i'm straight and P.E., for me, had nothing to do with sex; it was all about self-confidence. i'm 27 and a virgin (chuckle if you want) because it's something i believe in and have made a choice to stick to until i'm married. the girls i've dated have been virgins, too--it's actually the norm in the conservative christian circle i come from. because i was in the average range to begin with (6.25" x 5" erect) and because i'm not expecting my future wife to have had experience with other partners, i really wasn't concerned that i wouldn't be able to satisfy her. i started P.E. because my flaccid dick looks really puny to me (partially because i need to lose a good 20 pounds of fat; partially because 3.25" is 1/2 inch shy of the average--and 1/2 inch is huge on something that's normally less than 4") and because i have to shower in the nude at the YMCA with guys who are actually bigger or who at least appear bigger because they don't have the abdominal/groin fat I do. when i was a little kid (way before puberty, so physiologically it doesn't count, even though it registers psychologically) some other kids laughed at my penis while i was pissing--they were looking up through the grates in the door to the class bathroom in first grade, and it made me feel really inadequate. whether or not most ladies care about a man's size (assuming he's at least average), guys talk about cock size all the time and make fun of the guys that are smaller. they obviously don't see my johnson when he's Mr. Happy, just the little guy that's barely observable in the communal shower. (btw, anybody else--particularly smaller guys and/or uncut guys that jockstraps make their peckers turtle/shrink?) i don't want to be a grower anymore; i want to be a shower.
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