Fathers and Sons

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higherone

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My buddy has decided to let his son in on Penis Enlargement. By no means is he obsessed with Penis Enlargement or anything like that, just thinks Penis Enlargement is a good thing to do, especially since his son is jacking off already. He figures might as well focus those efforts into something productive. They have a good father son bond and talk about a lot of things, such as sports, girls, and lifting weights. He wants to introduce it as a general [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]penis health[/words] thing, not a size thing, so that he doesn't give his son a complex. I was wondering if anyone else on here have already let their sons in on Penis Enlargement. If so, how did you do it and how did he react? If you're considering letting your son in on Penis Enlargement, how would you go about it? I'm not trying to debate should you or shouldn't you on this thread. It's more of, if you have or if you're going to, how did you/will you and how did it turn out if you did.
I'm trying to get my buddy to join the forum, so he might be posting in the future on this thread. :)
 
Be careful with this as a child physically may be able to do Penis Enlargement but it may hurt him mentally via putting too much importance on size. I think it should be left to an adult to make these personal decisions.
 
While I'm about 4-5 years out from an age where I would let my son know about Penis Enlargement, I do plan on telling him. I think the idea of introducing it as a health tool instead of a size tool is a great idea, and opens up for talks later on. You never know though, he could end up with a 9" hogathah, and just look at me cross-eyed.
 
doublelongdaddy;410200 said:
Be careful with this as a child physically may be able to do Penis Enlargement but it may hurt him mentally via putting too much importance on size. I think it should be left to an adult to make these personal decisions.
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I agree, that leaves it to the question of what age is the proper one. I would say around the time where he becomes sexual active might be a good time to introduce him to the health aspects of Penis Enlargement, I wasn't sexually active until around 17! that's late now a days but close enough to a good age if you ask me. I also think that there is already enough stuff out there putting pressure on size, so speaking with your kids about it might not hurt. use your best judgment of course. :-)
 
I agree completely that size should NEVER be emphasized when letting your son in on Penis Enlargement. We should never project our issues on to our children. That being said, I think with the PROPenis EnlargementR GUIDANCE from a father, a LIGHT Penis Enlargement routine could be beneficial as your son grows in manhood. I think it needs to be approached delicately and from a an overall [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]penis health[/words] perspective, not a size perspective. One should also look at his son's maturity level before embarking down this road. I know some 13 year olds that are more mature than 19 year olds. Just like anything (sex, drugs, etc.) Penis Enlargement would have to be constantly brought up and revisited so that your son doesn't overdo it and you help mold him into the man you want him to be.

I agree with you Kast. If you can introduce it as a health tool like lifting, running, etc. you will be in a better position to talk about it and other things with your son down the road.
 
kast;410208 said:
While I'm about 4-5 years out from an age where I would let my son know about Penis Enlargement, I do plan on telling him. I think the idea of introducing it as a health tool instead of a size tool is a great idea, and opens up for talks later on. You never know though, he could end up with a 9" hogathah, and just look at me cross-eyed.
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Even if he was well endowed, most guys could definitely benefit from the sexual health benefits of Penis Enlargement, such as lasting longer and stronger erections/orgasms, Kast.
 
higherone;410280 said:
Even if he was well endowed, most guys could definitely benefit from the sexual health benefits of Penis Enlargement, such as lasting longer and stronger erections/orgasms, Kast.
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True. I just get worried about the child's mind, I know when I was a youngster if I found out about Penis Enlargement I would have probably become obsessed and that may have screwed me up more than I already am:)
 
I understand what you're saying DLD. I think a lot of it would depend on your son's maturity level and how you approach Penis Enlargement with him. It could go very good or very bad depending on how it's presented and how it's received. I think a "When you're in the shower give your penis a good stretch up, down, and side to side daily to keep everything in good working order" isn't bad. However saying, "Son, you can make your dick grow by doing X,Y, and Z" might lead to a complex or your son going buck wild with Penis Enlargement. Definitely a "less is more" approach would have to be emphasized.
 
Personally I feel an idea of age setting upon when a father should tell their son of Penis Enlargement, it should depend more on the individual child/teen. Far-fetched to say but for example if you have a kid doing girth busters at five, he can grow up into a completely confident successful ladies man. Or on the other hand he can become a morbid, socially outcasted awkward person with a huge penis that wouldn't be put to use (sorry I just wanted to express spectrums). It should be noticeable on a child to how well they deal with issues and/or their hobbies and activities for a father to know the right time on his decisions of speaking and showing his son the wonderful world of Penis Enlargement.
 
mahoney1234;410308 said:
Personally I feel an idea of age setting upon when a father should tell their son of Penis Enlargement, it should depend more on the individual child/teen. Far-fetched to say but for example if you have a kid doing girth busters at five, he can grow up into a completely confident successful ladies man. Or on the other hand he can become a morbid, socially outcasted awkward person with a huge penis that wouldn't be put to use (sorry I just wanted to express spectrums). It should be noticeable on a child to how well they deal with issues and/or their hobbies and activities for a father to know the right time on his decisions of speaking and showing his son the wonderful world of Penis Enlargement.
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Excellent post!
 
mahoney1234;410308 said:
Personally I feel an idea of age setting upon when a father should tell their son of Penis Enlargement, it should depend more on the individual child/teen. Far-fetched to say but for example if you have a kid doing girth busters at five, he can grow up into a completely confident successful ladies man. Or on the other hand he can become a morbid, socially outcasted awkward person with a huge penis that wouldn't be put to use (sorry I just wanted to express spectrums). It should be noticeable on a child to how well they deal with issues and/or their hobbies and activities for a father to know the right time on his decisions of speaking and showing his son the wonderful world of Penis Enlargement.
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Excellent post, Mahoney! I think a lot of fathers don't know their sons the way they should these days. They take a hands off approach and those father son bonds are not developed. By all means should there be a positive and healthy father son relationship. It's up to us men as fathers to be dads to our sons, raising them to become well adjusted men. To do that you have to talk to your kid about what you believe and where you stand on things and kind of mold them into the men they are to become. Penis Enlargement would just be a little sliver of that molding. There are far more important things than Penis Enlargement, and we must teach our sons to put it in it's proper perspective.
I agree that there shouldn't be a set age to let your son in on Penis Enlargement. I know some 18 year olds that are WAY too immature for Penis Enlargement, and I know some 12 year olds who could probably handle Penis Enlargement with the proper guidance. You have to know your son to make that decision for yourself, and then teach him Penis Enlargement's place in a healthy lifestyle.
 
I have friends i've tried to guide into P.E. but they do one manual session and stop. I think with a teenager, which i don't have, they may well be the same in that they do a couple pulls and then forget about it.
If you were to constantly remind a teen about P.E. i don't think it would be beneficial. I would tell them once and if they want to remember it, that's their choice. If not, fine.
 
Medicating;410453 said:
I have friends i've tried to guide into P.E. but they do one manual session and stop. I think with a teenager, which i don't have, they may well be the same in that they do a couple pulls and then forget about it.
If you were to constantly remind a teen about P.E. i don't think it would be beneficial. I would tell them once and if they want to remember it, that's their choice. If not, fine.
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Good point medicating. You can introduce it to your son, but ultimately it's his choice if he wants to do Penis Enlargement or not. I totally agree that constantly reminding a teen to Penis Enlargement isn't beneficial. Once they know, then the ball is in their court. Depending on your relationship with your son, what it might do is give you a chance to be less stealth about your Penis Enlargement efforts. For example, be able to do your Penis Enlargement in your room in privacy while he watches TV in the living room. It's incorrect to assume that all boys will want to do Penis Enlargement. What it also does though, if done right, is open the door to talking about things that are a little awkward for some fathers and sons, such as sex and girls. I think it's more important to establish a bond with your son, be it through sports, music, hunting, fishing, or whatever. Letting your son in on Penis Enlargement would be a result of having a good bond with your son that you trust him and respect his maturity enough to handle the information. What he does with it after that is up to him. If you can be open and honest with your son about something so personal and private to most guys, you can probably talk about anything with your boy.
 
Reading the last two replies I just realized why were having difficulty discussing on how to introduce Penis Enlargement to the seeds. The answer is simply because Penis Enlargement is just not as accepted as it should be. Even masturbation has a better rep than Penis Enlargement and the benefits of Penis Enlargement are so much greater than masturbation. I 'til this day don't understand the "wrongs" with speaking of dicks and what you can do of them, dicks and vaginas are just as important as the brain and heart, it is as if their like an ashamed body part, I just don't get it, i've told few people I Penis Enlargement and all I got was the =/ face lol so saying that tellling that to immature teens, the results probaly won't be much different.
 
Wait until you make your dick huge- then just show your family one year at NEW YEARS!! When they ask "how" , just tell 'em I dont speak indian
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I don't have a son yet, but when I do, I really hope we have the kind of relationship where I could tell him about Penis Enlargement. I can imagine a lot of kids would think it was really weird and tell their friends, 'you wouldn't believe what my old man told me yesterday...'
 
pecsofsteel;410643 said:
I don't have a son yet, but when I do, I really hope we have the kind of relationship where I could tell him about Penis Enlargement. I can imagine a lot of kids would think it was really weird and tell their friends, 'you wouldn't believe what my old man told me yesterday...'
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I don't know about this. It all depends on how you approach it with your son. If you tell him this is a father son thing and not to be shared with is buddies, he might be private about it. Not only that, even if he did tell his friends it's not like it's not all over the internet in various ways (natural Penis Enlargement, penis pumps, enlargement pills, etc.) so I doubt he'll think it's as weird for them as it is for us. We're the "first generation" of Penis Enlargementers on the Internet. As more of us start having sons, it'll be interesting to see how many let their sons in on Penis Enlargement.
 
I don't think it should be forced. As long as the general knowledge is there with the benefits he'll more than likely make the right decision.
 
If it is being told to your child through your own insecurity then it is wrong to push it on them.
 
I wrote out the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]Newbie routine[/words] for my brother:

10 min. rice-sock warmup

Basic Stretching: 3 Sets of each stretch below
Behind The Cheeks to the Left: 30-seconds
Behind The Cheeks to the Center: 30-seconds
Behind The Cheeks to the Right: 30-seconds

Straight Down to the Left: 30-seconds
Straight Down to the Center: 30-seconds
Straight Down to the Right: 30-seconds
Straight Down Rotary Stretches: 25-Cranks

Straight Out to the Left: 30-seconds
Straight Out to the Center: 30-seconds
Straight Out to the Right: 30-seconds
Straight Out Rotary Stretches: 25-Cranks

Straight Up to the Left: 30-seconds
Straight Up to the Center: 30-seconds
Straight Up to the Right: 30-seconds
Straight Up Rotary Stretches: 25-Cranks

10 min. Jelq/Squeeze with condom rim at the glans

5 min. ricesock/hot washcloth warmdown
5 min. massage
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Wanting8;410858 said:
I don't think it should be forced. As long as the general knowledge is there with the benefits he'll more than likely make the right decision.
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I agree completely. If they don't want to do it, fine. I just feel that exposing them to the knowledge that it exists, their old man does it, and it works is a good thing. My dad got me into lifting at 13 and I've been doing it since (though sometimes inconsistently). He didn't tell me I was scrawny and needed to lift. He just introduced it to me and asked if I wanted to lift with him and my uncle. While I certainly don't think fathers and sons should Penis Enlargement together, I don't think introducing Penis Enlargement to him in this way would be traumatic. A little awkward, maybe, but any initial "cock talk" usually is.
 
It's the next step after "the birds & the bees". Well now that you know what your doodle is for... do you want the biggest one on the block? lol
 
hispanicPANIC;410902 said:
It's the next step after "the birds & the bees". Well now that you know what your doodle is for... do you want the biggest one on the block? lol
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lol nice
 
If I had a son, I would never bring up Penis Enlargement until he was 18 or older. At this point he has probably had sex. Thinking from my POV, I was NEVER tought about sex as a youngster.

I feared sex from having zero knowledge of it. If my dad told me about Penis Enlargement before I had sex, I would have never had sex until I got my goal size.

At 18 or older your son will probably not gain a size complex. Either he would already have one or its a good chance he is mature enough not to gain one.

I don't care what you guys say, If you bring up size to a virgin you will wreck his confidence for shore. Also I want to add, since he will be older & mature odds are he won't injure himself from your advice.
 
I don't know if I'd put an age on it GirthHammer. I think it's a matter of knowing your son's emotional and social maturity. For example, I was a "late bloomer" sexually, so my dad would probably have been best to wait until 18 with me, but could have easily let my younger brother in on Penis Enlargement at 16, since was having sex since 15 and "grew up" faster with many older siblings. Your emotional maturity is really the question. Successful Penis Enlargement requires both discipline (to achieve results) and restraint (to avoid injury.)
 
FLiP180;410890 said:
I wrote out the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]Newbie routine[/words] for my brother:

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And left it with him
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He get on Penis Enlargement, Flip? I don't think this would be the best way to let your SON in on Penis Enlargement. It makes it seem like it's shameful or embarrassing to talk about. You want to build that bond and trust with your son, and that comes through talking to him. Would you want your son to leave a note for you that says "I had sex for the first time" or "This kid is picking on me at school." I would want my son to talk to me about it. Yes, it is awkward to talk about Penis Enlargement at first. Hell, that's why so many guys lurk on the forum before they begin to contribute and post. With your son, you want to let him know that you two can talk about anything and he can come to you with anything. It's not so much the Penis Enlargement itself, but talking to your son in about Penis Enlargement, girls, sex, changes, values you want to impart to him, etc. -- all of these things strengthen the father-son bond.
 
higherone;411053 said:
He get on Penis Enlargement, Flip? I don't think this would be the best way to let your SON in on Penis Enlargement. It makes it seem like it's shameful or embarrassing to talk about. You want to build that bond and trust with your son, and that comes through talking to him. Would you want your son to leave a note for you that says "I had sex for the first time" or "This kid is picking on me at school." I would want my son to talk to me about it. Yes, it is awkward to talk about Penis Enlargement at first. Hell, that's why so many guys lurk on the forum before they begin to contribute and post. With your son, you want to let him know that you two can talk about anything and he can come to you with anything. It's not so much the Penis Enlargement itself, but talking to your son in about Penis Enlargement, girls, sex, changes, values you want to impart to him, etc. -- all of these things strengthen the father-son bond.
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Excellent post Higherone!
 
I wish I woulda known about P.E when I was younger especially in my high school days no girl has ever complained about my size but to b the talk around school about me having a porno star cock wolda been great ha...
 
MrFreak;411187 said:
I wish I woulda known about P.E when I was younger especially in my high school days no girl has ever complained about my size but to b the talk around school about me having a porno star cock wolda been great ha...
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Any of you guys that don't have sons, would you have wanted your dad to let you in on Penis Enlargement? If so, at what age and why? Also, what do you think would be the best way to go about doing it?
 
Honestly if me n my dad had a close connection to where we could discuss P.E withouth it being. A weird conversation I would have loved for him to tell me about P.E. but I think the appropriate age is around tha time kids get into masturbation and adult entertainment. If your a father tha best oppourtunity to tel him about P.E is if u catch him lookin at adult entertainment or wackin off ha makes tha talk less awkward in my opinion
 
MrFreak;411215 said:
Honestly if me n my dad had a close connection to where we could discuss P.E withouth it being. A weird conversation I would have loved for him to tell me about P.E. but I think the appropriate age is around tha time kids get into masturbation and adult entertainment. If your a father tha best oppourtunity to tel him about P.E is if u catch him lookin at adult entertainment or wackin off ha makes tha talk less awkward in my opinion
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Penis Enlargement is a weird conversation at first anyway you look at it. I think that's because you really have let your guard down and open yourself up to potential joking/criticism/etc. The key is to make it as normal as possible. I let my dad in on it. He thought I meant surgery at first and kept asking me "who told you that you have a small dick?!" After I explained it he was ok with Penis Enlargement. We don't talk about it much, but he knows I do it and is cool with it. I have a feeling that even if your son didn't get into it, it would be that way with him.
 
My son, Armand, has known about Penis Enlargement for years (he is a member here) but has absolutely no interest in it. We have a relationship as open as possible, we are literally best friends. He is more interested in Boxing and HipHop than anything else.
 
doublelongdaddy;411560 said:
My son, Armand, has known about Penis Enlargement for years (he is a member here) but has absolutely no interest in it. We have a relationship as open as possible, we are literally best friends. He is more interested in Boxing and HipHop than anything else.
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And that doesn't change anything between you guys. You do Penis Enlargement, he doesn't. You both know about it and are cool with it. You support him and he supports you. That's what a father son relationship is about. Thanks DLD for sharing Penis Enlargement with your son for the right reasons and being a good dad!
 
higherone;411644 said:
And that doesn't change anything between you guys. You do Penis Enlargement, he doesn't. You both know about it and are cool with it. You support him and he supports you. That's what a father son relationship is about. Thanks DLD for sharing Penis Enlargement with your son for the right reasons and being a good dad!
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:) Thanks Higherone! Yes, Armand is my best friend and I support everything he does as he does me. He is extremely well adjusted for his age, very reserved and kind. In the boxing ring is a different story, in there he roughs up the mother fucking house:)
 
Glad to hear that DLD. I think there's a lot more guys that will be letting their sons in on Penis Enlargement as they get older, not so much that they want them to do it, but just for information in case their son wants to do it.
 
The access to adult entertainment at an early age due to the Internet is creating a generation of young men insecure about their size. That's why I don't think it's a bad idea for a guy to let his son know Penis Enlargement exists, his old man does it, and it works. What he does with that information after that is up to him.
 
higherone;412290 said:
The access to adult entertainment at an early age due to the Internet is creating a generation of young men insecure about their size. That's why I don't think it's a bad idea for a guy to let his son know Penis Enlargement exists, his old man does it, and it works. What he does with that information after that is up to him.
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You are correct, there is a lot of adult entertainment out there but I think it desensitizes more than anything.
 
higherone;412290 said:
The access to adult entertainment at an early age due to the Internet is creating a generation of young men insecure about their size. That's why I don't think it's a bad idea for a guy to let his son know Penis Enlargement exists, his old man does it, and it works. What he does with that information after that is up to him.
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You are correct, there is a lot of adult entertainment out there but I think it desensitizes more than anything.
 
Yeah I agree DLD. I believe it does both, gives boys size concerns and desensitizes us to adult entertainment as well. I think that's why dads need to talk to their sons and let them know that adult entertainment actors are chosen for their size and they use camera angles that make the penis look bigger.
 
higherone;411644 said:
And that doesn't change anything between you guys. You do Penis Enlargement, he doesn't. You both know about it and are cool with it. You support him and he supports you. That's what a father son relationship is about. Thanks DLD for sharing Penis Enlargement with your son for the right reasons and being a good dad!
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Yup, that is it! Live and let live and support at every turn.
 
doublelongdaddy;412327 said:
Yup, that is it! Live and let live and support at every turn.
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Anyone else supporting their son or will support their son in passing on the knowledge of Penis Enlargement?
 
I really don't know, too many conflicting issues.

For me i'd probably steer towards the not letting my future son in on Penis Enlargement unless the conditions were really perfect. Personally i'd prefer he had the mindset that physicial attributes really arent all that, ESPenis EnlargementCIALLY the size of the penis, cuz if you dwell too heavy on that it can really be a confidence downer. Also, it's gonna be REALLY awkward and put some strain on whatever relationship we have, unless i can manage a real good relationship with him, which of course is something i'd go for but it's not a definate.

Course i'm talking years from now, context might be very different. Cool idea though, just imo it's not something you just do, has to be thought out.

& it's not something i'd even consider with my dad to be honest. Shame because i'd really like more friends to talk to about Penis Enlargement.
 
When I was a child one of the biggest things I remember my parents saying was "get your hands out of your pants" :) I think I was doing Penis Enlargement when I was 4 :)
 
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