Thinking of buying the STU, but not for Premature Ejaculation (Please read)

Hi everyone, i plan to buy a Fleshlight STU, but i wanted to know if it helps in two specific aspects:
1) Even if you don't have premature ejaculation issues, can still help to increase your stamina if you use it smartly on a progressive edging routine? Think of it like tailoring some sort of edging program with the device, could i possibly see an improvement on my initial stamina over time?

2) I know it's not a magical device, but could the STU aid with the feel of getting your penis/mind/body more used, or at least accustomed to the sensations of intercourse?
I think i have some form of performance anxiety issues, and i wanted to know if it might contribute to get rid, or at least ease it a bit, because the first times i have sex with a girl, i always get very nervous and self-conscious about the act of PIV sex, and that jeopardizes my erection quality.




I must confess that the first gf i had, on my late twenties, rejected me because of that, although she didn't say it explicitly, but after several failed attempts of having sex, because of getting nervous, condom anxiety, getting this weird feeling of penetration which i wasn't used to, and all of that, she rejected me after a month, and more or less she swiflty revealed to me that for her, i was an inexperienced person and she didn't have the patience to cope with that.

I'll never forget when she condescendingly said to me "you have not lived all you had to live" or in spanish "no has vivido todo lo que tenías que vivir", with a pitiful tone, and broke up with me.
I felt humiliated. I felt broken. Destroyed from the inside out, and i'm in tears as i type this
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She... broke my soul. She broke my soul and left me scarred for life, guys. I've never been the same person anymore, even after being with other girls (not serious relations, but with the level of intimacy of one) , but i always had those performance issues at the first sessions of sex. The ghost of that first girl, that face, those painful words, it all always returns to hit me deep on my spirit from time to time, and i think it reflects sexually on me, because of the intrinsic nature of intimacy of sex.

Sorry to bother you with my issues, brothers, but i really want to fight that, i don't wanna give up and if i get with a new girl in the future (i'm single right now), i want, no, i NEED to make my damn best to ensure that i don't have the same issues again. So if doing sport and releasing adrenaline helps, if some relaxation techniques can help, if mental tips can help, and having a positive attitude can as well help, could this sex toy add its bit to my problem?

Thanks in advance.

Sorry for the late reply, im sure you already ordered the fleshlight... I prefer the Lotus interior because its anatomically like an actual vagina. It might help with stamina but it cannot cure performance anxiety...

I am sorry to hear about your woman problems, me and others here have been through similar situations. Have you started penis enlargement exercises? confidence comes from within but PE can help you feel good in your own skin IMO. Don't dwell on the past try to move forward and find a more patient woman. For me getting really good at sex took practice it wasn't something I was born with. Be patient, have sex with more women, and most of all trust yourself and allow to forgive yourself for the past.

Any FleshLight is a great investment in lasting longer and building endurance. It feels so real that it is very good with the illusion so you can really make changes. If anyone has issues with Premature Ejac. I suggest a FleshLight.

Thanks for your replies, brothers.
No worries, i didn't order any Fleshlight yet, because i'm still conditioning my recently acquired flat, but when i finally settle in, and start living on my own, i'll have the freedom i'm looking for, and i'll be able to do my P.E. exercises and train with the FL without interruptions.
If i'm lucky, in less than a month from now, i will be living alone and enjoying being independent and self-sufficient, which i'm sure it will also have a positive effect on my attitude and notion of life.

As for your suggestion, the Lotus sleeve has been crossing my mind, but i've come to the conclusion that the more efficient purchase, in terms of more value for money would be the "F*ck like a pornstar pack" which comes with an STU device, two random Fleshlight Girls sleeves, and a shower mount, for less than $150.

I think that's what i'll get, so i'll have 3 different sleeves (one could be the Lotus, who knows) to choose between , and i might mount them in the shower, or in a mirror, or any other flat enough surface, or roll one between two pillows or matresses and thrust in an intercourse-like motion.

The combinations are limitless, and i guess if learning basic skills (breathing, controlling the rhytm of thrusts, better controlling of my PONR) don't help me directly with performance anxiety issues, at least it won't worsen the problem too. Becoming a better lover is an amalgam of confidence, skill, stamina, size and a little bit of "kinkiness factor" ;P

Again, thanks for your answers, it's so reconforting to share things in this forum because no matter what the problem is, it will always be met with understanding and true willingness to help.

See ya, brothers, i'll keep you informed of my progress!

No problems my Brother! You will really get a lot of use out of it, I get so much use out of mine. In simulate sex so well that it really teaches endurance.

Daryl Dickson;697998 said:

Thanks for your replies, brothers.
No worries, i didn't order any Fleshlight yet, because i'm still conditioning my recently acquired flat, but when i finally settle in, and start living on my own, i'll have the freedom i'm looking for, and i'll be able to do my P.E. exercises and train with the FL without interruptions.
If i'm lucky, in less than a month from now, i will be living alone and enjoying being independent and self-sufficient, which i'm sure it will also have a positive effect on my attitude and notion of life.

As for your suggestion, the Lotus sleeve has been crossing my mind, but i've come to the conclusion that the more efficient purchase, in terms of more value for money would be the "F*ck like a pornstar pack" which comes with an STU device, two random Fleshlight Girls sleeves, and a shower mount, for less than $150.

I think that's what i'll get, so i'll have 3 different sleeves (one could be the Lotus, who knows) to choose between , and i might mount them in the shower, or in a mirror, or any other flat enough surface, or roll one between two pillows or matresses and thrust in an intercourse-like motion.

The combinations are limitless, and i guess if learning basic skills (breathing, controlling the rhytm of thrusts, better controlling of my PONR) don't help me directly with performance anxiety issues, at least it won't worsen the problem too. Becoming a better lover is an amalgam of confidence, skill, stamina, size and a little bit of "kinkiness factor" ;P

Again, thanks for your answers, it's so reconforting to share things in this forum because no matter what the problem is, it will always be met with understanding and true willingness to help.

See ya, brothers, i'll keep you informed of my progress!

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If I lived alone I would do bathmate all day when I'm not working lol

acromegaly;698061 said:

If I lived alone I would do bathmate all day when I'm not working lol

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haha, that's kinda what I do :cool:

acromegaly;698061 said:

If I lived alone I would do bathmate all day when I'm not working lol

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So true !

Once I hit my length goal I might get back into girth, but the fact that you have to repump frequently makes it kinda difficult with limited privacy :/!

If you still suffer with Pre-Ejac you can always look at pictures of Hillary Clinton, that make my cock never wanna shoot off!

doublelongdaddy;698609 said:

If you still suffer with Pre-Ejac you can always look at pictures of Hillary Clinton, that make my cock never wanna shoot off!

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Hahahahaha, well, here in Spain Hillary is not so famous, but i know for sure one could easily find some similes if you look for them.

doublelongdaddy;698609 said:

If you still suffer with Pre-Ejac you can always look at pictures of Hillary Clinton, that make my cock never wanna shoot off!

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HAHAHA definitely a disgusting woman then,the kind of people makes you feel that we arent that ugly after all hahaha

doublelongdaddy;698609 said:

If you still suffer with Pre-Ejac you can always look at pictures of Hillary Clinton, that make my cock never wanna shoot off!

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And then you suffer from ED :D!