can find, I've pushed a needle through it before to try it out and it wasn't bad at all.

Also reading back through this thread I noticed meatotomy being mentioned. Was quite interested so I'm considering opening the 'hole' by 2 or 3mm using the tying method too. Happy to document if anyone is interested. This is mainly due to the tightness issue.
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Try the frenulum first, then the meatotomy I guess. In my last post I forgot to mention, make sure the needle is a hand sewing needle not a machine sewing needle so you can thread the thread through it. I’ve seen some people pierce the hole with a machine needle and then attempt to put the thread through by itself separately. Rather odd. LOL. Please document. Would love to see the end result. ?
 
realtonytones said:
Try the frenulum first, then the meatotomy I guess. In my last post I forgot to mention, make sure the needle is a hand sewing needle not a machine sewing needle so you can thread the thread through it. I’ve seen some people pierce the hole with a machine needle and then attempt to put the thread through by itself separately. Rather odd. LOL. Please document. Would love to see the end result. ?
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Well this is how it is now, the yellow line is where I want it. That's the very top of the frenulum which of course I will remove. I kinda wanna try this first for the thrill...but also to open it up more and make it less tight...?
 
mrbj88 said:
Well this is how it is now, the yellow line is where I want it. That's the very top of the frenulum which of course I will remove. I kinda wanna try this first for the thrill...but also to open it up more and make it less tight...?
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Is there a reason you want the opening bigger? I think it looks good as it is, but it’s yours to do as you wish. Who am I to judge, I keep stretching and stretching my PA. LOL.
 
realtonytones said:
Is there a reason you want the opening bigger? I think it looks good as it is, but it’s yours to do as you wish. Who am I to judge, I keep stretching and stretching my PA. LOL.
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I'd love a piercing or circ but am unlikely to do it, so this is my 'mod' I guess. I'm getting pumped up and curious to know how it feels essentially cutting down there. Albeit minor.
 
mrbj88 said:
I'd love a piercing or circ but am unlikely to do it, so this is my 'mod' I guess. I'm getting pumped up and curious to know how it feels essentially cutting down there. Albeit minor.
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You’ll be fine. Just take it slow. I’ll do tie #3 soon. Pretty confident after my last tie as the result was awesome. Probably about 15mm looser, approx, I didn’t measure. Please don’t circ, as I have read some horror stories, people who have seriously regretted it. Piercing is awesome. My partner was worried and didn’t want me to get it, I always wanted it though. You should consider it. I’m pumped for you as well. I hope it all goes as you want it to. Smaller ties = cleaner end result. Though, for meatotomy, would you tie, or cut? I haven’t really researched that one. The frenulum tying alone, after a few ties, will really loosen it all up.
 
REVELATION

I know to most people this won’t actually sound like a super amazing thing, BUT, I just noticed today, when I went to the bathroom. I can ACTUALLY piss in a straight line without it going everywhere. Seriously this is awesome. In 34 years, I’m pretty sure it was due to the frenulum tightness before, it just didn’t want to happen. Made it quite annoying! Even with the circular barbell in at the moment is not a problem. I was quite amazed. Happy me! LOL

PS... I’m sure nobody actually wants to know this, but I had to urgently tell SOMEBODY who wouldn’t judge me for not knowing how to stand and piss correctly.
 
mrbj88 said:
Another reason I want to do a mini meato
Edit - needles arrived today so will have a little trial
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I actually thought I was just a weirdo who would never learn how to piss property. PROUD!! ?

Super excited for you. Post photos!! Hope it goes well. Keep it clean/disinfected etc and you’ll be good.
 
Hi everyone! Decided to tie the damn frenulum today (and done it) but here's the question: how tight should the knot really be? The reason I'm asking is that when I was doing the knot it was noticeably painful if I tried to make it any tighter. However, it's been several hours and I don't feel any discomfort whatsoever. I don't feel anything at all actually, so maybe the knot's too loose? Shouldn't you feel at least a little bit of pain as it cuts through down there? I didn't even use any anaesthetic, just some antiseptic ointment. The weapon of choice was a .12mm fishing line.
 
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atasata said:
Hi everyone! Decided to tie the damn frenulum today (and done it) but here's the question: how tight should the knot really be? The reason I'm asking is that when I was doing the knot it was noticeably painful if I tried to make it any tighter. However, it's been several hours and I don't feel any discomfort whatsoever. I don't feel anything at all actually, so maybe the knot's too loose? Shouldn't you feel at least a little bit of pain as it cuts through down there? I didn't even use any anaesthetic, just some antiseptic ointment. The weapon of choice was a .12mm fishing line.
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Hi :) , when I did mine originally it was like as you descirbed - no real pain or discomfort and it's easy to forget you've done it because there's no real feeling and you're wondering if anything is happening. Know that the whole time the knot is tied that it IS cutting through, especially if elasticated thread is used. Part of what causes the separation and aids the cutting process is the somewhat lack of blood flow caused by the knot constricting the tiny area, making the points closest to the knot weaker. I guess also that because a minute amount of blood is no longer entering the knotted site due to its constricting nature, cell death is occurring. But that sounds scarier than it is. On such a small scale nothing bad could really happen in my experience. Eventually the constricted band of skin will fall away from the knot and the tiny amount of blood flow that was once hindered will now return to begin the healing process.

In terms of tightness with the knot, I just tied as tight as I could. Any tighter might have snapped the elasticated thread. Visually though, it was tight enough so that the immediate area on the frenulum was white, so I'd aim for that :)

If it helps to know, I had several wanks whilst my knot was still in LOL and I didn't experience any major discomfort ...if anything I think it might have hastened the process slightly through the internal expansion of the erection creating a stretched surface area beneath the knotted band. So, I'd say don't be afraid to prod, squeeze or gently massage the knot directly, so long as you're hygienic! :)
 
Okay, so I've been reading this thread for a while now and finally did my first tie a while back. Took about nine days before it finally came apart, and has been almost a week of recovery time. I still need to do one or two more ties, but there's a rather large vein right where I wanted to tie next. Should I avoid the vein and tie around it? do the tie vein and all and hope for the best?
 
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