aimingforthe top at it again. now with srt and a whole lot of tools to play with

Aimingforthetop;677848 said:
So decided to try something new and went to a swingers club last night.

Haha crazy experience :)
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OK, what was that, a little taste? What Happened?
 
Aimingforthetop;675707 said:
I need to find a gym chick.
And a chick who is down helping me with PE :)
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I had this but fucked it up.
 
doublelongdaddy;678376 said:
I had this but fucked it up.
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I know this is tough mate. Trust me. But you need to let go of the past.

A man who lives in the past becomes depressed.

A man that lives in the future becomes anxious.

Thats why a man must live in the present.

You have done so many good things for men on this forum. And you still are. But i also feel a bit of sadness and loneliness from you.

And it can hurt alot to lose someone especially us men.

An old friend of mine had this theory that in the old days women would get pregnant after the first few sexual encounters.

So obviously she had to stay with the man.

Now the man would rarely lose a wife as she was in the cave where it was safe.

Now. The men died occationally due to hunting accidents and trying to eat new food that turned out to be poisonious.

And the woman had to find a new man obviously. So they learned to adapt.

However us men never really got that chance we fell in love made her pregnant as many times as possible and protected her with our life. Untill we one day would die.

This results in the fact that girls seems to have a new boyfriend before they have even broken up with you. While one of my friends who got dumped in his teenage years is still fucked up i mean check this out.

Kid had successful parents. His bright. He worked as a model. He was well build. With sixpack and shit.

Gets dumped at the age of 17!!!

He never got over it!

Im not fucking joking. He is 28 now and he is fat as fuck. Never had a job never finished school drinks too much and plays games all the time.

And whenever we try and dig into it and help him he rejects. Until we get him drunk and he confesses that it was her who broke him.

Im feeling you. I understand the pain.

But mate you need to make it your first priority in life to get a girl. And i don't just mean a whole to stretch out on that elephant cock of yours!

I mean someone to laugh with cuddle with tell stories to. One to care about and be cared about.

Its not my place to tell you what to do. And sorry if i cross a line. But sometimes the hard things to say are the things that needs to be said the most.

And hey i lost the dream girl aswell.

Petite dark haired
7 languages fluent
Business engineer
The best humor i have ever seen in a girl.
And she loved getting fucked up and fuck all night.

I cheated on her with a stupid bitch i only fucked because i wanted to see if i could.

She never found out. But things changed between us we didn't have the same connection after thst it was like i couldn't open up to her.

It taught me a valuable lesson i can proudly say to this day i still use!

I don't fucking cheat! And im always talking the truth to people.

You get alot of shit from doing that. But it gives a freedom to always talk what you believe is right.

In reality it made me alot better person.

I haven't found a girl that i want as much as her. But hey One day i will :)
 
With that being said i visited a swingers club :) (smooth change in subject)

I actually wrote something yesterday and then pressed the wrong button and it deleted it again.

But the story goes:

The club was placed in the middle of no where aprox 1 hour from where i live.

It was pretty cool actually. Since it was like a wellness club with a spa and steam room.

The difference is that people wear underwear or are naked.

And there is small rooms around the place that you can go into and fuck.

You could also occationally here moaning from some woman who gets an orgasm.

Good fun.

So as i arrived i started walning around and everybody said hi to eachother.

This is perfect for me. As people usually gets intimidated by me when i cold approach (side effect of me growing muscles) i literally had 4 small talks with girls in the first 10 mins. So things went great. This also has the advantage that there is a code of conduct. As this removes the need to be acting all out as an alpha places like this intimidating behaviour is an instant loss i figured

Talked with some of the guys who had been there for a while. Wanted to pick up some tricks on what to say what not to do etc.
Also to break the 20 inch cold ice that seemed to be in the room.

Anyway they didn't seem to want to tell anything and didn't want to share.

I guess its normal that they feel intimidated by a new guy.

So i go to the spa and my eyes catch this milf. We have a little bit of eye contact and we start to flirt.

After some time we are cuddling a little bit and things are accelerating so we decide to find a room.

This guy who can best be described as a war hog. Small and square shaped bald and he suffers from invincible lat syndrome (when guys walk like their back muscles are the size of a turtle shell) stands in between us and starts to talk with the before mentioned girl.

It is very obvious that he is trying to push me out as he walked up and stood right between us.
I look at her and tell her im going to find a room and starts to walk. 2 seconds later she comes running after me. (He later gets thrown out because of bad behaviour and the girl he came with started to flirt with me aswell. So i concluded that my alpha male theory was spot on)

The milf is a couple of years older than me. She used to be hot that was very obvious. And she had massive tits.

Anyway we start out with some cuddling and it just slowly grows. At some point she just takes my cock in her mouth and jesus christ! She gave me the best blowjob ever. Not because she deepthroated it or anything fancy. She just knew what she was doing. Damn.

So condom gets out on and she goes on her back. I penetrate her half and start fucking her half. She gets into it.

Then i slowly penetrate her with all the penis and she lets out a scream of joy.

And then i went nuts. For half an hour i fucked her like a machine and she was a screamer (regrets that we took the room right next to the bar where people would socialize) never heard anyone scream like this before.

Anyway she got her orgasm.

After some time i realized thst i wasn't going to get mine. The condom was of standard size and i can out it on y cock but it always fucks up sits wrong and pumps out the blood of my penis.

I actually faked an orgasm. Not her fault really i just need to bring mybown condoms.

Afterwards we vwhere cuddling and talking and went back out into the club.

Apparently to fuck a screamer in a swingers club is like getting your first boyscout mark. And i had 3 girls in total flirting with me 1 said straight out she wanted to fuck me next time she saw me.

And the milf game me her phone number.

Ohh and she imports condoms and she could get my brand in my size at a discount.

So i had that aswell.

I don't know if im going to do it again. It was fun but at the same time it felt.. Different can't put a name on it.

But i don't regret the experience at all. Had to find out what it was.

Worst case scenario i would have had a fun story to tell.

Ohh i also saw these 2 guys finger bang one of their wifes to an orgasm in the spa area. While everyone else just had a normal conversation. Now that is a funny experience loke a huge fucking pink elephant walking through the room i just wanted to stand up and scream: "what the fuck is going on?! Check that out she is fucking getting it! Why are you 2 bitches talking about work!!? That hoe is getting it hard right now!"

But i don't think that would be appreciated in that environment
 
templnite;678400 said:
I heard that people who can speak three languages are extremely intelligent, but seven fluently wtf

Edit according to googer less than one per thousand in the world :sMultilingual People - Are you a polyglot?
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She learned all 7 by herself. She was an exchange student from a poor country and she is without comparison the person i have met who was most intelligent. She memorized my credit cards 16 numbers + date and 3 digit safety number by looking at it once!

Well last i heard of her she is now taking crazier drugs she cut her hair and is bald and listening to some hardcore trance stuff.

She needed to go another path in her life. And so did i :)
 
templnite;678406 said:
I guess she was so smart than needed to dumb down XD
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for extremely intelligent people there is a very high risk of going crazy.

If you watch the newest episode of big bang theory sheldon cooper can't remember what song it is that he got stuck in his head. And he panickes because he is accustomed to have a perfect memory. And then he just assumes that its madness coming so he starts making videos to his future crazy self.

But the point is that alot of very intelligent people end up in drugs alcohol skizofrenia depression or suicide. And its hard to find out why.

My bet is that they try and figure out things like the meaning of life etc.

And due to the fact that they are smarter than alot of us they end up with very unhealthy thoughts they can't get out of.

Im personally above standard but under mensa requirements.

One of the girls i see currently is mensa 1% (she is at the top of mensa aswell)

But the truth is that she doesn't get close to my ex.

And ye i have a thing for intelligent chicks.

My fetish: "oh ye fuck ye do the square root of 7 on 15 digits while i take you hard from behind!"
 
Revelation 2:4 Yet I hold this against you: You have forsaken the love you had at first.

The being too smart thing sort of makes sense, but I think it has to do with excesses like longth was saying earlier.
I had a teacher used to tell us to go with our first answer because usually that was the correct one, but over thinking cause you to mess yourself up. That's something I still carry with me whenever I'm anywhere is always consider what was my first choice. Its like first impressions or your first love (the scripture says first love as in the passion you had when you first learned about Jesus, which dampens for some people).
One of the girls you see? When are you gonna be In a real relationship :s
 
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templnite;678422 said:
Revelation 2:4 Yet I hold this against you: You have forsaken the love you had at first.

The being too smart thing sort of makes sense, but I think it has to do with excesses like longth was saying earlier.
I had a teacher used to tell us to go with our first answer because usually that was the correct one, but over thinking cause you to mess yourself up. That's something I still carry with me whenever I'm anywhere is always consider what was my first choice. Its like first impressions or your first love (the scripture says first love as in the passion you had when you first learned about Jesus, which dampens for some people).
One of the girls you see? When are you gonna be In a real relationship :s
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When i find someone who convinces me to go into a real relationship. Im not in a rush :) and i don't think im missing out on anything either. I feel sorry for the guys around me in long term relationships. Some of them might aswell judt cut their balls off straight away to make the pain of slow castration go over.

Besides. If i want to find the best burger in the city. Im not just gonna go to 1 place im gonna check out the city and see what there is. :)

Also i travel 50% of my time. And when im home i have a strict training protocol (combining gymnastics with weightlifting ain't no walk in the park)

A girlfriend can be a nice thing to have. But when i meet my friends who are in relationships they look exhausted and tired of their life. I love my life every bit of it. And if i can't find a girl that makes me love life more than now. She doesn't deserve to become part of my life plain and simple
 
Well its cool to be selfish like that, but since you were giving mike advice on relationships I thought you could give us a quick peek inside the heart of aiming. How do you know when the right burger comes along (leave out pretty face, tight pussy, etc. We know she has to have those :D)
 
Aimingforthetop;678536 said:
When i find someone who convinces me to go into a real relationship. Im not in a rush :) and i don't think im missing out on anything either. I feel sorry for the guys around me in long term relationships. Some of them might aswell judt cut their balls off straight away to make the pain of slow castration go over.

Besides. If i want to find the best burger in the city. Im not just gonna go to 1 place im gonna check out the city and see what there is. :)

Also i travel 50% of my time. And when im home i have a strict training protocol (combining gymnastics with weightlifting ain't no walk in the park)

A girlfriend can be a nice thing to have. But when i meet my friends who are in relationships they look exhausted and tired of their life. I love my life every bit of it. And if i can't find a girl that makes me love life more than now. She doesn't deserve to become part of my life plain and simple
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seeing those long n pathetic faces when they are whit their girls LOL..Seems that women are too demanding too pushy n they have really high n unrealistic expectations.:Olol
 
Aimingforthetop;678405 said:
She learned all 7 by herself. She was an exchange student from a poor country and she is without comparison the person i have met who was most intelligent. She memorized my credit cards 16 numbers + date and 3 digit safety number by looking at it once!

Well last i heard of her she is now taking crazier drugs she cut her hair and is bald and listening to some hardcore trance stuff.

She needed to go another path in her life. And so did i :)
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yep i think meeting genius level people can be an amazing gift,cause they can show us a tons of things even good n useful knowledge.

the strange thing whit that kind of people is that they can go wrong sometimes IMHO..
 
I agree AIM and I have let go of the past, the problem is creating my future. I have many insecurities that I need to get over. My body is one step in the right direction but I also need to deal with the mental shit I go through, I don't think a woman would want to be with a guy who is Agoraphobic and Bipolar. So far this tear I am doing good with the Bipolar but still can't go anywhere in public aside from the 3 places I go. I think I may have to just accept that I may not have another woman and be OK with that. If it happens great but if not I will see this as the will of God. He knows what is in my heart and my prayers, He knows I am lonely and I think this is a time I am expected to learn to love myself, or that is my interpretation. All doors are open and I hope my soul mate comes.
 
Insecurities are the worst thing ever,but they are part of our lives i guess,when i think about the future i realized that i still have a lot of fears doubts,insecurities too.

but we cant stay static,we are not supposed to stay static...A great future i have:)
 
templnite;678553 said:
Well its cool to be selfish like that, but since you were giving mike advice on relationships I thought you could give us a quick peek inside the heart of aiming. How do you know when the right burger comes along (leave out pretty face, tight pussy, etc. We know she has to have those :D)
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I don't perceive myself as selfish. Im just being honest.

How i know she is the right one?

Simple.

Normally what happens to 99.9% of all guys is that they are desperate to get a girl so they will take what they can and do just about anything to keep her.

They are a hungry man eating the first thing they find.

Im at peace with my self. I don't care if i get laid or not. If i should choose between pussy and hanging out with my friends or workout i will pick friends or workout every time.

So what is there left to convince me: love people use this word so easy. They meet someone and suddenly they found love every fucking day!

But it is decisions made from a hungry man not a well fed man.

And a hungry man always think a burger is the best burger


(Aiming the burger philosopher :) )
 
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