I am going to try not to watch any adult entertainment or masturbate for an entire month. My journey starts tomorrow May 14, 2013. I want to have a clear mind and get a better erection with women. I feel like adult entertainment has desensitized me in a way. This will be no easy task but I know it will improve my EQ. I will continue Penis Enlargement although my girth workouts will be a little tougher now. I always relied on adult entertainment for my girth workouts but I will try to edge with my mind. Hopefully I can get free of this need for adult entertainment and masturbation. The masturbation will be easier to quit than adult entertainment. The adult entertainment has become a start button to my Penis Enlargement workouts. I have the drive and will NOT lose this battle. After the first month I will set a new goal....perhaps 2 more months. Anyways wish me luck! I encourage anyone who is suffering with getting 100% EQ around your partner to try this out. adult entertainment desensitization is real and really does cause low EQ and in some cases ED around girls. Anyway here I go!!!!
Journey to 1 month with no adult entertainment or self ejaculation.
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I am having the same problems as you. I will be joining you in this mission!!! Starting tomorrow May 14th!!
Ezskanken;547347 said:
It is the sad reality in the world we live in. We were not made to watch adult entertainment and be able to function normaly in our sex lives. This is an addiction and together we can rid ourselves of it. Imagine yourself in prison. There is no adult entertainment in prison (mabye a magazine) and cumming in a room with another man is not something I desire. I imagine myself in this prison of no adult entertainment and no masturbation and eventually I will be set free by limiting myself! You can too!
I used to be a compulsive masturbator I know the feeling. One time during a girth routine I ejaculated and it totally ruined the session that is when I made my mind up. It was either orgasm or a bigger dick which one was more important to me and I chose the bigger dick. Not saying orgasm will hurt gains we all know that is false. But refraining from orgasm does help me to do every routine successfully and at %100 eq also refraining helps me to focus more and like you said gave me a clearer mind. I still use adult entertainment to do pe however I don't really watch it I glance at it but I look at my dick more. I use it more for the sounds and for timing purposes. I wish you luck.
thependulum;547362 said:
I like your style. I feel like adult entertainment is the reason I am not seeing anyone. Im attractive and my dick is above average yet I haven't been laid in a while. I'm not saying adult entertainment is the only reason but I know for sure its a major contributing factor. It's not so much adult entertainment in general. Its the intention or the thoughts behind it that I think cause all the feelings of disgust and shame that come from years of watching and masturbating to adult entertainment, not to mention the other physical symptoms that accompany like poor eq, etc... More than anything though I think its the release that contributes to the lack of motivation to get laid.
I think I will try your method, however, I will abstain from ejaculations and only release in the absence of adult entertainment.
Redwood, I like your thinking and I completely agree. I will do this with you starting right now.
I've used pornography way more often than before I started Penis Enlargement, just to get erections faster.
I'm not even sure how much it really helps, and it seems to get more difficult all the time no matter how healthy I try to be.
I will give this a shot.
I'm not even sure how much it really helps, and it seems to get more difficult all the time no matter how healthy I try to be.
I will give this a shot.
Well, last night for my girth routine I put on some adult entertainment vids but only listened to them and would very seldom glance at the screen. I got to say, it kept my dick at the perfect erection for jelqs. Had my best session yet.
houseofr00bees;547503 said:
It is going to take some serious discipline. For Lent I gave up masturbation, along with fasting. I feel like I gained some incredible insight because of it. I wish you the best and I will pray for strength in your work!
Oh fuck it! Y'all got me in! I used to ejaculate 3 times per day a few years ago (damn I've been mad! rofl). But let me just say that after the first week even the ones that might scare me begin to look much better rofl.
But when I think about it seriously there are drawbacks to this:
1- No adult entertainment means not so fruitful girth sessions due to weaker erections. Oh come on, you all know that it's not the same with nothing to watch or even hear the moans of. rofl
2- It might be kinda bad for my length gains. Since it is usually ok to ejaculate 2-3 times a week I'll miss 2-3 times a week when it's the best stretching time (during the refraction period).
Your motives are right and I support them. I myself would have done this experiment, but I don't feel like sacrificing the fruitfulness of my girth sessions. How about you? Won't that be a problem for you? Just curious.
But when I think about it seriously there are drawbacks to this:
1- No adult entertainment means not so fruitful girth sessions due to weaker erections. Oh come on, you all know that it's not the same with nothing to watch or even hear the moans of. rofl
2- It might be kinda bad for my length gains. Since it is usually ok to ejaculate 2-3 times a week I'll miss 2-3 times a week when it's the best stretching time (during the refraction period).
Your motives are right and I support them. I myself would have done this experiment, but I don't feel like sacrificing the fruitfulness of my girth sessions. How about you? Won't that be a problem for you? Just curious.
Zambrodom3;547543 said:Oh fuck it! Y'all got me in! I used to ejaculate 3 times per day a few years ago (damn I've been mad! rofl). But let me just say that after the first week even the ones that might scare me begin to look much better rofl.
But when I think about it seriously there are drawbacks to this:
1- No adult entertainment means not so fruitful girth sessions due to weaker erections. Oh come on, you all know that it's not the same with nothing to watch or even hear the moans of. rofl
2- It might be kinda bad for my length gains. Since it is usually ok to ejaculate 2-3 times a week I'll miss 2-3 times a week when it's the best stretching time (during the refraction period).
Your motives are right and I support them. I myself would have done this experiment, but I don't feel like sacrificing the fruitfulness of my girth sessions. How about you? Won't that be a problem for you? Just curious.
Dude, that was hillarious. Straight up. This is what Im doing man, I feel ya on the whole not the same thing, thing. Im starting to feel the negative results of adult entertainment so I know it is important to stop, but for the girth routines what I did the other day and seemed to work perfect; had the best jelq session ever, penis was at optimum erection level. What I did was put the adult entertainment videos on (I was aware of the fact that just searching for the adult entertainment was turning me on...prob not to good lol) and I put my earphones on and pointed the screen on my laptop down so I could only hear it and I glanced at it probably about 8 times real quick throughout the whole hour that I Penis Enlargement'd just to get a boost in my erection level if it started to go down. What Im saying is that I used it more as a tool as opposed to a form of release.
So anyways, there's my two cents.
RedWood7;547571 said:
I admit that is a solution, but it is not a good solution for me. I need a good stimulation. My girth sessions require me to restimualate every 20 jelqs (I do 400 plus some [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SSJ[/words] and other exercises). That would seriously damage my workouts. How has it been to your? Do you find your girth sessions less productive?
Zambrodom3;547583 said:
Last night was difficult. I had to use mental and a few clothes women pics to stimulate. Remember we have to train our minds to get stimulated by just the sight of a women now. We have been warped into only using adult entertainment for girth that we can't do it without. This is a struggle but it isn't impossible. I am goin to have a girth sesh when I get home from finals today and let you guys know how I remedied the situation. (Last day of finals!!!!). My theory is that after a week or so without cumming or adult entertainment we will all be able to be stimulated by the mere sight of a woman. I am glade so many of you are involved in this. I will go ahead and post my girth sesh results later today.
Go on! If you do it- to be able to have awesome erections and be stimulated only by a picture of clothed woman- I'm going for it too. You'll be my inspiration
The trick is to remove "will power" from the equation. Instead of making your goal to "not look at adult entertainment" or "not jerk off", make your goal to identify that lead to those behaviors and start there. Scrambling your patterns will stop giving your brain the familiar message that it's supposed to jerk off.
In other words:
Figure out when you tend to jerk off or look at adult entertainment, it will most likely follow some kind of habit pattern. For example, is it in the morning? If it is, identify the components of your "adult entertainment routine--"is it after or before you brush your teeth? If it's before you brush your teeth, then all you need to think about is brushing your teeth right after you wake up (you get the idea). Once you've identified those situations, transform the cues that precede them and put your brain in unfamiliar territory so it cements new patterns.
I've adapted a lot of this advice from the book "The Power of Habit", which goes into detail on modern psychology's model of how habits are formed (and how everybody from advertisers to football coaches gain leverage through this model).
GL
In other words:
Figure out when you tend to jerk off or look at adult entertainment, it will most likely follow some kind of habit pattern. For example, is it in the morning? If it is, identify the components of your "adult entertainment routine--"is it after or before you brush your teeth? If it's before you brush your teeth, then all you need to think about is brushing your teeth right after you wake up (you get the idea). Once you've identified those situations, transform the cues that precede them and put your brain in unfamiliar territory so it cements new patterns.
I've adapted a lot of this advice from the book "The Power of Habit", which goes into detail on modern psychology's model of how habits are formed (and how everybody from advertisers to football coaches gain leverage through this model).
GL
AF3;547604 said:
Wait, What?????? You are on your 65-th day with no adult entertainment or EJACULATION??????? How many people have you killed rofl. But really, I can't hold ejaculation for that long. Last summer I was so horny that I got a wet dream (got my first and last one at the age of 19). So how are these book principle working for you AF3???
Redwood- Good luck on your exams!!!
Zambrodom3;547611 said:
65th day without ejaculation, yes. Not jerking off was actually way easier to stop than adult entertainment. Here are the stages I've gone through with adult entertainment:
Stage one (first few days to about two weeks): I would find myself watching adult entertainment whenever I "used to." I would let myself do this and in fact there would be some days where I would lose a lot of time to it by just watching adult entertainment, "edging", but not jerking off.
Stage two (two weeks to about a month): I would actually go watch adult entertainment and touch my dick to develop my discipline--I would actually go find the most erotic stuff I could and sit there and touch my dick while breathing deeply and embracing the desire to ejaculate so that I stopped being emotionally attached to the desire (I obviously didn't jerk off during this period, just edged). In other words, I embraced the desire but transformed the energy. Towards the end of this, I found myself either watching adult entertainment for entertainment like you would watch TV or watching adult entertainment to compare sizes and try and figure out what X dick size actually looked like etc (in the same way you would watch bodybuilding videos if you were into bodybuilding).
Stage three (30 days to 50 days): Once I showed myself in stage two that I can demonstrate control and don't need adult entertainment at all to be sexual, looking at adult entertainment slowly stopped making sense.
Stage four (about the last two weeks): I now see both looking at adult entertainment and jerking off as extreme signs of self-disrespect and regression in consciousness to a place I don't want to go again. Rather than being even remotely pleasurable, just the thought of looking at adult entertainment evokes a sickness in the pit of my stomach similar to thinking about eating something disgusting. The same holds true for masturbation or really ejaculation in any form.
Overall, I would posit that someone has no idea of the true meaning of "doing Penis Enlargement for yourself" until you have stopped masturbating, stopped having sex, and broken your emotional attachment to looking at adult entertainment.
As for your "how many people have you killed" question, I actually find myself to be both much calmer yet much more able to channel controlled aggression in the situations it's appropriate.
As a sidenote, when I made the initial committment to stop jerking off, I figured the adult entertainment thing would take care of itself. I think it's wise to tackle one or the other in your head first, and they seem to pretty much take care of each other when you break just one of them.
Great posts everyone! Just got back from school...exams went great. Stopped into gnc and picked up some rockhardweekend pills 8 for 30$. I've been wanting to test these for awhile now. Day 2 and still no adult entertainment or ejaculation. I will start my girth routine in twenty minutes because I popped a pill 10 min ago. Ill give a description of what everything was like.
doublelongdaddy;547651 said:
Wonderful video! Simply informative! I agree that masturbation and pornography when used in the wrong way are both very harmful to the psychology of a man. That being said we should all still persue our gains but not at the cost of destroying our minds. Once we lose the mind-body connection to our penis in results of pornography it is difficult to get an erection without adult entertainment. I used to masturbate so so so so much in middle school through high school. In college before Penis Enlargement I was 8 inches long and 5.5 inches around. I credit some of my size to masturbating when I was young. It makes sense that my daily pulling and tugging, squeezing and stroking caused some of my gains without me even knowing it. However as my penis grew my mind became plauged. Now I suffer not being able to get fully hard in a condom before sex. Blowjobs are no problem for some reason. Anyways great post!!!
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8 days adult entertainment free and mb free. Could be that she has lost weight, could be the last 8 days...but the wife looked sexier tonite when i got home
My personal motivations:
better erections with the wife and to work on premature ejaculation.
What i am doing:
No adult entertainment for sure, limit as much mb as possible (shit might happen during a girth routine)
Gradually over a 5 week span building myself up to roughly 200 five second kegels and 500 jelq strokes a day.
6am breakfast and 3pm snacks are fresh garlic washed down with protein shakes
Weight loss in general, i am down nearly 40 lbs since thanksgiving...........shooting for 40 more.
My personal motivations:
better erections with the wife and to work on premature ejaculation.
What i am doing:
No adult entertainment for sure, limit as much mb as possible (shit might happen during a girth routine)
Gradually over a 5 week span building myself up to roughly 200 five second kegels and 500 jelq strokes a day.
6am breakfast and 3pm snacks are fresh garlic washed down with protein shakes
Weight loss in general, i am down nearly 40 lbs since thanksgiving...........shooting for 40 more.
I gave up on the self ejaculation part. I just can't do it with my length routine. I literally just touch the penis and it gets rock hard. Pain in the ass when trying to hang. So, I sometimes have to rub one out before I do my length sessions.
grapeape;548325 said:
Start including L-arginine or l citruline. I started taking l citruline and the same thing. I touch it and it gets hard.. its in a semi pretty much all day.
never mind, found a bunch of jazz on it in here
interesting that it shouldnt be taken the same time as glutamine. i add glutamine to my protein shakes.....i'll have to take L-citruline at another time during the day
http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?52643-L-Citrulline-for-better-erections/page2
interesting that it shouldnt be taken the same time as glutamine. i add glutamine to my protein shakes.....i'll have to take L-citruline at another time during the day
http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?52643-L-Citrulline-for-better-erections/page2