Spamjavelin76;656803 said:
I have indeed, DLD, and it made me feel a little better about my size but these guys are still packing a good way more than me and I guess it messed me up even though the size and the reactions are unrealistic and nothing like real life sex. I have a loving partner who treats my cock well even though it's not big, but I do feel like intercourse is underwhelming for her (she's never had an orgasm from penetration in her life, with any man, but of course that just set off the macho alarm and I wanted to be the one to do it) even though I can give her what she calls earthquakes with my tongue. It makes me feel like I'm a disappointment in bed but she has never ever said anything to suggest it - in fact, she gets mad when I bring up my size as she feels it kills the mood somewhat. She's happy with it and if she wasn't I guess maybe she wouldn't be here after 9 years, but I still have issues and they stem from too much ����. Can only do me good to cut it out, right?

What you need to cut out is not the ���� but the insecurities about your penis. I mean, yes, you can talk about it with us all day and that is perfectly fine but you should NEVER discuss your size or insecurities about your size with your girl, it will only bring more anxiety for you and less respect from her. I was with a girl who could only cum by clitoral stimulation, it is just this way for some men. Get yourself into a good routine and stick with the Brotherhood, we will help you become the man you want to be!
 
Spamjavelin76;656952 said:
I am hopeless. Stuck on some ���� this morning to help get semi-wood ahead of my jelqing session (I had just finished nightshift at work so was fatigued, but dedicated) and I stumbled upon a gorgeous black pornstar. Couldn't help it. Fapped. Spilled. Blew my session, mad at myself. Had a sleep, woke up six hours later and a fantastic jelqing session so it's not the end of the world but it doesn't bode well that I fapped on day one of no fap. Gah.
 
I know exactly how you feel. And your right its not the end of the world. Doing this nofap commitment is one of the hardest things I have ever done. But just gotta keep fightin
 
^ Bro I've been to nofap those dudes relapse daily XD. Don't beat yourself up sport, take it one day at a time. I used to have a edging problem too, but gradually I've gotten my head out of the gutter enough to resist spanking every few hours.
 
Spamjavelin76;656952 said:
I am hopeless. Stuck on some ���� this morning to help get semi-wood ahead of my jelqing session (I had just finished nightshift at work so was fatigued, but dedicated) and I stumbled upon a gorgeous black pornstar. Couldn't help it. Fapped. Spilled. Blew my session, mad at myself. Had a sleep, woke up six hours later and a fantastic jelqing session so it's not the end of the world but it doesn't bode well that I fapped on day one of no fap. Gah.
Nightshits are a strain on the metabolism Spam.
Day one of any habit change is when the urge to give in will be the strongest. With time the new habit becomes normality.
I've been living an no-fap life for nearly 4 years. Though sometimes the amount of edging I have done for so many days in a row means my body pushes to finish while I'm trying to jelq and build pressure in the shaft.
 
owmaballs;657105 said:
Nightshits are a strain on the metabolism Spam.
Day one of any habit change is when the urge to give in will be the strongest. With time the new habit becomes normality.
I've been living an no-fap life for nearly 4 years. Though sometimes the amount of edging I have done for so many days in a row means my body pushes to finish while I'm trying to jelq and build pressure in the shaft.

But you are having regular sex, correct?
 
doublelongdaddy;657118 said:
But you are having regular sex, correct?
Sure, when I've been with a partner.

I've had a spell for around one year where I did not.
And two periods of 3 and 7 months where I abstained too.
 
owmaballs;657168 said:
Sure, when I've been with a partner.

I've had a spell for around one year where I did not.
And two periods of 3 and 7 months where I abstained too.

Wow, my hat off to you my Brother, that is some serious discipline!
 
doublelongdaddy;657381 said:
Wow, my hat off to you my Brother, that is some serious discipline!
Thanks DL.

When you start from quite a bit below average size, you have more to gain, respective to those who are going from avg. to big, or from big to huge, and so there was more drive to do whatever was necessary to gain as fast as my body could.
 
owmaballs;657394 said:
Thanks DL.

When you start from quite a bit below average size, you have more to gain, respective to those who are going from avg. to big, or from big to huge, and so there was more drive to do whatever was necessary to gain as fast as my body could.

And in almost every case the smaller guy will make faster gains, so that should bring some comfort to users who are just starting out.
 
doublelongdaddy;657523 said:
And in almost every case the smaller guy will make faster gains, so that should bring some comfort to users who are just starting out.

very interesting but i wish i had started at 7 NBPEL :cool:
 
shortdick;657573 said:
very interesting but i wish i had started at 7 NBPEL :cool:
What's intersting is that I'm still waiting to hear back from you on PMs.
You ever look at them?
 
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