I don't think it should be forced. As long as the general knowledge is there with the benefits he'll more than likely make the right decision.
 
If it is being told to your child through your own insecurity then it is wrong to push it on them.
 
I wrote out the Newbie routine for my brother:

10 min. rice-sock warmup

Basic Stretching: 3 Sets of each stretch below
Behind The Cheeks to the Left: 30-seconds
Behind The Cheeks to the Center: 30-seconds
Behind The Cheeks to the Right: 30-seconds

Straight Down to the Left: 30-seconds
Straight Down to the Center: 30-seconds
Straight Down to the Right: 30-seconds
Straight Down Rotary Stretches: 25-Cranks

Straight Out to the Left: 30-seconds
Straight Out to the Center: 30-seconds
Straight Out to the Right: 30-seconds
Straight Out Rotary Stretches: 25-Cranks

Straight Up to the Left: 30-seconds
Straight Up to the Center: 30-seconds
Straight Up to the Right: 30-seconds
Straight Up Rotary Stretches: 25-Cranks

10 min. Jelq/Squeeze with condom rim at the glans

5 min. ricesock/hot washcloth warmdown
5 min. massage
like this
And left it with him
 
Wanting8;410858 said:
I don't think it should be forced. As long as the general knowledge is there with the benefits he'll more than likely make the right decision.

I agree completely. If they don't want to do it, fine. I just feel that exposing them to the knowledge that it exists, their old man does it, and it works is a good thing. My dad got me into lifting at 13 and I've been doing it since (though sometimes inconsistently). He didn't tell me I was scrawny and needed to lift. He just introduced it to me and asked if I wanted to lift with him and my uncle. While I certainly don't think fathers and sons should Penis Enlargement together, I don't think introducing Penis Enlargement to him in this way would be traumatic. A little awkward, maybe, but any initial "cock talk" usually is.
 
It's the next step after "the birds & the bees". Well now that you know what your doodle is for... do you want the biggest one on the block? lol
 
hispanicPANIC;410902 said:
It's the next step after "the birds & the bees". Well now that you know what your doodle is for... do you want the biggest one on the block? lol

lol nice
 
If I had a son, I would never bring up Penis Enlargement until he was 18 or older. At this point he has probably had sex. Thinking from my POV, I was NEVER tought about sex as a youngster.

I feared sex from having zero knowledge of it. If my dad told me about Penis Enlargement before I had sex, I would have never had sex until I got my goal size.

At 18 or older your son will probably not gain a size complex. Either he would already have one or its a good chance he is mature enough not to gain one.

I don't care what you guys say, If you bring up size to a virgin you will wreck his confidence for shore. Also I want to add, since he will be older & mature odds are he won't injure himself from your advice.
 
I don't know if I'd put an age on it GirthHammer. I think it's a matter of knowing your son's emotional and social maturity. For example, I was a "late bloomer" sexually, so my dad would probably have been best to wait until 18 with me, but could have easily let my younger brother in on Penis Enlargement at 16, since was having sex since 15 and "grew up" faster with many older siblings. Your emotional maturity is really the question. Successful Penis Enlargement requires both discipline (to achieve results) and restraint (to avoid injury.)
 
FLiP180;410890 said:
I wrote out the Newbie routine for my brother:

like this
And left it with him

He get on Penis Enlargement, Flip? I don't think this would be the best way to let your SON in on Penis Enlargement. It makes it seem like it's shameful or embarrassing to talk about. You want to build that bond and trust with your son, and that comes through talking to him. Would you want your son to leave a note for you that says "I had sex for the first time" or "This kid is picking on me at school." I would want my son to talk to me about it. Yes, it is awkward to talk about Penis Enlargement at first. Hell, that's why so many guys lurk on the forum before they begin to contribute and post. With your son, you want to let him know that you two can talk about anything and he can come to you with anything. It's not so much the Penis Enlargement itself, but talking to your son in about Penis Enlargement, girls, sex, changes, values you want to impart to him, etc. -- all of these things strengthen the father-son bond.
 
higherone;411053 said:
He get on Penis Enlargement, Flip? I don't think this would be the best way to let your SON in on Penis Enlargement. It makes it seem like it's shameful or embarrassing to talk about. You want to build that bond and trust with your son, and that comes through talking to him. Would you want your son to leave a note for you that says "I had sex for the first time" or "This kid is picking on me at school." I would want my son to talk to me about it. Yes, it is awkward to talk about Penis Enlargement at first. Hell, that's why so many guys lurk on the forum before they begin to contribute and post. With your son, you want to let him know that you two can talk about anything and he can come to you with anything. It's not so much the Penis Enlargement itself, but talking to your son in about Penis Enlargement, girls, sex, changes, values you want to impart to him, etc. -- all of these things strengthen the father-son bond.

Excellent post Higherone!
 
Thanks, DLD. Every now and then I can come up with a good one! ;)
 
I wish I woulda known about P.E when I was younger especially in my high school days no girl has ever complained about my size but to b the talk around school about me having a �naked people movies� star cock wolda been great ha...
 
MrFreak;411187 said:
I wish I woulda known about P.E when I was younger especially in my high school days no girl has ever complained about my size but to b the talk around school about me having a �naked people movies� star cock wolda been great ha...

Any of you guys that don't have sons, would you have wanted your dad to let you in on Penis Enlargement? If so, at what age and why? Also, what do you think would be the best way to go about doing it?
 
Honestly if me n my dad had a close connection to where we could discuss P.E withouth it being. A weird conversation I would have loved for him to tell me about P.E. but I think the appropriate age is around tha time kids get into masturbation and �naked people movies�. If your a father tha best oppourtunity to tel him about P.E is if u catch him lookin at �naked people movies� or wackin off ha makes tha talk less awkward in my opinion
 
MrFreak;411215 said:
Honestly if me n my dad had a close connection to where we could discuss P.E withouth it being. A weird conversation I would have loved for him to tell me about P.E. but I think the appropriate age is around tha time kids get into masturbation and �naked people movies�. If your a father tha best oppourtunity to tel him about P.E is if u catch him lookin at �naked people movies� or wackin off ha makes tha talk less awkward in my opinion

Penis Enlargement is a weird conversation at first anyway you look at it. I think that's because you really have let your guard down and open yourself up to potential joking/criticism/etc. The key is to make it as normal as possible. I let my dad in on it. He thought I meant surgery at first and kept asking me "who told you that you have a small dick?!" After I explained it he was ok with Penis Enlargement. We don't talk about it much, but he knows I do it and is cool with it. I have a feeling that even if your son didn't get into it, it would be that way with him.
 
My son, Armand, has known about Penis Enlargement for years (he is a member here) but has absolutely no interest in it. We have a relationship as open as possible, we are literally best friends. He is more interested in Boxing and HipHop than anything else.
 
doublelongdaddy;411560 said:
My son, Armand, has known about Penis Enlargement for years (he is a member here) but has absolutely no interest in it. We have a relationship as open as possible, we are literally best friends. He is more interested in Boxing and HipHop than anything else.

And that doesn't change anything between you guys. You do Penis Enlargement, he doesn't. You both know about it and are cool with it. You support him and he supports you. That's what a father son relationship is about. Thanks DLD for sharing Penis Enlargement with your son for the right reasons and being a good dad!
 
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