oopapercutoo said:
Right now my stats are right around 7.2 NBP and 5.3-5.4 girth, and I feel small. I know that I'm larger then average in both aspects, but I still find myself insecure anytime I'm in a locker room environment. I attribute this more to the fact that I'm a grower as opposed to a shower...my flacid hang isn't anything to write home about.
Will I magically feel better about myself when I hit 8x6? Probably not, but i think it will be a step in the right direction. Progress...it's all about progress.
I'm almost the same size as you, barely 7" NBP and 5.5" girth, and a "grower" as well. Visually, most of the time it still looks small to average, although with a good erection I can see the difference a little. When I started, I was barely 6" NBP and maybe 5.3" girth. Soon after I began Penis Enlargement, I bought a "ultra-realistic" dildo supposedly 8" x 6. In fact it measures 7.5" "insertable" length, there's about 1/2" around the base where the balls attach. It is a consistent 6" girth, with the glans about the same size as the shaft. Where my penis is more wide or oval, this thing is fairly circular.
I can tell you, when I first got it I thought it was huge. I'd hold it beside my dick and get discouraged. Now, almost a year later it doesn't look that big to me. Still bigger than mine, but the main thing is the girth. It's absolutely astounding how 1/2" of girth, the difference from 5.5" to 6", looks so much bigger. Especially in this case, my glans is smaller than my shaft, which kind of tapers down towards the end. This dildo has a big glans, not a "mushroom" head but as I said the shaft & glans are pretty consistent girth of 6". I really envy the guys with big glans, as well as the "showers." I posted recently about meeting a nudist friend, and comparing cocks with him. Flacid, he looked huge about 5" x 5+". Erect he was about the same size as me, except a little thicker but his glans is big. His flacid unit dwarfed mine.
Honestly, I believe girth is the key, if you have 6" of girth and 7" or more in length I don't think you'll get a complaint from any female who isn't a "size queen". No disrespect to all of the CDS and squirting theories, but from my experimentation and conversations with females none have reported any huge increase in orgasmic pleasure from length alone hitting the CDS. I'm talking about females whom I trust to be truthful, and who've had large partners. More than one has mentioned having someone too big to the point of pain. A recent post here mentioned something about that if you have 8x6, all you need to do is stick it in and out to produce an orgasm, really made it sound like if you <i>don't</i> have 8x6 you could hardly hope to truly please a woman.
The truth is, women - like - men require mental stimulation to reach orgasm. For some size queens, maybe the only mental image that will get them off is that of a huge dick. For most though, there are many factors involved. I'm not saying that size doesn't matter, but that it certainly isn't all that matters. It's not about just the physical stimulation. I doubt many women would, for example, turn down sex with a cute guy whom they're attracted to, who's an average 6x5, in favor of using a 8x6 dildo solo. Otherwise, most of us would hardly ever get laid because the ladies would prefer using a dildo. And, no matter how big your dick is, how sexually skilled, or how good looking you are, if you're an asshole most women will not sleep with you. Although, some assholes seem to be able to fool them once but won't get a second chance
The total package is what matters. For instance, it's rumored that Jon Bon Jovi is of average endowment. If this is true, how many women would rather sleep with him, than say Ron Jeremy? And if a woman slept with both guys, which would she prefer?
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