Im back. Been since 2011. Open to advice (LONG LONG POST)

Hey guys. I got into PE back around 2009. I've always been JUST above average. but felt small (I'm sure a lot of us have that problem) I've never had a woman complain about my size once. And I've even had many women who thought I was huge. but for ME, i just wanted what I saw in ����.

I came here and learned some things and was excited to know that I wasn't stuck with what I had! lol

So i bought gadgets, a bathmate, a hanger, the lengthmaster extender......... jelquing etc etc.

I hung a bunch of times but never consistent enough because It always pinched my head and restricted bloodflow BADLY where my dick would be cold for minutes after i stopped. I tried so many different wrapping techniques with no success.

I started pumping with the bathmate and WOWWWW.... let me tell you , if you KNOW a booty call is coming over and its right down to business you can impress the FUCK out of her if you pump right til she texts you that shes at the front door. I used my bathmate for YEARS.

In the beginning I think i over pumped and got a little scar tissue because my dick started to get a SLIGHT tilt to the left that it never had before AND some tough skin on the buttom which looks a bit like scar tissue or a stretch mark. but i never had any permanent length growth (that's my own fault, i never hung enough)

As for permanent girth gain.... if you're pumping every day or every other day for weeks on end it starts to become permanent, but once you stop for any long period of time you eventually go back to normal.

As for negative effects..... overpumping while LOOKS good, is a bit scary, i gave myself many panic attacks after pumping too much. I was always scared of getting a blood clot or something from pumping too much and having a stroke or heart attack from it lol (but I'm a hypochondriac) I've found that light pumping every day is far more beneficial than overpumping and filling your penis with the fluid though it looks impressive lol.

now, down to the point of my post.

I have an ex gf who i dated for years. even after breaking up we've remained very good friends and we dated literally 12 years ago. We haven't had sex in about 5 years now. She always said how good i was in bed etc etc. well, she dated this guy for years. they were engaged and they recently broke up maybe 9 months ago. Shes been on a sex binge since then just enjoying life. Well the guy she was with for years shes always said his cock was ENORMOUS. Now this girl has been around, and shes very honest with me. no jealousy at all. we're very close. She was like "listen... his cock is HUGE, like crazy big. too big even" but the guy was a total dweeb so i was never jealous lol.

So recently she met back up with a guy she went to HS with. And they started texting and all and he was coming back to town for the holidays. So he was sending her pics and all and she comes to see me and shes like "this guys dick is bigger than my ex's" so i was like yeah right lol. she shows me pics and its HUGEEEEE. like CRAZY FUCKING BIG this dude should be in ����. AND his body is ON POINT lol dude is all muscle. not that bad looking either (no homo lol) anyway.

So.... she fucks him... and she texts me like "yo, hes the best sex I've ever had in my life I'm literally in love. it was so big I couldn't even get my hands around it" and shes a tall girl... shes like 5'7, not some petite chic.

ANYWAY..... now I'm like FUCK THIS, i need to get back into PE.

SO, i want to order a new bathmate with the handpump. (i had the original bathmate with no comfort ring or anything and i used that thing til it didn't work anymore lol) so i need a new one regardless of if i am looking to gain size permanently or not that thing is worth EVERY dollar

I want to order that new "phallosan forte" because.... to watch the videos it seems to be EXACTLY what I've been missing in terms of being able to stretch!! it seems like there's no pain, no pinching and no loss of blood flow.

Can you hang with the phallosan? Can it be attached to my extender?

What are your thoughts on the ability to gain a FULL inch in length (and estimated time with long term use every day)

length seems tough for me to gain, girth seems easy. I'm 7 inches length and i just feel like 8 is a fucking solid number. that's a big ass dick lol i'd love a 9 but ill take 8 and be happy.

Advice please on my choices? Just a bathmate and the phallosan with possible extender attachment. (would i even need that?)


I want to just stay friendly with my ex the next 6 months and extend and pump like crazy and just rock her world. This guy is going back to the other side of the country after the holidays so I'm not worried about him sticking around. I have no interest in her anyway other than i just love fucking her haha

ALSO, that being said, my son's mother who i was with for 6 years has suddenly started talking to me again. We broke up about 5 years ago and barely spoke a word since. Anything pertaining to my son I would discuss with her parents. Well, suddenly shes texting me ALL the time. I would love to just blow her mind when she sees my cock after all these years.

what's the best program for fastest gains with the tools I will have?


thanks guys! sorry for the long post!!!

look man, im just going to be straight up with you, i personally believe heavy hanging is the way to go.

Lol I love how past MoS members can call the MoS bat signal when shit starts to hit the fan. What is your girth? I really really want to see that dudes pictures....get them for us!

Where are my manners? A brother has found his way home again. Welcome home, it's good to have you back. I came back about 4 months ago and I am on a one way road to my goal size.

What is your midshaft girth at? Is it length you are looking for only? I personally think you should take it easy on the heavy hanging unless that is your cup of tea 🍵. I've gained 0.30 inches in length (in 2 months) simply by alternating between stretching straight down and the DLD A-stretch for 45-60 minutes a day. I'm using both hands and pulling with as much intensity as I can handle. I also use theraband for grip!!

Pick an intense routine and stick with it. The gains will grow slow like a house plant 🌱. After 6 months you will see measurable gains.

what is the theraband? also I'm unsure of the A-stretch. I'm looking at your stats and it looks like you've gained 2 inches total on BPEL... that's beautiful!!! how long did that take? and how much of that is visible dick? bone pressed is cool but how much of that can go in? .

My thing is.... we all know the closes inch or inch and a half to our pelvis never goes IN..... so the more dick we can get past that is where the magic happens lol.

Thoughts on the phallosan? I'm gonna try to get pics for you guys. It's funny because I have NO feelings for my ex at all. But I'm actually a little jealous lmfao. I think if she wanted to fuck me right now, I probably wouldn't.

heavy hanging is SO tough for me. I still have a hanger but it was NEVER comfortable, always painful, always hard to find time to do because getting it just right takes so much time and then to actually hang.... also tough on time. I see you gained an inch.... how long did that take?

I will do up to date measurements today. I actually haven't measured my cock in years now. I was a solid 6 inches girth after a bathmate pump once lmfao. I remember just DESTROYING bitches after using my bathmate. I tried to fuck EVERYONE lmfao. Not to pat myself on the back but I get a lot of pussy. It's always been easy for me to fuck hot girls. And the bathmate really solidified me as the guy all the girls talk about fucking around here. It was a big rumor for a long time how big my cock was.

Since I've stopped using the bathmate I can see my dick go back to normal. I don't get that crazy thickness anymore. I'd say the bathmate pump probably added 1/4 inch in length also if i got a good pump. I cant say enough good about the bathmate. Seriously. I was heartbroken when mine finally kicked the bucket.

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ok so for reference. The pics where I'm erect (my ex's hand around it. not the same ex i'm talking about in my post lol) I had just pumped in those pics. the one where I'm holding it and the one where shes holding it. I used to sneak off into the bathroom and pump and come back and she never knew . The picture where I'm standing and its just hanging was also after a pumping session.

the two pictures where i'm sitting and its laying on my stomach and the other where its hanging down I'm sitting on the bed are non pumping but it was "looking good" that day. you guys know like some days your dick looks bigger than others lol.

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ok so for reference. The pics where I'm erect (my ex's hand around it. not the same ex i'm talking about in my post lol) I had just pumped in those pics. the one where I'm holding it and the one where shes holding it. I used to sneak off into the bathroom and pump and come back and she never knew . The picture where I'm standing and its just hanging was also after a pumping session.

the two pictures where i'm sitting and its laying on my stomach and the other where its hanging down I'm sitting on the bed are non pumping but it was "looking good" that day. you guys know like some days your dick looks bigger than others lol.

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The pics don't work. You should join the MoS chat on a mobile device! We all chat like crazy and swap pics constantly there. I was just showing the guys some of my pics on what a theraband is. It's just a stretchy thin elastic band used for exercising.

I've made all my gains from manual flaccid stretching. My fat pad is about a 1/4 inch thick so I can get a lot of my erect length inside while having sex. I've started and quit PE a lot since I joined back in 2004 but when I get my routine right, all my length gains come at a speed where I can measure bi-weekly and notice a difference.

First of all, welcome back Jersey. I am pretty new here myself but I have learned a lot in my time here. If you have used the BM before you know how valuable a tool that can be and I would buy another one as soon as I could. I started with the X30 about 3 months ago and use it like it has an expiration date, lol. You mentioned the Phallosan and I own one of those as well. It is a great device for all day stretching and you can even wear it at night while you sleep. I can't say how much I have gained from the PF as I use other methods as well but I don't think anyone would go wrong by using it all day every day. The best part about the PF is you don't have to take it off unless you have to take a piss and it moves with you and does not cause pinching. I also have a LM and it is a great piece of equipment as well. There is nothing better for BTC stretches and you can also hang with it as well. I recently started hanging and think this will help with length gains also. I also have an SG that I bought before the PF and it does work and you can get a good stretch with it but you have to take it off about every hour and restore circulation. I have taken the SG and PF and made the Phallogenetics and this is very comfortable and the stretch is far greater than you can get with either device alone. I know this is long and hope I have answered some of your questions. If you have more please feel free to ask

Welcome back!
It's always fun to revisit past-pussy after gaining...they get this 'puzzled' look and can't quite identify what's going-on, lol. (I keep my PE activities 100% on The DL) Since you're already familiar w/The BM products, I'd suggest stepping-up to The X40 and modding it w/The VacuVin (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0000DE77...phy=9033359&hvtargid=pla-187725992183)...this will turbo-charge the intensity and literally blow your dick off if you're not careful. Employing the 5X5X3 (or similar) will keep the fluid retention to a minimum. The key for me has been upping the intensity w/each and every session (some more successfully than others).
Best of luck and keep slayin' the honeys

Welcome back my Brother, long time! Glad to see you jumping back in so quickly and I am happy to have you as a good example here. Great news about the X, I hope you guys can work things out. Since I saw you last there have been some improvements to SRT routine you may want to look over.

Welcome Back!

how do i download the mobile chat? is it an app? what's it called?

Hey brother, i remember a WHILE back there was a modification for the extender that had a cone with a hook on it and it made it easy to wear the extender without squishing the head of your dick and restricting blood. Is that still a recommended modification for the extender? I'm going to buy everything needed for that routine. I want 2 inches in 6 months LOL. a man can dream cant he?

JerseyFresh;748246 said:

how do i download the mobile chat? is it an app? what's it called?

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Here is the link for mobile or pc. Its an app called Discord.

https://discord.gg/6xsuJe5

JerseyFresh;748247 said:

Hey brother, i remember a WHILE back there was a modification for the extender that had a cone with a hook on it and it made it easy to wear the extender without squishing the head of your dick and restricting blood. Is that still a recommended modification for the extender? I'm going to buy everything needed for that routine. I want 2 inches in 6 months LOL. a man can dream cant he?

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That almost sounds like the VLC Tugger but I am not familiar with it. I think there are some guys here that have it that can give you some more info on it

yes, that's exactly what it was.

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i downloaded the app. I am "JerseyFresh" on there. but I can't find the chatroom. I downloaded the app on my phone.

You're coming back for the wrong reasons. A girl mind fucked you and that's your motivation? You should be thinking hell with her and doing this for yourself. Sounds like a cock whore not worth the gum on your shoe.

stillwantmore2;748265 said:

You're coming back for the wrong reasons. A girl mind fucked you and that's your motivation? You should be thinking hell with her and doing this for yourself. Sounds like a cock whore not worth the gum on your shoe.

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Couldn't agree more. She's probably full of shit. Or her huge guy she was dating was 8 and this dude is 8.25" and she's thinking he's 12". That's standard lol.

ok guys relax. It's an ex that i have NO feelings for and she has NO feelings for me. We're just friends who tell each other everything. She has literally zero reason to lie to me. And, i saw pictures of the guys cock with his face and all in it. its real. Shes not trying to make me jealous at all. WHy do you guys seem so angry? Also as for the "wrong reasons" I'm not here specifically for no ex. I'm here because I WANT a bigger cock.... so that i can fuck more bitches. if we weren't all here to get a bigger cock to impress bitches then we wouldn't be here because there's no other reason to want a big cock. so spare me the "self love" shit.

Egghed;748185 said:

Lol I love how past MoS members can call the MoS bat signal when shit starts to hit the fan. What is your girth? I really really want to see that dudes pictures....get them for us!

Where are my manners? A brother has found his way home again. Welcome home, it's good to have you back. I came back about 4 months ago and I am on a one way road to my goal size.

What is your midshaft girth at? Is it length you are looking for only? I personally think you should take it easy on the heavy hanging unless that is your cup of tea 🍵. I've gained 0.30 inches in length (in 2 months) simply by alternating between stretching straight down and the DLD A-stretch for 45-60 minutes a day. I'm using both hands and pulling with as much intensity as I can handle. I also use theraband for grip!!

Pick an intense routine and stick with it. The gains will grow slow like a house plant 🌱. After 6 months you will see measurable gains.

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I'm guessing you built up to so much time of manuals per day?? I'm currently at about 20 mins a day and that really fatigues me after 3 days! Gain about an eighth a month doing my routine it appears.