Journey to 1 month with no ���� or self ejaculation.

grapeape;547534 said:

I love this topic, it's been on my mind for a while. I am in with ya gang.

Gonna focus on diet, kegels, jelqing, no ���� as a staple before i worry about penis size.

You need a better penis before you can worry about a bigger penis.

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The goal isn't to ditch penis enlargement. In fact I am going even harder on my gains then ever. The goal is to release this hold that ���� has on your state of getting and mantaining an erection.

Oh fuck it! Y'all got me in! I used to ejaculate 3 times per day a few years ago (damn I've been mad! ). But let me just say that after the first week even the ones that might scare me begin to look much better .

But when I think about it seriously there are drawbacks to this:
1- No ���� means not so fruitful girth sessions due to weaker erections. Oh come on, you all know that it's not the same with nothing to watch or even hear the moans of.
2- It might be kinda bad for my length gains. Since it is usually ok to ejaculate 2-3 times a week I'll miss 2-3 times a week when it's the best stretching time (during the refraction period).

Your motives are right and I support them. I myself would have done this experiment, but I don't feel like sacrificing the fruitfulness of my girth sessions. How about you? Won't that be a problem for you? Just curious.

RedWood7;547538 said:

The goal isn't to ditch penis enlargement. In fact I am going even harder on my gains then ever. The goal is to release this hold that ���� has on your state of getting and mantaining an erection.

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I getchya, i wasnt implying that. For me personally i wanna get a stronger before bigger. I think that youre spot on with the ���� concept.

What should we use for girth stimulation? Clothed women pics?

Zambrodom3;547543 said:

Oh fuck it! Y'all got me in! I used to ejaculate 3 times per day a few years ago (damn I've been mad! ). But let me just say that after the first week even the ones that might scare me begin to look much better .

But when I think about it seriously there are drawbacks to this:
1- No ���� means not so fruitful girth sessions due to weaker erections. Oh come on, you all know that it's not the same with nothing to watch or even hear the moans of.
2- It might be kinda bad for my length gains. Since it is usually ok to ejaculate 2-3 times a week I'll miss 2-3 times a week when it's the best stretching time (during the refraction period).

Your motives are right and I support them. I myself would have done this experiment, but I don't feel like sacrificing the fruitfulness of my girth sessions. How about you? Won't that be a problem for you? Just curious.

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Dude, that was hillarious. Straight up. This is what Im doing man, I feel ya on the whole not the same thing, thing. Im starting to feel the negative results of ���� so I know it is important to stop, but for the girth routines what I did the other day and seemed to work perfect; had the best jelq session ever, penis was at optimum erection level. What I did was put the ���� videos on (I was aware of the fact that just searching for the ���� was turning me on...prob not to good lol) and I put my earphones on and pointed the screen on my laptop down so I could only hear it and I glanced at it probably about 8 times real quick throughout the whole hour that I Penis Enlargement'd just to get a boost in my erection level if it started to go down. What Im saying is that I used it more as a tool as opposed to a form of release.

So anyways, there's my two cents.

RedWood7;547571 said:

What should we use for girth stimulation? Clothed women pics?

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I admit that is a solution, but it is not a good solution for me. I need a good stimulation. My girth sessions require me to restimualate every 20 jelqs (I do 400 plus some SSJ and other exercises). That would seriously damage my workouts. How has it been to your? Do you find your girth sessions less productive?

Zambrodom3;547583 said:

I admit that is a solution, but it is not a good solution for me. I need a good stimulation. My girth sessions require me to restimualate every 20 jelqs (I do 400 plus some SSJ and other exercises). That would seriously damage my workouts. How has it been to your? Do you find your girth sessions less productive?

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Last night was difficult. I had to use mental and a few clothes women pics to stimulate. Remember we have to train our minds to get stimulated by just the sight of a women now. We have been warped into only using ���� for girth that we can't do it without. This is a struggle but it isn't impossible. I am goin to have a girth sesh when I get home from finals today and let you guys know how I remedied the situation. (Last day of finals!!!!). My theory is that after a week or so without cumming or ���� we will all be able to be stimulated by the mere sight of a woman. I am glade so many of you are involved in this. I will go ahead and post my girth sesh results later today.

Go on! If you do it- to be able to have awesome erections and be stimulated only by a picture of clothed woman- I'm going for it too. You'll be my inspiration

Great heading off to my university for exams. Update later

Day 65.

The trick is to remove "will power" from the equation. Instead of making your goal to "not look at ����" or "not jerk off", make your goal to identify that lead to those behaviors and start there. Scrambling your patterns will stop giving your brain the familiar message that it's supposed to jerk off.

In other words:

Figure out when you tend to jerk off or look at ����, it will most likely follow some kind of habit pattern. For example, is it in the morning? If it is, identify the components of your "���� routine--"is it after or before you brush your teeth? If it's before you brush your teeth, then all you need to think about is brushing your teeth right after you wake up (you get the idea). Once you've identified those situations, transform the cues that precede them and put your brain in unfamiliar territory so it cements new patterns.

I've adapted a lot of this advice from the book "The Power of Habit", which goes into detail on modern psychology's model of how habits are formed (and how everybody from advertisers to football coaches gain leverage through this model).

GL

AF3;547604 said:

Day 65.

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Wait, What?????? You are on your 65-th day with no ���� or EJACULATION??????? How many people have you killed . But really, I can't hold ejaculation for that long. Last summer I was so horny that I got a wet dream (got my first and last one at the age of 19). So how are these book principle working for you AF3???

Redwood- Good luck on your exams!!!

AF3, very wise input! Looking to avoid something will always bring it more in focus. Patterns are extremely important in habit breaking or habit taking on. The Power of Habit sounds like a great read. I will pick up a copy.

Zambrodom3;547611 said:

Wait, What?????? You are on your 65-th day with no ���� or EJACULATION??????? How many people have you killed . But really, I can't hold ejaculation for that long. Last summer I was so horny that I got a wet dream (got my first and last one at the age of 19). So how are these book principle working for you AF3???

Redwood- Good luck on your exams!!!

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65th day without ejaculation, yes. Not jerking off was actually way easier to stop than ����. Here are the stages I've gone through with ����:


Stage one (first few days to about two weeks): I would find myself watching ���� whenever I "used to." I would let myself do this and in fact there would be some days where I would lose a lot of time to it by just watching ����, "edging", but not jerking off.

Stage two (two weeks to about a month): I would actually go watch ���� and touch my dick to develop my discipline--I would actually go find the most erotic stuff I could and sit there and touch my dick while breathing deeply and embracing the desire to ejaculate so that I stopped being emotionally attached to the desire (I obviously didn't jerk off during this period, just edged). In other words, I embraced the desire but transformed the energy. Towards the end of this, I found myself either watching ���� for entertainment like you would watch TV or watching ���� to compare sizes and try and figure out what X dick size actually looked like etc (in the same way you would watch bodybuilding videos if you were into bodybuilding).

Stage three (30 days to 50 days): Once I showed myself in stage two that I can demonstrate control and don't need ���� at all to be sexual, looking at ���� slowly stopped making sense.

Stage four (about the last two weeks): I now see both looking at ���� and jerking off as extreme signs of self-disrespect and regression in consciousness to a place I don't want to go again. Rather than being even remotely pleasurable, just the thought of looking at ���� evokes a sickness in the pit of my stomach similar to thinking about eating something disgusting. The same holds true for masturbation or really ejaculation in any form.



Overall, I would posit that someone has no idea of the true meaning of "doing Penis Enlargement for yourself" until you have stopped masturbating, stopped having sex, and broken your emotional attachment to looking at ����.

As for your "how many people have you killed" question, I actually find myself to be both much calmer yet much more able to channel controlled aggression in the situations it's appropriate.

As a sidenote, when I made the initial committment to stop jerking off, I figured the ���� thing would take care of itself. I think it's wise to tackle one or the other in your head first, and they seem to pretty much take care of each other when you break just one of them.

Great posts everyone! Just got back from school...exams went great. Stopped into gnc and picked up some rockhardweekend pills 8 for 30$. I've been wanting to test these for awhile now. Day 2 and still no ���� or ejaculation. I will start my girth routine in twenty minutes because I popped a pill 10 min ago. Ill give a description of what everything was like.

The Struggle of Masturbation: A beginning study in male sexuality

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doublelongdaddy;547651 said:

The Struggle of Masturbation: A beginning study in male sexuality
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Wonderful video! Simply informative! I agree that masturbation and ����������� when used in the wrong way are both very harmful to the psychology of a man. That being said we should all still persue our gains but not at the cost of destroying our minds. Once we lose the mind-body connection to our penis in results of ����������� it is difficult to get an erection without ����. I used to masturbate so so so so much in middle school through high school. In college before Penis Enlargement I was 8 inches long and 5.5 inches around. I credit some of my size to masturbating when I was young. It makes sense that my daily pulling and tugging, squeezing and stroking caused some of my gains without me even knowing it. However as my penis grew my mind became plauged. Now I suffer not being able to get fully hard in a condom before sex. Blowjobs are no problem for some reason. Anyways great post!!!

Alright guys so I am so very proud to tell you I had one of the best girth sessions today!!!!!! Totally ���� free and no emissions although I did edge. I probably topped out at around 6.5 temporary girth. I don't know how much I can credit this to the RockHardErection pill I took before but I didn't notice anything different than my ���� girth sessions so I don't think the pill made or broke the session. I started jelqing for 10 min watching "Saving Silverman" on Netflix. Then I got in the Bathmate while looking at sexy clothed women (no nudes). I turned on some chillout mix music on youtube. After The first 15 min of Bathmate I decided I wanted to try no women pictures at all. So I left the music on and clamped while edging and thinking about getting a blowjob. This took intense mental focus to work. I literally closed my eyes and imagined a girl there that I knew. I then got out my "Head Honcho" masturbation sleeve and gave myself the blowjob sensation with that while clamped. The music and my thoughts seemed to create a very erotic experience. It gets better. I then SSJ and put my Bathmate back on. I watched VitalyTV on YouTube and enjoyed the comedy before me. I stood up and pretended to fuck my hand with the Bathmate on while kegeling. After 15 min of my Bathmate x40 I took it off and the gator left some lines letting me know she was stuffed. I repeated my clamping with the "Head Honcho" and chillout mix music. Finally I SSJ and warmed down in the shower. My dick had an impressive swol. Here is the interesting part.....I got in the shower soft but still plump and closed my eyes while listening to the chillout music. Suddenly I started touching my penis imagining it as a tounge licking it. I felt euphoric as the water became a waterfall in my mind and the girl under that waterfall was my hand giving me a blowjob. This only lasted a minute but it was very pleasurable. (I wasn't high). So my thoughts are you don't need ���� for a great girth session. Mine felt very organic. Just me (and my "head honcho" ) and some music. Super relaxing. Super erotic. So happy I don't need ����!!!! I felt FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bravo guys! I am really happy for you all. Keep going and keep everyone updated