Hi Any Other Black Guys Out There Feel Small Because Of The Sterotype?

Jackxxx said:

Old thread and this has been discussed already but I agree with the OP.
Of course the first reaction of many here is "WHAT?? WHAT ARE YOU COMPLAINING ABOUT??" But you gotta step on his shoes to understand. Of course he is not small at all. In fact, he is giant. However, unfortunately we have this nasty FAKE poplar belief that black guys are pretty much walking anacondas when un reality is not the case. So of course, many of our black brothers go to have intercourse with that in their minds, knowing that MANY girls they have go to have sex with them due to the myth. So of course in that situation you will be like "is she gonna find me big? am I big enough for the belief? Will she be disappointed by not seeing a foot of dick?" It is a perfect normal real scenario. Many guys of other races are 8+. So a women that see a black guy with an 8" she can pefectly say "thats it?? I thought black guys were way bigger than others" So all this together can easily create this feeling of insecurity in them.

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Well it is a fact that black guys are supposed to be huge ( atleast in �naked people movies�), however one must understand that �naked people movies� is just as real as any science fiction movie.....
What people do not understand is the fact that black people or any other race can have small penises.....
People see black guys in �naked people movies�, which is only a tiny subset of the entire black community, and judge them solely on the basis of their dongs.....

It is also a myth that people with big dongs are better lovers.....
One must understand that sex is more than just penetration..... It is an art of showing love and affection towards your lover......

Everyone has insecurities in life (I've had it too), but the main purpose of life is too get better than your previous self. In this world, there will always be people better than you in some field (maybe cooking, dancing or even sex). So it is pointless to compare yourself with others. It is pointless to achieve something which is un-achievable. What you can achieve is greatness than your previous self.

So, I would advise every guy who is reading this post that SIZE DOES NOT MATTER. And if any women who judges you solely on the basis of your penis size, ask yourself this question: DO YOU REALLY WANT TO FUCK HER? DO YOU REALLY WANT A SEAL OF CONFIRMATION FROM HER?

Hope this helps.....

Another thread that relates to this one

I believe that black men have the hardest time with average size because of the myth that goes around. They fall victim to the same myth and think that they should have a much larger penis than I do when in actuality being black makes no difference.

DLD said:

I believe that black men have the hardest time with average size because of the myth that goes around. They fall victim to the same myth and think that they should have a much larger penis than I do when in actuality being black makes no difference.

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8.2x6 is small? Majority of women can't take that size man and refuse men with it. I'd like to see what 9.2x7 is? Lol. Guess that's,"medium." As Prince said," Use what you got." I've got women off with my mouth and the main course ( the dick! ). Anything over 8 is a damn monster especially with 6 inch girth. We're the smallest percentage of men with big cocks ( wither it be black, white, asian etc etc ), so don't sweat it.

8 x 6 is the golden ratio! ?

DLD said:

8 x 6 is the golden ratio! ?

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The problem is that we always want more

Im on my way to 1 foot by 7.5"

I feel small every day. No stereotypes though cos here is an Africa country

Think men in general is one big stereotype, end of day most women haven't got a clue on the size of men's dicks, any that look dissapointed with something above average ain't worth it and not the type of women I'd like to be with

Jackxxx said:

The problem is that we always want more

Im on my way to 1 foot by 7.5"

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Black Flag did a great song about this

49-er said:

Think men in general is one big stereotype, end of day most women haven't got a clue on the size of men's dicks, any that look dissapointed with something above average ain't worth it and not the type of women I'd like to be with

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Exactly! Also women know that poking jabs at a man's penis size will hurt his ego.

quawil said:

Exactly! Also women know that poking jabs at a man's penis size will hurt his ego.

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Of course they do!

This is why I never dated much. I heard the stereotype everywhere. Just growing up I was basically always around females. All my cousins I grew around were females. Even then they would be talking about the guys they were dating. How they had a foot long dicks as wide as their arm. They were giving mental blows left and right. Without even realizing I was close by and could hear them talking.

Then later in life seeing the disappointment in some women's eyes that it wasn't a foot long. Even if you can give them orgasm after orgasm. That look of disappointment is still there in the back of your mind. Even stationed in South Korea. I had some girl say oh wow it's so small. I thought all black guys are supposed to be huge. Spreading her hands out to be like 13 inches apart. Women can be extremely vicious when they want to be.

It's ok thought. I'm motivated to hit my first goal of 8.25 x 6.25. I will definitely put in the work to make it there.

midion said:

This is why I never dated much. I heard the stereotype everywhere. Just growing up I was basically always around females. All my cousins I grew around were females. Even then they would be talking about the guys they were dating. How they had a foot long dicks as wide as their arm. They were giving mental blows left and right. Without even realizing I was close by and could hear them talking.

Then later in life seeing the disappointment in some women's eyes that it wasn't a foot long. Even if you can give them orgasm after orgasm. That look of disappointment is still there in the back of your mind. Even stationed in South Korea. I had some girl say oh wow it's so small. I thought all black guys are supposed to be huge. Spreading her hands out to be like 13 inches apart. Women can be extremely vicious when they want to be.

It's ok thought. I'm motivated to hit my first goal of 8.25 x 6.25. I will definitely put in the work to make it there.

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Yes they can be vicious but it is in their nature. Ignore or counter them with my ex-girlfriend have much bigger tits than you LOL fucking ridiculous, people are so evil.

I am happy to say that I have 99 problems and a bitch ain’t one!

midion said:

This is why I never dated much. I heard the stereotype everywhere. Just growing up I was basically always around females. All my cousins I grew around were females. Even then they would be talking about the guys they were dating. How they had a foot long dicks as wide as their arm. They were giving mental blows left and right. Without even realizing I was close by and could hear them talking.

Then later in life seeing the disappointment in some women's eyes that it wasn't a foot long. Even if you can give them orgasm after orgasm. That look of disappointment is still there in the back of your mind. Even stationed in South Korea. I had some girl say oh wow it's so small. I thought all black guys are supposed to be huge. Spreading her hands out to be like 13 inches apart. Women can be extremely vicious when they want to be.

It's ok thought. I'm motivated to hit my first goal of 8.25 x 6.25. I will definitely put in the work to make it there.

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Your certainly mature enough and on the right path buddy.