Ever tried No Fap and PE?

For a lot of ya'll who are new here, I was an active member 2 years ago. I came to the forum at 5.8-9 BPEL (as average as average gets) and within 3 months I'd gained an inch... 100 days exactly. After another 2 months I was at 7.5, far above average.

At the same time I was stepping into the "big" zone my life took some drastic changes. I had to re-prioritize everything and PE quickly fell off the list. Following this life change I met a woman who changed my life. We got into a rather hyper sexual relationship and... well to be honest... the ���� addiction I bore for the past decade was dropped because I enjoyed sex with this woman that much. I realized that I never really liked ���� anyway. It just made it easier to relieve my constant erections. That was my first no-����/masturbation experience.

As the relationship went on, it got rocky. I'd been masturbating again because I was seeing less of her. I felt like I was dating two people and that I, myself, was divided. I realized that it was the effect of ���� on the brain as I went through many cycles of no-fap and fap. I really effects the mind very drastically. So I really gave no-fap an honest try. I didn't orgasm in any way for 2 months.... but then I got stupid and gave in.

The interesting thing is that the deeper I got into no-fap, the less ���� I remembered. More importantly, I cared much less about my size. This left me conflicted. As someone who has had great success with PE and weight lifting I can see the positives of having a case of body dysomorphia. On one hand, no-fap improves me in my character - my personality and my mind. On the other I loose my commitment to PE.

Anyway, I'm getting sleepy and rambling. My point is, maybe, I can try to no-fap and pe at the same time. But I cannot imagine how I'd deal with the constant, overwhelming temptation to use ���� and orgasm.

This is what I plan to do, no masturbating at all and PE. I've done the no masturbating thing, and you're right about how it really does help you get over the weird shit ���� addiction can do to you. I think the longest I went was 6 months but I can't remember for sure. I do remember that the next time I masturbated after that I shot a load with the force of one of those guns that shoot the balls at the clown's teeth though haha It was like my cock was a much more adult kind of Nerf launcher.

Unlike you, my size issue was never related to ����. I went to high school with a lot of Italian, Polish, some Russian, and a bunch of black kids, so I was fairly aware of my size and just how many girls especially preferred those black kids. I never felt small once I actually had sex though, just "average" basically. Until my most recent girlfriend that is, and after I found out through being on an adult message board that Hispanic/Latino dudes are often hung too, and apparently have a lot of girth. I've always felt like if I did somehow find a way to enlarge my penis I just wanted to be 8-9 inches at most, no bigger than that. Now my main concern is mostly girth, and being fat and meaty versus wide and flat, and length comes a very close second to that.

Anyway, the way I see it, PE is no different than regular working out. You keep up a routine, stick with it even when it gets tough, and you don't stress on the gains, instead focusing on doing everything right and being confident you'll gain. It is after all only a short time out of your day.

Doing PE all the time isn't the problem. I've been lifting weights at least 3 days a week for 8 years now. Habit forming is my strong point. My weakness comes in with constantly having to mess with my dick - fitting it in the hanger or jelqing. When I don't masturbate I get erect very, very easily. I remember trying to PE and do no-fap and I kept trying to hang but couldn't because I kept getting erect. Jelqing was especially hard because as soon as I had gotten a few strokes in my eq was at like 110%...

There's a certain amount of mental control we have to develop I guess. It's way harder than regular no-fap. When I went for two months without orgasming it's partially because I stopped touching my dick altogether outside of urinating and washing.

Try just removing the ���� altogether. Have sex with your girlfriend as much as possible, but stay away from ����. That's exactly what I do. ���� addiction almost destroyed my life and my marriage once upon a time.

When I was overcoming ����, I still had sex with my wife. I just put controls in place that gave me accountability for what I was looking at on my computer (this was before smartphones so that wasn't really possible back then to look at ���� on your phone). Get accountability in your life bro, that's a big help in overcoming ���� addiction and all the other issues that come with it.

JakeM82;636315 said:

Try just removing the ���� altogether. Have sex with your girlfriend as much as possible, but stay away from ����. That's exactly what I do. ���� addiction almost destroyed my life and my marriage once upon a time.

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Very admirable that you are so loyal to your girl, I love truth and dedication!

well 95 % of the time i end up whit a good orgasm,but yeah maybe i should try no to fap next time

I tried much less than I do I feel like I deserve to let one go after a productive girth session.

well thats a great feeling....i cant help it either

Darn i was just about to have my LM session n i couldn't, have to wait till late night anyway no days off ,going to have let one go before my LM session

Lol^ the other day I really felt like masturbating for some reason (I try to save my chi for the girth session) so I edged a little, and came right before bed. Next day I had premature ejac when I went to girth > serves me right for not abstaining. I'm sure its the hgw's fault too> XD

templnite;656116 said:

Lol^ the other day I really felt like masturbating for some reason (I try to save my chi for the girth session) so I edged a little, and came right before bed. Next day I had premature ejac when I went to girth > serves me right for not abstaining. I'm sure its the hgw's fault too> XD

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Abstinence is something I could never do with masturbation. My CHI ends up in my FleshLight

doublelongdaddy;656255 said:

Abstinence is something I could never do with masturbation. My CHI ends up in my FleshLight

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That bitch will be the end of you XD

templnite;656381 said:

That bitch will be the end of you XD

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I guess you are right

I really have to try this no-fap shit. ���� has undoubtedly messed up my perceptions of size, since I first saw a ����� aged around 11, and has done nothing but damage it further ever since. I still watch ���� almost daily (my partner would be furious if she knew this) as I'm somehow addicted to the feeling of morbid curiosity it gives me. I dunno, maybe I'm drawn to seeing a woman destroyed by a weapon I simoly do not have - either way it only serves to mess with my self-esteem, and yet I struggle to step away from it.

In addition to that, fapping has damaged my erection quality a little bit, a lot of the time when watching ���� I'm 'in and out' without even getting 90% hard. This is my fapping style based on years of what I guess you'd call a 'Danger Wank' - trying to rub one out as quick as possible before mom comes back or your girlfriend/wife comes upstairs and catches you at it (never realising the smell of fresh spunk would be a dead giveaway).

Anyway.....yeah......I think I maybe ought to leave the ���� and the fappety fap alone for a while. It would probably do me good on numerous levels.

I've had that same thing bro its really no different than any other addiction. It gives you a fucked-up obsession that doesn't let you rest. I personally used to edge alot, and said it was for 'expansion' when it was really just to get off. Now I try to keep myself more disciplined, and It really gives peace/focus.

I am currently on the nofap challenge. I am addicted to ����. Been watching the shit since I was 9. Not good at all. Really feel like it has gotten in the way of alot of things. Relationships, my confidence with women, and even my relationship with God. So for the first time in my life I am actually "dealing" with it. I think honestly admiting to yourself is a great first start. So I haven't watched ���� in 3 weeks and I ll tell you thats when I noticed I had an addiction. If your mind and body is craving the shit thats when you know it is time. I pray every night to stay off this shit. If not the masturbating then definitely the ����.

Spamjavelin76;656585 said:

I really have to try this no-fap shit. ���� has undoubtedly messed up my perceptions of size, since I first saw a ����� aged around 11, and has done nothing but damage it further ever since. I still watch ���� almost daily (my partner would be furious if she knew this) as I'm somehow addicted to the feeling of morbid curiosity it gives me. I dunno, maybe I'm drawn to seeing a woman destroyed by a weapon I simoly do not have - either way it only serves to mess with my self-esteem, and yet I struggle to step away from it.

In addition to that, fapping has damaged my erection quality a little bit, a lot of the time when watching ���� I'm 'in and out' without even getting 90% hard. This is my fapping style based on years of what I guess you'd call a 'Danger Wank' - trying to rub one out as quick as possible before mom comes back or your girlfriend/wife comes upstairs and catches you at it (never realising the smell of fresh spunk would be a dead giveaway).

Anyway.....yeah......I think I maybe ought to leave the ���� and the fappety fap alone for a while. It would probably do me good on numerous levels.

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Have you read Is Everything What it Seems?

This article dispels much of the myths of size in ����.

I have indeed, DLD, and it made me feel a little better about my size but these guys are still packing a good way more than me and I guess it messed me up even though the size and the reactions are unrealistic and nothing like real life sex. I have a loving partner who treats my cock well even though it's not big, but I do feel like intercourse is underwhelming for her (she's never had an orgasm from penetration in her life, with any man, but of course that just set off the macho alarm and I wanted to be the one to do it) even though I can give her what she calls earthquakes with my tongue. It makes me feel like I'm a disappointment in bed but she has never ever said anything to suggest it - in fact, she gets mad when I bring up my size as she feels it kills the mood somewhat. She's happy with it and if she wasn't I guess maybe she wouldn't be here after 9 years, but I still have issues and they stem from too much ����. Can only do me good to cut it out, right?

Yea i need to do this no fap thingy too...i've become lazy and lose motivation because i masturbate daily..ugh

I am hopeless. Stuck on some ���� this morning to help get semi-wood ahead of my jelqing session (I had just finished nightshift at work so was fatigued, but dedicated) and I stumbled upon a gorgeous black pornstar. Couldn't help it. Fapped. Spilled. Blew my session, mad at myself. Had a sleep, woke up six hours later and a fantastic jelqing session so it's not the end of the world but it doesn't bode well that I fapped on day one of no fap. Gah.