Zambrodom3;568203 said:
My personal opinion is that 7 x 6 is considered a big one and anything bigger than that would be considered a monster.

You're probably right.
We have to keep in mind that, unless you're a homosexual or bisexual guy, we very rarely will have the same point of view of women regarding the way a penis looks (and I mean on optical point of view, not a sentimental one rofl ). It's a matter of angles and proportions as we all know. Besides, regardless of their (in)hability to measure accurately, they are more qualified than we are to associate a certain size to how it will feel inside them. And we, men, tend to underestimate how much a 6 x 5 inch penis can fill a woman up.
Keep in mind that we separate the sizes wrongly. We don't say small, medium, big. We usually say small, average, big. And average it's about percentage or statistics, it's not about the relativeness (is this a word, lol?) of the size in itself. :) Which means that and average sized guy (or medium sized) will problably make many women happy. The closer his medium size is to being large, the more chances there are of him being classified as big/huge, depending on the woman.
 
ShadedSam;568231 said:
I'm past 8x6 and girls say I'm huge. I think it is the thickness more than the length that makes them say huge rather than big. At 7.5x5.5 you'll get a few saying huge, and some saying really big. Also, I think that body size counts as well. If I was a short skinny 110 lbs guy, my cock would look monstrous.

And this is the reason I have such a dilemma! Length gains come more slowly if you have bigger girth, so it sounds more logic to go for length first and then do your girth. But knowing that girth is much more important to women- I set this as a top priority :)
 
savageblue;568254 said:
You're probably right.
We have to keep in mind that, unless you're a homosexual or bisexual guy, we very rarely will have the same point of view of women regarding the way a penis looks (and I mean on optical point of view, not a sentimental one rofl ). It's a matter of angles and proportions as we all know. Besides, regardless of their (in)hability to measure accurately, they are more qualified than we are to associate a certain size to how it will feel inside them. And we, men, tend to underestimate how much a 6 x 5 inch penis can fill a woman up.
Keep in mind that we separate the sizes wrongly. We don't say small, medium, big. We usually say small, average, big. And average it's about percentage or statistics, it's not about the relativeness (is this a word, lol?) of the size in itself. :) Which means that and average sized guy (or medium sized) will problably make many women happy. The closer his medium size is to being large, the more chances there are of him being classified as big/huge, depending on the woman.


Yes, you are right
 
fallguy;164555 said:
An ex girl friend told me, that she would have divorced her ex-husband years ago if it was not for the fact that he had a big dick. I figured it was bigger than mine, so I dared not ask how big it was. I relationship went down the hill after that.
I was at a party where someone was talking about one her female friends was with guy that treats her like trash, however she will never leave him due to one reason. One of the guys at the party said "Because he has a huge penis?" and she said yes.
 
redpubes;573970 said:
I was at a party where someone was talking about one her female friends was with guy that treats her like trash, however she will never leave him due to one reason. One of the guys at the party said "Because he has a huge penis?" and she said yes.

Now I get more and more convinced that size is 30+% of a relationship!
 
Zambrodom3;574052 said:
Now I get more and more convinced that size is 30+% of a relationship!
I think it can go either way. I knew a girl in college that was not ready to have sex with her well blessed bf because giving him head really hurt her jaw, so she was a little worried about it going inside of her (I do not think she was a virgin)... He broke up with her.
 
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redpubes;574089 said:
I think it can go either way. I knew a girl in college that was not ready to have sex with her well blessed bf because giving him head really hurt her jaw, so she was a little worried about it going inside of her (I do not think she was a virgin)... He broke up with her.

Ok, so sex is 60% of a relationship (I think that's a much better way to say it :))
 
I had a gf who showed me a VIVA mag pic of Ron Jeremy with his peenus down to his knee. I think he was working as a physical therapist or whatever his day job was. I would have started PE then, but I had never heard of PE. I was just a deer in the headlights, what could I do back in the 20th century.
 
pnoewbe;618484 said:
I had a gf who showed me a VIVA mag pic of Ron Jeremy with his peenus down to his knee. I think he was working as a physical therapist or whatever his day job was. I would have started PE then, but I had never heard of PE. I was just a deer in the headlights, what could I do back in the 20th century.

Yeah, PE was pretty much nowhere until the internet. I do remember the John Holmes pump but I thought it to be a novelty item. I never believed you could enlarge until I found it online.
 
Zambrodom3;574143 said:
Ok, so sex is 60% of a relationship (I think that's a much better way to say it :))

At my old job, this girl that worked in a different department wanted to hook up with my friend because of his "bulge". That was 3 years ago and they're now having a kid together lol.
 
pedud;631670 said:
At my old job, this girl that worked in a different department wanted to hook up with my friend because of his "bulge". That was 3 years ago and they're now having a kid together lol.

AHHAHAHH! MAJOR rofl!!!!
 
pedud;631670 said:
At my old job, this girl that worked in a different department wanted to hook up with my friend because of his "bulge". That was 3 years ago and they're now having a kid together lol.

From the bulge to the baby:)
 
shortdick;631796 said:
Bulge size =level of success ;) haha

Bulge size=Women expecting you to be big=A disappointment if you're not=Not as good sex.
Bulge size=Women expecting you to be big=Something totally expected when you're having sex.

It'd be cool to tell her that you're small and when she unzips your jeans (or whatever you're wearing)- you see the pleasant surprise look! :)
 
From my experience of hundreds of girls (via cam showing huge dicks to them etc) whenever they say wow that's "huge" or "big" and asked to guess the size they always answer 8 inches or above. I haven't had one encounter stating anything under. They also never take into account girth, even though it makes a huge difference in how big it looks.

So I would most definitely say 8 inches to women (and also men) is considered huge as far as numbers go.

Also on another note, I performed a visual experiment on a female using play dough (try this you can make it from scratch just look online) to make different sizes. Needless to say her eyes didn't light up and and her mouth didn't say "wow that's huge" until I got up to 8x6, which is massive.

So, I supposed if it looks big to us, it will look big to them.
 
shortdick;631800 said:
Good idea,the advantages of being a shower,a grower can show some hidden powers too haha

I agree with you I think it is a much bigger surprise to your lover if you are a grower. Mandingo is a good example, I've seen that look as small as 3 inches flaccid grow to his massive 11 plus inches. I think a woman would be more blown away by that the shower....you can see the reactions in the videos he has done, women are not that impressed at first but then the monster comes out and they become paralyzed with fear.
 
shortdick;635525 said:
They got to be fearful,thats why no funny cock teasing lady is supposed to mess whit the Bros hahaha,

A Brother Sized Cock!
 
sasquatch;172215 said:
I'm 7.25 X 5.5 X 2 inches wide and over the years I've had a reputation among the girls in my town of having a big dick. At least half a dozen have asked to look at it just out of curiosity. I never told them what my exact measurments are, I just let them guess. I look my biggest and measure by biggest when I am about 60% to 75% erect. At this stage it still hangs down but is very pumped and measures NBP at 7.5 inches. 100% erect I measure 7.25 erect but I think that's normal. I would turn my back to the girl, unzip it and wake it up with some dry jelqs and turn around. They were always shocked at my size and usually guess me to be around 9 inches. I would laugh and say it's even bigger hard. At a precise 2 inches wide and 5.5 inches girth the girls have always been very impressed at my thickness as well. I guess I am one of the guy's responsible for the myths of huge cocks that women always claim to have seen. Because I never measure it front of them or let them measure it, my size is speculation. When they tell there friends, they always say that "it was huge, had to at least 9 inches". So yeah, women can be easily mistaken and over estimate penis measurements especially when dealing with someone like myself. I have never lied and said I was larger than I actually am, just in case some sizequeen shows up with a tape measure, I just let them guess.
Remember that "Lie'ers never figure that figures never lie".
I've got roughly the same dimensions. Only had one or two girls that could deepthroat it (again, only been with white girls up to the most recent one so it's not like they're used to Hispanic or black dudes regularly) and never had any complaints about it before my most recent girlfriend, and to be fair to myself I had lost maybe a half an inch of length and some thickness and it had a ridiculous curve that limited the amount of my dick that came out when hard. One thing that never helps is I have huge hands so my cock has always felt smaller in my hands and made it seem like the ruler or tape measurer was lying when I measured myself. I also know apparently when fully engorged I'm as big as one of those larger cable remotes with all of the different buttons.

I really think it just depends on the girl's background and what guys she's been with. If a chick's only been with hung black or Hispanic dudes, then guys like you and me will seem small to her. If she's been with only white guys, we'll either be big, huge, or average depending on the average size of the guys she's been with. Personally I think 8-8.5 X 6-6.5 is big enough for any woman and too big for a lot of them. If I were looking to end up with a typical white chick, I'd just stay the size I am, but that's not what I want so I want to get big enough to be able to compete with the other guys that tend to be around girls like that, of all races. I mean the way I see it, the whole thing about a girl taking a big dick is having to adjust to it, so if that's all she knows then of course she's going to see that as average.

The 2 inch wide (well in my case I'm not sure if it's two inches or 1 3/4) thing definitely makes us seem bigger, too. I'm about 5.5 inches around when fully engorged but when my cock gets hard it gets wide and flat, so that 2 inches of width kind of makes me seem fatter than I am when measuring yet when it's inside of her it doesn't fill her the way you'd think a cock with 5.5 inches of girth would. That's why my goal is to get 6-6.5 in of girth that's meaty and fat versus wide, so I can stretch her the right way versus just width wise. Right now I'm kind of like a piston, and I want to be more like a pole or a salami haha. My problem has always been that I'm very meaty and fat and even kind of long when enorged yet flaccid but when I get hard my cock contracts into being wide as it grows longer. It's a pain in the ass, because a girl will give me head and get me fully engorged and I'll be long and fat but then when I get fully hard I lose probably a half inch or more of girth on the top side and my upward curve costs me probably at least a half inch of length as well. I do have a very defined bottom vein or whatever that thing is though which helps make up a bit for the loss at the top side of my penis.
 
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Zambrodom3;631798 said:
Bulge size=Women expecting you to be big=A disappointment if you're not=Not as good sex.
Bulge size=Women expecting you to be big=Something totally expected when you're having sex.

It'd be cool to tell her that you're small and when she unzips your jeans (or whatever you're wearing)- you see the pleasant surprise look! :)
Haha I used to do that. I always undersold my size on purpose, because you never know what a girl thinks is big.

The first example above is what happened with my ex. She had only been with one other guy (he was Hispanic) so when I told her I was 7 inches and 5-5.5 around, she was disappointed when she had it in her and said she thought I was being modest when I said I was average. Granted, I had lost at least half an inch in length and probably about the same in girth and my ridiculous curve made it so not all of my penis came out into my skin, but I think it was pretty obvious her idea of 7 inches and actual 7 inches were a bit off haha. Like I said, I think it just depends on the experience a girl has had.
 
This is because all men lie about their size and the women believe them. Every girl should walk around with a ruler:)
 
doublelongdaddy;637641 said:
This is because all men lie about their size and the women believe them. Every girl should walk around with a ruler:)

lol how crazy that would be,sex for the humankind will go extinct,if most women had an established size...if we dont meet the requiremmnets sex will be off the list..lol
 
shortdick;637673 said:
lol how crazy that would be,sex for the humankind will go extinct,if most women had an established size...if we dont meet the requiremmnets sex will be off the list..lol

It would stop the lies! :)
 
kong1971;165252 said:
Of course women like big dicks, just like we like big tits and ass, but if you're a normal person it's not going to be a deal breaker. However, 6 inches isn't small, it's average. Maybe it's the way YOU are presenting yourself. You know, if you seem ashamed and apologetic of your equipment, the women you're with are going to think so too. Be confident.

I would bet that damn near every woman wants a cock over the average. So, if that's the case, average is small! Use that for motivation ... I do ... my length is slightly over 6 and if I'm honest with myself, it's small for the simple fact women want longer.
 
LONGERDICK7+;638431 said:
Even when they lie the ladies get fucked by them, that means that they are ok whit that size...

I think that 99% of women would see 7.5+ as massive. Anything more monstrous.
 
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