Negative Consequences of Excessive Masturbation
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doublelongdaddy;420916 said:Mine is so low that I am sure my partner could easily keep up
Or maybe it hits harder and leaves your blood stream quicker..Turnover;420936 said:
Idk man, I get hit on every day usually more than once a day and I can say that nothing really attracts me like having feelings for someone. Even though I have these really strong depressive emotional moments that tell me I am going to be alone and I will never find a match. I find it more important to be satisfied with who I am before I settle for another person just because it would be easier or fun. Lots of people are sleeping around but not many people are finding real relationships that they can be happy living with.Shion;421032 said:
doublelongdaddy;421095 said:
I know what you mean it is because celibacy makes you feel that way. I get complimented all the time especially by black women because they like my hair or my zebra purse, I'm serious at first I thought it was sarcasm but I hear it too often. I never get myself looking cute anymore or anything really ever because I have no one to look cute for and when I get home I look in the mirror I feel like I look ugly even though people tell me I'm a "cutie-pie" and nobody believes me I am as old as I am they all think Im under 18 which is a really big big compliment. I've seen your facebook and girls are all over you, you are a very handsome Italian male. You can't imagine kissing another woman though because her lips are not the lips you want on yours. I know what you mean trust me I have never been a kind of person to make out with my own hand but I do because I would never want anybody elses mouth to touch mine of the person I do not want, it would be devastating, so we feel like mutant.
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I'm in the same club. The women I loved went years ago and shes not here now. Will I love again? do I want to? sex is just sex, celibacy is strength of mind.
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I still love all my exes with the same passion I did when I first met them. My celibacy has been a chance for me to get to love me without any external influences from women. I am way to dependent on a woman making me feel good and I have had enough of that. Today I am working on number one because without helping number one I could never help 2-3-4 or 5
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doublelongdaddy;420732 said:I will eat everything and when there is no food i am rocking the condiments
LOL I dont do that anymore but I'll hit a spoon full once in a while. I wont tell you my super horrible junk food eating stories I figure we all already have enough bad ideas of our own. :blush:
Do you have any scientific studies to provide in order to backup your statements, Red? I see definitions above, and that's all fine and dandy, however, I'd love to see some sources.
Also, did your reading determine when exactly these supposed chemical reactions were taking place? During orgasm itself, ejaculation, or arousal? Or all? For example, where does edging fit in?
Lastly, do these chemical reactions occur in women as well?
Also, did your reading determine when exactly these supposed chemical reactions were taking place? During orgasm itself, ejaculation, or arousal? Or all? For example, where does edging fit in?
Lastly, do these chemical reactions occur in women as well?
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Turnover;420877 said:
When I'm having sex I stop when the girl is satisfied, if I stopped when I wanted too i would die in her vagina! I could have sex in perpetuity provided I had a source of food and water to consume during the act.
HOW HAVE YOU NOT TRIED TO FIND OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I Had a girlfriend I know she could not keep up with me!!! You know how I know!? Cause I had sex with her the night before. When we woke up we had sex again, she was like okay I'm good (she just talked like that, tough girl complex). She sartted getting dressed and he but in that thong OMG JUST SET ME OFF! So I grabbed her threw her on the bed and had sex with her again. She was like ok we have to stop we need to get going! I was like ok I'm sorry you are just too sexy. she got out of the shower and I started kissing her and made her wet and then she was like GREAT I have to change my panties now! So I tore her clothes of and had sex with her again. She said we could not have sex for a few days after cause she was sore, which was not an excuse cause she still wanted to cuddle and make out and was horny she just was too sore to touch down there.
So we had sex till like 4AM woke up at ~8ish and had sex 3 times between then and ~1PMish. The only substantial break being her shower ~15min other than that it the only break was however long it takes a women to put on a thong and bra and then to have them ripped off again
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sizerp;431032 said:
Have you read this thread!? it has not been on topic since it started... lol everyone on these forums clearly has ADD and penis obsession. Besides, DLD and Turnover were mentioning their sex drives so I told a little story.
Turnover;420877 said:
doublelongdaddy;420916 said:Mine is so low that I am sure my partner could easily keep up
If you want so badly to stay on topic start your own thread or pm the OP. I tell you one thing though I don't appreciate your condescending reply. *BIG BREATH!* You could have said the same thing with a more respectful tone.
Try: Hey guys this thread has gone a little of topic and I would really enjoy discussing the OP's post a little more in depth. Let's side rail the tangents and get back on topic, okay? Thanks.
Your reply is just so short and rude it makes me wan't to pin your face to the ground via my knuckles connecting with your teeth. I realize I'm on the internet and I'm not trying to act all tough. I am just trying to effectively illustrate that you have up set me. I don't need, expect, want and would prefer no apology as that seems pointless. Just please read your own post before sending it and be more courteous in the future. I will say you seem awfully bossy for someone who's first post was after mine and has obviously not read through the thread. I say it's obvious because the thread went off topic long ago. If you want to contiune with snide remarks why don't you direct them at DLD for his brown sugar eating comment and see how long you can last without a ban acting like a jerk to a mod or admin...
NOTE: sizerp, I like your nickname
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i used to masterbate so much everyday for months, and when my girlfriend moved in i experienced delayed ejaculation (Retarded Ejaculation).. i would go days not being able to cum during intercourse, even blowjobs wouldnt work. i maintained my erections so it might sound like a good thing, but i was frustrated as hell!!!
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Yeah, I can Identify JunBug. TBH though I am glad to have an issue that results in staying power over a premature ejaculation any day. Right now I switched to using a FleshLight so as to not condition myself to my hand any further. After almost three years with out getting laid my penis has developed some bad habits (overly used to Rosie Palm and her five sisters). For the record I could have gotten laid but I wont date a girl to just to sleep with her and I turn girls down for sex if I think they will feel used after the fact. So it ends up being I don't get laid very often... Caring about people more than my own dick sucks donkey balls (also for the record).
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i Just wanted to chime in: I've noticed that I really don't want to jerk off or have sex within a couple hours prior to using the extender-it's kind of like the penis has gone to sleep and doesn't want to be messed with. Nor does it stretch as far. Thus I really try to avoid any masturbation or sex prior to using the extender as the penis appears awake and ready for action.
On that note, I would say this is a "negative consequence" of masturbation in general. But personally I never found any other problem with jerking off, even 4 or 5 times a day
On that note, I would say this is a "negative consequence" of masturbation in general. But personally I never found any other problem with jerking off, even 4 or 5 times a day
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Thanks, JunBug I will! Crazy Doc I agree the penis can reasonably take a lot but I think the whacking it to the point of 8 or more ejaculations most days of the month is where I went wrong.... haha so 4-5 times a day most days with a day or two off scatted here and there I never had much trouble. It's when i did not have a full on wood from a hot 18 year old girl who I have wanted to get with for a few years was sucking on my penis that I thought there might be an issue. As I have looked into it it relates to three things.
1) Excessive masturbation
2) I was anxious, what if she has an STD, What is her mom stops by while she's got my dick in her mouth, what if my female roomates hear us and then things get akward... etc
3) Not wanting to go soft due to having to use a condom. (+9 on the anxiety scale)
4) My massive Anal fetish/curiosity, when it comes right down to it I just wanted to put it deep as I could in her butt (like you have no idea how bad) so every thing else just seemed like a chore. Not like me giving her pleasure, that part I enjoy touching licking kissing all diff parts of her body. When it came down to getting blown or having sex I just wanted to get right to the putting it in her butt part.
So yeah before my next sexual encounter I'm going to not masturbate for like 2 weeks to a month (or at most once every two days and only bust like 1/10th of my nut supply) and see how that affect my wood/eq
1) Excessive masturbation
2) I was anxious, what if she has an STD, What is her mom stops by while she's got my dick in her mouth, what if my female roomates hear us and then things get akward... etc
3) Not wanting to go soft due to having to use a condom. (+9 on the anxiety scale)
4) My massive Anal fetish/curiosity, when it comes right down to it I just wanted to put it deep as I could in her butt (like you have no idea how bad) so every thing else just seemed like a chore. Not like me giving her pleasure, that part I enjoy touching licking kissing all diff parts of her body. When it came down to getting blown or having sex I just wanted to get right to the putting it in her butt part.
So yeah before my next sexual encounter I'm going to not masturbate for like 2 weeks to a month (or at most once every two days and only bust like 1/10th of my nut supply) and see how that affect my wood/eq
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earmuffs;431036 said:
I think you're on to something. This was actually funny to read. I agree completely.
earmuffs;431036 said:
This is an erroneous assumption. In no was my, original, reply directed in a patronizing manner. I mean, I can understand it's difficult to perceive the nature of an electronic message, however your defensiveness and lack of virtue makes me question your adulthood and levelheadedness.
earmuffs;431036 said:
How contemplative of you. I mean, regardless of how "policing" you fathomed my original comment/question to be, it's the way in which I chose to express myself, and what's done is done! I will grant you, however, that your suggestion for "polite turnarounds" may be considered in the future to help quell any possible attacks on integrity such as this.
earmuffs;431036 said:
This is even more comical. Your comments are dripping with contradiction and disdain, and barring your ineptitude at dealing threats, illusory still precedes you. Honestly, I put forth an effortless attempt at "upsetting you", and it's crystal clear that you've misjudged and distressed over what was an indifferent remark.
For the record, I have read the whole thread, and as you pointed out previously, it has been off topic for quite sometime. You're story was just the last "off-topic" comment that was posted. This is the only reason I decided to quote you.
The validity of my comment being "snide" is debatable at best.
Finally, if you wish to volley with threats, I'll grant you permission to travel to my abode and knock on my front door with all the force of the Creator himself, at which time we may sit down and dispute this contention man to man.
This is my message to you, and I am entreating you to grow-up.
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I think you put the emphasis on the wrong part of the negative portion of my post. try putting it on "I realize I'm on the internet and I'm not trying to act all tough. I am just trying to effectively ILLUSTRATE that you have up set me." Anyway I'm the type of person who will type something completely ludacris just because it entertains me to do so. Some of which never gets posted, it's just not productive, this would be one of those things that could have remained unposted. That said the part about the face punch I liked the way I phrased it it was meant to be less threatening (this is the internet) and be more of a visual description. My point is that I was aware of the contradiction and just posted it out of a what the hell sort of attitude. Thanks for not turning this into a flame war...
Sizerp, agree with you completely "I can understand it's difficult to perceive the nature of an electronic message". I over reacted and was unnecessarily inflammatory. Would it be alright to agree to quash this so that we can move on to more productive or entertaining things?
BTW: In my mind that was an apology if you would like a more formal one please fill out form A2C at your local Bureau of Bureaucracy, thank you.
When it comes right down to it I would rather save my face punching for someone who is not so articulated as yourself. I met a "gentleman" in the parking lot of the DMV who made my desire to punch you seem quite insignificant. He threated to break "every bone in my body" I thought to myself you know that's kind of humorous as he thinks that is a scary threat and here I am hoping he does not attack me because I was afraid of killing him... I wished I had known the exact number of bones in the human body and could have asked him do you really plan to be so meticulous and take so much time as to beak every bone in my body? Do you have an x-ray machine are you going to x-ray me and ensure you have been true to your word or are you just full of shit? Meh, people are stupid. Sorry I came across that way, I am far from it.
Sizerp, agree with you completely "I can understand it's difficult to perceive the nature of an electronic message". I over reacted and was unnecessarily inflammatory. Would it be alright to agree to quash this so that we can move on to more productive or entertaining things?
BTW: In my mind that was an apology if you would like a more formal one please fill out form A2C at your local Bureau of Bureaucracy, thank you.
When it comes right down to it I would rather save my face punching for someone who is not so articulated as yourself. I met a "gentleman" in the parking lot of the DMV who made my desire to punch you seem quite insignificant. He threated to break "every bone in my body" I thought to myself you know that's kind of humorous as he thinks that is a scary threat and here I am hoping he does not attack me because I was afraid of killing him... I wished I had known the exact number of bones in the human body and could have asked him do you really plan to be so meticulous and take so much time as to beak every bone in my body? Do you have an x-ray machine are you going to x-ray me and ensure you have been true to your word or are you just full of shit? Meh, people are stupid. Sorry I came across that way, I am far from it.
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