Hi Any Other Black Guys Out There Feel Small Because Of The Sterotype?

BigLG;377211 said:

... I've decided to see if I can hit monstrous proportions.

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Girth Hammer;377265 said:

Listen ALL races. If you have a avg. size or smaller how bout you learn how to give girls the best sex any guy can offer. And soon enough if guys had this type of confidence. Woman would slowly get rid of this big stigma that us guys think we need to have.

good sex is good sex. period. Learn how to take care of that meow.

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BigLG;377211 said:

Fortunately I've never felt small because of it since the studies I read put me above average. Not to mention the fact that the people I used to hang out with were never hyper-sexualized like some. Size came up once when I was playing truth or dare and that was about it until college. During college my friends were more vocal about sex and I was still unabashed by the topic. There are stereotypes for every different kind of person on this earth but it never really concerned me. I only started P.E. because I wanted to see if it would actually work and as I gained I've decided to see if I can hit monstrous proportions.

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alpinefruits;380439 said:

Might be a little late to this thread, but I'm giving my two cents, to open your eyes a bit.

I grew up in Europe, a country with a very homogenous population, all white, all tall, men and women. When my buddies were 6 ft tall, I was 5'3''. About 70% of girls were visibly much taller than me and the rest were only a little taller than me. I was nice, fun, good looking (still skinny then), and every girl I approached thought I was some kid, those that liked me said "if only you were a bit taller". I had no girlfriend untill I moved with my family to another country. ALL of them said "if you were a little taller..". Do you think I cared about my dick size? I had a serious size complex, but height complex. I cured it only after living a couple of years in this other nearby country where all guys were taller than me, but not much taller. And they still are, I am 5'6'' now. But most girls are around my height, that's what saved my ass.

Nowadays, when I travel around Italy (another country I moved to), or France etc, women are even shorter, many shorter than me! I saw many latinas that are as tall as my shoulder, it's freaking awesome, my life is changed.

My point is - I was being rejected ALL THE TIME, by both bitches and nice girls for the sole reason of being shorter than them. That, my friend, is a problem. A nice girl will never open your pants as soon as she meets you to check your inventory, and then reject you if your penis isn't 10 inches long. She wouldn't reject you for being 5 inches long, and here you are over 8 and worrying.

Being short or tall matters much more than penis size, it's a biological fact. You aren't aware of the painful fact unless you live it. Just try to put yourself in my shoes when I was younger and shorter (5'6'' is now tall enough for me!), based on what I said. Be fucking grateful. That's how I got rid of my short lasting penis size complex - realising there are many many smaller guys out there.

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alpinefruits;380439 said:

Might be a little late to this thread, but I'm giving my two cents, to open your eyes a bit.

I grew up in Europe, a country with a very homogenous population, all white, all tall, men and women. When my buddies were 6 ft tall, I was 5'3''. About 70% of girls were visibly much taller than me and the rest were only a little taller than me. I was nice, fun, good looking (still skinny then), and every girl I approached thought I was some kid, those that liked me said "if only you were a bit taller". I had no girlfriend untill I moved with my family to another country. ALL of them said "if you were a little taller..". Do you think I cared about my dick size? I had a serious size complex, but height complex. I cured it only after living a couple of years in this other nearby country where all guys were taller than me, but not much taller. And they still are, I am 5'6'' now. But most girls are around my height, that's what saved my ass.

Nowadays, when I travel around Italy (another country I moved to), or France etc, women are even shorter, many shorter than me! I saw many latinas that are as tall as my shoulder, it's freaking awesome, my life is changed.

My point is - I was being rejected ALL THE TIME, by both bitches and nice girls for the sole reason of being shorter than them. That, my friend, is a problem. A nice girl will never open your pants as soon as she meets you to check your inventory, and then reject you if your penis isn't 10 inches long. She wouldn't reject you for being 5 inches long, and here you are over 8 and worrying.

Being short or tall matters much more than penis size, it's a biological fact. You aren't aware of the painful fact unless you live it. Just try to put yourself in my shoes when I was younger and shorter (5'6'' is now tall enough for me!), based on what I said. Be fucking grateful. That's how I got rid of my short lasting penis size complex - realising there are many many smaller guys out there.

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alpinefruits;380439 said:

Might be a little late to this thread, but I'm giving my two cents, to open your eyes a bit.

I grew up in Europe, a country with a very homogenous population, all white, all tall, men and women. When my buddies were 6 ft tall, I was 5'3''. About 70% of girls were visibly much taller than me and the rest were only a little taller than me. I was nice, fun, good looking (still skinny then), and every girl I approached thought I was some kid, those that liked me said "if only you were a bit taller". I had no girlfriend untill I moved with my family to another country. ALL of them said "if you were a little taller..". Do you think I cared about my dick size? I had a serious size complex, but height complex. I cured it only after living a couple of years in this other nearby country where all guys were taller than me, but not much taller. And they still are, I am 5'6'' now. But most girls are around my height, that's what saved my ass.

Nowadays, when I travel around Italy (another country I moved to), or France etc, women are even shorter, many shorter than me! I saw many latinas that are as tall as my shoulder, it's freaking awesome, my life is changed.

My point is - I was being rejected ALL THE TIME, by both bitches and nice girls for the sole reason of being shorter than them. That, my friend, is a problem. A nice girl will never open your pants as soon as she meets you to check your inventory, and then reject you if your penis isn't 10 inches long. She wouldn't reject you for being 5 inches long, and here you are over 8 and worrying.

Being short or tall matters much more than penis size, it's a biological fact. You aren't aware of the painful fact unless you live it. Just try to put yourself in my shoes when I was younger and shorter (5'6'' is now tall enough for me!), based on what I said. Be fucking grateful. That's how I got rid of my short lasting penis size complex - realising there are many many smaller guys out there.

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doublelongdaddy;374906 said:

I think black men, stereotype-wise, have it hardest. Black men are expected to live up to an impossible myth. A black man who is not wise to what average sizes are may have a 8" penis and think he is small....sad that the media has created this myth.

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goodguynyc;383462 said:

I live as who I am regardless if the mainstream perceives me as "African American". I do not define my appearance other than human and being American.

However this stereotype has bothered me throughout my life and now. It's difficult to watch these so-called �naked people movies� stars like Marcus, etc with someone I would love to date. I cannot identify with them; I wouldn't want to if I could. It's an internal battle, but if you find the right person that battle becomes lessen each day.

I have learned to continue improving upon my life because it's little I can do regarding this stereotype. I hope of acceptance and honesty from a woman. The acceptance that what I can provide sexually will be enough for her throughout.

I am what I am. I can complain but I have lost too much of my life feeling sad and depressed over this. I based my existence and my penis size together a very long time ago, now I am changing that belief, conditioning, whatever you wish to call it.

I hope one day after this battle with Penis Enlargement is won, I can then simply stop and finally feel whole. I know it's all psychological but it does hurt throughout.

To all my brothers (in it's true form without color, creed, or religious differences), continue to improve upon your lives and that of others. Do Penis Enlargement for you and not to one day sleep with as many chicks or guys. Do Penis Enlargement because you have realized a change is needed in your life and you are doing something healthy about it.

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keepingitbig;386445 said:

Whoever thinks that 8 inches is small are either: retarded when it comes to measurements, or just never seen or felt a fcking huge cock.

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